posted April 28, 2016 10:16 PM            

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Originally posted by Elysia:
It'll blow over... So far, I've seen the best thing to do is just ride it out.. And be extra-gentle in the meantime.

He'll get that you're feeling bad about upsetting him and he'll snap out of it.

Approach #2 that works (for Cancers with earth & air moons): A simple talking through, basically *you* have to broach the subject and address it - they probably won't..(in this case, 'hey, sorry I didn't mean to say *whatever-you-said*, I was just really really cross you know'). When they sense you're sincere about it, the mood passes, and they're their loony selves again.

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posted May 01, 2016 03:32 PM            

It's great that I now know how to "handle" him best.

He's a funny mix with his chart I think between being really sentimental and emotional and also kind of the other way too. I like it though, it works well and we have great conversations.

He's working through his grief pretty healthily. Ups and downs but he stayed home alone for a week baking and doing stuff which I think sounds like a great way to process things.

Wish I could take it all away, but I think he just appreciates me being around.