posted December 18, 2015 11:12 AM            

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Originally posted by barbriallen:
My only problem is that I use astrology to explain things too much. Like my friend just got engaged again and my first thought wasn't "Congratulations!" but "Of course, he's got Mars in Libra" haha.

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posted December 18, 2015 12:33 PM            

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Originally posted by barbriallen:
My only problem is that I use astrology to explain things too much. Like my friend just got engaged again and my first thought wasn't "Congratulations!" but "Of course, he's got Mars in Libra" haha.

But really, astrology is so helpful for becoming self-aware and understanding other people with different energies than yourself. It's a perfect tool for self-improvement

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I do the same thing. There is nothing wrong with that. Most of the people in my life find it funny and quirky

posted December 18, 2015 12:39 PM            

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posted December 18, 2015 12:50 PM            

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Originally posted by Queen Salome:

It's like addiction.
I sometimes think that if people quit astrology and focus on improving themselves, they would be happier.

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Well, it depends on how you use it. You could just as well use astrology to improve yourself. It's a phantastic tool to do just that, actually. Making an honest self-appraisal is one of the hardest things, but astrology can help you do it, and can help you face your shadow side, or other things you never noticed about yourself; and, it can show you the way to make the best of your innate tendencies. It can also make you more tolerant of people's differences. All too many people suffer disappointment because they expect others to act and react and feel just like they would. The sooner one lets go of such an unrealistic expectation the better, and astrology can help one get there.

posted December 18, 2015 06:38 PM            

That said, I look at themes. When I love, it's my chart, not just my Venus, though my Venus sets the tone of my love nature. My sun, moon, aspects and everything else jump in and contribute. So in that way I try not to dig too deeply in details about what each behavior of mine is. Sometimes it's a habit that I fall into but really it's trying to separate out water from water. There are deeper areas, clear or muddy areas. Areas with flow and areas of standing water but it's all attached to the same body of water.

posted December 18, 2015 06:56 PM            

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Originally posted by angel4845:
Astrology made me a better person inside and I officially found my absolute love which is astrology. Astrology is not an addiction, astrology is just a subject to have an ultimate drive and passion for and as a venus in sag it has become one of my beliefs and fascinated topics to research on.

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Well said, Angel dear!

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posted December 18, 2015 07:15 PM            

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Originally posted by Queen Salome:
Are there any?
It's like addiction.
I sometimes think that if people quit astrology and focus on improving themselves, they would be happier.

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I'm glad someone is asking this...

It does seem to be on the fine line of healthy vs. very unhealthy.

My reasons for sticking with it:
1. I find significant, unique power in my chart. Even the tough influences. I choose to see this as kind of a blood type - these are just energies that make up who I am, and I can pick what I emphasize.

2. Once we learn that we are not controlled by astrology at all, it can be wonderfully empowering and center us with the Universe and our faith. What is meant to be will be, and here are the potentials... etc.

3. If you can look at transits you believe fully will be positive, and keep your focus on those - that is truly what you'll manifest.

But, I think it's hard to stick with these. I see more people post 'Will we last?' charts in interpersonal than anything else, and this always makes me wonder.. what happens to them if everyone chooses to respond with 'Nope, not gonna last. Too much of this and btw he's definitely cheating on you.'

...????? The power of suggestion can be LETHAL, and we're tapping into spiritual entities with this. So that always worries me. I think it's good to analyze these charts to see what COULD be, but really... it should all be looked at as a mirror of your own thoughts/projections/fears/loves/beliefs, etc, than the hand of God steering you.

But anyway.

posted December 18, 2015 07:42 PM            

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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
Astrology gives you a blueprint to yourself and others. Why throw away the blueprint?

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posted December 18, 2015 08:57 PM            

I get depressed easily now. Much too easily. Last weekend was partially ruined because I was feeling so tired and miserable (something was ruined for me, but the person didn't do it on purpose). My Uncle, when he was young and depressed, was sent to a place that made him get out of bed at the same time every morning, otherwise he wouldn't get breakfast. They had to do housework, and other things, and he reckons that made him better.

posted December 19, 2015 11:57 AM            

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Originally posted by teasel:
You would miss our charming company?

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Yea

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posted December 19, 2015 04:35 PM            

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Originally posted by barbriallen:
My only problem is that I use astrology to explain things too much. Like my friend just got engaged again and my first thought wasn't "Congratulations!" but "Of course, he's got Mars in Libra" haha.

But really, astrology is so helpful for becoming self-aware and understanding other people with different energies than yourself. It's a perfect tool for self-improvement

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posted December 19, 2015 05:17 PM            

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Originally posted by Cappi112:
I'm glad someone is asking this...

It does seem to be on the fine line of healthy vs. very unhealthy.

My reasons for sticking with it:
1. I find significant, unique power in my chart. Even the tough influences. I choose to see this as kind of a blood type - these are just energies that make up who I am, and I can pick what I emphasize.

2. Once we learn that we are not controlled by astrology at all, it can be wonderfully empowering and center us with the Universe and our faith. What is meant to be will be, and here are the potentials... etc.

3. If you can look at transits you believe fully will be positive, and keep your focus on those - that is truly what you'll manifest.

But, I think it's hard to stick with these. I see more people post 'Will we last?' charts in interpersonal than anything else, and this always makes me wonder.. what happens to them if everyone chooses to respond with 'Nope, not gonna last. Too much of this and btw he's definitely cheating on you.'

...????? The power of suggestion can be LETHAL, and we're tapping into spiritual entities with this. So that always worries me. I think it's good to analyze these charts to see what COULD be, but really... it should all be looked at as a mirror of your own thoughts/projections/fears/loves/beliefs, etc, than the hand of God steering you.

But anyway.

Stepping off my soapbox now.....

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Great points.

Transits affect me, they really do, but as I've learned how to sail through life in a more detached way...less ego, more spirit...I can be in the worst situation, still afloat, and almost giddy at the ease of it. Just detach and enjoy the crazy ride.

posted December 19, 2015 05:21 PM            

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Originally posted by kewf1988:
This. It's a great tool to help you understand yourself, as well as others. Since discovering astrology, I understand why people are the way they are and why I am the way I am.

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Astrology is based on truth.