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Topic: What aspects makes someone dislike you?
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wwfbader
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posted January 29, 2016 02:08 PM
  
On a first impression kind of thing?I've noticed Sagittarius never really get along with me for some absolute random reason. IP: Logged |
Faith
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posted January 29, 2016 05:30 PM
Hmm...Sometimes Aquarius suns feel abrasive to me, just in real life, not online. I'm not sure if they dislike me personally or if that's their usual demeanor. Synastry: I have a Leo ASC, 0 Leo Saturn, Scorpio Uranus, Taurus/Scorpio nodal axis possibly turning them off. (?) IP: Logged |
LaceyLeigh
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posted January 29, 2016 05:37 PM
Are you asking about synastry or natal aspects?IP: Logged |
wwfbader
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posted January 29, 2016 05:55 PM
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Ami Anne
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posted January 29, 2016 06:02 PM
Someone's Mars touching your Moon in hard aspect, which includes conjunction, in this case
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LaceyLeigh
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posted January 29, 2016 06:28 PM
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Originally posted by wwfbader:
synastry aspects
Hard Saturn aspects. Usually Saturn finds the planet person annoying. Mercury squaring Mars aspects, the Mars doesn't like how the Mercury person communicates. IP: Logged |
Dreaminess
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posted January 29, 2016 06:52 PM
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Originally posted by LaceyLeigh:
Hard Saturn aspects. Usually Saturn finds the planet person annoying. Mercury squaring Mars aspects, the Mars doesn't like how the Mercury person communicates.
"Mercury squaring Mars aspects, the Mars doesn't like how the Mercury person communicates."
me and my friend got that aspect. i`m mercury and she is mars and i am the one that finds her actions irritating and stupid while she can be annoyed with what i say, but when she has gotten herself into a stupid place bc of her impulsive actions then she suddenly wants my thoughts on matters, lol. IP: Logged |
Desiring Shadows
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posted January 29, 2016 06:58 PM
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PixieJane
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posted January 29, 2016 07:03 PM
It's not dislike, but for some strange reason, I have never gotten close to a Gemini sun, and I think it's just that no Gemini sun has ever felt like trying. This mystifies me as I've been (and am) close to a surprising number of Gemini ASC. IP: Logged |
Dreaminess
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posted January 29, 2016 07:06 PM
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Originally posted by wwfbader:
On a first impression kind of thing?I've noticed Sagittarius never really get along with me for some absolute random reason.
You might be too serious for them? Sagittarius people esp those with strong sag influence don't like too much seriousness. IP: Logged |
ChildofVenus
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posted January 30, 2016 10:47 AM
How is she your friend if you think her actions are irritating? quote:
Originally posted by Dreaminess:
"Mercury squaring Mars aspects, the Mars doesn't like how the Mercury person communicates." me and my friend got that aspect. i`m mercury and she is mars and i am the one that finds her actions irritating and stupid while she can be annoyed with what i say, but when she has gotten herself into a stupid place bc of her impulsive actions then she suddenly wants my thoughts on matters, lol.
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Dreaminess
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posted January 30, 2016 11:09 AM
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Originally posted by ChildofVenus:
How is she your friend if you think her actions are irritating?
Don't you have any friends that can be irritating? lol. But i`ve known her since childhood and we have always had a friendship with a lot of debates and arguments. But i am getting very fed up with her impulsive actions. IP: Logged |
Violets
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posted January 30, 2016 11:29 AM
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Originally posted by LaceyLeigh:
Hard Saturn aspects. Usually Saturn finds the planet person annoying. Mercury squaring Mars aspects, the Mars doesn't like how the Mercury person communicates.
I agree. I was just about to say something to that extent. I would also add Pluto to that equation. IP: Logged |
ChildofVenus
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posted January 30, 2016 11:50 AM
So basically you can't be friends with someone who you have hard Saturn aspects with?
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Originally posted by Violets:
I agree. I was just about to say something to that extent. I would also add Pluto to that equation.
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Violets
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posted January 30, 2016 11:56 AM
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Originally posted by ChildofVenus:
So basically you can't be friends with someone who you have hard Saturn aspects with?
Uh...I don't think it's that simple, exactly. It would probably depend on whether or not there are other mitigating factors in the synastry, like a pleasant Venus/Moon, or Venus/Venus aspect. It would also depend on whether or not you had only one of those aspects with someone, or a list of them. IP: Logged |
ChildofVenus
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posted January 30, 2016 12:21 PM
What about Venus/Jupiter, Venus/Neptune or Pluto trine Moon?
