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Topic: Does each Venus sign experience love differently?
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Vajra Knowflake Posts: 1737 From: Europe Registered: Dec 2012
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posted March 18, 2016 10:37 PM
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Faith Knowflake Posts: 20055 From: Bella's Hair Salon Registered: Jul 2011
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posted March 18, 2016 10:49 PM
Hooray!Maybe we're onto something. IP: Logged |
teasel Knowflake Posts: 8932 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted March 18, 2016 11:00 PM
When it's good - all love, not just romantic - it's also like a warm and cozy blanket or quilt, that covers you and keeps you just warm enough, and so relaxed that you don't want to get up. Moon conjunct Venus, sextile Jupiter. Or maybe that's the Mars in Pisces squaring it. IP: Logged |
teasel Knowflake Posts: 8932 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted March 18, 2016 11:07 PM
quote: Originally posted by venus2tinkerbell: Interesting. I thought about it. When I fall in love it's just like how described Gem Venus...but when I feel loved by someone I love (cuz I'm not always falling for the right people), my mind stops racing. I feel at home. Time stops. There is no time. All is settled. Now I wonder if that's my western Cancer Venus or my Vedic IC in Libra...like the love of my beloved takes me home...
Yes, this. I'm also Venus in Gemini. I don't have that much experience with romantic love, but I do remember what it's like when I realize that a man is interested in me. The one I'm thinking of right now, was witty, and trying to get my attention. Another was also funny, and he sent me music (he was a Taurus). But it feels like mornings filled with sunshine, blue skies, and white, fluffy clouds, to me. I love those days - and to be driving in them, going somewhere. Bright, fun, refreshing. Warm. Happy. I was going to mention the racing mind, too. ^^ So me, at times. I'll try to find a smaller version. IP: Logged |
venus2tinkerbell Knowflake Posts: 2121 From: the baseball hall of fame Registered: Nov 2014
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posted March 18, 2016 11:13 PM
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venus2tinkerbell Knowflake Posts: 2121 From: the baseball hall of fame Registered: Nov 2014
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posted March 18, 2016 11:17 PM
quote: Originally posted by teasel: Yes, this. I'm also Venus in Gemini.I don't have that much experience with romantic love, but I do remember what it's like when I realize that a man is interested in me. The one I'm thinking of right now, was witty, and trying to get my attention. Another was also funny, and he sent me music (he was a Taurus). But it feels like mornings filled with sunshine, blue skies, and white, fluffy clouds, to me. I love those days - and to be driving in them, going somewhere. Bright, fun, refreshing. Warm. Happy. I was going to mention the racing mind, too. ^^ So me, at times. I'll try to find a smaller version.
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Selenite Knowflake Posts: 1239 From: Lyra Registered: Aug 2013
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posted March 18, 2016 11:18 PM
Oh my gosh yes, it feels tortuous! I keep it all inside though, because I know it would probably be misunderstood. I feel the highest of highs looking into his eyes (every day..), and the lowest of lows if I perceive anything might be wrong.. (which is usually not even the case.. ) I 'die' multiple times during my relationships, and it's all completely private of course. (Except for now that I'm writing it here I guess..)I can't exactly say I wouldn't trade it for any other sign -- which is how I used to feel -- but it has its perks, sometimes. Most of the time I just feel like I'm dying. Lol (and being reborn, can't forget that part.) {{ Scorpio Venus in the 4th, conj. IC, trine Saturn, quintile Neptune ^-^ }} IP: Logged |
hannaramaa Knowflake Posts: 11679 From: Registered: Nov 2011
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posted March 18, 2016 11:55 PM
Venus in Aries - fast. 😊IP: Logged |
DopGang Knowflake Posts: 3126 From: MBTI - INTJ -- Enneagram - 5w6 Registered: Jun 2015
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posted March 19, 2016 12:56 AM
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StubbornVirgo Knowflake Posts: 1830 From: Welcome to Mercury Registered: Jul 2015
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posted March 19, 2016 02:09 AM
quote: Originally posted by venus2tinkerbell: Oh hey StubbornVirgo. Our answers are similar 😃
Yep, we do. My Draconic Venus and Mars are in Cancer, and I'm typically drawn to men with Cancer placements (the less they say, the more attracted I am lol). Maybe there's something to that? Love does feel like coming home, and everything gets quiet in my head for once. I also typically only go by one of my possible birth times - the one that gives me Pisces ASC. The other one gives me a 4th house Moon and Mars though, so there's that. IP: Logged |
StubbornVirgo Knowflake Posts: 1830 From: Welcome to Mercury Registered: Jul 2015
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posted March 19, 2016 02:33 AM
quote: Originally posted by 12muddy: Lol StubbornVirgo, my talkative virgo venus s.o once expressed similar feelings (he said that it's great being with someone who he can talk to and be silent with).
