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Mergoatsun
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posted November 14, 2015 05:20 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Mergoatsun     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Cancer in Mars is in Mars's fall. A lot of negative things can stem from this, but I'd like to highlight some of the really great things (at least for me). I think it's also important to look at the degree of the placement, since some degrees are more prone to nasty things than others. It's also important to look at the whole chart to gain context. However, I personally believe that this placement makes for the sweetest and most caring lover.

Here are my favorite traits of a cancer mars (in list form):
-They have a nurturing approach to every action
-Very sensitive partners, will always be concerned with what's going on with their partner
-Desperately wants to please their partner in bed
-When the find someone special they almost always form a deep and lasting attachment
-Their sex drive is extremely passionate
-Sex is almost always a sensual experience and lets out some negative emotions with release
-Men with this placement are often more compassionate to women
-Men with this placement often want to nurture more and are much more loving to people in need and their animals
-They will probably give the best back-rubs you have ever received
-If they can, they will want to make you dinner because more often than not these people not only like to cook, but love to cook for the people they love
-Once they settle down to a partner, expect to have not only a strong emotional bond, but a very trusting one. If a cancer mars trusts you enough to let you in to see their emotions, they trust you more than anyone else
-Family is very important to these people.
-Also, their mother will hold a special spot in their lives, which (with good placements) makes them respect women a bit more
-They like to stick to routines, and because of this usually have good hygiene habits
-Being with them gives a sense of a rejuvenating quality, like after visiting the ocean

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posted November 14, 2015 05:54 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for DopGang     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote

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posted November 14, 2015 06:15 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I have it. I can see how it is in the Fall. The Fall does not work well/ flow well. I have an article on the Female with Mars in Cancer, if you would like to see it.

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posted November 14, 2015 06:34 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Mergoatsun     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
I have it. I can see how it is in the Fall. The Fall does not work well/ flow well. I have an article on the Female with Mars in Cancer, if you would like to see it.


Yeah there's no question that it increases challenges, but for most people really think that it's all negative. I personally really enjoy mars in cancer people. I'd love to see your article! I only know men with this aspect so I'd love to see how women act with this

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posted November 14, 2015 06:51 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I can't stand having it. I put my emotions into my stomach. It is hard for me to deal with anger, too lol

I will put up my article, but it prolly needs editing, as they all do.


Earth voids are terrible with details!

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posted November 14, 2015 07:08 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Sikanda     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I know, what I like about Mars in Cancer people is that they are understanding and patient (especially when mixed with an earthy Moon and Venus), and I love when they try their best to make you feel at ease. I value and respect that a lot.
I wouldn't mind a man possessing those traits, but our Mars would be opposite, so I don't know how well that would work.

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posted November 14, 2015 07:22 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Mergoatsun     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Sikanda:
I know, what I like about Mars in Cancer people is that they are understanding and patient (especially when mixed with an earthy Moon and Venus), and I love when they try their best to make you feel at ease. I value and respect that a lot.
I wouldn't mind a man possessing those traits, but our Mars would be opposite, so I don't know how well that would work.

You hit the nail on the head! Don't worry about Mars opposite Mars in this case. My significant other's mars is in Cancer and mine is in Capricorn. However, since Capricorn is exhaulted in mars and Cancer is in the fall it's balancing. I'm strong where he is weak and he's strong where I'm weak. Also, fyi, the sexual compatibility with these two mars's is out of this world! It's a very traditional mars compatibility though, because cap is often seen as fatherly and cancer is often seen as motherly. These aspects do tend to come out. The cap mars person will want to provide and do helpful for the cancer mars partner, but might also need some work developing the more emotional side to sex. Cancer mars will want to pamper the cap mars senses (ie cook, clean and please) and always lend a listening ear, they are fascinated by cap mars's lusty approach to sex, but help them come to terms with an emotional all encompassing love.

Cancer and Cap opposites don't always blend well together, but in my opinion the two work extremely well in Mars.

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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
I can't stand having it. I put my emotions into my stomach. It is hard for me to deal with anger, too lol

I will put up my article, but it prolly needs editing, as they all do.


Earth voids are terrible with details!


Your statments above depict you creating bitterness in you bones by expressing unhappiness with the way you were created.

stop that

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posted November 15, 2015 02:47 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Comatoes     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Fall planets doesn't mean broken and useless. You can Fall and get up and dust yourself off or you can Fall and lay there like a victim, everyone has choices. Planets in Fall mean you may tumble a bit, but with continue practice you still come out okay, maybe even stronger long-term. Practice makes any area strong. The older you get the less you can blame your planets in Fall, maturity and the progressed chart helps you grow and improve.

Many people with Mars in Cancer has already or will progress into Leo. This creates a great benefit.

