posted February 09, 2016 07:34 PM            

As with all people, despite their astrology charts, just tell him you're not interested. Ignore his calls. Don't respond to him. Cut off all contact.

posted February 09, 2016 07:47 PM            

Tell your family & friends he might use to get to you that you want nothing to do with him.

Tell him to leave you alone and that it's not open to discussion or debate, and don't let him tell you otherwise (that is when he insists you talk to him, do whatever it takes to be left alone, including a call to the police about a guy who won't leave you alone). If he's persistent, then start documenting it (documenting can help you to do the right thing rather than the nice thing). If he gets worse, you might be able to get a restraining order against him.

If you work or share classes with him, then it's more complicated. You might even have to suck it up for awhile. Life isn't perfect and often isn't fair, and ******** won't hesitate to exploit that fact. Of course, you could consider playing dirty as well (I made one guy too terrified to contact me again after I had some very rough people, courtesy of a friend of mine, make it clear I was through with his crap, and if he kept pushing then he was going to get hurt).

posted February 09, 2016 08:13 PM            

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Originally posted by socialgraffiti:
•Don't communicate with them any longer.
•Ignore them, or if you have to speak with them, make your words as short and dry as possible.
•Don't waste time playing into games.
•Be clear and direct about your lack of interest.

Unevolved Gemini gets energy off of manipulating people and triggering reactions.

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posted February 09, 2016 08:17 PM            

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Originally posted by polkadotstars:
He doesn't let you ignore him? He probably thinks you're interested because you keep going back to talking to him.

As with all people, despite their astrology charts, just tell him you're not interested. Ignore his calls. Don't respond to him. Cut off all contact.

That should do it.

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It's hard to explain. He sits close to me when he has the chance, speaks louder (considerably louder) when I'm around and if all that doesn't work to call my attention, he'll talk about me to his friends. Like in front of me. It's annoying as hell.

He does think I'm interested because I still was when we broke up. Plus he has a huge ego, if you look at him he thinks you're interested.

posted February 09, 2016 08:23 PM            

After I did all to get rid of him, he still came back. My Dad asked him to leave me alone, but he didn't listen. I did documenting and made a written agreement, I sent to his home, so his parents read it. That day he texted my Dad that he didn't love me anymore, and I am FREE since that day.

posted February 09, 2016 08:24 PM            

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posted February 09, 2016 08:27 PM            

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Originally posted by PixieJane:
Block him on social media and in all ways that you can.

Tell your family & friends he might use to get to you that you want nothing to do with him.

Tell him to leave you alone and that it's not open to discussion or debate, and don't let him tell you otherwise (that is when he insists you talk to him, do whatever it takes to be left alone, including a call to the police about a guy who won't leave you alone). If he's persistent, then start documenting it (documenting can help you to do the right thing rather than the nice thing). If he gets worse, you might be able to get a restraining order against him.

If you work or share classes with him, then it's more complicated. You might even have to suck it up for awhile. Life isn't perfect and often isn't fair, and ******** won't hesitate to exploit that fact. Of course, you could consider playing dirty as well (I made one guy too terrified to contact me again after I had some very rough people, courtesy of a friend of mine, make it clear I was through with his crap, and if he kept pushing then he was going to get hurt).

Just beware the infamous Gemini deviousness (and gossip). The one good thing is that they tend to get bored and should have plenty of other people to switch his attentions over to. I'm actually surprised a Gemini would be this much of a problem (unless you're forced to work together in a class or office or some such) and wonder what else is going on in his chart.

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We work together...yeah, I know about the gossip. He made my life a living hell. His friends, who happen to be my co-workers, know DETAILS about my private life. 2015 was by far the worst year of my life...I have to stand them gossiping and throwing hints at me.

He gets bored easily, but he comes back. Just when I thought it was over he pops back.

posted February 09, 2016 08:28 PM            

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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
What is his Moon?

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posted February 09, 2016 08:34 PM            

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Originally posted by hearttreasure:
I've been in the same place.

After I did all to get rid of him, he still came back. My Dad asked him to leave me alone, but he didn't listen. I did documenting and made a written agreement, I sent to his home, so his parents read it. That day he texted my Dad that he didn't love me anymore, and I am FREE since that day.

Beware to their tendency to gossip without truth if you hurt them, I've been there, it's nasty. Can't believe how negative their thoughts if you hear one about you.

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posted February 09, 2016 08:38 PM            

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Originally posted by 12muddy:
Everyone gave good advices. Cut off all contacts. Don't talk, don't give any piece of info that can be used against you. Don't let him see your emotions. Don't "play" his games. This is the safest option, imo.

Or do what I did - tear them a new one. Although I don't think that it was the best course of action, it certainly did the trick. When she saw that things got intense and couldn't handle the rocks thrown back to her, she backed off.