It really is nice. I often talk a lot because I'm too busy explaining myself...but it's so nice when I don't have to do that. I had one BF I had nonverbal conversations all the time - one look, one raised eyebrow, or just silence in response to a situation or a person. I'm pretty sure that we wouldn't have needed to talk unless we really wanted to lol. He was a Scorpio Venus. IP: Logged |
StubbornVirgo Knowflake Posts: 1830 From: Welcome to Mercury Registered: Jul 2015
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posted March 19, 2016 02:49 AM
quote: Originally posted by Faith: I was wondering how my Virgo Venus husband might feel inside, based on how he acts, and this matches what I was thinking...only he still likes to talk.
What's his Draconic Venus/Mars? Both of mine are in Cancer. It's my theory (and really just that) that maybe that's the reason why I go quiet. It's like coming home - I'm safe, I'm protected, I'm at ease...what's there to discuss? IP: Logged |
Faith Knowflake Posts: 20055 From: Bella's Hair Salon Registered: Jul 2011
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posted March 19, 2016 09:08 AM
^ His draconic Venus and Mars are part of a stellium in Capricorn, with his draco Mercury conjunct my sun, 0.13° orb.So maybe that explains it. My draconic Venus is in Aries, exactly conjunct my tropical Jupiter....so again it's a Sag-type Venus.
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charlie Knowflake Posts: 3985 From: Registered: Jun 2012
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posted March 19, 2016 09:17 AM
venus in cancer 11-sq uranus/chiron, conjunct saturn.I want to merge into the other person's soul and if other person is not ready and/or mature for this I will eject myself. I do feel trapped sometimes by thoughts and feelings that I can't control and I don't like it. I call it being "mentally raped". Like, as single I have no one to think about but to daydream about the future but when with someone, I all of a sudden have these THOUGHTS about another human....and they create FEELINGS..... yeah, I'm odd. IP: Logged |
Hemilla Knowflake Posts: 437 From: Winterfell Registered: May 2015
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posted March 19, 2016 09:24 AM
I dont know,love is still just an idea for me,i have never been in love and i sometimes fret that i never will - my Venus is in Gemini conj mercIP: Logged |
Ceridwen Moderator Posts: 29897 From: Registered: Jul 2011
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posted March 19, 2016 10:00 AM
Very good question, Faith. I once described it somewhere else as a feeling of "life and death". strange thing happening, with my Sag planets I can be very nicely open and tolerant (just to a certain degree of course) and more or less intellectual, philosophizing, merrily analyzing life along the way and enjoying it this way. Everything is somehow nice and positive, most of the time. and I can have a lot of understanding for many situations, but
there is probably nothing worse to those Sagittarianness or for me then falling in love (I don`t really FALL in love, I sort of stumble into it, or am being pulled into that abyss, kicking and screaming, if I am even becoming aware this is what happens). Venus in Capricorn square Pluto (Venus conjunct Isis-Osiris-also) and dispositor Saturn in Cancer in 8th house - kicking and screaming I tell you
And it baffles my Aqua-Moon and my Sag-planets, where does that serious feeling comes from all at once? And while I can walk away from pretty much any situation in daily life, if I have let someone close to my hear, I can`t walk out of there anymore, at least not emotionally. Once I love, it literally IS forever. (even though that does not mean at all this has to be a relationship, love and relationship are not the same thing. One is a feeling, the other a decision). IP: Logged |
Faith Knowflake Posts: 20055 From: Bella's Hair Salon Registered: Jul 2011
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posted March 19, 2016 10:45 AM
Thank you all for the replies! Tr Venus is almost conjunct tr Neptune, it's like nature's own version of Valentine's Day So I'm especially fascinated with this topic, at this time. IP: Logged |
mar1982delta Knowflake Posts: 1738 From: Registered: Nov 2015
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posted March 20, 2016 06:16 AM
Hi Faith! Such a nice topic!!! Ok, there is a difference I think between falling in love and being in love/loving somebody the way I see it. If we are talking about falling in love, the description @Desiring Shadows and @athenaia did actually fits me a lot!!! It's really like drugs for me, although I haven't done drugs lol, but I imagine it like doing coke or sth like that! Excitement, losing my mind, thrill, enthusiasm, really rejuvenating, adrenaline, so much energy and love for life in general! It's like the world is not enough...lol...this reminded me of an old song btw http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8C5NLfYdZaE Venus in cancer in the 5th venus trine jupiter venus inconjunct uranus ETA : As far as virgo venus is concerned, both my ex relationship of 7 years and my mom have virgo venus..and they express(ed) their love in practical ways, like trying to help you in your everyday life, routine etc..although I don't know if the way someone expresses love is connected to venus, but I thought this might be relevant since they have the same venus sign.