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posted November 15, 2015 05:44 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Sylven     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I don't have any trouble with my Mars 13 (critical degree) in Cancer. My Cancer Sun is a first (Aries) degree. I love it! They are both in 10th.
It makes me strong in personality but for the good of humanity. I am huge on wanting to please you, being comfy and emotionally in balance. I am big on unity with all living beings. I am a warm blanket for your soul. I can get very mad, very raw and primary in my emotions. It's better than holding it in.

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posted November 15, 2015 09:49 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for m.blade     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Interesting thing about Mars in Cancer is its debilitated in Cancer but the moon is one of his best friends.

So if Mars is conjunct the Moon in Cancer, this can be an AWESOME conjunction!! The moon is in its natural home meaning its extra strong and so Mars is conjunct its friend the Moon who by being so strong helps bring mars out of debilitation and makes it shine!

Ami, I've seen your chart somewhere on the site and i noticed your 4th house cusp is in Capricorn and your saturn is in scorpio! Scorpio is such a deep, watery and confusing sign and Saturn isnt usually happy there which might reflect your feelings of anger and bottling your anger in your stomach (your saturn is in the 2nd house and if im not mistaken the 2nd house is also ruled by the stomach?)

AND IN FACT, Mars by being placed in cancer is in friends sign so its not awfully bad. It is 5th and 10th from its mooltrikona signs of Scorpio and Aries so therefore Mars in Cancer might give someone who prefers to work with children, might give a creative career, someone who likes to work in speculative business, etc.

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posted November 15, 2015 12:00 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Comatoes:
Fall planets doesn't mean broken and useless. You can Fall and get up and dust yourself off or you can Fall and lay there like a victim, everyone has choices. Planets in Fall mean you may tumble a bit, but with continue practice you still come out okay, maybe even stronger long-term. Practice makes any area strong. The older you get the less you can blame your planets in Fall, maturity and the progressed chart helps you grow and improve.

Many people with Mars in Cancer has already or will progress into Leo. This creates a great benefit.


The Fall just means that the planet does not have an easy flow.

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posted November 21, 2015 08:15 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Littleh     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I'm a cancer Mars female; I've read that expressing anger is difficult and I've found this to be true for me - I've found that when most others would feel anger I don't. However my Mars is trine my sun within 2 degrees and I have a good amount of fire in my chart so whilst I rarely lose my temper the few times I have it's been a very emotional and strong anger. My Pluto square Mars aspect could add to this but it's very wide

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posted November 21, 2015 09:02 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for DopGang     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
^^^
I've found that it (anger) trickles out, even at inappropriate times and without the cancer mars native being aware of it. It's just in their tone and facial expression. Subtle, but it's there.

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posted November 18, 2018 02:58 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for ChildofVenus     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I don't understand why I'm so sexually attracted to this Mars sign. When I have Mars in Gemini. Mars in Cancer and Mars in Gemini aren't sexually compatible.

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I had a beautiful sexual experience with a Mars in Cancer. I have Moon in Cancer conjunct his Mars. But he was testy as he was gorgeous. I never knew what to do when he got mad.

As a Mars in Libra, I wanted to discuss things and clear the air. But I quickly learned that trying to respond with words further antagonized him and so I would just shower him with affection.

Mom also has Mars in Cancer and she had a stomach operation and so I think the notion that Mars in Cancer gets ulcers and stomach related issues may be true. Perhaps a link between suppression of anger and the illness?

I know that Mars in Libra, kidney/back issues can result from emotional stress brought on by relationship. I read this on an astrology book pertaining to health.

I get back issues mostly when stressed.

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I didn't think I would actually like Mars in Cancer until I dated one. My boyfriend is the sweetest guy I've met so far, like genuinely sweet and not just because he wants to win you over. Even with a Cap moon, he is still the most comfortable person to be with. I like melting into his arms when we cuddle. I feel so safe and protected. It really warms my Cancer moon.

His sex drive is not as high as mine, however (I have Mars in Libra), and sex gets a bit routine-ish. I don't usually mind, but I find that if I wanted to try something new, I would have to initiate it. He loves the bed because it's comfortable.

He IS a very good listener and he does cook and take care of me when I'm sick (although I still do the cooking most of the time). He seems to understand women more than other men and this is how he got into affairs and polyamory back in his high school/first college days (Venus in Gemini still ugghhh...). I used to joke that only very typical girly girls fall for his sh*t because they think with their feelings. I guess I'm one of them 🤷🏻‍♀️

His Mars is afflicted by his Moon, Jupiter, and Saturn in a t-square, so he didn't always have respect for women. He might have respected them in the sense that he understood consent and would never physically hit a woman (unless she starts hitting him first). But he used to see women as pieces of meat (hence, cheating), and I think this is highly due to his strained relationship with his mother. He loves his mom very much but he just feels like she doesn't care about him as much as he'd like to. I think that's the only way to f*ck up a man with Mars in Cancer.

