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posted January 05, 2016 07:17 AM            

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Are there any aspects/signs that in general make a female particularly appealing to the opposite sex? I know that this would vary depending on the unique individuals chart (as to what they are attracted to) but are there any generalities we can go off?

Would a heavy Pisces/Libra/Aries combo (in the sun/venus/moon and mars) make for a flirtatious person?

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posted January 05, 2016 07:32 AM            

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people with mars-venus aspects can be popular with both sexes.

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posted January 05, 2016 07:37 AM            

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I was going to say that just having lady parts will do it more often than not.

I agree, Venus/mars friendly aspect. Venus in first. Libra in my experience.
I'm sure several others.

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posted January 05, 2016 07:52 AM            

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So many Taurus moon females are very congenial from the start,,,, but I suppose maybe that could be turnoff to some these days >

I have no CLEAR recollection of have ever been anyone else so how do I remove bias?

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posted January 05, 2016 11:02 AM            

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Venus in the 1st - Definitely. They simply want to make their surroundings and themselves come off as appealing as they can, in a way that reminds me of the French philosophy on fashion. They don't need a lot, they just want to look their best in an elegant way.

Venus conjunct Mars - Naturally relates well with the opposite sex in that they blend feminine and the masculine.

Mercury sextile Venus - Charming/sociable, taste for style and possibly a pleasant speaking voice

Pisces sun women tend to have soft features that are found to be attractive in the opposite sex, the pisces I know have often have thin long limbs and pale or clear and even bright complexions.

Cancer rising people tend to have soft features and eyes which appeal to the opposite sex, even the men. I read that Cancer rising people can come off a bit mysterious because they are a bit more reserved and cautious which I think is true. Yet they also have a soft, nurturing air about them, and the fact that they often find themselves in the spotlight seems to attract people naturally.

Scorpio suns often tend to look great and take their appearances very seriously which is often part of their sexual appeal in my experience.

Intellectually, I can see sag rising and gemini sun people being attractive with wit and flirtatious natures. My Aquarius moon gives me a cool head which has definitely lent a hand in relating to the opposite sex throughout my life.

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posted January 05, 2016 11:27 AM            

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Ummm I have Venus trine Mars, but I'm not successful with the opposite sex, I've had only one boyfriend in my life (we're together since 2005), in my teen years I was invisible and I guess if I were in the market things wouldn't have changed much.

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posted January 05, 2016 11:29 AM            

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^^
Could be house placement AND I see that you have 6 rx planets.

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posted January 05, 2016 12:03 PM            

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Venus aspecting Neptune, Pisces Venus, 12H Venus

http://www.cafeastrology.com/natal/venusneptuneaspects.html

I have Venus-Neptune and have received more attention than my looks warranted. I think the whole matter is, if you're easygoing and friendly, it works wonders.

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posted January 05, 2016 12:12 PM            

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^^^
True for me as well. Venus/neptune And Venus 12th. Venus as my chart ruler which may play a role.
There has to be some delusion. I think I have the realistic view of myself and it's everyone else who's crazy.

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posted January 05, 2016 12:23 PM            

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LOL I know what you mean...well I'm fortunate that I picked up on it when I was younger...realized that my power to attract exceeded my power to keep the relationship going. So I learned to be very skeptical and dismissive of any attention I got. It's a long story though.

Came back to say CERES can be just as potent as Venus, if not moreso.

One of my best friends has Ceres right on her ASC, and she has had a few people (men) come up to her out of the blue asking if she's an angel. They're sincere. Her energy is very soothing.

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posted January 05, 2016 01:02 PM            

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I can be one of the guys without losing my feminine touch. Lets see I have Venus conjunct Uranus in the 8th, 8H stellium, Venus trine Mars 12H, Mars trine Uranus,

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posted January 05, 2016 03:02 PM            

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I think Venus in positive aspect to Neptune would work
Well I mean any positive aspect to another planet because it might be what your into

Venus aspectinf Mars is an aggressive sporty attractiveness
Venus aspectinf Pluto is a transformative obsessive deep attractiveness
And as for Venus Neptune which I would say tops the charts; it has that dreamy illusive quality where you just see what you want to.. Or atleast a little of what you want to. I have the square so I probably confuse people a lot lol

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posted January 05, 2016 03:11 PM            

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Hehe venus makes the tightest conjunctions in my cgart. I can't get away from women lol

Venus conjunct neptune 3 orb
Venus conjunct uranus 130 orb
Venus sextile Pluto 4 orb
Venus trine chrion
Venus parallel moon
Venus in 3H

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posted January 05, 2016 04:03 PM            

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Btw if youre a chick look at your Mars not Venus.. As it shows how you relate with your masculine energy

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posted January 05, 2016 04:40 PM            

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Originally posted by PaulMcFly:
Btw if youre a chick look at your Mars not Venus.. As it shows how you relate with your masculine energy

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I have all squares to my mars and I'm just fine with my masculine energy. My venus is relatively unafflicted by comparison and I'm definitely a tomboy although i wouldn't say i gave problems with my femininity; I'm just not feminine by nature.

