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Topic: Getting along well with opposite gender: Moon-Venus men and Mars-Venus women
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CapriciousCapricorn
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posted April 03, 2016 09:47 AM
  
Men with Moon trine Venus are popular with women because they get along with them, they understand women. The opposite is true for men with Moon square Venus - they are the 'women-haters', when at their worst.I would like to know about women with Venus-Mars aspects, but only trine and square..ok, opposition too. Are you popular with men? IP: Logged |
Nyctea
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posted April 03, 2016 11:05 AM
What about the conjunction? *cries*
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Vixen
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posted April 03, 2016 11:18 AM
I know two girls with Venus square Mars. They are VERY popular with men (one of them has also Pluto loosely conjunct Venus).
But unfortunately, the one with Pluto-Venus is often victim of perverts. IP: Logged |
Sikanda
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posted April 03, 2016 11:49 AM
How about women with no Venus-Mars aspect?
I've got none and well, in my case I've never been too much popular with men, in a popularity scale I would say average. I think it's mostly due to my character, I have always been introverted and shy, more worried about grades and study than anything else, and I've often have more female friends than male friends. I felt uncertain and worried when in a relationship with guys. By contrast my sister has Venus sextile Mars and she has both female and male friends, which she has kept for a long time. I guess you could say she's popular.
She also has Moon conjunct Venus. IP: Logged |
hearttreasure
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posted April 03, 2016 12:23 PM
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Originally posted by Vixen:
I know two girls with Venus square Mars. They are VERY popular with men (one of them has also Pluto loosely conjunct Venus).
But unfortunately, the one with Pluto-Venus is often victim of perverts.
Sometimes it feels like a bad karma having those combination. VERY popular but yet the victim of perverts, very true too in my case. Venus square Mars is a raw energy, it's a conflict energy, a strong raw feeling, but strangely attract the opposite gender and can get along pretty well with them. Some people may think that I am a teaser because I can get along with men easily and some of them fall easily but most of my relationships are with jealous, controlling, manipulated and surprisingly a secretive pervert man/highly sexual & sensual man. It kinda surprises me those man has debilitated/fall mars like taurus/cancer mars. The pluto in scorpio might intensify the chance of being the victim. Pluto aspect venus most likely attract stalkers. and yeah, those combination can be a trouble especially if you have exes. IP: Logged |
athenaia
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posted April 03, 2016 12:27 PM
I have a tight sextile between my Mars/Venus and I've always gotten along great with men. A very effortless thing for me - I always see them as people first, romantic prospects way later. My friends used to ask me, "how can you just talk so effortlessly to them like that!" and I'd say, "because I'm not holding a job interview! Just let the conversation flow". Men have always been very good to me throughout my life. I'm glad for it. IP: Logged |
Hemilla
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posted April 03, 2016 12:36 PM
i have Mars square Venus... dont have any special relations with men,dont have real male friends....and those who i know and hang out often ... we often bicker,but are cool....I do notice men are interested in my apperance and all,but i have chronic ***** face going on and they might be afraid to approach xD Now i see perverts being mentioned - i dont know if it is this aspect,or Pluto in Scorpio wich i also have and i see is mentioned - well i had few encounters with those sence i was a child. Most recently,this winter a man groped himself when he was going my and my sisters way and said something like ''i'd *uck you '' sister and i just passed next to him,ignoring him - luckily street was full of people so i didnt get that afraid...but IP: Logged |
CapriciousCapricorn
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posted April 03, 2016 12:37 PM
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Originally posted by Nyctea:
What about the conjunction? *cries*
Well, the Venus/Mars conjunction must be a magnet for men for  Yeah, would be nice to hear from girls with this aspect too! I imagine Scarlett from Gone with the Wind IP: Logged |
CapriciousCapricorn
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posted April 03, 2016 12:48 PM
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Originally posted by Sikanda:
How about women with no Venus-Mars aspect?
