posted April 03, 2016 10:43 PM            

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Originally posted by socialgraffiti:
^Even though you have a Moon-Venus square, the orb is quite wide. Libra moon and Cancer Venus are in mutual reception, which has similar, flowing energies to a trine.

I have Venus-Mars conjunction (2-3 degrees). I get along with both sexes well, but my close friends tend to be male, or even if they are female, they tend to have masculine energy (strong Mars, Uranus, or Pluto influence, fixed signs, etc.)

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posted April 04, 2016 10:31 AM            

It's a chart of a 'player' to me.

1) Focus on 5-8-11 houses
2) Mars Venus sextile, Venus Pluto trine, Venus in 5th, Venus opposition to both Neptune and Uranus.

You probably have a normally nice start with women (very nice!) but further in the relationship cycle that Moon-Venus square will show itself and it won't be all fireworks for your other half.

But it's just my perception. That Moon in Libra is trouble! It sits there quietly in the 8th and you only truly discover its nature once you become very close with person.

posted April 04, 2016 12:30 PM            

It depends on the men.

My sister, with Venus sextile Mars, is loved by men. Very pretty, and she is all domestic in her relationship, but she isn't necessarily happy with that. (She once came home after staying with her boyfriend for months, and cried at the idea of having to do any dishes here).

I took no crap from her boyfriend, and won't if presented with it from other men. So, no, I'm not always popular with them.

I used to get a lot of attention because of my figure (unwanted attention).

posted April 04, 2016 12:33 PM            

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Originally posted by CapriciousCapricorn:
NYCdodger,

It's a chart of a 'player' to me.

1) Focus on 5-8-11 houses
2) Mars Venus sextile, Venus Pluto trine, Venus in 5th, Venus opposition to both Neptune and Uranus.

You probably have a normally nice start with women (very nice!) but further in the relationship cycle that Moon-Venus square will show itself and it won't be all fireworks for your other half.

But it's just my perception. That Moon in Libra is trouble! It sits there quietly in the 8th and you only truly discover its nature once you become very close with person.

Very interesting chart, deserves a post of its own Thank you for sharing with us.

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Never been a player or a cheater. I don't put thoughts and illusions in girls heads because i make it clear what i want and what i don't want. If anything they choose to be caught up in an illusion themselves. I avoid relationships that lack substance or promise. I value cordial/reasonable relationships more that actually have some sort of direction.

If I begin to feel that the girl is flaky i just avoid her.

If I get too attached too her for some odd reason and things are unrealistic then i may separate myself for a while.

posted April 04, 2016 05:04 PM              

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Originally posted by CapriciousCapricorn:
Men with Moon trine Venus are popular with women because they get along with them, they understand women. The opposite is true for men with Moon square Venus - they are the 'women-haters', when at their worst.

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So what would you say about an exact Moon/Venus conjunction both squaring Mars, in a male chart?

My ex has this. Does he love women, or hate em?

One hint: one of the biggest mama's boys you'll ever meet

But also great example how one aspect cant determine such a huge aspect of a personality. Venus square mars or moon square mars doesnt instantly make someone "dislike" women, especially when they also have apsects that indicate they like women. Charts and people are far more complex than that. My ex and I both struggle with sexuality/sexual paradigms placed by society by neither of us hates all men or women.

posted April 04, 2016 07:52 PM              

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Originally posted by Nyctea:
Nice

I have Venus conjunct Mars(they're both in the same sign but it's a wide conjunction) and Venus parallel Mars, which imo strengthened the aspect. I have a lot of male friends ang get along well with them, and men in general. But a few years ago a guy seriously told me that he thought i kissed everyone in my school. Not cool at all. And he liked me (??) So he was probably attempting to flirt lol.

And i have a friend with Venus-Mars conj in Cancer, 6 degrees. Just like me she's picky about who she goes out with. We both have Venus-Pluto aspects and had stalkers in the past. I remember the guy following me when i was on my way home, i had to go the other way and run a bit faster so he wouldn't see where i live. I know he wouldn't do anything but still, what a disrespectful behavior.

Venus-Mars is cool but i really wish i had Venus-Jupiter and ASC-Jupiter...

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posted April 04, 2016 09:52 PM            

I'm not popular but throughout my life, I've had more guy friends/acquaintances than females. Now though, the ratio evened out, but then again I've become a hermit now so I don't even have many friends lol.

When I was younger, I did attract awkward, weird and rather forward encounters w/ men. But nothing that went too far. I feel like every woman has at LEAST a few creeper stories lol.

With the female Venus Square Mars, I heard that there's an awkwardness w/ their sexuality at one point in their lives. They can give off a strong vibe and males can take that as too masculine or they may see it as a 'challenge' thus she will attract unwanted attention. But I also heard this aspect is "all vibe, no action" so who knows.

