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Topic: Venus square Saturn in natal
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Violets Knowflake Posts: 4833 From: Registered: Apr 2011
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posted December 24, 2015 10:38 PM
Anyone have this aspect, or are you close to anyone with this aspect?How does this manifest? I've never really spent much time contemplating this aspect before, but I'm wondering if I should start examining the 9* orb square from my Venus to my Saturn (both in detriment). Anyway, what's this aspect all about? Thoughts, experiences, and observations welcome. IP: Logged |
Tofu addict Knowflake Posts: 556 From: Registered: Aug 2011
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posted December 24, 2015 11:00 PM
A 9 degree orb for non-lumanaries I would disregard as an aspect that would have an influence on your chart. Venus Saturn aspects in orb, at the most I would go till 6 degrees to feel it working. IP: Logged |
Violets Knowflake Posts: 4833 From: Registered: Apr 2011
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posted December 24, 2015 11:05 PM
quote: Originally posted by Tofu addict: A 9 degree orb for non-lumanaries I would disregard as an aspect that would have an influence on your chart. Venus Saturn aspects in orb, at the most I would go till 6 degrees to feel it working.
I've always gone by that general rule as well, although I was under the impression that squares, oppositions, and conjunctions were considered at 8* orbs. I'm also open to the idea that if you feel the aspect, the orb can be given some leeway. I still set my charts at 70%, though. At any rate, I'm still curious about the aspect, and how it manifests. Also, thank you for responding. IP: Logged |
hannaramaa Moderator Posts: 10789 From: Registered: Nov 2011
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posted December 24, 2015 11:12 PM
I have it 😩😩😩 It has manifested a few ways - it's difficult for me to stay committed long term. - insecurities - I get soooo anxious dating because I'm a perfectionist inside, but far from perfect. -serious tone to my friendships and relationships...but it rarely actually turns serious! - there's a "teaching" theme in my friendships, there tends to be a "tsk tsk" quality about them. I've always wondered what my former prospects thought of my love style, I don't cling to people or get overly mushy but that's just my perception.
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Violets Knowflake Posts: 4833 From: Registered: Apr 2011
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posted December 24, 2015 11:24 PM
Thanks, Hanna. That makes me think that maybe I don't really feel that 9* orb so much. I do possess some of the qualities you're describing, although it's not difficult for me to stay in committed relationships. But, I think that the things I'm identifying with can be explained by other aspects/placements in my chart with tighter orbs. Like I have Saturn in H11, and Pluto opposite Venus (Saturn and Pluto are square). Pisces Sun and Virgo Moon can add to insecurities, too. Sorry if you are struggling with that aspect! I know that my Saturn/Pluto square has been really pesky lately. IP: Logged |
hannaramaa Moderator Posts: 10789 From: Registered: Nov 2011
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posted December 25, 2015 12:02 AM
Thanks! And agreed, the whole longevity of relationships is probably intercepted by Moon trine Uranus and Uranus in the 7H. Venus Pluto sounds yummy though! I love Pluto aspects, it creates just right amount of intensity and closeness that I need. Hope it gets better for you! IP: Logged |
Violets Knowflake Posts: 4833 From: Registered: Apr 2011
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posted December 25, 2015 02:06 AM
Thank you. Yeah, sometimes I really kind of enjoy my Pluto/Venus opposition, truth be told. I do enjoy the intensity...until it gets a little *too* intense, and then it's like "Okay, stop this ride, I wanna get off the crazy train now." IP: Logged |
Einfühlung Knowflake Posts: 312 From: Lily of The Valley Registered: Feb 2015
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posted December 25, 2015 04:44 AM
I have it too. With Venus in 12th.For me it's just that I take relationships really seriously. I only had one relationship and it took me a really long time to get over it. 10 years, maybe. (It could be my Taurus stellium that couldn't get me over it fast) And I tend to sabotage my chances into getting into relationships. I feel like I don't deserve it even though I really want to. I just really want to work on myself first before getting into one. I love very deeply and don't want to be heartbroken again. I get very very cautious of people. IP: Logged |