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Topic: Aspects of people being overly critical of you?
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Geminiyoungster Knowflake Posts: 546 From: Registered: Jun 2013
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posted April 16, 2016 12:56 AM
I don't know what it is but I have always had this thing where ppl have been so critical of me. I used to think I was crazy as hell, but I see now, especially when I'm alone! Ppl just do too much with me.IP: Logged |
Sulkyarcher unregistered
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posted April 16, 2016 01:55 AM
Having Saturn, Capricorn energy, or a 10th house stellium. You're held to a much higher standard. I notice that when I don't do the right thing, people can sense this energy about me, and they avoid me, or give me dirty looks. They become very critical and judgmental of me. It's like people have a sixth sense about me, or something. When I do the right thing, people are nicer to me, yes, like large groups of people. I don't get it, LOL. So for me, the answer is Saturn. IP: Logged |
soren unregistered
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posted April 16, 2016 02:02 AM
having a planet at 0 degrees as i believe you have from your chart i saw once. 0 degree people stick, especially if its less than 0' 12m''IP: Logged |
Gracha Knowflake Posts: 562 From: NY USA Registered: Jan 2013
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posted April 16, 2016 02:29 AM
mars in hard aspect to saturn or heck any personal planet, but mainly to mars from what i've seen and personally experienced.IP: Logged |
Geminiyoungster Knowflake Posts: 546 From: Registered: Jun 2013
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posted April 16, 2016 02:37 AM
quote: Originally posted by soren: having a planet at 0 degrees as i believe you have from your chart i saw once. 0 degree people stick, especially if its less than 0' 12m''
My chart you sure it was me?IP: Logged |
Geminiyoungster Knowflake Posts: 546 From: Registered: Jun 2013
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posted April 16, 2016 02:38 AM
quote: Originally posted by Gracha: mars in hard aspect to saturn or heck any personal planet, but mainly to mars from what i've seen and personally experienced.
I have a mars conjucts moon and Saturn square sun! IP: Logged |
Nyctea Knowflake Posts: 381 From: Registered: Dec 2015
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posted April 16, 2016 05:18 AM
Virgos are overly critical in my opinion.IP: Logged |
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 74285 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted April 16, 2016 06:17 AM
If a person comes at your Moon hard, they will harass you, such as their Mars conj your Moon,for one example.Their Nessus conj your Sun makes them have an uncontrollable urge to abuse you, which seems as if they cannot resist lol ------------------ Want to Read Simple, Fun,Sexy Articles on Astrology? Check Me Out, DUDE. http://www.mychristianpsychic.com/
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teasel Knowflake Posts: 22638 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted April 16, 2016 10:05 AM
I go through phases like this, and it's generally when I'm already having a bad time of it. It's worse when it happens with people you thought were your friends - although, thankfully, more often than not it's people who don't know me that well. I don't know what it's down to astrologically. And it has nothing to do with whether or not I've done the right thing. IP: Logged |
Elysia unregistered
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posted April 16, 2016 10:51 AM
quote: Originally posted by Sulkyarcher: Having Saturn, Capricorn energy, or a 10th house stellium. You're held to a much higher standard. I notice that when I don't do the right thing, people can sense this energy about me, and they avoid me, or give me dirty looks. They become very critical and judgmental of me. It's like people have a sixth sense about me, or something. When I do the right thing, people are nicer to me, yes, like large groups of people. I don't get it, LOL. So for me, the answer is Saturn.
