posted December 20, 2015 10:02 PM            

I have a guy friend born on February 18 (good gosh I love this birthday...I had a boyfriend with this birthday and seem to keep attracting them...not complaining at all).

My friend's Sun falls right in my eighth house. He has Venus conjunct ASC in Capricorn and Neptune, Uranus and Mercury in the first.

He has a girlfriend, but I really like him...cautiously. I put absolutely no stock in it. But mutual friends keep telling me they could see us together. And we talk all the time, sometimes very intimately. He'll tell me how great he thinks I am (never specifies "as a friend," but I don't guess that's necessary), tell me things like "sometimes I just really hate being in a relationship," even made plans to hang out with me one on one. He is never inappropriate but sometimes I feel a little uncomfortable with the way he acts just because he has a girlfriend. I think she is aware of his behavior, but if I were her, I would go NUTS.

I've noticed a pattern with these guys, specifically this birthday. My boyfriend from back in the day had an intimate friendship with an old friend he had had feelings for. He ended up admitting to me that he still did. Our relationship ended because of it.

Even this guy had s relationship that ended very badly because he was hanging out with another girl one on one. The ex is Scorpio rising and she wants his head on a silver platter!

I guess I have two questions. For one, has anyone else noticed this kind of pattern with Aquarius/Pisces people? And two, does it sound like he likes me maybe as more than a friend, or maybe he's just really super nice and Neptune in the first is making me either misread him or making him unaware of how his actions are being perceived?

posted December 20, 2015 10:04 PM            

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Originally posted by wheresthemoon:
So I didn't really see any point in posting this because I'm too confused and indifferent about my "love life" (HA! To even call it that is hilarious) to even care. But I saw another thread that reminded me of this situation so I thought I'd throw it out there.

I have a guy friend born on February 18 (good gosh I love this birthday...I had a boyfriend with this birthday and seem to keep attracting them...not complaining at all).

My friend's Sun falls right in my eighth house. He has Venus conjunct ASC in Capricorn and Neptune, Uranus and Mercury in the first.

He has a girlfriend, but I really like him...cautiously. I put absolutely no stock in it. But mutual friends keep telling me they could see us together. And we talk all the time, sometimes very intimately. He'll tell me how great he thinks I am (never specifies "as a friend," but I don't guess that's necessary), tell me things like "sometimes I just really hate being in a relationship," even made plans to hang out with me one on one. He is never inappropriate but sometimes I feel a little uncomfortable with the way he acts just because he has a girlfriend. I think she is aware of his behavior, but if I were her, I would go NUTS.

I've noticed a pattern with these guys, specifically this birthday. My boyfriend from back in the day had an intimate friendship with an old friend he had had feelings for. He ended up admitting to me that he still did. Our relationship ended because of it.

Even this guy had s relationship that ended very badly because he was hanging out with another girl one on one. The ex is Scorpio rising and she wants his head on a silver platter!

I guess I have two questions. For one, has anyone else noticed this kind of pattern with Aquarius/Pisces people? And two, does it sound like he likes me maybe as more than a friend, or maybe he's just really super nice and Neptune in the first is making me either misread him or making him unaware of how his actions are being perceived?

My sister has speculated that his girlfriend is a "safe" choice and he's sticking with what is safe, but might be attracted to me. I am 100% not a safe choice for anyone at this point in my life.

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posted December 20, 2015 10:07 PM            

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Originally posted by lundan:
Why would you care? He has a girlfriend, back off.
When it comes to cheating and what not look at aspects, for example mars and uranus.
Being a pisces or aquarius does not mean anything, I know plenty of faithful aquarius people :/

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Calm down, I'm not pursuing him at all or even flirting with him. He has no idea that I am even attracted to him like that. And I clarified multiple times that HIS actions make ME uncomfortable because he has a girlfriend.

posted December 20, 2015 10:11 PM            

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Originally posted by wheresthemoon:
Calm down, I'm not pursuing him at all or even flirting with him. He has no idea that I am even attracted to him like that. And I clarified multiple times that HIS actions make ME uncomfortable because he has a girlfriend.

And I care to know because I do like him. I can't help it. But I would never be the "other woman." I make a point of that in my life.

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posted December 20, 2015 10:15 PM            

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Originally posted by lundan:
Oh so you're just looking for validation or an ego boost, got it (that probably sounds mean i'm sorry lol I have sun square ascendant which gives me a lot of trouble)
My friends ex boyfriend was a little too close to his female friends and he was a cancer sun, libra mars, leo moon but I think he was just immature and needed validation

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Yeah...rude. Just because you know you're being rude doesn't make it okay. Not looking for an ego boost, my ego is plenty boosted without your help. I just want to know if I'm crazy or if this is a thing.

posted December 20, 2015 10:19 PM            

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Originally posted by wheresthemoon:
Yeah...rude. Just because you know you're being rude doesn't make it okay. Not looking for an ego boost, my ego is plenty boosted without your help. I just want to know if I'm crazy or if this is a thing.

