posted December 28, 2015 10:28 PM            

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Originally posted by zirr1:
This guy IS a taurus venus !! Almost 20 years older than me manipulated my mind when i broke up with him he said 'when did you stop believing everything i said??'

Then all the friends i had who he 'hated' he managed to somehow be hanging around with all of them and convincing them i was an evil liar etcetc but everything he was accusing me of was himself.

Same as op my ex also tried to convince me i was the only person they thought about blabla, it's all an act.

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Exactly, what I was saying!!!!

You don't want to escalate things or handle things with a Sun Gemini, Taurus Venus in the wrong way otherwise you'll encounter the same results you had.

Its unfortunate and I have no doubts he was a jerk.

Both potentially even scaring you from ever bothering from seeing another Gem again.

You have to careful with how you handle people with that combo because it takes time for them to decide who they want to be with and when its over they don't take it easy.

That's why you have to handle it carefully.

That's why he turned into a nightmare, you "pushed the wrong button".

@Elysia

Your really good you'd run rings around me or have me all figured out, that's a complement.

@hearttreasure

That comment of getting you pregnant scared me away too and yes I know what its like to be an Aries Mooner.

I would just go along with things, until he can move on, you've already communicated its over.

Its just a matter of time, how much time I don't know.

posted December 29, 2015 07:15 AM            

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Originally posted by DopGang:
You can't fear what people say about you, unless it's your boss or someone like that.

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posted December 29, 2015 09:19 AM            

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Originally posted by DualGem:

But, people complain about Gem males a lot but they handle them incorrectly.

I know where not easy, but theres a different rule book, its like trying to raise a polar bear in the desert, instead of in the Arctic and then wondering why things don't work out.

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@Elysia

Your really good you'd run rings around me or have me all figured out, that's a complement.

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posted December 29, 2015 10:35 AM            

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Originally posted by hearttreasure:
I used to think like that, but I've never met someone before who will kill you by trying to get people around you to hate you and feel sorry to him (true manipulator). He really knows how to use other people to work against his target with only some words. So, yes, I'm quite having a fear to what He will say about me, about my family, or about my life to other people, because I have a little patience to drama.

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posted December 30, 2015 11:23 PM            

That said, I had similar experience with Gemini-Taurus, Merc & Mars in Cancer. With Venus/Mars conj I'm quite stubborn so I took the decision that this person was out and I stuck to it.

posted January 01, 2016 04:56 PM            

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Originally posted by hearttreasure:
^ I've tried it but it's so hard to be boring, I feel awkward and it bores me thinking to how to be boring. lol. I've tried to be quiet too but then again it bores me to death more than him.

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Aquarius, Leo and Aries never appear boring to a Gem.

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Originally posted by PiscesCancerTaurus:
Just act like a Cancer sun. LOL. Be all romantic and emotional like most people think we are. That is what I am and I am currently dealing with a Gemini sun Taurus venus Cancer mars. I acted like myself Cancer sun Taurus moon and that scared the hell out of this person and they ran for the hills.

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Its 50/50. Depends on how far you are in the relationship.

I'd suggest being to much a burden on him, Initially he may want to work things out and
eventually realize its not worth the time.

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Gemini Sun,
Capricorn Rising
Aries Moon
Gemini Mercury
Venus Taurus
Mars Cancer

posted January 02, 2016 01:04 PM            

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Originally posted by Nine:
Sounds like Mars in Cancer more than Sun in Gemini.

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Yes, I think he resonates more with cancer influences because everytime I say he has sun in Gemini, he hates it.

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Originally posted by PiscesCancerTaurus:
Just act like a Cancer sun. LOL. Be all romantic and emotional like most people think we are. That is what I am and I am currently dealing with a Gemini sun Taurus venus Cancer mars. I acted like myself Cancer sun Taurus moon and that scared the hell out of this person and they ran for the hills.

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LOL. His ex has scorpio moon/venus/mercury/pluto, don't you think he already has emotional relationship and until now they're still mimicking each other in social media? He even compares me with her that I'm not good enough so he wants to change me.

Even when he knows she has a new boyfriend now soon after the broke up, he can not cover up his emotions in front of me. Those sad (like almost crying) face disgusts me because at the same time he wants to fix a relationship with me.

I would assume that he likes emotional and romantic relationship.

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Originally posted by DualGem:
Aquarius, Leo and Aries never appear boring to a Gem.

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I don't know if this is applied to every Gem. But Gemini people around me usually with scorpio, libra, taurus, virgo, or sagittarius.