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posted January 01, 2016 01:12 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Empty Spaces     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Tonight I met a very cute guy but Im shy and once again I missed an opportunity.He was shy too.His friends were playing the cupid with us but I barely spoke with him.I only knew he was interested on me when he was gone lol Gosh Im so stupid!

I hate this so much.Which aspects shy people usually have?I have moon and ASC in gemini and its not enough.Im very talkative but usually only with my friends and family.
Or when I have sun/ASC in synastry.

Note: HAPPY NEW YEAR EVERYONE!

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LaceyLeigh
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posted January 01, 2016 01:59 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for LaceyLeigh     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Saturn in the 3rd/11th house. 12th house sun, Venus, moon or Mars aspecting Saturn.

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PaulMcFly
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posted January 01, 2016 02:11 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for PaulMcFly     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I can answer this personally. Shyness has been a key theme in my life, which sucks when you're a dude.

Saturn, Cap aspects can do the trick. Or Scorpio placements if afflicted.

I am a scorp rising. Sun conjunct Saturn. Venus in Cap. Im positive these are the positions that make me so quiet. Although the good thing about Saturn is you get WAY better with age. Like, INSANELY better.

Only up until 2 years ago did I start breaking out my shell. Couldn't make worthwhile friends, was funny looking, and relationships? Pfftttt.

But now everything has made an unexpected U turn. I noticed Saturn will SUCK at first unless it makes POSITIVE aspects to something. Such as Saturn sextile mercury. Saturn will ALWAYS give you graceful age in whatever it touches but depending on the aspect is whether you can control its power easier.

So for example Saturn conjunct Uranus

Would take you a while to master your uranus qualities. But in time it WILL pay off. You are learning a karmic lesson in rebellion. So once mastered your Uranus will eventually GROW in a prophetic, ambitious way.

Saturn square Mercury
Your thoughts and speech are battling your disciplined, mature, wise nature. But if you can overcome they will blend and everything you say will sound "messiah" like.

Saturn rewards whatever it touches its just conjunctions, oppositions and squares make it harder for you to accept its lessons


Thats why people with mars square saturn are so ******* mean. Their warrior, go getter nature is fighting their father saturn. You WILL Learn your lesson no matter the aspect cause if you dont then thays your ass

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posted January 01, 2016 02:15 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Spongebob     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by PaulMcFly:
I can answer this personally. Shyness has been a key theme in my life, which sucks when you're a dude.

Saturn, Cap aspects can do the trick. Or Scorpio placements if afflicted.

I am a scorp rising. Sun conjunct Saturn. Venus in Cap. Im positive these are the positions that make me so quiet. Although the good thing about Saturn is you get WAY better with age. Like, INSANELY better.

Only up until 2 years ago did I start breaking out my shell. Couldn't make worthwhile friends, was funny looking, and relationships? Pfftttt.

But now everything has made an unexpected U turn. I noticed Saturn will SUCK at first unless it makes POSITIVE aspects to something. Such as Saturn sextile mercury. Saturn will ALWAYS give you graceful age in whatever it touches but depending on the aspect is whether you can control its power easier.

So for example Saturn conjunct Uranus

Would take you a while to master your uranus qualities. But in time it WILL pay off. You are learning a karmic lesson in rebellion. So once mastered your Uranus will eventually GROW in a prophetic, ambitious way.

Saturn square Mercury
Your thoughts and speech are battling your disciplined, mature, wise nature. But if you can overcome they will blend and everything you say will sound "messiah" like.

Saturn rewards whatever it touches its just conjunctions, oppositions and squares make it harder for you to accept its lessons


Thats why people with mars square saturn are so ******* mean. Their warrior, go getter nature is fighting their father saturn. You WILL Learn your lesson no matter the aspect cause if you dont then thays your ass



Meh, we have to be provoked to be mean. And people learn their lesson, dont they?

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posted January 01, 2016 02:18 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for PaulMcFly     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Not. Not everyone haha

Trust me

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posted January 01, 2016 02:20 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Spongebob     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by PaulMcFly:
Not. Not everyone haha

Trust me


I didn't mean mars saturn ppl learn our lesson there isn't one for us to learn, but the people who cross us, learn not to mess with us.

And yes, they always do.

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posted January 01, 2016 02:34 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for PaulMcFly     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
that would make sense, you probably have some othee nice aspects to saturn or mars to balance it out.

But I still gotta stick with what I said. I had a friend back in the day who would go into a blackout rage every other 2 days and always fight his parents

For real him and his dad would jack all the time.

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posted January 01, 2016 02:57 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Spongebob     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by PaulMcFly:
that would make sense, you probably have some othee nice aspects to saturn or mars to balance it out.

But I still gotta stick with what I said. I had a friend back in the day who would go into a blackout rage every other 2 days and always fight his parents

For real him and his dad would jack all the time.


So you generalized all of us based off your one friend who is nutso?

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posted January 01, 2016 02:57 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for StubbornVirgo     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
^^ I second Saturn in the 11th house. Mine is in Capricorn. I'm incredibly shy in public.

I have planets in most of the "social" houses - Sun & Mercury in my 7th house, Moon & Mars in my 3rd, Neptune & Saturn in my 11th, and a "social" Moon & Mars...but I'm not social at all. I'm usually pretty nervous around new people and large groups until I figure out what's going on.