Anyhoo. Yeah this guy has a libra moon. I feel like libra energy could definitely do it too. I feel like libra planets just feel like "everyone deserves love not just my girlfriend."😂

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posted December 20, 2015 10:23 PM            

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Originally posted by lundan:
omg thats exactly what my friends ex boyfriend said!
He was giving excuses like he doesn't want to mean to his female friends and wants to be there for them.
I love libra moons but I'm so crazy possessive I couldn't.
What's his mars?

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posted December 20, 2015 10:28 PM            

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Originally posted by babasheep:
hey wheresthemoon!

If I could offer my 2 cents...I believe aquarius/pisces people can tend to be a little bit "safe" in general. In my personal experience (just my opinion and observations, not a fact), they would rather stay in the "vague zone", letting their dreams and feelings run wild with someone they may possibly have feelings with, rather than risk shattering a good, safe thing they have (a relationship).

I worry that he may be content with just spending time with you as a friend, but not open to doing anything about it. I just hope he doesn't waste your time because I think these people tend to be comfortable living in lala land.

Again, I could be wrong.

Would you like to share your feelings with him? Please keep us updated!

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Thanks Baba! It was actually your thread that inspired this one lol. I am also an Aries with Cancer ascendant btw!

He's not wasting my time. I am not investing enough into these feelings for it to matter that much, which is why I haven't posted yet. I am talking to a bunch of guys who are actually available right now and my attention is in 50 different directions. So again, it really doesn't matter that much.

posted December 20, 2015 10:33 PM            

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Originally posted by wheresthemoon:
Mars is in Leo.
Yeah that's something I've been thinking about too. Part of me is like "I like him I will just wait for the inevitable end of this relationship" and the other part is like "even if he was available I wouldn't want a boyfriend who behaves that way."
I'm suuuuuuuper possessive too. I must be the center of my mans universe and make all other girls look like gutter trash to him or I will be unsatisfied😂 slight exaggeration. But I mean....very slight.

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posted December 20, 2015 10:38 PM            

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Originally posted by lundan:
You're not exaggerating, that's exactly how I feel lol.
Aw man mars in leo, that's even worse, he's probably exactly like my friends ex boyfriend. The libra wants to make everyone happy and the leo likes the attention.
can I ask what his venus is lol
my boyfriend is leo mars, libra moon BUT venus in scorpio which makes a huge difference
I don't think his pisces sun makes a difference in relationships

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posted December 20, 2015 10:39 PM            

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Originally posted by wheresthemoon:
Maybe not but I have noticed a pattern with these guys! I hope you're right cause I love them😍
His Venus is in Capricorn.

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posted December 20, 2015 10:40 PM            

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Originally posted by lundan:
Okay he's definitely faithful
He just likes people to want him lol

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posted December 20, 2015 10:43 PM            

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Originally posted by wheresthemoon:
Well my ex who had feelings for his friend was Venus in Capricorn too. I think people put too much stock in Venus in Capricorn faithfulness lol😂

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posted December 20, 2015 10:47 PM            

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Originally posted by lundan:
It's not venus in capricorn, its the combination of venus in capricorn with his moon and mars

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Oh ok. Yeah my ex had moon in Sagittarius (we are not the MOST faithful bunch although I can say I have never actually cheated lol) and Mars in Capricorn. He ended up telling me he "loved both of us." Omg spare me.

posted December 20, 2015 10:53 PM            

Oh and I posted about leo mars before and how I love how direct with their feelings they are

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Originally posted by wheresthemoon:
Oh ok. Yeah my ex had moon in Sagittarius (we are not the MOST faithful bunch although I can say I have never actually cheated lol) and Mars in Capricorn. He ended up telling me he "loved both of us." Omg spare me.

Then he moved on to a new girl altogether but texted me telling me he was "sorry" and trying to talk to me for the first few months of their relationship. They ended up married. I feel sorry for her - she is a really awesome girl.

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posted December 20, 2015 10:57 PM            

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Originally posted by lundan:
Look if theres harsh aspects between his mars and uranus which can indicate cheating.
if his venus aspects his saturn then he definitely is faithful
Theres no way to be 100% positive unless he makes a move on you.
Post your synastry chars on the synastry page of linda-goodman and people will give u a more in depth look

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Thanks! Yep he has Venus sextile Saturn and no aspects between Mars and Uranus.

