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Topic: Please, be honest.. the Gemini man!
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hearttreasure Knowflake Posts: 281 From: Registered: Jan 2015
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posted February 28, 2016 04:22 PM
If you were born under the sign of Gemini or had experience with Gemini man, please, I need your input here! (but, feel free fyour thoughts are appreciated)1. What cause a Gemini man keep going back to the same person? Even though those person had already done bad things to him? (besides love, because air signs tend to intellectualize feelings) 2. If a Gemini man said that you should trust him this time, will you trust him or do you trust him completely (after he broke your trust in the past)? 3. If a Gemini man said that "you must do what I told you", are you going to do what he told you? (in this case is following his rules/words) 4. Is a Gemini man doing manipulation: if he acts sweet when you two alone but acts like you are a monster when you two surrounded by people (friends/family/strangers)? 5. What is the significant sign when: - a Gemini man love / doesn't love you? - a Gemini man is interested / just using you for his own advantage? IP: Logged |
Sikanda Knowflake Posts: 541 From: 28080 Registered: Aug 2015
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posted February 28, 2016 05:47 PM
Ok I'll be completely honest, and this doesn't have anything to do with astrology: 1. I wish I knew because my Gemini hasn't been interested enough to do this .2. I don't think you can completely trust someone who hasn't respected you in the past. That's how we learn. You can be cordial, for sure, but don't let the same mistake happen again. 3. Lol Not just because he said so. I too can think for myself and see what would benefit me. But I would see what I'd do based on my level of trust on him, based on our complicity. 4. I've had this happen to me. It's like he has two faces, isn't it? It's not that he treated me like a 'monster' but gosh, did he ignore me when he was around others. Then the most natural thing for me would be to lose interest and let him go. Then he would unexpectedly return next time like nothing happened and we were best friends. Excuse me? And he would leave soon after feeling hurt because I treated him the same way he treated me (unintendedly I must say, just because for me it was the most natural behaviour in that case). 5. - When he loves you, you just know. It's not only the loving look and gooey eyes, but he tries to make you feel comfortable and secure. He worries about you, he wants to know about you, he goes out of his way to help you. - He asks for more than he gives. If he loves you asking about his day, how his life is going, etc. but he doesn't ask about yours in return, then it should be a red flag that something is wrong with that relationship (a one-sided thing that is neither love nor friendship). Feeling like you are doing all the job while he is just being passive. I hope I helped. IP: Logged |
Odette Moderator Posts: 6726 From: Registered: May 2012
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posted February 28, 2016 11:00 PM
quote: Is a Gemini man doing manipulation: if he acts sweet when you two alone but acts like you are a monster when you two surrounded by people (friends/family/strangers)
If anyone does this - they have a problem (and it's one that you can't fix).. independent of their sign. They are toxic and bad news all around. He needs a therapist, not a girlfriend. This is not a Gemini thing. This is a personality disorder thing. IP: Logged |
hearttreasure Knowflake Posts: 281 From: Registered: Jan 2015
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posted February 29, 2016 01:07 AM
^ His venus/mars MP = SunI found this is true to him, especially the bold one: quote:
So, people with the Sun or Ascendant as the midpoint of Venus and Mars tend to be particularly self-obsessed or even narcissistic, as they are literally getting off on their own ego/personality or reflection in the mirror. No fault (though it can be off-putting), and often it's quite a charming effect, as it's just the way it feels to them, and they get rewarded for it.
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DualGem Knowflake Posts: 70 From: Canada Registered: Oct 2015
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posted February 29, 2016 12:13 PM
Hey HeartTreasure I guess Mr. Gemini is still giving you problems.  That's Ironic because I've been encountering nothing but Aquarians lately and there as sweet as apple pie . Plus we see things exactly the same way, shame you don't have that rapport with Mr. Gemini. 1) There must be something that makes you stand out. 2) If he is genuine then give him a second chance otherwise don't. Only if you know him enought will you know. 3) Sounds like he wants to take control, I whould not do as he says. 4) Sounds like a jerk to me, control maybe??? 5) Every Gem is different, you'd really have to know him to make that distinction. IP: Logged |
hearttreasure Knowflake Posts: 281 From: Registered: Jan 2015
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posted March 03, 2016 05:07 AM
^ yes @DualGem! I wish I can trust him but it's really hard.Isn't it a controlling Gemini?  IP: Logged |
Desiring Shadows Knowflake Posts: 3564 From: UNITED STATES, BABY Registered: Jan 2012
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posted March 03, 2016 02:34 PM
Donald Trump is a Gemini with Moon in Sagittarius, Asc Leo, Mercury cancer, Venus cancer and Mars LeoI have my ascendant as Gemini and my moon as Sagittarius (sun Libra) and I feel like if I didn't work so hard at suppressing myself, I would probably relate to him If you notice he says insensitive things harshly. That's definitely Sagittarius IP: Logged |
hearttreasure Knowflake Posts: 281 From: Registered: Jan 2015
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posted March 03, 2016 04:03 PM
^ @DS I totally can understand his sag moon, because my sag mars can be really outspoken too although his tends to no-filter combine with his combative mercury conjunct mars and trine pluto. Absolutely his words are not for faint and sensitive heart people in an argument.Somehow he found a well-matched opponent in an argument. Me. I'm just kidding.  IP: Logged |
Desiring Shadows Knowflake Posts: 3564 From: UNITED STATES, BABY Registered: Jan 2012
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posted March 03, 2016 06:41 PM
quote: Originally posted by hearttreasure: ^ @DS I totally can understand his sag moon, because my sag mars can be really outspoken too although his tends to no-filter combine with his combative mercury conjunct mars and trine pluto. Absolutely his words are not for faint and sensitive heart people in an argument.Somehow he found a well-matched opponent in an argument. Me. I'm just kidding. 
Lmao! That's so crazy how you realized that. Astrology can be so real sometimes. My Mars is Scorpio so it makes sense why I could be that way... Yeah, Mercury conjunct Mars are fighters. I'm a Mercury Conjunct Venus so maybe that's why I'approach matters better than that guy does.
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Hemilla Knowflake Posts: 49 From: Serbia Registered: May 2015
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posted March 09, 2016 01:11 PM
quote: Originally posted by hearttreasure: If you were born under the sign of Gemini or had experience with Gemini man, please, I need your input here! (but, feel free fyour thoughts are appreciated)1. What cause a Gemini man keep going back to the same person? Even though those person had already done bad things to him? (besides love, because air signs tend to intellectualize feelings) 2. If a Gemini man said that you should trust him this time, will you trust him or do you trust him completely (after he broke your trust in the past)? 3. If a Gemini man said that "you must do what I told you", are you going to do what he told you? (in this case is following his rules/words) 4. Is a Gemini man doing manipulation: if he acts sweet when you two alone but acts like you are a monster when you two surrounded by people (friends/family/strangers)? 5. What is the significant sign when: - a Gemini man love / doesn't love you? - a Gemini man is interested / just using you for his own advantage?
1.i dont know,curiosity maybe? 2.you probably shouldnt,not because he is gemini,but because of his past 3.ofcourse not 4.some of them do 5.i dont know
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HCtheQueenOfWands Knowflake Posts: 159 From: Canada Registered: Nov 2015
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posted March 10, 2016 09:24 PM
These men suck. 😑IP: Logged |
hearttreasure Knowflake Posts: 281 From: Registered: Jan 2015
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posted March 12, 2016 03:09 PM
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