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Topic: Venus in the house and relationships
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YellowGerbera Knowflake Posts: 1009 From: Registered: Jul 2014
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posted May 12, 2020 07:25 PM
quote: Originally posted by DualGem: The want/need to build a home life with someone is still there just gets expressed differently. As you mentioned once you feel satisfied in the relationship.==================================== Gemini Sun, Capricorn Rising Aries Moon Gemini Mercury Venus Taurus Mars Cancer
Whoa crazy when my old posts get resurrected lol! It's been almost 4 years since I posted my quote here and lots have changed in my life. I found my forever partner and we are busy raising a toddler together! Looking back, I still feel pretty much the same about what I wrote. I want my home to be a happy place. Well... who wouldn't want that but growing up, my childhood wasn't always happy and peaceful.... I don't want my daughter to experience the same. What I didn't include in my quote last time is that I don't necessary need a partner to feel happy and home. I'm just as happy on my own. After becoming a mother, I guess I'm very protective of my daughter that if someone is making me unhappy (could be anyone like my partner, family members, whatever strangers), I got no fear to fight back. I will take my daughter and get us out of toxic environment no problem. And more than ever, I feel super motivated to give my daughter and my little family a better life. I want to advance in my career and succeed. I'm prepared to fight and do what it takes. Does all this describe a 4 houser Venus conjunct Mars in Aries? I'm not sure... IP: Logged |
YellowGerbera Knowflake Posts: 1009 From: Registered: Jul 2014
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posted May 12, 2020 07:36 PM
quote: Originally posted by Leo-Cancer98: How is your Aries Venus aspected?
So my Venus is in 4th House in Aries: - conjunct Mars also (2.5deg) - trine Sag Asc (1.5deg) & Uranus (2.5deg) conjunction - quintile Jupiter in 2nd House in Aquarius (exact) - opposite Juno in 10th House in Libra (2deg) - square Neptune in 1st House Capricorn (but super wide at 9deg) - biquintile Saturn in 12th House Scorpio (1deg; no clue what this really means but astro.com says so) IP: Logged |
teasel Knowflake Posts: 14507 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted May 13, 2020 11:49 AM
quote: Originally posted by meyray: Venus in the 6th HouseI feel like there is a very defined sense of give-and-take in my approach to love. If someone does something for me I feel the need to return the gesture otherwise I'm left with a lingering sense of debt even if they tell me it's alright. Also I only ever truly [b]feel love by acts of service. Romantic words, gestures or physical touch all fall flat and seem like a formality. The only thing that genuinely humbles my heart, knocks down my walls and makes it clear to me that I am loved is when someone helps me in some way. I would appreciate input by other 6H Venus people because mine is bombarded by aspects and it's hard for me to determine if this quality really come from 6H influence or if it's something else. [/B]
My Venus isn't in the 6th, but my Mercury/Sun are, and this made me smile, because I feel the same way. I like the gestures, some flirting, but words don't mean anything without something of substance backing them up. IP: Logged |
teasel Knowflake Posts: 14507 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted May 13, 2020 11:51 AM
quote: Originally posted by YellowGerbera: Whoa crazy when my old posts get resurrected lol!It's been almost 4 years since I posted my quote here and lots have changed in my life. I found my forever partner and we are busy raising a toddler together! Looking back, I still feel pretty much the same about what I wrote. I want my home to be a happy place. Well... who wouldn't want that but growing up, my childhood wasn't always happy and peaceful.... I don't want my daughter to experience the same. What I didn't include in my quote last time is that I don't necessary need a partner to feel happy and home. I'm just as happy on my own. After becoming a mother, I guess I'm very protective of my daughter that if someone is making me unhappy (could be anyone like my partner, family members, whatever strangers), I got no fear to fight back. I will take my daughter and get us out of toxic environment no problem. And more than ever, I feel super motivated to give my daughter and my little family a better life. I want to advance in my career and succeed. I'm prepared to fight and do what it takes. Does all this describe a 4 houser Venus conjunct Mars in Aries? I'm not sure...
