posted December 24, 2015 05:41 AM            

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Originally posted by rcllns:
If he will do it with you, he will do it to you.

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THIS.
If he leaves her and then spends time getting to know you and wants to be with you, that's one thing.
But hanging out with you, building a relationship with you while he has a girlfriend is a whole different story. And from what you've said, he does like you. Wanting to hang out one on one w/o his girl seems fishy to me. Why would he want that? I can think of a reason or two!
1. He wants to see how far he can go, how far YOU will allow him to go. Just verbal flirting? Oh but if the girlfriend isn't there, body language and touch can even be thrown in, to test the waters.
2. He wants to leave his girlfriend, but he doesn't want to lose being in a relationship. He could be trying to set one up beforehand by getting close to you. People do that one a lot and I firmly believe it's because they get their happiness and their confidence from somewhere other than themselves. I think someone else may have mentioned this bit already.

I could go on, but I don't want this to be all negative. Maybe you two could make a great couple, but don't let it start out tarnished by beginning it before his current one is over. I'm not saying don't be his friend, but try to include the girlfriend as much as possible, discouraging any attempts of infidelity.

posted December 24, 2015 07:05 AM            

However, if she has a more typically girly sort of chart, like Taurus, Virgo, Cancer etc. He might already be feeling bored.

It completely depends on the synastry and dynamics between them.

There is absolutely nothing wrong with anything you are doing or have done!
They are neither married nor de facto, nor engaged and have no kids. She is just a girlfriend. If things end between them, then they end. Relationships end all the time.
As long as you are both honest and don't go behind anyone's back - I don't see anything wrong with a stale relationship ending - and a new relationship starting.
Such is life!

But if that's not the case of course... If his current relationship is "happy" - then, nothing will happen anyway.

posted December 24, 2015 09:53 AM            

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Originally posted by lundan:
its the harsh aspects like square, opposite, etc between mars and uranus that is the classic cheater
Good luck!

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This is actually not an indicator at all that someone will cheat, for the record. That's like saying all people with Venus in Gemini cheat - not true.

I know a man with (Aries) Mars square Uranus and he would rather cut his arm off than cheat on someone. He's probably the most faithful person I've ever met.

He was/is, however, very concerned with his physical appearance and took to body building and taking steroids to boost his image. This aspect appears a lot in the charts of people who enjoy very physically demanding/off beat exercise and need to feel that "rush" (like body builders).