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Originally posted by Hemilla:

I do notice men are interested in my apperance and all,but i have chronic ***** face going on and they might be afraid to approach xD

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posted April 05, 2016 09:45 AM            

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Originally posted by NYCdodger:
In fact, women respect me to the point where they just know I'm not one to BS or play silly mind games with...(I've had several of them tell me this). And I guess some of them don't like this because women tend to get frustrated when they don't get what they want

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posted April 05, 2016 11:19 AM            

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Originally posted by CapriciousCapricorn:
Moon square Venus talking

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But thats not a bad thing. No one should always give someone what they want. Its irresponsible..

posted April 05, 2016 02:13 PM            

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Originally posted by Sccs:
I know a guy with Venus (virgo) square moon (gemini) and he is very soft and attracts girls and make them feel comfortable although he might not be interested he exudes sympathy and soft charm.
He also has Sun conjuct mars in scorpio

Go figure!

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posted April 05, 2016 03:02 PM            

It's true that I identify less with men than I do with women, but I don't feel there's an incremental understanding etc. I wasn't sent the PDF instruction manual, and the FAQs don't cover most of my issues.

Come to think of it, I don't understand men either.

posted April 05, 2016 03:50 PM            

He has Scorpio Venus trine Cancer venus and his best friends are mostly girls. Girls come to him for relationship advises and stuff constantly!

I have Mars/Venus conjunction and I get along with guys well. Guys feel at ease with me easily and I can chat with them like buddies. I get along with girls too but I may be a little too intimidating for them sometimes? I can get a little RAWR! lol

posted April 05, 2016 04:22 PM            

Yep i know. Now you just made me curious about what aspects can "trigger" aggressiveness from others towards someone *adding to the list: Sun square Mars*

@sarahhm

posted April 05, 2016 06:00 PM            

He has Scorpio Venus trine Cancer venus and his best friends are mostly girls. Girls come to him for relationship advises and stuff constantly!

I have Mars/Venus conjunction and I get along with guys well. Guys feel at ease with me easily and I can chat with them like buddies. I get along with girls too but I may be a little too intimidating for them sometimes? I can get a little RAWR! lol

posted April 07, 2016 04:57 PM            

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Originally posted by YoursTrulyAlways:
I don't get the Moon-Venus Trine. I have it.

It's true that I identify less with men than I do with women, but I don't feel there's an incremental understanding etc. I wasn't sent the PDF instruction manual, and the FAQs don't cover most of my issues.

Come to think of it, I don't understand men either.

As for being popular, let's negotiate because I have a bridge to sell you, and I'll throw in a second bridge for free.

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posted April 08, 2016 10:34 AM            

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Originally posted by Marandana:
I have venus mars conjuction and nope... I don't get along with men easily, actually for me it is very difficult to talk to them just as naturally as to the people of my own gender. I also don't believe in woman-man friendship, I just don't think that's possible.

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posted April 08, 2016 02:29 PM            

I have nothing at all against women though (why would I?) and finally, after spending years in an all-male work environment, I do have a few female colleagues I get along with well, but still we rarely click as friends.

posted April 16, 2025 06:50 AM            

I have Venus & Mars conjunction (Gemini) at 5 degrees and parallel.

My venus also sextiles my moon (Virgo or Leo tbh) at 2 degrees.

But my venus is in the 12th house so if smby has any attraction to me, I won’t know unless they say it to my face. So I’ve found it to be dofficult to understand men. Women I understand a ton though and am attracted to both.

I have never been in a relationship though. I told one bloke when I was a teen that I liked him and he went off w another chick. So I don’t go out of my way to tell a guy I like them. I actually haven’t really found any guy around my life attractive enough to pursue. It’s mostly celebrities from the naughties and eighties that I’m attracted to ha.

Idk I guess i have such high standards stemming from my rocky relationships w my parents. I’m neither a mummy’s girl or daddy’s girl, just myself girl 🥲

posted April 16, 2025 09:05 AM            

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Originally posted by k_mma:
I know this thread is quite old but I wanted to share my experience.

I have Venus & Mars conjunction (Gemini) at 5 degrees and parallel.

My venus also sextiles my moon (Virgo or Leo tbh) at 2 degrees.

But my venus is in the 12th house so if smby has any attraction to me, I won’t know unless they say it to my face. So I’ve found it to be dofficult to understand men. Women I understand a ton though and am attracted to both.

I have never been in a relationship though. I told one bloke when I was a teen that I liked him and he went off w another chick. So I don’t go out of my way to tell a guy I like them. I actually haven’t really found any guy around my life attractive enough to pursue. It’s mostly celebrities from the naughties and eighties that I’m attracted to ha.

Idk I guess i have such high standards stemming from my rocky relationships w my parents. I’m neither a mummy’s girl or daddy’s girl, just myself girl 🥲

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Venus/Mars conj girls can come off quite assertive. And to guys, that can be intimidating.