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Ceridwen Moderator Posts: 29897 From: Registered: Jul 2011
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posted March 20, 2016 08:32 AM
fI have NO idea, but suddenly, Mar, when reading your post, I had a flashback memory of this. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=18XzzTLsrPY Must be because I was in London last night again, well dreamed of it. lol Yeah, doesn`t THAT sound like my Venus in Capricorn?
(okay, I admit it my Venus is int he Pisces-Duad ) I guess I`ll need an exorcist again, oh man, every year at the same time, either THAT or THIS http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0u7IVH6c7WY
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mar1982delta Knowflake Posts: 1738 From: Registered: Nov 2015
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posted March 20, 2016 08:38 AM
quote: Originally posted by Ceridwen: I have NO idea, but suddenly, Mar, when reading your post, I had a flashback memory of this. Must be because I was in London last night again, well dreamed of it. lol Yeah, doesn`t THAT sound like my Venus in Capricorn?
(okay, I admit it my Venus is int he Pisces-Duad )
Ok, like a "deja vu" experience??? This gave me goosebumbs!!! Really weird, lol BTW, I think capricorns (or maybe "evolved" capricorns if we may say this, are very spiritual persons. I refer to your Venus Ceri btw. Not because I have a Cap Asc, lol, but my father is a Cap and my grandmother, too and they are both very spiritual persons,in different ways, though. I admire them. An old supervisor of mine at work was a Cap sun, too. That applies to her, too. I only say this, because I sometimes wonder why capricorn is described a somewhat too logical, reasonable, non-spiritual person. Though you Ceri know that this isn't true. I am just thinking loud
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mar1982delta Knowflake Posts: 1738 From: Registered: Nov 2015
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posted March 20, 2016 08:42 AM
quote: Originally posted by Ceridwen:
I guess I`ll need an exorcist again, oh man,
Loool I just burst out in laughs! hahahahah Oh my God, I say that, too! This was hilarious!
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Ceridwen Moderator Posts: 29897 From: Registered: Jul 2011
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posted March 20, 2016 08:42 AM
Yes, I agree with you, Faith is a Cap, too, after all. Though I do know some quite materialistic Caps as well, so I guess it depends on something else. In this instance well my Venus is conjunct Mr Law`s Sun so I guess that`s that then. (and squaring both Plutos on both MC`s). he now and then resurfaces again. Damn it, I dreamed of his ASTROLOGY last night even, waking up with the thought that if I have Tr Pluto opposing my Saturn he must have Tr Pluto conjunct his Jupiter-NN and what that could mean for him. LOL What a random thought to be waking up with!!!! IP: Logged |
mar1982delta Knowflake Posts: 1738 From: Registered: Nov 2015
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posted March 20, 2016 08:47 AM
quote: Originally posted by Ceridwen: Yes, I agree with you, Faith is a Cap, too, after all. Though I do know some quite materialistic Caps as well, so I guess it depends on something else. In this instance well my Venus is conjunct Mr Law`s Sun so I guess that`s that then. (and squaring both Plutos on both MC`s). he now and then resurfaces again. Damn it, I dreamed of his ASTROLOGY last night even, waking up with the thought that if I have Tr Pluto opposing my Saturn he must have Tr Pluto conjunct his Jupiter-NN and what that could mean for him. LOL What a random thought to be waking up with!!!!
"Yes, I agree with you, Faith is a Cap, too, after all. " Yes, I remember that of course! "Though I do know some quite materialistic Caps as well, so I guess it depends on something else." Yes, I agree, although I have no clue on what it depends lol!
"Damn it, I dreamed of his ASTROLOGY last night even, waking up with the thought that if I have Tr Pluto opposing my Saturn he must have Tr Pluto conjunct his Jupiter-NN and what that could mean for him. LOL What a random thought to be waking up with!!!!"
Would it be reassuring for you or the opposite if I told you this happened to me just a while ago, too? I dreamt about astrology connections, too, either transits or something about progressions, I don't remember now lol Must be either pr.Neptune on my progressed MC either tr. Neptune opp. Moon (though in wider orb now)..I think???
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Ceridwen Moderator Posts: 29897 From: Registered: Jul 2011
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posted March 20, 2016 08:50 AM
Ahh, I sometimes dream of astrology, but this about Jude Law`s transits seemed just so very random IP: Logged |
mar1982delta Knowflake Posts: 1738 From: Registered: Nov 2015
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posted March 20, 2016 08:53 AM
quote: Originally posted by Ceridwen: Ahh, I sometimes dream of astrology, but this about Jude Law`s transits seemed just so very random
Lol, I was somehow lost somewhere in the middle of posts, that I didn't understand that it was about jude law's astrology, I thought mr. sag's astrology! So I guess...yes, this was very random, hahaha Btw, nice taste lol ETA : Yes, NOW I see it "In this instance well my Venus is conjunct Mr Law`s Sun so I guess that`s that then." That's goood... IP: Logged | |