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Topic: Venus in the 11th House (Natal)
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margym0o
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From: Canada
Registered: Jul 2014
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posted April 27, 2016 11:45 AM
  
This is a spin-off of a comment in another thread but does anyone else struggle with this house?I have my (Leo) Venus here and it's one point in my chart that is sort of a mystery to me. From a common sense standpoint you would assume I maybe have this large circle of friends or friends/social groups are very important in my life, but this isn't the case. I am definitely more of a homebody and have only kept a few close friends at a time my entire life, who I don't even see that often. I would say whoever my partner is definitely becomes my "friend" who I see/hang out with most often so maybe this is part of it? Having a friendship component to my relationships is definitely important to me (but I assume most people would want this regardless). My Venus makes aspects only to Saturn by trine and Pluto by square (both almost exact) so maybe this doesn't help. Does anyone have any experience with this placement and what does it mean to you? IP: Logged |
headintheclouds91
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posted April 27, 2016 12:10 PM
I have a friend with this placement and she too don't have a big circle of friends. But she tends to share her biz a lot with her friends or boyfriend and always seem to need some sort of support or hear their opinion in whatever she is going through. IP: Logged |
Aqualilith09
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posted April 27, 2016 09:05 PM
I have venus in 11, in scorpio tho. and usually, my bf's become my best friend/the person I hang out with the most. lolIP: Logged |
diamondbaby
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posted April 28, 2016 12:03 AM
One of my friends has this placement, but her Venus is not only in the 11th house but in Aquarius is well, which is basically the same archetype. She is very outgoing, positive, social, and she loves to party! She is always in a relationship and hates to be alone. IP: Logged |
hannaramaa
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posted April 28, 2016 12:24 AM
I have it in Aries there and square Saturn - I'm a lonerIP: Logged |
Sylven
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From: Netherlands
Registered: Nov 2014
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posted April 28, 2016 03:01 PM
Nice, I have it in Leo and in 11th too.  It's opposite my Moon in 5th, sextile Uranus and trine Chiron. I can understand your mystery feeling. I know a lot of people but only really have a few close friends. My husband being one of them.
I was never a party animal, meaning having more than 1 party a week. I LOVE a party and I am or can be the life of a party but the next day I need my alone time. I don't understand those that are always surrounding themselves with people. Ugh. Maybe because I work on a very big school with thousands of people. ?? Nah, I have always had this. Before the relationship with my husband hit off we knew each other (8 years), friends not exactly (he was a good friend of my sister and her bf) we have always liked each other. To me this is very important. You have got to be my friend when I date you! My closeness to people does change a lot. I can be close to someone but a few months later this person disappears or I am done with it. I don't feel people are in my life forever. They come and go. Sometimes I do not like that. It feels fickle and restless. There are people who have life long friends. I don't know that.
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Claudine
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Registered: Mar 2016
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posted April 28, 2016 08:55 PM
I have Venus in Taurus in the 11th house (opposite Moon), and yes, I am not very social active person, but I like being around people at work, at the uni, they could not be my friends, but I like being a friendly person (if these people seem nice to me).
As well, I tend to join some circles - people who share (I share) the same interests.
As dating, I agree with the comments above, firstly I prefer to be friends with person I date. It doesn't work otherwise.------------------
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Aries23Degrees
Knowflake Posts: 2948
From: South Africa
Registered: Dec 2012
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posted April 28, 2016 11:17 PM
quote:
Originally posted by margym0o:
This is a spin-off of a comment in another thread but does anyone else struggle with this house?I have my (Leo) Venus here and it's one point in my chart that is sort of a mystery to me. From a common sense standpoint you would assume I maybe have this large circle of friends or friends/social groups are very important in my life, but this isn't the case. I am definitely more of a homebody and have only kept a few close friends at a time my entire life, who I don't even see that often. I would say whoever my partner is definitely becomes my "friend" who I see/hang out with most often so maybe this is part of it? Having a friendship component to my relationships is definitely important to me (but I assume most people would want this regardless). My Venus makes aspects only to Saturn by trine and Pluto by square (both almost exact) so maybe this doesn't help. Does anyone have any experience with this placement and what does it mean to you?
On the 11th house cusp,friendship is where ones ego is likely to be invested. In this house,there is tendency to make friendships(11th) all about YOU(Leo). You may direct friendships or control the in a manner or way that suits you. And if others disagree or are "uncontrollable", you can clash with them. Now Venus there may suggest that the partner is likely to become a friend OR that you prefer your relationship nature to have a "friendship" quality to it etc. I often think that there is often a swing between the house cusp sign and the planet nature i.e. Venus likes to share and partner up whilst Leo is all about what suits them best. Do you find yourself having to balance your own dominating needs/wants in order to be more accommodating to those you are friend with? IP: Logged |
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