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jadave
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posted February 13, 2016 02:20 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for jadave     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
how does being "inlove" feel for your venus / venus aspects? And what's your 7th house placement?

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PixieJane
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posted February 13, 2016 09:38 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for PixieJane     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
It's very similar, though distinct, from my closest friendships (and most of the time those I fall in love with come from close friendships, and even when it doesn't, then it grows into a friendship first, even if we're having sex before I'm in love). I'll have to think about how to articulate the distinction.

My Venus is in a 3H stellium sextile 5H stellium which helps keep it airy and fun. My 7H is Aquarius which is probably the biggest reason that I am this way.

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Desiring Shadows
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posted February 13, 2016 10:10 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Desiring Shadows     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Usually I have to be friends or know someone for a while or think they're hot or be able to relate to them on a sensitive level ,.. for me to develop feelings. And even then they can change.
Distance usually helps. Or extreme closeness... (Which is odd)

My Venus squares Neptune and sometimes the little things have to be perfect for me to not freak out
Like I made plans to hang with some friends (hours in advance) I get to my friends house to pick him up and he calls me and says "hold on, I'm going to take a quick shower."
Like what the tuck? We made plans IN ADVANCE for a reason. You are wasting MY TIME and if this was a job you would so be fired.
Geez..

So what I basically did was left his house and went and picked up both of my other friends first and then I went back to his house. Which should teach him a lesson so hopefully he doesn't pull that ridiculousness again.

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Desiring Shadows
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posted February 13, 2016 10:12 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Desiring Shadows     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Also .. What I just talked about wasn't love.

When I'm in love I am constantly texting, calling, sending pictures, commenting you.. Etc
Or I am talking about you
Or thinking about you
Or spending lots of time with you

I'm known to being clingy
So yeah. I like to be close ^^

Moon+Jupiter 7th Sagittarius

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12muddy
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posted February 13, 2016 10:46 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for 12muddy     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
A bit like being drunk. It dulls my sensibility somewhat, and it makes me overestimate myself. Lowers my restraints, makes me believe. Like when I'm drunk and I *believe* I can leap over that great big puddle in the middle of the road. Sometimes I crash face first, sometimes I find that I really can do what I thought I'd never be able to.

It also feels like getting on a train back to childhood when once I tried to "fly" and broke my leg. And thought it wast totally worth it, because for a few moments I really did "fly". Uncomplicated, simple, child-like.

12th house cap venus.

Jupiter in the 7th.

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Julz87
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posted February 14, 2016 01:48 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Julz87     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
For me its like 12Muddy as well - I have Jupiter in the 7th & Venus in the 12th as well.

Its like i can take on the world and I feel a sense of strength etc..

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Faith
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posted February 14, 2016 10:02 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Faith     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
muddy, that is one of the best posts I've ever read here!!

For me, let's see...

To simplify, I'll say that I was only in love three times...

First love felt like coming home, meeting the one I was Destined for, everything was right with the world, birds even sang their approval as we passed by, auras would shine brighter, synchronicities would abound, because the force of our connection purified everything in our vicinity. As you may surmise, it was slightly too good to be true for long. LOL

Second love felt like someone invaded my soul, almost without my permission. I loved not feeling lonely anymore...I hated feeling that he had the upper hand.

Third love, my husband, felt like....this is it, here we go. My husband is the only man I ever pursued. In those early days, I was utterly infatuated, intoxicated, enchanted...mind blown that someone that cool/smart/hot existed.

As we got into a relationship, problems set in, the infatuation gave way to "Uh oh, should not have done this!" but still couldn't shake the feeling that we were supposed to keep going.

After many years of marriage, it's ever-changing, so how I feel this month is not the same as last month. Basically, when it's good it feels like true happiness and gratitude to be together. I love that he gives me space to figure life out on my own terms. It would be nice if he cared more about what I'm learning...maybe someday.

5H Sag Venus conjunct Neptune
Venus sextile Aqua Mercury on the DSC
No planets in the 7H

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Geeky
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posted February 14, 2016 06:23 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Geeky     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Oh boy...I have Venus in Scorpio, conjunct Mars, square Jupiter. Virgo sun.

However, that Venus is Scorpio is only at 2 degrees Scorpio and I feel a lot of Libra influence even though some would say that is not on the cusp, I feel it. Maybe more so because my Mars is in Libra.

In any case, how does love feel to me? I experience different types and different levels.

Unconditional Love - This is easier with people I am not in a relationship with or with exes. These people will always be in my heart, and I will think of them often, but there are no strings. They can disappear for weeks, months, or years at a time and come back and I am never nasty. I don't hold a grudge or keep a scorecard. It usually involves Pluto conjunct my Venus or Mars. One time it was a double whammy Venus opposing Sun. Also with the instability, Uranus has some play in there too. I feel this way towards four people - two exes, and two "never quite had the right timing" friends. It's very dreamy/romantic, feels fated & unbreakable.

Real Life Love - This is what I feel for my husband. This is where my Libra influences really kick in because I want to be equally matched. I feel very much if I am committed to you, you need to be equally committed to me. And I don't necessarily mean sex... I mean a scorecard is definitely in play here.

I crave balance and equality. I scratch your back, you'd better scratch mine. Example: if I take out the trash and recyclables(his one and only chore), then he sure a F**K better do something for me. At the very least, he'd better notice I've done his chore and he should thank me. This sounds a little diva like, but I literally devote myself 100% to my partner and I deserve it. I have a full time job and kids to raise, but I get up and make him breakfast every day before he goes to work, I wash his work clothes, make him dinner, clean the house, take care of things like making sure we have toiletries and everyone's favorite foods.

I do A LOT around here and I expect an equal match. I keep up my appearance (I am hot for 37, not going to lie), keep my nails done, dress nice, exercise, etc.

I feel overly devoted in this kind of love. Almost martyr-like (that's the Virgo). Reciprocation is necessary or I will wander because I know what I am worth and I will find someone who values my worth.

Edit - I treat him like a King because I chose him. I don't chose losers, so I expect him to be a King & treat me like his precious Queen. I adore him like he is the Sun in my solar system.

Family Love & Platonic Love - This is the easiest, least stressful. I bring you soup when you're sick, listen to you whine about your boyfriend for four hours on the phone, etc. It's caring and supportive, very motherly. I feel this way towards my children, my cousins, and two of my friends.

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