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posted January 05, 2016 05:46 PM            

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Originally posted by DopGang:
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Could be house placement AND I see that you have 6 rx planets.

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Probably, Venus in Virgo, 3rd house and Mars in Capri, 8th house, not too exciting, right?
Venus also squares Saturn and my AS, and trine Neptune. Mars doesn't have important aspects. Ceres in Virgo, 3rd house, can I be more boring?

On second thought, the boy I had a crush on in my last senior year did notice me, he was way out of my league but we have a moment or two, maybe it was Venus-Neptune or maybe it was the alcohol, LOL.

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posted January 05, 2016 09:05 PM            

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All placements have there own charm. I agree with all venus-mars aspects being sexually dynamic because aspects between veus/mars show how you relate to the opposite sex -the trine and sextile indicate you relate very well indeed.
venus in virgo/mars in Capricorn is not very sexually dynamic or 'exciting' but they have a subtle, earthy reserved charm.

Does anyone know if venus and mars both in fire signs would make someone a flirt? What about venus trine uranus - i have heard that they are charming with the opposite sex.

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posted January 05, 2016 10:10 PM            

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I have them in fire signs buuut in the 8th and 12th so I don't flaunt it in public like the average flirt.

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posted January 05, 2016 10:22 PM            

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Sagittarius females are very popular with the opposite sex. I have Sag Sun / Venus. I have had a few close female friends. However, all my life guys and I tend to vibe better. We Sag are tomb-boys who have a feminine exterior yet a traditionally masculine mind. So we make attractive girlfriends or platonic friends to guys.

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posted January 05, 2016 10:31 PM            

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Moon/Venus gals. Boy, are they loved!

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posted January 05, 2016 11:23 PM            

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Venus/Mars aspects, even the square, can have this effect.

I also agree with Faith that Venus/Neptune aspects act this way too. I have the trine.

Pluto aspects to the ASC can have that effect too IME. Although it seems to garner attention from everybody, not just the opposite sex.

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posted January 05, 2016 11:32 PM            

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Asc-Aphrodite
Sun-Aphrodite
Mars-Aphrodite
Sun-Hera
Asc-Hera
Sun-Isis
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Venus-Asc
Venus-Sun
Venus-Neptune
Venus-Pluto
Venus-Uranus

Under 2 orb. Exact is the most powerful.

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posted January 06, 2016 02:21 AM            

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I'm not sure what draws the guys to me, could be many things, but an odd bit is I think my Sag stellium that was part of why I was a tomboy helped guys relate to me. Back in school I shared interests with them and they didn't have to second guess everything I said in trying to figure out what I was hinting as they would with many other girls.

I know one popular "guru" of a guy for women is full of it for many reasons, but one is that he said a man would never be looking at books beside you unless he wanted to talk to you, which was probably true of him but plenty of guys really are readers. I became good friends with one Sag guy (who'd have other planets in Sag as well) as we both visited the scifi/fantasy section of the library, and it was only natural that we'd sit to each other after that on the bus. He had many books of his own of that genre, so it's not like he just hung out there trying to get my digits, and he talked about many of his favorite series in detail. (We also related because his parents were hardcore alcoholics like mine were.)

The funny part that I'm still trying to figure out is that he had no charm with the girls, which I think was partly because he was so immersed in the same media I was (which affected our romantic and gender paradigms differently from most others around us and no doubt helped us take each other in stride more--and neither of us thought it strange when I paid his way into the movies once as I had money and he didn't ) but he just had a lot of habits that would seem strange (which to me made him interesting, but to most girls worried about their social image and being judged by their guy, it would be a turn off, even if they found him attractive). We even started "dating" without either of us seeming to grasp the idea of it...our relationship was still the same, but we called each other boy/girlfriend. And strangely (the part I'm not sure why this was so), this suddenly made him cooler to guys and girls both, and eventually another girl would steal him from me...and I was okay with that, but when she demanded that he drop me as a friend as well he kicked her to the curb for trying to dominate him...and because I was far more interesting while he found her obsession with clothes, makeup, traditional dating games, and all that boring, even annoying.

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posted January 06, 2016 04:01 AM            

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Originally posted by DopGang:
I was going to say that just having lady parts will do it more often than not.

I agree, Venus/mars friendly aspect. Venus in first. Libra in my experience.
I'm sure several others.

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I was going to say Sun, Moon, Venus, Mars in any of the 12 signs....and nice boobs. I've found that makes them quite popular.

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posted January 06, 2016 04:04 AM            

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Originally posted by Bluejay:
I was going to say Sun, Moon, Venus, Mars in any of the 12 signs....and nice boobs. I've found that makes them quite popular.

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Ive seen people act way crazier over a nice butt than boobs, you'd be surprised. People tend to not openly admit that the way they feel comfortable admitting they like **** tho

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