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Topic: Addicted to flirting
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Aries23Degrees
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From: South Africa
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posted December 18, 2016 01:07 AM
  
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Originally posted by Isa:
Libra / 7th house placements could indicate that too.
I have Mars in Libra in the 7th. And I am usually very nice to people and it gets interpreted as "flirting"-because I get them to laugh. Its true that I can get carried away when someone responds to it and catches my drift- thereby initiating a back/forth interaction of harmless banter etc. But whats the issue really? People are so damn serious at times 
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anonymidarkness
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posted December 18, 2016 02:56 AM
lol I love flirting. Gets me in trouble at times, so I try to make sure the other person is not taking it seriously. And there are also ones who think I'm flirting with them when I'm actually not.
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next to neptune
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From: The Moon
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posted December 18, 2016 03:50 AM
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Originally posted by hannaramaa:
Not Mercury - Pluto imo. Pluto in Scorpio in the 5th maybe, speaking from personal experience. 
Ahahah! I got pluto in scorpio in the 5th house conjunct venus.... but I am SO very bad at flirting...I never flirt anymore these days so...nope!  IP: Logged |
neptunicity
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posted December 18, 2016 04:30 AM
From my observation, fire and air signs. Aries can be really bold in flirting! A 5th house stellium. Venus-Pluto folks. I agree that they like to always "test" their charm on others, and if the person seems receptive, they will use their charm to manipulate or gain influence on people. Like they use their charm as a "weapon" to be brandished. I also read that sun conjuct mars people are flirtatious as well.IP: Logged |
MarsSaturnDelight
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posted December 18, 2016 06:15 AM
I'm not keen on flirting, I don't really do it and I don't think I'm good at it!Aqua sun
Sag Asc
Virgo moon 8th
Cap Venus (1st square Pluto)
Scorp Mars (10th conj Saturn)
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Julz87
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From: On the Rings of Saturn
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posted December 18, 2016 07:20 AM
Sun, Venus, AC in Libra w/ Cap Moon, Virgo Mars and Merc/Pluto in Scorpio conjunct. I do not know how to flirt, what is flirting? Can one of you teach me? I know it's my Cap Moon doing the damage, to me flirting would be talking about someone's work, career, accomplishments and praising them etc etc. :/ IP: Logged |
Cinnamon sky
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posted December 18, 2016 07:52 AM
Can it also be 5th house ruler conj Venus and Jupiter? Also Libra Venus, it's a basic need, I can't help it, lol
I am not good at it though, but I like it. I'm constantly trying to control myself because I feel like I have the tendency to dissolve the boundaries between me and others to soon (7th H Pisces). Then I freak out and start building walls. Cause Saturn is the ruler of my 5th and he's into walls.
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MarsSaturnDelight
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posted December 18, 2016 08:39 AM
My brother is a Taurus sun with a wide Mars/Venus square; Venus square Pluto and Leo Asc........he is terrible flirt. He truly can't control himself even in front of his partner!IP: Logged |
nordicsoul
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posted December 18, 2016 12:38 PM
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Originally posted by Electro DGX:
Wow, it's been seven months and I cannot identify with what I said. Changing on the inside...I am not a flirt though. Even with my Jupiter in the 5th house, I'm just not a flirt. I love the idea of getting intimate with someone but I think flirting is superficial and if I want to get with someone in that way, I want to get down to the nitty-gritty. Flirting doesn't satisfy me; it's all or nothing.
what about asking a friend who know you well. you may be surprissed. not implying you are, just making sure you get rid of that problem disturbing you... LOL.. i am in silly mood IP: Logged |
nordicsoul
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posted December 18, 2016 12:42 PM
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Originally posted by neptunicity:
From my observation, fire and air signs. Aries can be really bold in flirting! A 5th house stellium. Venus-Pluto folks. I agree that they like to always "test" their charm on others, and if the person seems receptive, they will use their charm to manipulate or gain influence on people. Like they use their charm as a "weapon" to be brandished. I also read that sun conjuct mars people are flirtatious as well.
i have sun-mars-venus conjunction an I was born a flirt. IP: Logged |
poppydaffy
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From: Oslo
Registered: Jul 2014
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posted December 18, 2016 05:44 PM
female with 5th house gemini mars, love to flirt, mostly to see what kind of reaction i can get out of people. i like to know i have people on the tip off my fingers, but if they are to much into me i will leave. :-)IP: Logged |
Faith
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From: Bella's Hair Salon
Registered: Jul 2011
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posted December 18, 2016 07:57 PM
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Originally posted by hypatia238:
Is that a 5th house meets Jupiter thing? Or a mercury meets Pluto thing? Or what placements can explain this in your opinion?