My most recent ex had Mars quincunx Uranus but was very faithful during our relationship. He was however, a selfish, pigheaded creep who had to always have his own way😂

posted December 20, 2015 10:59 PM            

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posted December 21, 2015 09:23 AM            

looks like unconsciously, you are seeking some sort balance with what happened with you and your last ex bf (same birthday with this new guy) since you said your ex was flirty or interested with a girl and that was the reason why your relationship ended. coming full circle, perhaps like i said unconsciously, you need to figure out what karmic lessons you need to learn from all this. it's not a coincidence you created/attracted a different guy with the same birthday, same personality. when this happen, there is a hidden lesson that you need to see.

what is it?

posted December 21, 2015 09:56 AM            

First, I've never cheated on anyone nor have I had the desire to. If I'm in a relationship with someone I'm never even interested in anyone else. I'm very loyal.

Second, and I hope this doesn't come across as judgment but rather advice. You obviously have feelings for this guy and it seems as if you are trying to guess if he likes you back. He does. If a guy is paying extra attention to you and he's being super nice, then he does like you.

You feel as if you might be a better fit than his girlfriend who seems to be what you say is a safe choice and who knows, maybe you are. But I have to say, do you want to be that girl who breaks up a relationship? Would you be able to trust him if you do date and he happens to have other girl friends that he talks to a lot and very intimately? He doesn't seem like a stable choice in my mind. But that's your choice to make.

posted December 21, 2015 10:14 AM            

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Originally posted by polkadotstars:

But I have to say, do you want to be that girl who breaks up a relationship? Would you be able to trust him if you do date and he happens to have other girl friends that he talks to a lot and very intimately? He doesn't seem like a stable choice in my mind. But that's your choice to make.

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i have to agree with polka here. my sense in this is that you will repeat the same karmic pattern with what happened between you and your last ex (who has the same bday as this new guy) would really want to seek some sort of retribution? even though what happened with the other relationship was in reverse (you were the one who was cheated on)

posted December 21, 2015 11:26 AM            

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Originally posted by wheresthemoon:

I guess I have two questions. For one, has anyone else noticed this kind of pattern with Aquarius/Pisces people?

Maybe? I don't know, though. What I've seen is circumstantial, and I have only two data points - so can't call it a pattern really. But I'll share my examples, and leave it to you to interpret..

1. This Pisces guy I had a crush on. We weren't exactly going out, but umm...kind of together? In an unspoken way. Our friends used to just assume we were, but we weren't. Both of us too shy. But then, he and a close friend of mine started talking (about me, ironically) - and he fell for her. Can't blame him coz we weren't *together*, but still hurt. He came back later, said he didn't like her ..yada yada, but the damage was done.

2. My friend who was dating a Pisces guy with Aqua venus. Admittedly, their situation was also a bit vague. She was turning down guys 'coz she didn't want to be with anyone else. He ended up falling for someone else, and started dating this girl.

Sigh. Note to self: don't believe anything unless its written on bond paper and blessed by holy water.

My sister has speculated that his girlfriend is a "safe" choice and he's sticking with what is safe, but might be attracted to me. I am 100% not a safe choice for anyone at this point in my life.

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posted December 21, 2015 12:10 PM            

I was friends with a guy who was with a girl for two years. I only saw him platonically and we would talk all the time. We were flirty at times but in a joking way, or so I thought. His girlfriend went through his phone and saw all his conversations with me and she broke it off with him. She was pretty ****** at me too. She kept Facebook messaging me all these nasty messages about how I was trying to steal him and what not. I was like hmm nope not the case lol.

I'm not close with him anymore because he told me after they broke up that he had feelings for me. I shouldn't have been so friendly with him and talked to him as much. But the lesson I learned is that if a guy is talking to you a lot and is getting personal about his life, he likes you.

posted December 23, 2015 11:01 PM            

How would you feel if you were in a relationship and there was another woman wanting energy from your man? Energy and attention that is sacred to your relationship?

I am a strong believer that what you but out into the universe, you attract ten-fold. It takes two to tango and I think most men wouldn't cheat if there were more women in this world who not only honored and respected other women but also honored and respected themselves enough to not settle for tarnished and low vibe energy like that.

My ex was an aquarius/pisces... he didnt like to deal. He wasn't whole. he didnt love and approve of himself. He constantly looked outside of himself and the relationship for approval and energy from others. It was a major problem in our relationship and it made me feel as if I was sharing him with everyone. Like nothing between us was special or sacred. We had challenges in our relationship and rather than "dealing" and looking to that which needed to be healed he would constantly look to cheap externals. One woman, such as yourself had a major crush on him. I could sense it and she was a major ***** to me. He was quite receptive to her flirtatious interactions and it was beyond inappropriate. And because of those - what seemed to be, very innocent exchanges- they turned into seeds that were planted. Seeds of infidelity. And he strayed... because, he thought the grass was greener on the other side.

Truth is --- any man who would be receptive to another womans energy like that while in a commited relationship is a man who is not whole. Is a man who is not honorable, is a man who looks to externals ot feel like a man. If he will do it with you, he will do it to you.