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Topic: Addicted to flirting
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hypatia238
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posted May 18, 2016 12:58 AM
  
Is that a 5th house meets Jupiter thing? Or a mercury meets Pluto thing? Or what placements can explain this in your opinion?IP: Logged |
hannaramaa
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posted May 18, 2016 01:53 AM
Not Mercury - Pluto imo. Pluto in Scorpio in the 5th maybe, speaking from personal experience.  IP: Logged |
nordicsoul
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posted May 18, 2016 03:57 AM
I have jupiter conjunct 5th house cusp and 5th pluto.. I am a flirt, but I dont know what would explain that. I thought that jupiter as it flirt is something playful and jupiter is playful and feel comfy in the 5th... Pluto may have an influence if the flirting is associate to test our power. when we flirt to get something. I remember I used to flirt with the guy from the library in my university as I always return the books late and wanted to get away with the fines. not alwys successful, but I tried on the other hand, I am very venusian (venus rules the AC, conjunct sun, sextile ascendant)... and I think that is something as venusian I enjoy.. moon-mercury in gemini square pluto in 5h..that may also explain part of the situation? mercurial people also likes to experiment and play with "what if" scenarios. IP: Logged |
Electro DGX
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posted May 18, 2016 09:24 AM
I would say that this is a more Venusian thing because Venus likes to be and appear beautiful, and if they flirt with others it's because they like to do things with "beautiful" people. I have Jupiter in Pisces in the 5th and I don't flirt and probably never will. Flirting is not something I find delight in. ------------------
Aquarius Sun, Merc, Venus, Uranus, Neptune
Scorpio Mars conj. Asc in First
8th House Moon opposite Pluto, Trine Uranus
Have you caught onto the predicament I'm in yet? IP: Logged |
DopGang
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posted May 18, 2016 09:29 AM
I know this is very general, but I think it fits. Libra sun by a long shot. I know and have known several of them and it really doesn't seem to matter what the rest of the chart is like. They WILL flirt a lot and may not realize it. It's almost like a necessary thing that they use to navigate through the world.
12th house sun, 8th, 1st, 4th. Take your pick, they WILL flirt. IP: Logged |
Sikanda
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posted May 18, 2016 10:17 AM
How about Libra venus and/or Moon?IP: Logged |
Isa
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posted May 18, 2016 11:06 AM
Libra / 7th house placements could indicate that too.IP: Logged |
Gemini Blues
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posted May 18, 2016 12:03 PM
Gemini is another sign like Libra that can be a flirt, but it's 8th house for me. Sun, Mercury, and my Taurus Mars is on the cusp of the 8th. I can't usually get away with flirting, because it's too obvious that I mean it... too much 8th house, too strong. On the other hand, someone once said that they loved my complements because they knew that if I gave a complement, they knew it was genuine. IP: Logged |
diamondbaby
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posted May 18, 2016 12:08 PM
Personally I don't think Pluto has much to do with flirting. Flirting is something that's light-hearted and not meant to be taken too seriously. Flirting is pretty much the opposite of what the Scorpio/Pluto/8th house archetype represents. In my opinion people with strong Gemini and/or Libra influence are the biggest flirts.IP: Logged |
margym0o
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posted May 18, 2016 12:33 PM
I agree Gemini and/or Libra influence, but Gemini I would say is moreso a curiosity than a desire to "flirt" per se. They just like talking to other people, hearing their stories and learning from them. Sometimes this can be misconstrued as flirting, especially when it's with the opposite sex and they seem eager.Libra likes to be seen as sophisticated and smooth and exuding that essence tends to come off as flirty. Maybe more the Libra Mars position in a man, from my experience. However, I think the whole chart has to be considered because I've known Libra Suns to be nice, polite and genial in social situations but not "flirty" in that suave sense. They just want to seen as likeable and not ruffle anyone's feathers. I can't speak to the 5th house at all but I do know from experience Scorpio/Pluto/8th house influence is far too intense to be flirty in this sense. Flirting can be seen as superficial and they don't do superficial... IP: Logged |
Doux Rêve
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posted May 18, 2016 02:38 PM
Hell yeah Libra/Gem, especially combined.
Would add Leo (Moon/Venus/ASC especially) to the list.IP: Logged |
Yanmorg
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posted May 18, 2016 03:04 PM
My ex was this way.He had mercury in Sagittarius at 0 degrees in the 8th, square chiron and semi square uranus and Neptune. Libra also ruled his 7th house and his Venus is in Sagittarius semi sextile Uranus. IP: Logged |
Elysia
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posted May 18, 2016 04:57 PM
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Originally posted by DopGang:
I know this is very general, but I think it fits. Libra sun by a long shot. I know and have known several of them and it really doesn't seem to matter what the rest of the chart is like. They WILL flirt a lot and may not realize it. It's almost like a necessary thing that they use to navigate through the world.
12th house sun, 8th, 1st, 4th. Take your pick, they WILL flirt.
Geeez. I couldn't if I tried.. But umm, partially agree, the "may not realize it" part. I dunno.. For the record, in our heads, we're just being friendly. If only everyone could be nicer to each other..  JK! Come to think of it, my ex used to think I was 'flirting' with people, or welcoming their attention. Gahh. Geminis, well whether or not they flirt is another question - but they're good at it for sure.  IP: Logged |
DopGang
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posted May 18, 2016 05:24 PM
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Originally posted by Elysia:
Geeez. I couldn't if I tried.. But umm, partially agree, the "may not realize it" part. I dunno.. For the record, in our heads, we're just being friendly. If only everyone could be nicer to each other.. JK! Come to think of it, my ex used to think I was 'flirting' with people, or welcoming their attention. Gahh. Geminis, well whether or not they flirt is another question - but they're good at it for sure.