I don't have anything between these planets either. Wish I did. Anything is better than nothing there. IP: Logged |
Nyctea
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posted April 03, 2016 01:18 PM
Nice I have Venus conjunct Mars(they're both in the same sign but it's a wide conjunction) and Venus parallel Mars, which imo strengthened the aspect. I have a lot of male friends ang get along well with them, and men in general. But a few years ago a guy seriously told me that he thought i kissed everyone in my school.  Not cool at all. And he liked me (??) So he was probably attempting to flirt lol. And i have a friend with Venus-Mars conj in Cancer, 6 degrees. Just like me she's picky about who she goes out with. We both have Venus-Pluto aspects and had stalkers in the past. I remember the guy following me when i was on my way home, i had to go the other way and run a bit faster so he wouldn't see where i live. I know he wouldn't do anything but still, what a disrespectful behavior.  Venus-Mars is cool but i really wish i had Venus-Jupiter and ASC-Jupiter... IP: Logged |
LaGioconda
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posted April 03, 2016 01:23 PM
Venus-Mars conjunction here.Yes, I get along great with men. It's very easy for me to talk to them.
I love hanging out with men and they like hanging out with me. I have always been that girl that hangs out with a bunch of guy friends.
Guys are more relaxed compared to women.
My girl friends have to be as laid-back as men, these overly dramatic and gossipy women don't do it for me. But it's a bit difficult to stay platonic because all my guy friends want and try to get into my pants. IP: Logged |
Gemini30
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posted April 03, 2016 02:02 PM
Sorry for sounding so naive here, but i always assumed that women with alot of guy friends are into the friends with benefit thing? IP: Logged |
hearttreasure
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posted April 03, 2016 02:19 PM
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Originally posted by Gemini30:
Sorry for sounding so naive here, but i always assumed that women with alot of guy friends are into the friends with benefit thing?
Not really. I agree with @LaGioconda, prob our chart masculine dominance? I make friends with both female and male, but as I get older I found more easily to get along with men and often get invitation to hang out with male friends (although my exalted venus keeps the feminine appearance). I always consider them my friends, nothing more, but I can not control someone feelings over me, so yeah, some can easily fall and I have never interested with friends with benefit things. Prob those pluto on my venus makes it. IP: Logged |
Sikanda
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posted April 03, 2016 02:47 PM
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Originally posted by CapriciousCapricorn:
I don't have anything between these planets either. Wish I did. Anything is better than nothing there.
I think so too.
Well how about progressions? I checked mine and right now my progressed Moon is conjunct my natal Venus . My progressed Mars is squaring my Venus too.
My progressed Venus sextiles my natal Mars. IP: Logged |
PixieJane
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posted April 03, 2016 02:51 PM
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Originally posted by Gemini30:
Sorry for sounding so naive here, but i always assumed that women with alot of guy friends are into the friends with benefit thing?
This would assume that men and women could not be together unless they had sex, and therefore men would keep other men away from his woman (or she'd orbit him on her own and keep all other guys at a distance). That assumption doesn't apply to many women, and therefore you should not assume that. Granted, there are men and women both who have to try to hump anyone of the opposite (or same, or any) gender they come into prolonged contact with either out of natural inclination and/or social conditioning, but that doesn't apply to everyone either. Those types of people are usually just outright annoying to men and women who are perfectly fine with having the opposite gender around them as friends. And for what it's worth, I was mostly friends with boys growing up more than girls, mostly because many girls shunned me. I could explain why, but that's too OT. The point was most of my friends were boys by default, and a great many girls, and at least a few women, assumed I was a tomboy just to get boys...and when I typically didn't have a boyfriend then it was assumed I was having sex with all of them (something the girls like to spread and some boys loved to believe). Luckily, the boys I was friends with did not lie about having sex with me (when plenty of boys I didn't know did lie about us having sex), and my male friends stood up for me whenever a boy acted as if I was a sex toy waiting to be used, which might be considered odd given that males (especially teen boys) are supposed to be the horny dogs, but they were more open minded to me than many females, and they stood up for me against guys who were a jerk to me, if they were around. All without me "owing" or giving them sex. IP: Logged |
NYCdodger
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posted April 03, 2016 02:59 PM
False.I have moon square venus and i attract females like bees to honey... Never been a woman hater. In fact, females are always the ones who come to me for sympathy. Even on this website (jk  ) IP: Logged |