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posted February 09, 2016 08:54 PM            

I think if you have to stay at this job, chances are that you'll have to continue to tough it out. When he unblocks you and talks to you, don't chit chat or answer personal questions.

Tell him to keep it strictly business. Communicate only about work-related stuff. Ignore everything else. If he gets "abusive" or start harassing you, keep a file of that. Hell, what he and his little band did is bullying in my eyes.

posted February 09, 2016 08:56 PM            

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Originally posted by prettyinpink:
I didn't think I'd have to take drastic measures. At least for now I prefer not to. Oh yeah, the gossip. My reputation is in pieces already.

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lol. Yeah, it was my last weapon because my emotional side almost damage by his actions over and over again. The loop didn't stop in 2 years and a half. I deserve happiness and a person who support me, not someone who only feed his own ego.

posted February 09, 2016 09:03 PM            

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Originally posted by 12muddy:
I'm sorry for what you're going through. Reading that made me cringe a little.

I think if you have to stay at this job, chances are that you'll have to continue to tough it out. When he unblocks you and talks to you, don't chit chat or answer personal questions.

Tell him to keep it strictly business. Communicate only about work-related stuff. Ignore everything else. If he gets "abusive" or start harassing you, keep a file of that. Hell, what he and his little band did is bullying in my eyes.

You'll get through this.

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posted February 09, 2016 09:10 PM            

A Gemini with SCorpio Moon is a very different Gemini lol

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posted February 09, 2016 09:14 PM            

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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
WOW

A Gemini with SCorpio Moon is a very different Gemini lol

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indeed

posted February 09, 2016 09:23 PM            

Edit:

Oops, I was just reacting to the thread title, and kidding.

posted February 09, 2016 09:26 PM            

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Originally posted by Faith:
Have you tried voodoo yet?

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posted February 10, 2016 03:48 AM            

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Originally posted by socialgraffiti:

Unevolved Gemini gets energy off of manipulating people and triggering reactions.

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Somewhat true. If the gem is unsure about anything its a way to test to figure out what to do next.

For example if I meet someone new I will act really nice and friendly, if the person tries to take advantage of my niceness I know immediately not to trust the person and distance myself.

Another Example Battle Of Midday, it was a Taurus mathematician that figured out the surprise attack( He must have had a Gemini Mercury or Gemini Aspects), what he did was so Gemini!!!.

Sent a blunt message "Midway needs water" the Japanese took the bait and responded "AG requested for water".

I tend to disagree with the above advice.
Most of it will trigger a negative response.

My best advice is to have him loose interest.

See if he can start a new project at work that's new and exciting. Or how about a new activity that would conflict with seeing with you.

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Gemini Sun,
Capricorn Rising
Aries Moon
Gemini Mercury
Venus Taurus
Mars Cancer

posted February 10, 2016 04:38 AM            

Take his calls.

1. Say hello, then put the phone down (don't hang up), come back to it five minutes later...

2. If he calls your desk at work, always, always make him hold...then make the conversation brief.

a. Oh, someone is on the other line, lemme call you back - don't call back
b. Can't talk in the middle of something, lemme call you back - don't call back

posted February 10, 2016 09:55 AM            

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Originally posted by Nine:
Went through something similar with a Gemini. I just made a commitment to never speak to them EVER again. Tough it out!!

Take his calls.

1. Say hello, then put the phone down (don't hang up), come back to it five minutes later...

2. If he calls your desk at work, always, always make him hold...then make the conversation brief.

a. Oh, someone is on the other line, lemme call you back - don't call back
b. Can't talk in the middle of something, lemme call you back - don't call back

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posted February 10, 2016 09:57 AM            

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Originally posted by DualGem:
Somewhat true. If the gem is unsure about anything its a way to test to figure out what to do next.

For example if I meet someone new I will act really nice and friendly, if the person tries to take advantage of my niceness I know immediately not to trust the person and distance myself.

Another Example Battle Of Midday, it was a Taurus mathematician that figured out the surprise attack( He must have had a Gemini Mercury or Gemini Aspects), what he did was so Gemini!!!.

Sent a blunt message "Midway needs water" the Japanese took the bait and responded "AG requested for water".

I tend to disagree with the above advice.
Most of it will trigger a negative response.

My best advice is to have him loose interest.

See if he can start a new project at work that's new and exciting. Or how about a new activity that would conflict with seeing with you.

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Gemini Sun,
Capricorn Rising
Aries Moon
Gemini Mercury
Venus Taurus
Mars Cancer

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posted February 10, 2016 10:16 AM            

Just become super boring and stubborn. Don't sound like your interested in anything he has to say, and annoy him to the point where he's disgusted with you. My sister has a Gemini Venus Conjunct Mars, and typically whenever she pesters me with doing something I don't want her to, she'll ask why and I'll just repeat myself over and OVER again lol. Cut him off and don't talk to him ever. Act like he doesn't exist, or that you're just invisible so that he doesn't sound interested in you.