posted January 21, 2016 09:18 PM            

Probably because i have mars in a female sign (cancer) and moon conjunct pluto and mars square pluto.

posted January 21, 2016 11:17 PM            

Hmm... When I was working as a nurse, holy hell I really didn't get along with most of the women I met in that field though. It was ok with some of the younger ones and most of the men. I don't know if it was typical of the nursing culture, after all I only worked in that field for a while before I got out and never looked back.

posted January 21, 2016 11:21 PM            

I enjoy to have a good relationship with women and men. Women and men are different but I find almost everyone interesting.

posted January 22, 2016 01:32 AM            

Who I get along with depends on personality, not gender.

posted January 22, 2016 02:00 AM            

But it seems that I gravitate more to women than men at work.

I tend to find women to be better conversationalists than men generally.

I attribute this to Moon in 3rd on the cusp of the 4th. Mars in Libra on the cusp of the 7th.

Generally I have observed that masculine Moon sign women don't get on with other females.

And men with feminine/neutral sign Mars are often seen as "soft" or "too emotional" by other guys. Cap Mars seems to be an exception to this.

posted January 22, 2016 02:04 AM            

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Originally posted by 12muddy:
Hmm... When I was working as a nurse, holy hell I really didn't get along with most of the women I met in that field though. It was ok with some of the younger ones and most of the men. I don't know if it was typical of the nursing culture, after all I only worked in that field for a while before I got out and never looked back.

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Sadly, it is typical of that field. I'm in the process of getting out of it myself and going back to school.

To the OP:

posted January 22, 2016 02:19 AM            

And another general rule is that the women I get especially close to tend not to get along with other women (sometimes neither women nor men) as they're quirky and quite odd, but accepting oddness in others (otherwise, we wouldn't be close since those who do get that close to me realize I'm pretty odd myself).

Also of note, the reason I usually don't get very close with guys (or not for long) is because other women (wife, SO, etc) gets jealous or otherwise feels threatened by me. Though one guy's wife was very friendly to me, yet she kept saying things that made me realize she felt threatened by me, and her new husband (an old friend of mine) just cut off all contact with me without explanation, and I'm sure it was his wife that made him do so. He and I had been good friends up until then, and I'd even encouraged him to marry her as I thought she was a good woman for him who wouldn't mistreat him as his previous wives had done. Damn the insecurities of people.

posted January 22, 2016 02:55 AM            

Generally I'm finding that you can have much deeper conversations with women then with men.

Its mutually beneficial to have someone you can trust to talk and listen to, just makes both peoples day better

I work with mostly science/engineering types so its almost pure ego for the Males that work in that field, its almost as if its an Athletic competition.

My Cappy ascendant would like something with some status, but I think it gets tiresome.

Rarely can I openly admit and show my faults with guys.

At least with women you can have that close friendship were your not afraid to show your faults. If shes comfortable enough and trust you she might do the same.

Maybe its my solar return because I would normally be saying otherwise.

posted January 22, 2016 06:01 AM            

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Originally posted by StubbornVirgo:
Sadly, it is typical of that field. I'm in the process of getting out of it myself and going back to school.

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Well no wonder why the turnover rate is high. I thought of staying, but then I thought "Oh well, life is too short to spend on this crp".

posted January 22, 2016 09:03 AM            

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Originally posted by Southern Sun:
I love men and I strive to surround myself with the outcasts and oddball dudes, because I am a very jealous Leo female!

Cancer rules my house of adversaries, and moon is in the house of hidden enemies, so yeah.... I usually don't have good relations with women. Unless you and I click very well and become longtime acquaintances, like a few girls I used to know in high school.

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Please don't pin that on all Leo women. Im not a jealous hearted woman at all; i prefer men because generally women are jerks to me. I don't seek out outcasted men out of jealousy either. I do like unusual men, but thats because i have so much in common with them, not because of some strange insecurity or belief that no on else would want them (which is most certainly a lie) so then my place is secure as the center of their universe.

posted January 22, 2016 09:21 AM            

Natal Placements:

posted January 22, 2016 11:53 AM            

Men on the other hand are usually more laid back. If they have an issue with someone, they'll say it and then be done with it. I've always been a bit of a tomboy. I played a lot of sports growing up and I find guys are just easier to be myself around. With girls I feel like I have to always be 'on' or else they'll judge me, unless I'm already good friends with them.

posted January 22, 2016 05:05 PM            

Men I usually don't feel comfortable with but most people would never know because I have had a lot of male friends... When I get to know them I'm comfortable but when we are just acquaintences it's a little off

But yeah I would be friends with either. Once we are friends and have hung out a few times it's a piece of cake

posted January 22, 2016 07:23 PM            

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