Hmm..makes sense..! Also, what Gracha said... Mars in hard aspect to Saturn, maybe. (I feel like we're blaming Saturn a bit too much. ). IP: Logged |
Stawr Moderator Posts: 7323 From: N. America Registered: Nov 2010
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posted April 16, 2016 11:54 AM
My boyfriend can be overly critical of me. He is a triple Virgo. Never been with Virgo guys until now.Maybe you are surrounded by Virgos, or attract them. IP: Logged |
Pisces Plutonian Knowflake Posts: 251 From: United States Registered: Jan 2016
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posted April 16, 2016 07:49 PM
Venus in aspect to Pluto.I've heard people judge you on your appearance and passionately like or dislike you for no reason. I have this aspect and people always talk crap about me behind my back or when they think I can't hear. IP: Logged |
Geminiyoungster Knowflake Posts: 546 From: Registered: Jun 2013
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posted April 17, 2016 05:04 AM
quote: Originally posted by Pisces Plutonian: Venus in aspect to Pluto.I've heard people judge you on your appearance and passionately like or dislike you for no reason. I have this aspect and people always talk crap about me behind my back or when they think I can't hear.
I think its at an inconjunct at a tight orb though!! I also have a moon-pluto I get this all the time, love this! you know your stuff!
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nordicsoul Knowflake Posts: 1986 From: Registered: Oct 2010
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posted April 17, 2016 10:19 AM
people critical of me? satun on my moon-mercury or my sun-mars-venus stellium.IP: Logged |
Sulkyarcher unregistered
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posted April 18, 2016 03:52 AM
quote: Originally posted by teasel: I go through phases like this, and it's generally when I'm already having a bad time of it. It's worse when it happens with people you thought were your friends - although, thankfully, more often than not it's people who don't know me that well. I don't know what it's down to astrologically. And it has nothing to do with whether or not I've done the right thing.
I wonder if people like people on this thread just attract jealousy? IP: Logged |
Sulkyarcher unregistered
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posted April 18, 2016 03:58 AM
quote: Originally posted by Nyctea: Virgos are overly critical in my opinion.
I just judge people back who judge me harshly. If they can deal it out, they can take it. If they can't, then tough cookie! IP: Logged |
diamondbaby Knowflake Posts: 1005 From: Registered: Jul 2012
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posted April 19, 2016 08:21 PM
In my opinion Aquarius energy can be super judgemental and critical. Fixed air - Fixed thoughts.IP: Logged |
Geminiyoungster Knowflake Posts: 546 From: Registered: Jun 2013
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posted April 20, 2016 05:50 PM
Bump!IP: Logged |
Selenite unregistered
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posted April 20, 2016 08:05 PM
quote: Originally posted by soren: having a planet at 0 degrees as i believe you have from your chart i saw once. 0 degree people stick, especially if its less than 0' 12m''
I have a 0 degree Virgo Mars, and I think I'm overly critical of myself, much more than others are overly critical to me. If what you said is true, I think I internalize the energy. IP: Logged |
Stawr Moderator Posts: 7323 From: N. America Registered: Nov 2010
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posted July 20, 2022 01:00 PM
quote: Originally posted by Nyctea: Virgos are overly critical in my opinion.
Yes they are! Yet they are sensitive to criticism themself. How does that work?! And how is that fair!? IP: Logged |
Stawr Moderator Posts: 7323 From: N. America Registered: Nov 2010
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posted July 20, 2022 01:01 PM
quote: Originally posted by Stawr: My boyfriend can be overly critical of me. He is a triple Virgo. Never been with Virgo guys until now.Maybe you are surrounded by Virgos, or attract them.
Update he is a quadruple Virgo now that I know his rising sign.
