posted May 03, 2016 03:31 PM            

Both my mom got a pisces venus, my ex-boyfriend got a pisces moon, and all the other people I know with pisces moons are extremely secretive about their inner emotional life.
I mean, other people sometimes seems to have no problem crying their heart out to random people, but you NEVER see a pisces moon/sun/venus person do this?

And WHY? I would have hoped that it would get better with their age and all, but my mom is pretty old now, and she still doesn't know how to express her feelings at all... its only if you really push them that they will do it, but they dont like being pushed.
Sometimes they will just say to you, that they dont have any feelings to express, because they were just thinking about something else by then, and I'm not sure if this is the truth or not? Do they actually keep their feelings in, or are they just so detached and daydreaming that they don't really stuck with any kinds of feelings that they just need to express?

I really see a pattern here, cause every major pisces I've been close to, are the same way... apparently they don't want to open up emotionally!

posted May 03, 2016 05:27 PM              

Someone calling/inviting a Pisces for no reason other than to talk: Hiyah! Hi. How was your day. Good. Yours? Good/Ugh, Pisces, You never tell me anything!
Pisces are the replies.

Pisces Sun + Moon conjunct in 8th.

posted May 03, 2016 06:55 PM            

Them: How are you feeling?

Pisces moon: How are you feeling?

Them: I just asked how you are feeling?

Pisces moon: Well honestly it depends on how you are feeling.

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Exaggerating

posted May 03, 2016 09:28 PM            

She's also perpetually mad a me for some reason or another, and I can sense her resentment, but she acts like everything is fine. Then I'll hear from other family members that she's angry at me, because she talks behind my back constantly. I've lost count of how many times others have said "What happened between you two, she's so furious at you?" When literally the last conversation there was absolutely no animosity between us. She can never face things head on, so she bottles it up and becomes increasingly angry over really little things. My mom and my sister used to be very close, but they haven't spoken in over 2 and a half years because my mom called her with an attitude and my sister hung up on her. So my sister iced her out. There was a similar situation between my sister and grandma, where my sister went 10 years without talking to her. How the hell do you disown family members over something so stupid? I really think it's because she's mad about 1,000 little things, and then all the sudden she snaps over something trivial. She bottles up her emotions rather than dealing with things in an upfront way. This is true for other people with Pisces Sun and Moon that I've known. It makes me feel disconnected to them, like I never know who they really are.

posted May 03, 2016 09:40 PM            

quote:

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Originally posted by Starry~*:
I'm eating a Pisces at the moment

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Well then how does that Pisces taste? I don't like fish so I wouldn't know

posted May 03, 2016 09:53 PM              

I'm eating a Pisces at the moment[/B]

Ouch... That Pisces must be extremely bored at this moment.
You into being a herbivore?... At the moment? Cuz if we're caught we sure do love people to enjoy us.

posted May 03, 2016 10:56 PM            

Slipped up there. I was thinking about eating when I wrote that, the wrong word went down the wrong brain pipe HAHAHAHA

posted May 03, 2016 11:26 PM            

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Originally posted by Bluejay:
My sister is like this. She's a Pisces Sun with a 12th house Capricorn Moon. It drives me insane because she's always hiding her feelings. She will pretend everything is fine, but I can sense that something is wrong. If I push her to open up to me she gets really defensive. Then of course I find out later that something was really wrong, but she didn't want to discuss it with me. What's really crazy is that the vast majority of people I know confide things to me, many times I'm the only person they feel comfortable talking to about their issues. But my own sister can't tell me what's bothering her, then she blames me for not being there for her. I couldn't be because she totally shut me out emotionally.

She's also perpetually mad a me for some reason or another, and I can sense her resentment, but she acts like everything is fine. Then I'll hear from other family members that she's angry at me, because she talks behind my back constantly. I've lost count of how many times others have said "What happened between you two, she's so furious at you?" When literally the last conversation there was absolutely no animosity between us. She can never face things head on, so she bottles it up and becomes increasingly angry over really little things. My mom and my sister used to be very close, but they haven't spoken in over 2 and a half years because my mom called her with an attitude and my sister hung up on her. So my sister iced her out. There was a similar situation between my sister and grandma, where my sister went 10 years without talking to her. How the hell do you disown family members over something so stupid? I really think it's because she's mad about 1,000 little things, and then all the sudden she snaps over something trivial. She bottles up her emotions rather than dealing with things in an upfront way. This is true for other people with Pisces Sun and Moon that I've known. It makes me feel disconnected to them, like I never know who they really are.

Sorry for the rant

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No I really agree with you, this is so true! Especially the last comment as well, that it's hard to know who they really are at all?

