posted December 28, 2015 03:47 PM            

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Originally posted by hearttreasure:

I need to end things amicably

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posted December 28, 2015 03:54 PM            

The simple approach would work, he is mercury-ruled after all. Talk it out (and let your good intentions show).

posted December 28, 2015 03:56 PM            

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Originally posted by Gemini30:
Just tell them it's over. They'll most likely say "Ok! See ya!"

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posted December 28, 2015 04:03 PM            

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Originally posted by ikja:
I would say, be honest. Be firm and be consistent.

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This seems right to me.

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posted December 28, 2015 04:12 PM            

1) Make him realize there are other options he can peruse.

2) Failing that, Eventually he'll realize it maybe too late to fix the relationship, its just a matter of time and then he'll move on.

The problem is how much time do you have for him to realize that?

Taurus Venus with Gemini sun can be tricky because it actually makes the gem stubborn to stick through the worst, especially if his heart is already decided that he wants to be with you, even through the worst.

I'm curious what your sun, moon, rising, Venus and mars are?

posted December 28, 2015 04:13 PM            

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Originally posted by hearttreasure:
^ Yes, I have been there. Two years on-off with drama and lots of people get involved, most of them his friends and our co-workers (I keep my friends separated when I realize his behavior), he really has a talent to make them on his side and feel sorry for him, he makes them to see me as the bad girl (he tried to influence my family too). I lived in hell in two years but he keeps coming back. (he has cancer mars/mercury)

How do I nicely end our romantic relationship and REALLY REALLY make him understand that this relationship can not be fixed? He has taurus venus, he keeps telling me that the relationship can be fixed. But I can't and I won't and I said, he is the one who need to fix the relationship, because he caused all the crazy things and he should take the responsibility for playing the game and getting this relationship crashed and burned.

I need to end things amicably, I'm running my way out (sorry, english is not my first language)

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Yes I've had the same problems with gemini men, my ex managed to turn a lot of my friends against me that he did not even know before. People all telling me how badly I treated him even though I had to deal with all his stuff all that time that i didn't tell everyone about !! Proper manipulators and proud of it in my experience.

All that has worked for me with geminis is to completely cut them off although the one that i'm talking about before was sending me 50 texts a day with death threats for a long time.. People he knows he can manipulate he tells them they cant speak to me and him at the same time.. But people who see through him he doesn't say those things..

posted December 28, 2015 04:15 PM            

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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
This seems right to me.

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I was just thinking... What would someone have to do to get rid of me? Lol

posted December 28, 2015 04:30 PM            

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Originally posted by hearttreasure:

I need to end things amicably

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Originally posted by DopGang:
Why?

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posted December 28, 2015 04:30 PM            

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Originally posted by zirr1:
Yes I've had the same problems with gemini men, my ex managed to turn a lot of my friends against me that he did not even know before. People all telling me how badly I treated him even though I had to deal with all his stuff all that time that i didn't tell everyone about !! Proper manipulators and proud of it in my experience.

All that has worked for me with geminis is to completely cut them off although the one that i'm talking about before was sending me 50 texts a day with death threats for a long time.. People he knows he can manipulate he tells them they cant speak to me and him at the same time.. But people who see through him he doesn't say those things..

Never getting with gemini men again. 3 times is enough experience to know what's going to happen.

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I would not suggest doing that if its a Sun Gemini, Taurus Venus.

As it would just escalate things.

I apologize if I offend anyone as I don't mean to.

But, people complain about Gem males a lot but they handle them incorrectly.

I know where not easy, but theres a different rule book, its like trying to raise a polar bear in the desert, instead of in the Arctic and then wondering why things don't work out.

posted December 28, 2015 04:45 PM            

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Originally posted by hearttreasure:
@ikja:
I had done it before, but he did everything to hurt me behind my back.

Earlier this month he broke the relationship which I had predicted after big argue. At Christmas Eve he initiated the contact and we spent Christmas day together where he wanted to be in relationship again, and get married soon having a baby with me.

I didn't want any relationship with him anymore when I found out that he still stalked his ex of 7 years last night and did similar thing as she posted. He tried to convince me that he only thought about me and he brought out the homemade craft with my name in it which he planned it as my coming soon birthday gift, he bought me foods and gave me a t-shirt that day. He really did nicest things until today he acted out again.

How do I communicate so I don't get hurt later by the stingy crab?

@theunknown:
I had done it too. I also used my blunt tongue, but it makes him more aggressive. Today when I do not want to meet him anymore and I block his number, he texts me that he doesn't care and he will be at my place in a minute. He once turned off my fuse box and waited all day long in front of my place when I disappeared for months so I came out.

I'm in the state of losing my heart beat to him, but also I do not like people to bug me, especially exes, so what is the best approach to break things off NICELY with this Gemini male with cancer influence?

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The opposite sign of cancer is capricorn. Capricorn people do not talk. We give them enough warnings and when they still go on, you remove all contacts, cut off everything.
You can't do things nicely for a Cancer mars/Taurus venus because he would think you still care, hence the guilt-tripping. Staying outside of your place for day to get you to pity him - classic cancer mars.

You need to be very FIRM. Accept that when he does become angry, he will do something to hurt you. That's cancer mars. They throw things behind your back.

posted December 28, 2015 05:13 PM            

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Originally posted by DualGem:
I would not suggest doing that if its a Sun Gemini, Taurus Venus.

As it would just escalate things.

I apologize if I offend anyone as I don't mean to.

But, people complain about Gem males a lot but they handle them incorrectly.

I know where not easy, but theres a different rule book, its like trying to raise a polar bear in the desert, instead of in the Arctic and then wondering why things don't work out.

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Gemini Sun,
Capricorn Rising
Aries Moon
Gemini Mercury
Venus Taurus
Mars Cancer

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This guy IS a taurus venus !! Almost 20 years older than me manipulated my mind when i broke up with him he said 'when did you stop believing everything i said??'

Then all the friends i had who he 'hated' he managed to somehow be hanging around with all of them and convincing them i was an evil liar etcetc but everything he was accusing me of was himself.

Same as op my ex also tried to convince me i was the only person they thought about blabla, it's all an act.

posted December 28, 2015 05:18 PM            

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Originally posted by hearttreasure:
I have suggested him to find another girls and I would be happy if he found any. He came back to me after weeks and said that he found none like me. I thought about your 2nd point too, but last night he said that he wanted to get me pregnant and he will work it out so I will marry him. It kinda freaked me out.

Aqua sun, Aries moon, Sag asc, Pisces venus, Sag mars.

He actually apologizes A LOT for his behaviors in the past ('till now he seems guilty), how he treated me BADLY, that's why he wants to fix everything. But after two years in hell and he still stalks his ex? I think I'm done, but I need to be careful this time to break things off with this Gemini male, I've been hurt so many times everytime I broke the relationship.

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Right.. yeah, like I said - don't know what else is going on in his chart or mind.

But, cutting off all contact abruptly, without explanation, may backfire...

posted December 28, 2015 05:48 PM            

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Originally posted by ikja:
You need to be FIRM and consistent. From what I'm reading, you give him space to comeback. Forget him baking you a cake. Just always say no. Regardless of what he says behind your back, aslong as you're consistent and keep your composure... He will go - eventually.

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posted December 28, 2015 06:19 PM            

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Originally posted by hearttreasure:
Thank you ikja. Sometimes the problem is he knows how to trigger my Aries moon, when I react he finds an excuse to meet up or to talk. It's hard to manage Aries moon to not have a quick temper if someone annoys me.

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