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Topic: pluto in 7th house
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lundan Knowflake Posts: 305 From: Registered: Dec 2015
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posted December 26, 2015 11:45 PM
someone explain this to me )): they're not much about itIP: Logged |
lundan Knowflake Posts: 305 From: Registered: Dec 2015
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posted December 27, 2015 12:05 AM
can this explain why my friends are obsessed with me and I get obsessed with my romantic partners IP: Logged |
lundan Knowflake Posts: 305 From: Registered: Dec 2015
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posted December 27, 2015 01:24 AM
Nobody wannaa help meeeIP: Logged |
Koniucha Knowflake Posts: 388 From: Registered: Jun 2014
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posted December 27, 2015 06:28 AM
I found this article: http://www.sunsigns.org/pluto-in-seventh-house/ IP: Logged |
Elysia Knowflake Posts: 345 From: Registered: Aug 2015
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posted December 27, 2015 06:33 AM
The 7th house is the house of one-on-one relationships and partnerships. The focus is less on the self and more on the partner. With Pluto, the planet of intensity and destruction-for-resurrection here, relationships can take on that tone. People with this placement will give their all in relationships and, expect the same. So, one should choose partners carefully. Also, the plutonic themes of burning bridges in order to rebuild might be the way this person plays out their relationships. From my notes (lifted off of some website, lol): There's a lot of unconscious energy here, and you may need to learn to compromise and to not dominate your partner so much. On the other hand, you may need to become more aware of your partner trying to dominate or to control you; it can work both ways. IP: Logged |
Elysia Knowflake Posts: 345 From: Registered: Aug 2015
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posted December 27, 2015 06:45 AM
Oh, and. Rick Blaine. http://sasstrology.com/2009/12/pluto-in-the-seventh-a-kiss-is-not-just-a-kiss.html
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lundan Knowflake Posts: 305 From: Registered: Dec 2015
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posted December 27, 2015 11:48 AM
lol mother teresa has some placements i wouldn't expect quote: Originally posted by Koniucha: I found this article: http://www.sunsigns.org/pluto-in-seventh-house/
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lundan Knowflake Posts: 305 From: Registered: Dec 2015
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posted December 27, 2015 11:49 AM
I don't think this placement is as common as others
quote: Originally posted by Elysia: The 7th house is the house of one-on-one relationships and partnerships. The focus is less on the self and more on the partner. With Pluto, the planet of intensity and destruction-for-resurrection here, relationships can take on that tone. People with this placement will give their all in relationships and, expect the same. So, one should choose partners carefully. Also, the plutonic themes of burning bridges in order to rebuild might be the way this person plays out their relationships. From my notes (lifted off of some website, lol): There's a lot of unconscious energy here, and you may need to learn to compromise and to not dominate your partner so much. On the other hand, you may need to become more aware of your partner trying to dominate or to control you; it can work both ways.
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Koniucha Knowflake Posts: 388 From: Registered: Jun 2014
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posted December 27, 2015 12:01 PM
quote: Originally posted by lundan: lol mother teresa has some placements i wouldn't expect
lol. She was still only a human. IP: Logged |
Elysia Knowflake Posts: 345 From: Registered: Aug 2015
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posted December 27, 2015 02:05 PM
quote: Originally posted by lundan: I don't think this placement is as common as others
Yeah, may not be common. I didn't say/imply anything about it being common. IP: Logged |
lundan Knowflake Posts: 305 From: Registered: Dec 2015
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posted December 27, 2015 02:37 PM
i say that because Im not getting any personal experience with it. it was more like a general statement quote: Originally posted by Elysia: Yeah, may not be common. I didn't say/imply anything about it being common.
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Elysia Knowflake Posts: 345 From: Registered: Aug 2015
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posted December 27, 2015 02:43 PM
quote: Originally posted by lundan: i say that because Im not getting any personal experience with it. it was more like a general statement
Hmm, other people's experiences with this placement, you mean.. Well, maybe they are around, but are being 8th-housey secretive about it... JK IP: Logged |
lundan Knowflake Posts: 305 From: Registered: Dec 2015
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posted December 27, 2015 02:48 PM
where's the joke lol this is about 7th I'm confucious edit: I'm mainly interested in this placement because as someone with this placement i feel like i put people through a lot of crap and I don't even realize it until after I've done it and then we make up and then i do it again. and how do i stop quote: Originally posted by Elysia: Hmm, other people's experiences with this placement, you mean.. Well, maybe they are around, but are being 8th-housey secretive about it... JK
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Elysia Knowflake Posts: 345 From: Registered: Aug 2015
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posted December 27, 2015 02:51 PM
quote: Originally posted by lundan: where's the joke lol this is about 7th I'm confucious [QUOTE]Originally posted by Elysia: [b] Hmm, other people's experiences with this placement, you mean.. Well, maybe they are around, but are being 8th-housey secretive about it... JK
[/B][/QUOTE]Yez. I'm sayin' such ppl may exist. But they ain't speaking, coz they're being 8th-housey about it. As in, secretive. You feel me?