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posted January 01, 2016 03:13 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for PaulMcFly     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Spongebob:
So you generalized all of us based off your one friend who is nutso?

no I just used basic astrology knowledge...

Mars (anger, aggression, temper, will, action, desire, sex)

Saturn (discipline, maturity, restriction, limitation, ambition, order, old age)

Chill out your mars square saturn is showing

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posted January 01, 2016 04:29 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Southern Sun     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
If you're like me, then you'll likely have:

Personal planets in hard aspects to saturn
planets in 12th with difficult positions
tSaturn affecting personal planets negatively
Virgo Venus & Mars

My shyness comes from the fact that I am a private person when it comes to love relations. My tongue gets tied, can't stand the dude's female friends being around, & fear clouds my ability to take risks with new interests.

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posted January 01, 2016 04:44 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Comatoes     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I'm sorry to hear about your date, unfortunately this has happen to me as well. I personally don't like match-making because it makes me feel worse and pressured. I need to slowly move into situations, I do better and can relate to people better, this is not always possible though.

I don't know if it's shyness or introvert, it could well be both. I'm not afraid to talk to people, it's more about self-conscious or awkwardness. I have a lot to say, but don't know if other people will be interested in what I say and don't want to bore them, so I don't say too much until I get to know people better, hard to explain.

But from my own chart:
Stellium in 12th
Sun, Mercury, Mars, Moon in 12th
Gemini ruling 12th house, Mercury inside the 12th house
Water dominate
Venus/Saturn
Venus in 1st (having Sun in 12th makes this placement hard to express...along with Saturn attached to it)
Neptune/Asc.
Pluto in 3rd
Moon/Neptune
Sun/Chiron
Chiron/MC

I can say it has gotten better as an adult, since progressions and just getting older itself can help one feel better with who they are.

Anyone know of any asteroids that represent shyness?

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Geminiyoungster
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posted January 01, 2016 05:25 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Geminiyoungster     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I don't deal with shyness, but its the anxiety and awkwardness..that's a problem to me. I wouldn't say that anything in Saturn in shy.. I would say a conflicted mars, maybe?

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posted January 01, 2016 09:35 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Elysia     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
ES, what are your venus & mars? And what are the houses and aspects?

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posted January 01, 2016 10:01 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for DopGang     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
What about Venus square mars in natal? (I don't have it)
At least in the context of approaching a romantic interest.

12th house definitely.
Though, we can change over time. I've went from shy and wanting to talk to strangers to not shy and just wishing that I didn't have to pretend wanting to talk to them. LOL

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posted January 01, 2016 10:21 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Empty Spaces     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Elysia:
ES, what are your venus & mars? And what are the houses and aspects?

Hey Elysia
Mars in cancer and venus in pisces (2H/9H)

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posted January 01, 2016 10:31 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Empty Spaces     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
LaceyLeigh

I dont have any of that.But seems like many people I agree with the saturn in 11H

PaulMcfly

Thanks
Aww I imagine how difficult it must be for a guy.Much worst than for a woman.
In my case I only have soft saturn aspects.


StubbornVirgo
I have mercury in 7H too.We should be more extrovert!!!
Thanks for sharing

Southern Sun

I dont have any of that hehe
Thanks for sharing

Comatoes
Thanks for sharing
I understand.Its EXACTLY how I feel.


Geminiyoungster
Thanks for sharing
Hum interesting.Opposition counts?

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posted January 01, 2016 10:37 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Empty Spaces     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by DopGang:
What about Venus square mars in natal? (I don't have it)
At least in the context of approaching a romantic interest.

12th house definitely.
Though, we can change over time. I've went from shy and wanting to talk to strangers to not shy and just wishing that I didn't have to pretend wanting to talk to them. LOL


lol Im thinking..12H isnt more about introvert people?

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posted January 01, 2016 10:42 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for DopGang     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Could be!
Maybe you're right.

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posted January 02, 2016 10:47 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for LittleBlackCat     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Let's see...Scorpio Asc (esp. cancer decan with Virgo midheaven) which is me. 8th house moon.

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Randall
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posted January 05, 2016 03:59 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Is shyness and introversion the same?

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posted January 05, 2016 04:39 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for DopGang     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Randall:
Is shyness and introversion the same?

I don't think so.
One is related to fear/nervousness/awkwardness and one is a choice.
Well, put in extremely basic terms.

My opinion of course.

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posted January 05, 2016 04:42 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for theunknown     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by DopGang:
What about Venus square mars in natal? (I don't have it)
At least in the context of approaching a romantic interest.

12th house definitely.
Though, we can change over time. I've went from shy and wanting to talk to strangers to not shy and just wishing that I didn't have to pretend wanting to talk to them. LOL


Yes, 12th house sun

and yes to introversion vs shy. Capricorn placements are introverted, not shy

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posted January 05, 2016 04:44 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Spongebob     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by DopGang:
I don't think so.
One is related to fear/nervousness/awkwardness and one is a choice.
Well, put in extremely basic terms.

My opinion of course.


I don't think either is a choice. Introverts just prefer to not be around people constantly, thats just their natural temperament.

Shy can be feeling anxiety around people, yes.

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posted January 05, 2016 05:27 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for DopGang     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
^^^
True!
That's a better way to put it. Pretty much what I meant.

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