Gemini30
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posted April 03, 2016 03:20 PM
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Originally posted by PixieJane:
This would assume that men and women could not be together unless they had sex, and therefore men would keep other men away from his woman (or she'd orbit him on her own and keep all other guys at a distance). That assumption doesn't apply to many women, and therefore you should not assume that.Granted, there are men and women both who have to try to hump anyone of the opposite (or same, or any) gender they come into prolonged contact with either out of natural inclination and/or social conditioning, but that doesn't apply to everyone either. Those types of people are usually just outright annoying to men and women who are perfectly fine with having the opposite gender around them as friends. And for what it's worth, I was mostly friends with boys growing up more than girls, mostly because many girls shunned me. I could explain why, but that's too OT. The point was most of my friends were boys by default, and a great many girls, and at least a few women, assumed I was a tomboy just to get boys...and when I typically didn't have a boyfriend then it was assumed I was having sex with all of them (something the girls like to spread and some boys loved to believe). Luckily, the boys I was friends with did not lie about having sex with me (when plenty of boys I didn't know did lie about us having sex), and my male friends stood up for me whenever a boy acted as if I was a sex toy waiting to be used, which might be considered odd given that males (especially teen boys) are supposed to be the horny dogs, but they were more open minded to me than many females, and they stood up for me against guys who were a jerk to me, if they were around. All without me "owing" or giving them sex.
I always enjoy your posts. Nice long reads for my gemini mind IP: Logged |
Spongebob
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posted April 03, 2016 04:15 PM
Mars sextile venus. I generally prefer interacting with men more than women, and men do seem to understand me better (when they dont rely on the "assessments" of women), we get along pretty well.IP: Logged |
Nyctea
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posted April 03, 2016 06:04 PM
@NYCdodgerMoon square Venus is a great aspect, i have it too (i know for me it's different i'm a woman) Hm... i also heard(not sure tho) that Moon square Mars could make a 'woman hater' in a guy's chart. I don't think so, i met a man with this aspect and he's very kind. IP: Logged |
NYCdodger
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posted April 03, 2016 06:14 PM
^^^^^^^Squares bring a lot of buzz so its possibleI have Sun square Mars in my chart and I always had a hard time getting along with some of my male peers. or they would easily see me as competition. Probably because i attract a lot of girls LOL (I've been told this by a lot of them) IP: Logged |
sarahhm
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posted April 03, 2016 06:21 PM
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Originally posted by Nyctea:
@NYCdodgerMoon square Venus is a great aspect, i have it too (i know for me it's different i'm a woman) Hm... i also heard(not sure tho) that Moon square Mars could make a 'woman hater' in a guy's chart. I don't think so, i met a man with this aspect and he's very kind.
you're right, i don't think it makes a woman hater. but instead a complicated maybe difficult relationship with the mother this may be what manifests as the 'woman hating' its projection of their own individual square. but yeah i've noticed the guys in my life with moon square venus have difficult relationships with their mothers, have no issues attracting women, but because of their difficult maternal relationship end up self sabotaging or projecting or taking it out of women just an observation IP: Logged |
CapriciousCapricorn
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posted April 03, 2016 07:58 PM
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Originally posted by Sikanda:
Well how about progressions? I checked mine and right now my progressed Moon is conjunct my natal Venus . My progressed Mars is squaring my Venus too.
My progressed Venus sextiles my natal Mars.
Me too! Nothing in natal chart but I have this in progressed chart now, a Venus-Mars conjunction, 5th house, in Pisces, 1degree and applying. Hallelujah IP: Logged |
CapriciousCapricorn
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posted April 03, 2016 08:02 PM
NYCdodger,That's great, glad to hear it is it possible to see your chart please or just describe what you have going on there that attracts women. Thanks IP: Logged |
NYCdodger
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posted April 03, 2016 10:11 PM
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socialgraffiti
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posted April 03, 2016 10:20 PM
^Even though you have a Moon-Venus square, the orb is quite wide. Libra moon and Cancer Venus are in mutual reception, which has similar, flowing energies to a trine.I have Venus-Mars conjunction (2-3 degrees). I get along with both sexes well, but my close friends tend to be male, or even if they are female, they tend to have masculine energy (strong Mars, Uranus, or Pluto influence, fixed signs, etc.) IP: Logged |
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