Leo ASC trine 5H Sag Venus-Neptune, Neptune trine 9H Aries Jupiter I'm not flirtatious. I'm hypnotizing. Big difference.  No no no, truth is, I only remember flirting on purpose about three times in my life, and the first two times, I was drunk. (Not including flirting within a relationship...whole other matter.) What I am "addicted" to is just being genuine with people, and I'm comfortable around men for the most part, and just being open and willing to laugh and stuff...some have taken that as flirtation. And boyfriends did not always appreciate how easily I got along with men...one boyfriend was so jealous I barely talked to any men and still got in trouble for things like, how I talked to the male cashier in front of him. Please don't quote IP: Logged |
hypatia238
Moderator Posts: 5705
From: Colorado
Registered: Sep 2014
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posted December 18, 2016 08:31 PM
^^
I could see how all those placements would make you very playful and fun plus charming but your sun cap would NOT let you turn into a flirt haha, keeping that energy in check so is channeled in a positive way that benefits you socially.IP: Logged |
Faith
Knowflake Posts: 20556
From: Bella's Hair Salon
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posted December 18, 2016 08:38 PM
Thanks for understanding.IP: Logged |
Ann7
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From: united states
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posted December 19, 2016 05:29 AM
I would think the multable signs would be natural flirts, Sag for sure. Venus in the first or 5th house. Venus conjunct sun, mercury or ascendant.IP: Logged |
TensionEmpire
Knowflake Posts: 658
From: Hamburg
Registered: Sep 2014
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posted December 19, 2016 06:04 AM
It is very difficult fotr me to speack to a women without thinking about flirting, or to feel the flirt in the air.IP: Logged |
colorful butterfly
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From: Durham north carolina usa
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posted December 20, 2016 05:28 PM
I am a huge flirt but can be shy, depends on the other person and how they come off to me. Also sometimes I am just being nice but ends up looking like I am flirting when I am just being nice. Even girls have made advances thinking I was feeling them. Libra moon, venus and mars in gemini. If I didn't have Cancer sun or virgo rising , well I would be more than just a flirt.IP: Logged |
girlwiththerainysoul
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From: CH
Registered: Jul 2016
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posted December 24, 2016 01:50 AM
people may have different definitions of flirting; for me it is subtly chatting the person up until they reveal what I want about themselves.I agree with pluto/mercury. although I believe there should also be both prominent jupiter and uranus in the chart as well.
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Geeky
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From: the Sun, vacation house on Mercury
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posted December 26, 2016 09:32 PM
I flirt with about 50% of people I come in contact with, whether they are male or female. However, I don't flirt with anyone who looks 25 or younger because they might be even younger and since I have teen kids of my own, I'm paranoid of being accused of some kind of weird abuse. That and I'm attracted to maturity so there's that. But I admit I am ridiculous. I flirt with he UPS girl, the FedEx guy, the "regulars" at my job who range in age from 32 to 94, the internet tech who had to dig a hole and lay line behind my property, the plumber, the landscapers, people at the post office, people at the grocery store, people in a bar, my friends... it's really endless LOL. I thought it had to do with my own self esteem but I actually just like to make people feel good about themselves. Almost everyone likes to be noticed...to feel special. A smile & a wink can work wonders on an 80-something year old man who lost his wife a year ago and feels incredibly alone in the world (one example). And in any case, it's so instinctual that I have to consciously work very hard to control my incessant flirting in work environments (I had flings with many bosses/coworkers in my youth though). I think it's my Leo rising / Sag moon. And yes, I do the stereotypical Leo hair flip.  Edit: This might be of note - I have Venus conjunct Mars (but they are wide). ------------------
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