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Stawr Moderator Posts: 7323 From: N. America Registered: Nov 2010
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posted July 20, 2022 01:35 PM
I have Saturn square Sun in my natal chart. Oh man I've experienced this! I think it helps to see the hypocrisy in people who are critical of you. Know your worth. My Saturn return had me really coming to terms with this. Like so many antagonistic people that wanted to follow me around and tell me that I suck! It started mildly in 2016 and really peaked in 2017-2020 when it comes to jobs. By 2018 I stepped into my power more. Make notes of their flaws, when they point out yours, give right back to them to prove your point. That them pointing out what you're not doing while you are doing more than them is not helpful. Of course I can get gaslit for this too, but I don't care most of the time. Having an attitude can help too. LOL If you are not in a place to stick up for yourself for whatever reason, my next advice would be to get away from them. Some of the worst synastry I've had where people just want to tell you what you are not doing and their head is shoved so up their own arse was Pluto square Pluto exact this lady was triggered by everything I did and did not do. This person would just stare at me too. I even had a nightmare that this person attacked me. I don't know what year my boss was born but my Saturn squared her Sun. Her sun opposed my sun. We both had Pluto/Saturn square our sun transit at the same time. We brought the worst out of each other around this time. When she is stressed she projects. See would like obsess over me, did not care about other teachers slacking either. I've yelled in her face a few times. We are fine now though, but I will never forget. Sister in law. Everything is a put down, discredit me, talk behind my back, eye roll, feels compelled to one up. I just trigger her. I just chalk it up to she has issues and I trigger her. I've been giving her actual reasons to not like me, if she is just going to not like me no matter what. She kind of respects me more for it now. Because it's like you feel ugly, you act ugly to me, and now I treat her likes she's ugly. Like good job, you did it. Self fulfilling prophesy. Her moon is in Aries and I have Cancer and Cappy from early middle and late degrees. My Mercury opposes her Pluto My Jupiter opposes her Venus(self esteem) Jupiter oppose Uranus(no, I will not think this person is great like everyone else. lol) She stares at me a lot too. Ya know you are kind of defeating the purpose of hating me get attention if you pay so much attention to me. That sends the universe a very confusing message. My husband can be very critical of me, but he at least has remorse and takes accountability when he realizes he is not being fair. Sun trine Jupiter Mercury square Sun Mercury trine Mars IP: Logged |
Librapurr Knowflake Posts: 1765 From: Registered: Jul 2019
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posted July 20, 2022 02:47 PM
Don’t say Virgo. We’re misunderstood most of the time lol Virgo generally wants to help and improve. 😇However, Virgo attract a lot of criticisms also. So what you call critical, it might be nothing to us, just a general conversation as we had much worse. It’s well-known Virgo is also critical to themselves. And they often have the higher standards for themselves than for the others. IP: Logged |
Librapurr Knowflake Posts: 1765 From: Registered: Jul 2019
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posted July 20, 2022 03:40 PM
I expected to see Virgo all over this topic lolSaturn and/ or Capricorn criticism. They often try to preach from a pedestal, bring you down. Jupiter could be similar, but everything with more positivity. I used to say Saturn aspects didn’t bother me. I might change my opinion about it. Still better than Uranus. I know somebody with hard Jupiter and Saturn. Ridiculously high standards for everybody, but herself. Maybe, it’s Venus also. Since everything should look good. I don’t even think it’s toward me, but generally everything. All service should be the first class. People should behave like they were raised at Buckingham palace. In the same time, this person doesn’t behave like that I do think people often have more demands for me than for the surrounding because I have Virgo. Pluto criticism- just cut you off. When Pluto people were unhappy with me, I got that dead to me treatment what I think might be the actual criticism. I don’t think I did something equally bad to any of them. Aries - I don’t think any of them remember or acknowledge of being critical. Since when they’re over it, it means everybody else should be also. However, with them it’s hard to say whether it’s rude outburst or criticism.
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SleepyDiary Knowflake Posts: 410 From: Registered: Apr 2017
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posted July 20, 2022 04:20 PM
Hard Saturn aspects to personal planets or Ascendant in synastry. The Saturn person can be very critical. I have a friend with her Venus square to my Saturn and i must admit i have critized her for a lot of the choices she has made esp regarding her love life, money and even certain people she has befriended, but i have good reasons for why that is. But i have noticed i have been more critical of her than i have with others but i have also been more patient with her too. Saturn can get fed up with being there for the personal planet person trying to teach, advice, encourage them to become better people (Bc Saturn really believe they can be) and make better choices in life just to see them do the same immature mistake over and over again and never really learning from anything. A lot of the choices she makes i find stupid and immature. I find Virgos and Cap placements critical too. They can really be Debby downers sometimes haha. IP: Logged |