And they become difficult to deal with in close relationships because of this. Cause you really need to learn how to deal with feelings, but that demands that you are able to TALK about them lol....

posted May 03, 2016 11:32 PM            

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Originally posted by missblyss:
the thing is, we don't even always know how we feel. and sometimes even if we are feeling a certain way, we know that it is only a projection of our own internal worlds... why should I share with you what I am *feeling* in a fleeting moment if I really don't agree with it or identify with it? Or if I know it is just a personal problem? My ex would always push me and demand I spill my guts, and I never wanted to because of the awareness that my feelings have nothing to do with him and only with myself.

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Yeah I can definitely see that dilemma.... but how are we supposed to deal with relationship problems with you then? My ex was NEVER telling me how he felt by his own free will, I always had to dig it out... and especially if it was a problem he had with me. So in that way the problem became impossible for me to solve, because he didn't expressed his feelings!

posted May 04, 2016 04:00 AM            

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Originally posted by missblyss:
the thing is, we don't even always know how we feel. and sometimes even if we are feeling a certain way, we know that it is only a projection of our own internal worlds... why should I share with you what I am *feeling* in a fleeting moment if I really don't agree with it or identify with it? Or if I know it is just a personal problem? My ex would always push me and demand I spill my guts, and I never wanted to because of the awareness that my feelings have nothing to do with him and only with myself.

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Originally posted by Faith:
Trying to imagine if I actually tried to express exactly what I am feeling....

Them: How are you feeling?

Pisces moon: How are [b]you feeling?

Them: I just asked how you are feeling?

Pisces moon: Well honestly it depends on how you are feeling.

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Exaggerating

As others have said I don't actually reveal too much, if I do I feel "off" and I don't think people understood me, anyway. Most of the time when I'm talking with friends, I'm just listening. They apologize for doing all the talking and I apologize for having little to say. Especially in writing...I'm more self-centered in person. [/B]

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posted May 04, 2016 04:08 AM              

.... You actually bring out a really good point. Pisces love humor, and love to laugh- even at themselves(although don't like admitting it). One of the Best ways to get us to reveal our feelings, actually.

posted May 04, 2016 04:42 AM            

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Originally posted by Faith:
Trying to imagine if I actually tried to express exactly what I am feeling....

Them: How are you feeling?

Pisces moon: How are [b]you feeling?

Them: I just asked how you are feeling?

Pisces moon: Well honestly it depends on how you are feeling.

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Exaggerating

As others have said I don't actually reveal too much, if I do I feel "off" and I don't think people understood me, anyway. Most of the time when I'm talking with friends, I'm just listening. They apologize for doing all the talking and I apologize for having little to say. Especially in writing...I'm more self-centered in person. [/B]

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posted May 04, 2016 09:02 AM            

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Originally posted by jupitersgirl:
Lol, as a pisces moon, it does not sound like exaggerating.

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Well it's not accurate, because I don't need to ask how they are feeling, I just get vibes and they affect me.

So it's more like...

He's looking tense...so I feel tense
He's brooding over something...ugh, I FEEL that broody feeling!!
Now, what's that, a slight angry tone?...grrr I don't like the angry tone, makes me angry..

Like missblyss said, I don't identify too strongly with my feelings because who knows where they came from, and often they don't serve my higher ideals anyway.

posted October 16, 2021 03:03 PM            

My Pisces Mercury endorses this. I’ve said things (revealed feelings) that I can look back on and accept “well, i guess it was the truth”

posted October 16, 2021 03:25 PM            

Many feelings are transient, like clouds in the sky.

Also I find if I reveal my feelings, people become confused, because they assume this must be the way I always feel about a certain thing. It is not.

So, for people who don´t understand the vastness of my capacity of perception, me saying a feeling will merely confuse the one who is trying to understand it in the wrong way in the first place.

If someone tries to compartmentalize, to categorize, to clinically assess, or to find a pattern so they feel at ease, it will not work anyway.

On the whole, revealing my feelings is irrelevant.

posted October 16, 2021 04:55 PM            

No, Pisces is not typically the most introverted mode of expression. And it is not good to 'push' anyone to say what they feel!

If they don't say, it's typically it's because of one or more of three reasons:

1. They have trouble putting what they feel into words.
2. They don't exactly know what they feel, so they don't want to make up words to satisfy someone else.
3. They're concerned expressing a strong feeling could hurt someone else's feelings.

They understand the nature of feelings as emotional process — changeable — more so than Cancer or Scorpio types who tend to cling to particular feelings more as essential to their identity.

And yes, like other introverts, they're not given to expressing their feelings up-front.

posted October 16, 2021 10:13 PM            

Sometimes I am really going through something tough and I would rather deal with it myself. I can be a very intense person and that scares people sometimes so I've learned to control myself.

I can only speak for myself when I say I usually say nothing about what I am feeling because I don't want to trouble someone. I see my emotions as a temporary state of mind that doesn't always need to be shared. A lot of the time the 'issues' I go through emotionally are easily solved so I find no reason to share them.

I do enjoy talking about my perspective of things though and the different angles you can look at a situation. But I'm not one to cry or laugh loud unless I feel like there is a true reason to.