posted February 10, 2016 11:23 AM            

Example, if he's sitting with you and talking. Just be on your phone, no eye contact, no expression no matter what he says and answer as shortly as possible. "Yes, no, maybe, I guess so...."

posted February 10, 2016 12:19 PM            

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Originally posted by Electro DGX:
I'll try to give some of my own advice.

Just become super boring and stubborn. Don't sound like your interested in anything he has to say, and annoy him to the point where he's disgusted with you. My sister has a Gemini Venus Conjunct Mars, and typically whenever she pesters me with doing something I don't want her to, she'll ask why and I'll just repeat myself over and OVER again lol. Cut him off and don't talk to him ever. Act like he doesn't exist, or that you're just invisible so that he doesn't sound interested in you.

That's all I can think of. Getting people off my back though has never been difficult, it's usually the opposite for me lol. Hopefully this helps

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posted February 10, 2016 12:26 PM            

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Originally posted by DopGang:
Agree with most things said so far.

Example, if he's sitting with you and talking. Just be on your phone, no eye contact, no expression no matter what he says and answer as shortly as possible. "Yes, no, maybe, I guess so...."

If you ignore completely then I think that shows him that he gets to you. I think you need to be uninteresting and uninterested.

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Interesting. My Gemini friend (she has a Leo moon) said that if I ignore him like I've been doing, he's still getting my attention - even though it's negative attention.

I tried to be mean and flirted with other men around him, including his friends. Didn't work. On the contrary, he couldn't stop staring and got even more interested

posted February 17, 2016 12:15 AM            

Clear, blunt, and straight to the point.

Hey you got it, Sagittarius.
Heard that loud and clear.

Learned my lesson.
lol

I'm a Gemini by the way. So.. you know, this whole thing is about a Gemini. Even though I'm sure were different because not every same sign is the same.

It could work for you? Lol, who knows?

It worked for her.

I don't know what sign you are but you could try to be as blunt as possible. You said you flirted with his friends but that's kinda, you know, beating around the bush. Not really taking care of the situation.

Just getting annoyed or ignoring him isn't exactly communicating to him that you DO NOT WANT TO ASSOCIATE WITH HIM ANYMORE. You need to get that across to him some how.

I pushed her to the point of having to learn the hard way. Maybe that's what you need to do too.

Think of him as like a piece of string and you're the scissors.(Not literally, for the love of holy God) It ain't a piece of string anymore is it? No it is 2 pieces of string but the point is that you cut it off. It isn't whole anymore.

Get the picture Miss Filcaklenagan?

posted February 17, 2016 12:50 AM            

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Originally posted by darksoul18:
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It could work for you? Lol, who knows?

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Thats why I didn't want to suggest that course of action because it's 50/50. Until thers more info on the guy ex natal chart, I wouldn't suggest anything to hastefully.

If he has some earth in his chart it will make him more stubborn and determine.

Remember, he keeps coming back to her. If it was me I whould have moved on and ran off once I know its a lost cause or its a sinking ship.

My assumption is:

1. He has some water or earth in this chart that makes him not give up so easily.

2. There's something you're doing that makes you unique and attractive to him. I dont know im not him I can only assume.

Hmm... Im thinking of Kaley cucoo, also a sag. She has some attractive elements, but the ditzyness just makes me want to run.

posted February 17, 2016 12:57 AM            

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Originally posted by DualGem:
Thats why I didn't want to suggest that course of action because it's 50/50. Until thers more info on the guy ex natal chart, I wouldn't suggest anything to hastefully.

If he has some earth in his chart it will make him more stubborn and determine.

Remember, he keeps coming back to her. If it was me I whould have moved on and ran off once I know its a lost cause or its a sinking ship.

My assumption is:

1. He has some water or earth in this chart that makes him not give up so easily.

2. There's something you're doing that makes you unique and attractive. I dont know im not him I can only assume.

Im also a gem.

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Hey I understand my friend. I was just giving her an alternative since she seems to be exhausted with trying to do this. haha

You're right though that more info would help about the individual.

But, seriously? though? If she tells him to eff off and THAT DOESN'T send a clear message then in my opinion this has then proceeded into an even bigger problem. At that point, especially being a girl, I'd probably, hell I don't know.... (sips glass of water) *coughs*.. get the officials involved? Isn't that harassment?

posted February 17, 2016 01:04 AM            

Maybe she should just give in, get boring or get ditzty and then he'll run, lol.

posted February 17, 2016 01:06 AM            

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Originally posted by DualGem:
He has a scorpio moon. So that could be where some of the possessiveness is coming from.

Maybe she should just give in, get boring or get ditzty and then he'll run, lol.

I say upload the chart.

