posted May 14, 2016 07:21 AM            

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Originally posted by diamondbaby:
Yes... Mars retrograde by itself is horrible (suppressed anger that erupts like a volcano). Plus Mars rx will reenter Scorpio on May 27th staying there until August 2nd. Mars in Scorpio is not exactly a light-hearted transit either.

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posted May 14, 2016 07:23 AM            

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Originally posted by Vajra:
Your kind and measured reaction is very much to your credit, polkadotstars. Hopefully she will appreciate it. Do be careful around her though. The level of aggressiveness she's displayed against you is not normal IMO, and neither can it be just the result of some transits. I would hate for her to take advantage of your kindness in any way, so don't make yourself vulnerable to her.

Once when I found myself in somewhat comparable circumstances, an older Libra Sun guy gave me the following piece of advice:
"If you can always remain calm and composed in the face of even her most outrageous accusations, and never retaliate in kind, then everyone will see very clearly who the crazy one truly is. But if you fight back in kind, people will say that the truth must lie somewhere in the middle." That advice was gold in my situation, and it might indeed apply to yours, too.

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Thank you. Yes, I am definitely not wanting to be friends with her in any way. I have finally gotten to a place in my life where I only have positive people surrounding me who make me a better person. She is clearly very toxic.

posted May 14, 2016 04:37 PM            

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Originally posted by polkadotstars:
Even though she said she didn't want any communication with me ever, I replied :-p
I can read people like books- (I'm Plutonian dominant) and I get the feeling she's one of those people who says one thing but means another. I knew if I didn't respond to her novel then she would be ****** and would hold that against me, even though she said she didn't want to communicate with me ever again.

I rose above her level and said I had fun playing the game, I only got angry when she shoved me which is why I asked her boyfriend to talk to her, that I like her teammates and I'm friends with many of them. I also said I have no ill will towards her, and if she wishes to feel otherwise about me, then that's solely her choice. I said life is too short to make enemies over recreation soccer games and I extended the offer to her to go out sometime for a maragarita and talk about soccer or whatever.

I am certain she will not respond and I'm okay with that. I just know I will see her around again because we will probably play each other in playoffs but also because I am friends with her boyfriend and I don't want there to be some childish hatred there if I see her. Im not the type of person to hold grudges.

Anyways, I hope all of you are staying safe (and sane) despite all these crazy transits going on! I almost didn't make it out alive.. just kidding ;-)

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posted May 14, 2016 09:17 PM            

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Originally posted by Gabby:
Mars rx hit exact on my Sun/Merc yesterday and today....im generally super laid back (saggy Sun/Merc/Nep stellium) but i was standing in line behind some french speaking ppl, i don't speak French and they wouldn't shut up! It's like they didn't need to breathe. They were so non-stop they sounded like tv static or nails on a chalkboard, it was making my skin crawl!
I don't know at the moment it seemed like the most annoying thing ive ever heard in my life...and then the line was going sooo slow I couldn't get away from them so every minute seemed to take an hour. I felt like my head was going to explode, it got so irritating i wanted to scream, i almost left the place to come back another time.
But i just stood there...trying to look like i wasnt about to loose my mind and praying I could hang on. Also, realizing how irrational i was being, but I couldn't stop it at the moment, so i was thanking god my head was in a decent enough place that i didnt kill ppl during transits like these, whew, lol. Talk about feeling like a weirdo in public!! Lol im surprised ppl couldn't see the struggle i was having inside and staring at the crazy woman. 😜
Today its still exact so im not leaving the house. Oh, and by now I have a horrible headache which i always get migraines during hard Mars/Merc transits.

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Ohhh Gabby I feel for you. Last time I felt like what you are describing transit Mars was making a tsquare with transit Mars at the apex and my chiron opposite Jupiter conjunct Uranus which are my chart rulers. I guess bc transit Mars was at the apex making it the release point of tsquate it made me feel like you are feeling. I remember feeling a lot of compassion for people with anger issues, it was an anger that hurt and hard to control and understand, extreme irritability. Thank god it was a brief transit and felt it most when it was exact.

This time transit Mars is conjuncting my chart ruler Jupiter conjunct Uranus and opposing chiron but I am chill, I think bc Mars is not in a tsquate nor is it at the release point or apex of tsquare it's not affecting me the same way.