But to be fair, I have not met anyone else that had Mars in Cancer so close to my Moon. The other one I met had it way far off from mine at the very last degrees. He also had a strained relationship with his mom because she cheated on his dad. I noticed the pent up anger he couldn't express. My boyfriend had the same thing when we first met. It really takes maturity and patience from loved ones to make them feel safe enough to express their worries and concerns. That's when healing starts for them, and when they are in the best state of mind, they are one of the most loyal and loving partners to have around.

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posted November 20, 2018 04:25 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for ChildofVenus     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Solar_Leo_Queen:
I didn't think I would actually like Mars in Cancer until I dated one. My boyfriend is the sweetest guy I've met so far, like genuinely sweet and not just because he wants to win you over. Even with a Cap moon, he is still the most comfortable person to be with. I like melting into his arms when we cuddle. I feel so safe and protected. It really warms my Cancer moon.

His sex drive is not as high as mine, however (I have Mars in Libra), and sex gets a bit routine-ish. I don't usually mind, but I find that if I wanted to try something new, I would have to initiate it. He loves the bed because it's comfortable.

He IS a very good listener and he does cook and take care of me when I'm sick (although I still do the cooking most of the time). He seems to understand women more than other men and this is how he got into affairs and polyamory back in his high school/first college days (Venus in Gemini still ugghhh...). I used to joke that only very typical girly girls fall for his sh*t because they think with their feelings. I guess I'm one of them 🤷🏻‍♀️

His Mars is afflicted by his Moon, Jupiter, and Saturn in a t-square, so he didn't always have respect for women. He might have respected them in the sense that he understood consent and would never physically hit a woman (unless she starts hitting him first). But he used to see women as pieces of meat (hence, cheating), and I think this is highly due to his strained relationship with his mother. He loves his mom very much but he just feels like she doesn't care about him as much as he'd like to. I think that's the only way to f*ck up a man with Mars in Cancer.

But to be fair, I have not met anyone else that had Mars in Cancer so close to my Moon. The other one I met had it way far off from mine at the very last degrees. He also had a strained relationship with his mom because she cheated on his dad. I noticed the pent up anger he couldn't express. My boyfriend had the same thing when we first met. It really takes maturity and patience from loved ones to make them feel safe enough to express their worries and concerns. That's when healing starts for them, and when they are in the best state of mind, they are one of the most loyal and loving partners to have around.


Do they like to be cared for? By the person that their with? I've read that they could be mama's boys. Are they into the motherly type of woman?

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posted November 20, 2018 08:39 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Solar_Leo_Queen     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Do they like to be cared for? By the person that their with? I've read that they could be mama's boys. Are they into the motherly type of woman?

He LOVES to be cared for. He's not so much of a mama's boy because of the heavy Cap influence in his chart, but the little boy inside of him really comes out sometimes. His favorite thing to do is to curl up to my chest like a little boy curls up to his mom's chest for comfort. He likes that I'm attentive and I usually get things right when doing something for him, doing exactly how he likes stuff (like how his burgers are made, etc). My Venus in Virgo caters well to his Moon and Mars.

Sexually, he admitted to being attracted to motherly women. However, it seemed like when he met people with Venus in Cancer, he was a bit turned off by the motherly attitude. He thought they were sexy and I think he would have totally slept with them, but he can't stand being smothered. He says he can't be in a serious relationship with such women other than for sex. The woman doesn't even need to have Venus in Cancer. Just motherly behaviour in general. He hated how his ex wanted to always spoon feed him his food and make everything romantic. I think a man's Venus really plays out on who he wants to be in a relationship with. Venus in Gemini really values their independence.

I'm motherly, but I know to let him also be independent. Thankfully, I only have one planet in water and my earth placements really balance that out. It works out for both of us. He's not very romantic and I like that.

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posted November 20, 2018 08:46 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for ChildofVenus     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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He LOVES to be cared for. He's not so much of a mama's boy because of the heavy Cap influence in his chart, but the little boy inside of him really comes out sometimes. His favorite thing to do is to curl up to my chest like a little boy curls up to his mom's chest for comfort. He likes that I'm attentive and I usually get things right when doing something for him, doing exactly how he likes stuff (like how his burgers are made, etc). My Venus in Virgo caters well to his Moon and Mars.

Sexually, he admitted to being attracted to motherly women. However, it seemed like when he met people with Venus in Cancer, he was a bit turned off by the motherly attitude. He thought they were sexy and I think he would have totally slept with them, but he can't stand being smothered. He says he can't be in a serious relationship with such women other than for sex. The woman doesn't even need to have Venus in Cancer. Just motherly behaviour in general. His ex had Venus in Pisces and he hated how she wanted to always spoon feed him his food and make everything romantic.