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I understand where you're coming from but seriously though. I think that's kind of using astrology as an excuse almost.... I mean,

She just told him to f*** off!(hypothetically of course, I mean it hasn't happened yet, although I wish it would! lol) It should be over at that point.

Unless I'm missing something? Lmao

posted February 17, 2016 01:12 AM            

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Originally posted by darksoul18:
I understand where you're coming from but seriously though. I think that's kind of using astrology as an excuse almost.... I mean,

She just told him to f*** off!(hypothetically of course, I mean it hasn't happened yet, although I wish it would! lol) It should be over at that point.

Unless I'm missing something? Lmao

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Depends on how you view astrology.
He most likely has some earth in this chart then.

posted February 17, 2016 01:15 AM            

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Originally posted by DualGem:
Depends on how you view astrology.
He most likely has some earth in this chart then.

Resistance doesn't work if his venus or mars is in a more stubborn placement.

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My Venus is in Taurus lol.... I got the picture(given it wasn't easy for her to get rid of me)....I eventually stopped trying.. lol, I don't know. I suppose you are right that the chart can have a huge bearing. We don't know who we are dealing with here. I'm a nice guy. This guy could be the biggest swinging dick in the world though.

posted February 17, 2016 01:20 AM            

Dude, hell ya dude. That'll work. 2 Geminis minds together (wait a minute that's 4).... I think we could probably crack into Fort Knox.

posted February 17, 2016 01:25 AM            

Well, if that backfires then....

Restraining order?

Lmfao..... not exactly a drawn plan... but I mean effective, no?

posted February 17, 2016 01:27 AM            

Learns karate?

Repeats kicking him in balls?

Punches him in the face?

Breaks his arm off and then pelts him over the head with it. (dear lord...)

Wait, violence is not the answer....

Ummm.....

Okay, okay, I think I got it.... this poor girl has been absolutely embarrassed by this dickhead? Right?

She should do the same to him some how. That's if, you know, the whole eff off thing backfires.

She needs to just give him the cold hard truth then and absolutely just bash on this guy hardcore. Make him feel pathetic... I mean, that's what a lot of girls do? Right? It can work. In theory.... wait a minute...that's not a good idea.

posted February 17, 2016 01:30 AM            

Let's wait tell the chart is uploaded that way we know what were dealing with.

posted February 17, 2016 01:45 AM            

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Good idea... I used to play Diablo 1, 2, and 3... I probably will again some day but I love RPGs and I play smash brothers casually with my friend and Hearthstone. I like Halo, racing games, Fallout, Mortal Kombat, Splinter Cell and stuff like that. I've always been a pretty big gamer.

Warthunder? hmm.. I've heard of it... What's the play style like? Can you compare it to anything?

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posted February 17, 2016 02:23 AM            

In the lowest and most unattractive manifestation of this energy, Gemini playfulness becomes cruel and manipulative, combined with a sly vindictiveness - courtesy of scorpio moon. Like a cat playing with a mouse, but secretly. What triggers this nastiness? - Intense inner rage, jealousy and anguish resulting from feelings of being undervalued, rejected or envious.

You only make it worse if you do anything to encourage this person feel even more undervalued, rejected or envious. They are capable of undermining and exacting revenge in the most despicable and underhand manner imaginable.

Don't fuel their fire through confrontation. Rather use avoidance tactics as far as possible. If that does not work - go for a restraining order (but that could backfire on you too due to the underhand nature of this energy).

posted February 17, 2016 06:24 AM            

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Originally posted by Electro DGX:
I'll try to give some of my own advice.

Just become super boring and stubborn. Don't sound like your interested in anything he has to say, and annoy him to the point where he's disgusted with you.

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Yes exactly. It may take a while. It'll take persistence and determination.
Somewhere I read 20 things that indicate that you're dating a loser and how to get out of an abusive relationship.
This was one of the main tactics. One that I've used myself. It takes time though and willpower to keep it up no matter how difficult it gets.

posted February 17, 2016 12:09 PM            

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Originally posted by DopGang:
Yes exactly. It may take a while. It'll take persistence and determination.
Somewhere I read 20 things that indicate that you're dating a loser and how to get out of an abusive relationship.
This was one of the main tactics. One that I've used myself. It takes time though and willpower to keep it up no matter how difficult it gets.

(I know your not dating and it's not a physically abusive relationship but he is subtly being emotionally abusive)

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How interesting. Didn't know it was a tactic in a book or article; I just learned from experience out of all the times she annoys me lol.

As for the OP; if I were to be honest though, I can highly relate to the annoying someone to get a reaction. I do that to my sister all the time and personally it's for humor. I do have a 8th house Gemini moon though, so I may be able to provide some sort of insight on what this Gemini Sun/Scorpio Moon person may do.