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Originally posted by Violets:
Uh...I don't think it's that simple, exactly.It would probably depend on whether or not there are other mitigating factors in the synastry, like a pleasant Venus/Moon, or Venus/Venus aspect. It would also depend on whether or not you had only one of those aspects with someone, or a list of them.
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Violets
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posted January 30, 2016 01:02 PM
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Originally posted by ChildofVenus:
What about Venus/Jupiter, Venus/Neptune or Pluto trine Moon?
I don't know, lol. I would have to examine my synastry with every person I know.  Pluto trine Moon helps a lot, ime.
And nice Jupiter/Sun aspects, so I don't know why Jupiter/Venus wouldn't help with a difficult synastry. But there are a lot of people here who know a lot more about astrology than I do! IP: Logged |
Spongebob
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posted January 30, 2016 03:37 PM
Saturn aspecting another persons inner planets or luminaries can make them want to try and suppress them or crush them in some way, its really nasty energy unless theres other things in the synastry to outweigh or mitigate it.Hard pluto aspects in synastry can do the same. I avoid these folks. Personal quirk - leo ascendants, i don't like them. They seem to expect everybody to quake in fear and reverence of them, and being a leo sun with an aqua rising, i don't really go for that sort of thing. They can sense that and usually hate me on sight because they know im not impressed and don't fear them and call tell how full of BS they are LOL IP: Logged |
lalalinda
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posted January 30, 2016 08:28 PM
A Saturn and Mars inner active conjunction.Saturn usually doesn't like Mars. Sometimes it's vice versa. ------------------
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hypatia238
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posted January 31, 2016 12:58 AM
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Originally posted by ChildofVenus:
How is she your friend if you think her actions are irritating?
Well my partner annoys me sometimes and for a moment I want to honestly strangle him but he also makes me laugh like crazy.. My mom annoys me like crazy but I do love her and admire a lot certain things about her. Sometimes you can't stand certain aspects of someone but admire a lot certain things about them...sometimes the people you admire the most are also the people who irritate you the most. Sometimes you have a friend and feel really annoyed about certain things about them but still care for them bc you have a history and many memories together and are like sisters... TBH anyone you have a real intimate relationship with that you know really well and spend a lot of time with or have known for years will annoy you at times I think. Like my current best friend I don't find annoying at all but if we moved in together right now and spend all our time together we would probably annoy each other sometimes... IP: Logged |
nordicsoul
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posted January 31, 2016 07:05 AM
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Originally posted by LaceyLeigh:
Hard Saturn aspects. Usually Saturn finds the planet person annoying. Mercury squaring Mars aspects, the Mars doesn't like how the Mercury person communicates.
a guy-colleague has his saturn hitting literally all my personall planets.. he got so annoyed by anything i do, say, or the fact that I exist... IP: Logged |
LaceyLeigh
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posted January 31, 2016 10:14 AM
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Originally posted by nordicsoul:
a guy-colleague has his saturn hitting literally all my personall planets.. he got so annoyed by anything i do, say, or the fact that I exist...
Sorry to hear that. Saturn can either be really good or really bad. Regardless of the aspects in their synastry, certain people just don't mesh well with eachother, and some people (possibly like your guy) can just be annoyed by everything and everyone. IP: Logged |
LaceyLeigh
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posted January 31, 2016 10:17 AM
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Originally posted by Dreaminess:
"Mercury squaring Mars aspects, the Mars doesn't like how the Mercury person communicates." me and my friend got that aspect. i`m mercury and she is mars and i am the one that finds her actions irritating and stupid while she can be annoyed with what i say, but when she has gotten herself into a stupid place bc of her impulsive actions then she suddenly wants my thoughts on matters, lol.
Mars is action. You find her actions to be irritating and she finds the way you express that to her to be a nuisance. IP: Logged |
wwfbader
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posted January 31, 2016 05:30 PM
I was surprised to see sun square ascendant wasn't mentioned. Isn't that a thing too?IP: Logged |
hypatia238
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posted January 31, 2016 09:50 PM
What about their mars squaring your venus? The way Mars asserts themselves annoys the venus person, venus feels mars is too pushy or self centered or aggressive.Yet that aspect also creates attraction. Its why I love me venus trine mars double whammy! But I do like certain squares like Venus or Mars square my Sun. IP: Logged |
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