 I'm not saying that I've seen you flirt (People can have different ideas about what flirting is anyway)
I can see the potential in you for sure. Haha Edit: one time I was accused of leading someone on, via email. I didn't think so. It was a pretty tense situation. So with permission I showed the emails to a third party who agreed that I led them on. I still didn't see it.
Now, years later, I can to some extent but NOT to the extent that they saw it. Oh well. :/
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Gemini30
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posted May 18, 2016 06:20 PM
I've got Gemini Sun, Mercury, and Mars. Libra ASC conj Moon.
I dont flirt at all.
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just kidding of course i do!! I love to flirt and i can flirt hard. I love when i can make women blush. It turns me on. Sags are major flirts too. IP: Logged |
hypatia238
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posted May 19, 2016 01:12 AM
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Originally posted by Gemini30:
I've got Gemini Sun, Mercury, and Mars. Libra ASC conj Moon.
I dont flirt at all.
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just kidding of course i do!! I love to flirt and i can flirt hard. I love when i can make women blush. It turns me on. Sags are major flirts too.
Lol hahahahaha IP: Logged |
nordicsoul
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posted May 19, 2016 04:01 AM
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Originally posted by Doux Rêve:
Hell yeah Libra/Gem, especially combined.
Would add Leo (Moon/Venus/ASC especially) to the list.
I only have south node in libra. no other placement, but AC taurus which sextile my AC and venus in cancer conjunct mars-sun and moon-mercury in gemini.. mercury my sole dispositor and moon the dispositor of my venus. I was not aware when younger that I was a flirt until a friend of mine brought that to my attention. even when at work a friend of mine asked me. how can you keep smiling to people when interviewing them or talking serious matter to them? that is when I realized about the venusian side... then I realized I am a total flirt even with women and I am not lesbian.. I am a flirt. when younger I di IP: Logged |
VirgoPILL
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posted May 19, 2016 07:00 AM
then a libra sun/venus/mars, moon leo, scorpio mercury would be like love guru? IP: Logged |
Elysia
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posted May 19, 2016 01:05 PM
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Originally posted by DopGang:
I'm not saying that I've seen you flirt (People can have different ideas about what flirting is anyway)
I can see the potential in you for sure. Haha Edit: one time I was accused of leading someone on, via email. I didn't think so. It was a pretty tense situation. So with permission I showed the emails to a third party who agreed that I led them on. I still didn't see it.
Now, years later, I can to some extent but NOT to the extent that they saw it. Oh well.
*Potential*..!
I see what you mean about the emails though.. Happens.. Over email/text is sorta worse for both parties. You can read it in whatever voice you want. I dunno if you watch Modern Family, but in one episode - the dad, Phil Dunphy, realizes he's been leading on an ex-gf over facebook. --Basically, one can easily imagine or dream up a tone that doesn't exist. Ditto for real life. As a result, I am now extra snippy and aloof to people I am *not* interested in. Intentionally rude, in fact. I've grown to prefer being that way. So at least, when they walk away they're like..'Oh, she said no. But gosh, she seems like such a b****, I'm better off..' ^ They walk away happy. IP: Logged |
DopGang
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posted May 19, 2016 01:57 PM
^^ 
It almost seems like you restrain yourself on purpose. But that's just me and over the internet. IP: Logged |
Elysia
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posted May 19, 2016 02:06 PM
oops, wrong one. Okay, anyway.. Nvm. IP: Logged |
hypatia238
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posted May 19, 2016 02:09 PM
Great responses everyone!IP: Logged |
Plut0nian2
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posted May 21, 2016 02:38 PM
Pluto in scorpio in 5th H
I have it myself
I totally agree with others that mentioned it. I cant even describe how much I enjoy it.
I do not want any relationship or marriage or children ( I am a woman) I just want the flert.
I am dying for the "eye game" when I feel yhe deepness in someones eyes..its like our eyes speak with each others
I think the way we like to flert depends on the 5ths house lord and the sign it's in.
So 5th houses lord Pluto in scorpio.. I think explains why I fall for scorpio guys.. I immediately feel the intensity in their eyes and I like the fact that they do mot speak too much and they have a serious and sexy aura.
But I do not want anything serious its that beging which is pure flert that I find such a deep pleasure. When the flert ends I feel so bored I usually put an end quickly
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hypatia238
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posted December 17, 2016 11:59 PM
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Electro DGX
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posted December 18, 2016 12:07 AM
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Originally posted by Electro DGX:
I would say that this is a more Venusian thing because Venus likes to be and appear beautiful, and if they flirt with others it's because they like to do things with "beautiful" people. I have Jupiter in Pisces in the 5th and I don't flirt and probably never will. Flirting is not something I find delight in.
Wow, it's been seven months and I cannot identify with what I said. Changing on the inside... I am not a flirt though. Even with my Jupiter in the 5th house, I'm just not a flirt. I love the idea of getting intimate with someone but I think flirting is superficial and if I want to get with someone in that way, I want to get down to the nitty-gritty. Flirting doesn't satisfy me; it's all or nothing. ------------------
Scorpio Ascendant
Aquarius Sun in 4th
Gemini Moon in 8th
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