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lundan Knowflake Posts: 305 From: Registered: Dec 2015
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posted December 27, 2015 02:53 PM
i feel yasQUOTE]Originally posted by Elysia: Yez. I'm sayin' such ppl may exist. But they ain't speaking, coz they're being 8th-housey about it. As in, secretive. You feel me? [/QUOTE]
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Elysia Knowflake Posts: 345 From: Registered: Aug 2015
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posted December 27, 2015 02:57 PM
quote: Originally posted by lundan: where's the joke lol this is about 7th I'm confucious edit: I'm mainly interested in this placement because as someone with this placement i feel like i put people through a lot of crap and I don't even realize it until after I've done it and then we make up and then i do it again. and how do i stop
Hmm.. Okay, here's how I think Pluto energy shows itself (keeping in mind that it's the co-ruler of Scorpio): It (subconsciously or not), destroys in order to create again. The burning down of something to the atom, to reconstruct and thus generate deeper bonds. Now, this in a relationship house means Plutonic energy is used a tool for relating with the other person. After a great battle, you may feel that it's brought you closer to your loved one - while they may or may not feel the same (depending on how Plutonic they are). IP: Logged |
Elysia Knowflake Posts: 345 From: Registered: Aug 2015
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posted December 27, 2015 03:02 PM
As for how to stop ... Not sure what to say about that, except awareness is an important step. If one is aware of such tendencies, it's easier to nip them in the bud.IP: Logged |
lundan Knowflake Posts: 305 From: Registered: Dec 2015
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posted December 27, 2015 03:03 PM
yeah i do feel closer after having nasty arguments, its like I feel calm after releasing everything. I've only been with venus in scorpio people and people who are fairly plutonic so I think thats why they take it. I always thought there was something psychologically ****** up with people who deal with me because I have caught myself being emotionally abusive/manipulative before without realizing it. edit: but it brings us closer though its not healthy quote: Originally posted by Elysia: Hmm.. Okay, here's how I think Pluto energy shows itself (keeping in mind that it's the co-ruler of Scorpio): It (subconsciously or not), destroys in order to create again. The burning down of something to the atom, to reconstruct and thus generate deeper bonds. Now, this in a relationship house means Plutonic energy is used a tool for relating with the other person. After a great battle, you may feel that it's brought you closer to your loved one - while they may or may not feel the same (depending on how Plutonic they are).
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Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 65891 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted December 27, 2015 03:04 PM
Big ups and downs in serious/marriage relationships.------------------ Want to Read Simple, Fun,Sexy Articles on Astrology? Check Me Out, DUDE. http://www.mychristianpsychic.com/
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lundan Knowflake Posts: 305 From: Registered: Dec 2015
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posted December 27, 2015 03:05 PM
I literally act like someone who has BPD in relationships, thats the best way to describe it (though i don't have it) quote: Originally posted by Ami Anne: Big ups and downs in serious/marriage relationships.
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lundan Knowflake Posts: 305 From: Registered: Dec 2015
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posted December 27, 2015 03:12 PM
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Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 65891 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted December 27, 2015 03:14 PM
Prolly asteroids fit in here, too. There are NUMEROUS reasons for these things. Many asteroids show us Themes in the lives of people.For example, Sedna is extreme betrayal by men, beginning with the father. Hence, if we find an asteroid conjunct a pivotal part of the chart, the person has that life Theme. The pivotal part of the chart would include the ASC, MC, Sun, Moon, Venus, Mars etc ------------------ Want to Read Simple, Fun,Sexy Articles on Astrology? Check Me Out, DUDE. http://www.mychristianpsychic.com/
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lundan Knowflake Posts: 305 From: Registered: Dec 2015
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posted December 27, 2015 03:20 PM
i feel as if all my issues are from my mother quote: Originally posted by Ami Anne: Prolly asteroids fit in here, too. There are NUMEROUS reasons for these things. Many asteroids show us Themes in the lives of people.For example, Sedna is extreme betrayal by men, beginning with the father. Hence, if we find an asteroid conjunct a pivotal part of the chart, the person has that life Theme. The pivotal part of the chart would include the ASC, MC, Sun, Moon, Venus, Mars etc
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Elysia Knowflake Posts: 345 From: Registered: Aug 2015
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posted December 27, 2015 03:22 PM
quote: Originally posted by lundan: yeah i do feel closer after having nasty arguments, its like I feel calm after releasing everything. I've only been with venus in scorpio people and people who are fairly plutonic so I think thats why they take it. I always thought there was something psychologically ****** up with people who deal with me because I have caught myself being emotionally abusive/manipulative before without realizing it. edit: but it brings us closer though its not healthy [QUOTE]Originally posted by Elysia: [b] Hmm.. Okay, here's how I think Pluto energy shows itself (keeping in mind that it's the co-ruler of Scorpio): It (subconsciously or not), destroys in order to create again. The burning down of something to the atom, to reconstruct and thus generate deeper bonds. Now, this in a relationship house means Plutonic energy is used a tool for relating with the other person. After a great battle, you may feel that it's brought you closer to your loved one - while they may or may not feel the same (depending on how Plutonic they are).
[/B][/QUOTE]Yeah, I see... But don't get too bogged down by this one aspect. Zoom out and take a look at the rest of your chart, along with this. All the little pieces will form a more coherent picture. Also, some things we just learn better expressions for in time. As in, the energies that are expressed solely negatively (for instance, let's say this Plutonic energy) - eventually you'll find new and better ways of expressing it/them. Make sense? Thirdly, (personally), I don't think this is something you need to 'change' about yourself. We are what we are, and we shouldn't judge ourselves too harshly. Everyone has a dark side. Good, bad, ugly, it's all part of the parcel. Embrace it. IP: Logged |
Elysia Knowflake Posts: 345 From: Registered: Aug 2015
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posted December 27, 2015 03:24 PM
quote: Originally posted by lundan: i feel as if all my issues are from my mother
Did/do you have a difficult relationship with her, lundan? IP: Logged |