I'm motherly, but I know to let him also be independent. Thankfully, I only have one planet in water and my earth placements really balance that out. It works out for both of us. He's not very romantic and I like that.


That sounds really sweet I don't like to be smothered. But I think cuddling is always nice. I've never experienced it with someone I really liked though. I don't know if I have the motherly thing really. My Moon in Aquarius conjunct Saturn makes me kind of distant. Wow I would think they would love a woman with Venus in Pisces. I have it well at least I know now to stay away lol. But it also squares Uranus and Saturn so I like my space. That's the only sign I have in water though. Spoon feed? Lol I've never had the urge to do anything like that. I can be romantic but it's not to the extreme. I know it's probably the squares to Uranus and Saturn that causes this.

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posted November 20, 2018 08:52 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Solar_Leo_Queen     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
They can also be sulky and I noticed the VERY indirect way they try to get things they want. They usually use emotions to do it. They are never upfront. When my boyfriend wants something, he goes something like, "If you love me, you'd do this for me...", etc. It's cute at first. However, you really gotta watch out for manipulative behaviour as they can turn things around very quickly against you. They don't even know they are doing it. I've called him out on it many times. Sometimes when he does something wrong, he turns it around on me. The best thing to do in such situations is not react at all like how a parent reacts when their child is having a temper tantrum. When he tries to sulk, I leave the room and let him be with his feelings. He usually comes out later on with a clearer head and apologizes.

Totally not saying other Mars signs are not manipulative. But Mars in Cancer have mastered this skill even further than us since they instinctively know how emotions work. Maybe I'm manipulative too but he hasn't said anything and he usually does.

This is one of the downsides to this placement.

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Originally posted by Solar_Leo_Queen:
They can also be sulky and I noticed the VERY indirect way they try to get things they want. They usually use emotions to do it. They are never upfront. When my boyfriend wants something, he goes something like, "If you love me, you'd do this for me...", etc. It's cute at first. However, you really gotta watch out for manipulative behaviour as they can turn things around very quickly against you. They don't even know they are doing it. I've called him out on it many times. Sometimes when he does something wrong, he turns it around on me. The best thing to do in such situations is not react at all like how a parent reacts when their child is having a temper tantrum. When he tries to sulk, I leave the room and let him be with his feelings. He usually comes out later on with a clearer head and apologizes.

Totally not saying other Mars signs are not manipulative. But Mars in Cancer have mastered this skill even further than us since they instinctively know how emotions work. Maybe I'm manipulative too but he hasn't said anything and he usually does.

This is one of the downsides to this placement.



Sounds like a big baby to me lol.

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That sounds really sweet I don't like to be smothered. But I think cuddling is always nice. I've never experienced it with someone I really liked though. I don't know if I have the motherly thing really. My Moon in Aquarius makes me kind of distant. Wow I would think they would love a woman with Venus in Pisces. I have it well at least I know now to stay away lol. But it also squares Uranus and Saturn so I like my space. That's the only sign I have in water though. Spoon feed? Lol I've never had the urge to do anything like that. I can be romantic but it's not to the extreme. I know it's probably the squares to Uranus and Saturn that causes this.

It wasn't necessarily just her Venus in Pisces. I think they would love such women too because of their naturally feminine nature. Mars in Cancer men LOVE feminine women.

Mind you, his ex had Moon in Scorpio and an exact square from her Pluto to her Venus. She was controlling and manipulative, showing all the bad sides of Plutonian. He admitted to feeling emasculated by her and she used to use sex to get what she wants from him. I think if she didn't have that, he might have appreciated her Venus more. Spoon feeding is seen as very romantic in our culture, so she might have thought that was a great idea since Venus in Pisces usually likes romance.

If the rest of your chart has nothing indicating such things, you have nothing to worry about, except if your chart matches up well with the guy's chart.

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[QUOTE]Originally posted by Solar_Leo_Queen:
[b]They can also be sulky and I noticed the VERY indirect way they try to get things they want. They usually use emotions to do it. They are never upfront. When my boyfriend wants something, he goes something like, "If you love me, you'd do this for me...", etc. It's cute at first. However, you really gotta watch out for manipulative behaviour as they can turn things around very quickly against you. They don't even know they are doing it. I've called him out on it many times. Sometimes when he does something wrong, he turns it around on me. The best thing to do in such situations is not react at all like how a parent reacts when their child is having a temper tantrum. When he tries to sulk, I leave the room and let him be with his feelings. He usually comes out later on with a clearer head and apologizes.

Totally not saying other Mars signs are not manipulative. But Mars in Cancer have mastered this skill even further than us since they instinctively know how emotions work. Maybe I'm manipulative too but he hasn't said anything and he usually does.

This is one of the downsides to this placement.



Sounds like a big baby to me lol. [/B][/QUOTE]

Lol they can be that's why you gotta really figure out how they work. Took me living with one for almost three years now.

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