I wonder if transit Mars is forming a tsquate with your natal chart ....

posted May 14, 2016 10:38 PM            

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Originally posted by Gabby:
Mars rx hit exact on my Sun/Merc yesterday and today....im generally super laid back (saggy Sun/Merc/Nep stellium) but i was standing in line behind some french speaking ppl, i don't speak French and they wouldn't shut up! It's like they didn't need to breathe. They were so non-stop they sounded like tv static or nails on a chalkboard, it was making my skin crawl!
I don't know at the moment it seemed like the most annoying thing ive ever heard in my life...and then the line was going sooo slow I couldn't get away from them so every minute seemed to take an hour. I felt like my head was going to explode, it got so irritating i wanted to scream, i almost left the place to come back another time.
But i just stood there...trying to look like i wasnt about to loose my mind and praying I could hang on. Also, realizing how irrational i was being, but I couldn't stop it at the moment, so i was thanking god my head was in a decent enough place that i didnt kill ppl during transits like these, whew, lol. Talk about feeling like a weirdo in public!! Lol im surprised ppl couldn't see the struggle i was having inside and staring at the crazy woman. 😜
Today its still exact so im not leaving the house. Oh, and by now I have a horrible headache which i always get migraines during hard Mars/Merc transits.

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Mars is starting to square my Mars again, and I wanted people to get out of my way in the grocery store. I wished I had a horn on my cart.

posted May 14, 2016 11:35 PM            

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Originally posted by hypatia238:

Ohhh Gabby I feel for you. Last time I felt like what you are describing transit Mars was making a tsquare with transit Mars at the apex and my chiron opposite Jupiter conjunct Uranus which are my chart rulers. I guess bc transit Mars was at the apex making it the release point of tsquate it made me feel like you are feeling. I remember feeling a lot of compassion for people with anger issues, it was an anger that hurt and hard to control and understand, extreme irritability. Thank god it was a brief transit and felt it most when it was exact.

This time transit Mars is conjuncting my chart ruler Jupiter conjunct Uranus and opposing chiron but I am chill, I think bc Mars is not in a tsquate nor is it at the release point or apex of tsquare it's not affecting me the same way.

I wonder if transit Mars is forming a tsquate with your natal chart ....

Hang in there, this craziness will soon be over.

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Your transits sound rough, im so sorry!
Im lucky i dont have any squares going on right now, whew!
My Sun/Merc don't have any hard aspects to them in my chart, it's just the conjunction to tr. Mars from what i can tell. But with my Merc being combust my Sun so tight, my mind is already very overwhelmed by the Sun, naturally.
Add tr. Mars rx to that and my mind feels overwhelmd with anger blown up by my Sun...if i had something squaring this, id be in trouble! Lol

posted May 14, 2016 11:41 PM            

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Originally posted by teasel:
Mars is starting to square my Mars again, and I wanted people to get out of my way in the grocery store. I wished I had a horn on my cart.

I took magnesium powder the other night, to help relax me (I was in pain, and depressed, and I thought it would at least help me to sleep). I wonder if eating magnesium-rich foods would help - or just taking it, as long as it doesn't make you drowsy.

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posted May 15, 2016 03:45 AM            

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Originally posted by Gabby:
Your transits sound rough, im so sorry!
Im lucky i dont have any squares going on right now, whew!
My Sun/Merc don't have any hard aspects to them in my chart, it's just the conjunction to tr. Mars from what i can tell. But with my Merc being combust my Sun so tight, my mind is already very overwhelmed by the Sun, naturally.
Add tr. Mars rx to that and my mind feels overwhelmd with anger blown up by my Sun...if i had something squaring this, id be in trouble! Lol

My son had this transit about a week ago over his Sun, his birthday is just a few days after mine, he didn't have the issues im having, i think its my combust and the fact that my brain is already overworked n underpaid because of the Sun....now Mars is getting a piece of it to, and my mind cant handle it! Lol

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Good point! Its the combust and mars there is exacerbating that and putting you on the edge.

posted May 15, 2016 03:53 AM            

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Originally posted by teasel:
Mars is starting to square my Mars again, and I wanted people to get out of my way in the grocery store. I wished I had a horn on my cart.

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posted May 16, 2016 12:23 AM            

Tonight
Tr Mars 3.55 Sag, Rx
Tr Pluto/Uranus midpoint 4.52 Pisces

Mars square Pluto/Uranus has been active for the past few days then.

Pluto/Uranus midpoint:

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Principle: An extreme desire for freedom and for change. A complete and potentially drastic revolution. To burn one's bridges behind oneself. Drastic situations that unleash pent-up energy. The growth and evolution of one's own unique gifts, talents, and abilities.

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Mars: To assert oneself in extremely uninhibited fashion. To engage in extreme rebellion that is potentially highly destructive. Working hard to effect radical changes.

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ETA

The draconic sun was conjunct tropical Mars, squaring Pluto/Uranus, the other day. Maybe that highlighted Mars.

posted May 16, 2016 11:30 AM            

I went through something similar...

(...that I just edited)

posted May 19, 2016 10:20 AM            

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Originally posted by polkadotstars:
Very true. She does have issues. She said in her message to me, "and FYI, since you're so adamant on involving my boyfriend, do not fret, I have already sent to him what I'm sending you".
*roll eyes*

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