It sounds like my Mars in Pisces in the 4th. Needing your home to be peaceful. IP: Logged |
vansio Knowflake Posts: 1102 From: on the outskirts of Delphi Registered: Dec 2017
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posted May 13, 2020 12:32 PM
@yellow, All of that life-changing joy happening in as little as four years is wonderful to hear. Thanks for updating us. IP: Logged |
YellowGerbera Knowflake Posts: 1009 From: Registered: Jul 2014
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posted May 15, 2020 05:01 PM
quote: Originally posted by teasel: It sounds like my Mars in Pisces in the 4th. Needing your home to be peaceful.
I'm a triple Pisces so maybe this is why I feel like that also? IP: Logged |
YellowGerbera Knowflake Posts: 1009 From: Registered: Jul 2014
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posted May 15, 2020 05:05 PM
quote: Originally posted by vansio: @yellow, All of that life-changing joy happening in as little as four years is wonderful to hear. Thanks for updating us.
Thanks @vansio! But the four years were packed with events that were unexpected, both positives and negatives. And even now we are having to live though the pandemic! However, the end result is positive for now We are a happy little family. We are doing fine for now. IP: Logged |
teasel Knowflake Posts: 14507 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted May 15, 2020 05:40 PM
quote: Originally posted by lovelyleo: Venus just the8th makes me extremely picky
Same here. Extremely picky. IP: Logged |
teasel Knowflake Posts: 14507 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted May 15, 2020 05:41 PM
quote: Originally posted by YellowGerbera: I'm a triple Pisces so maybe this is why I feel like that also?
Maybe. I'm very protective of my personal space. IP: Logged |
nomad-monad Knowflake Posts: 235 From: universe university Registered: Mar 2019
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posted May 15, 2020 07:03 PM
quote: Originally posted by MonteCristo: Anyone with Venus in 10th?
Me. Pisces 10th. Unless we share common interest in our work I will find it difficult to glue together. It doesn't need to be the same work, but we need to share interest in each others work, and there must be a deep passion for it to the level that work is life and life is work in a healthy way (not in a burnout way). Not saying that there is no play outside of work, but the work is definitely the glue (or rather, a vital ingredient in the glue). Though I have a stellium there as well with Sun/Jup/Merc so that adds to it. IP: Logged |
Randall Webmaster Posts: 126972 From: From a galaxy, far, far away... Registered: Apr 2009
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posted May 20, 2020 11:05 PM
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LeoSagRisingTaurusMoon Knowflake Posts: 111 From: Quintiles land, next to Neptune conjunct Asc Registered: Nov 2019
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posted May 24, 2020 11:51 AM
quote: Originally posted by Ami Anne: It shows what you LOVE and what you appreciate.I have Venus in Gemini in the 9th. I fall in love with a man's mind, how he speaks, how his words fall off his lips and his humor. I really don't care, within reason lol, what he looks like
OMG I fall for the exact same things. Venus in Virgo in 9th. ------------------ My natal chart with asteroids http://i.imgur.com/1IG2Im4.png and without asteroids http://i.imgur.com/Tl0L7oL.png Sappho biquintile Sun Mercury biquintile Uranus Venus quintile Saturn MC quintile Neptune Juno biquintile North Node Vertex quintile MC IP: Logged |
ginko147 Newflake Posts: 7 From: Bucuresti, RO, Romania Registered: May 2020
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posted May 26, 2020 07:04 PM
I have Venus in 5th house Aries squares my Neptune in 2nd house. I have never been in a relationship but I find felling jn love easier than I thought but with the wrong person.IP: Logged |
Randall Webmaster Posts: 126972 From: From a galaxy, far, far away... Registered: Apr 2009
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posted May 30, 2020 05:19 PM
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Adriana Knowflake Posts: 152 From: Registered: May 2009
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posted May 30, 2020 07:58 PM
I have Venus in Sag 11th house. I’m now with a guy that is originally from another country and we met online. But I’m not sure 11th house is always that fitting, in other house systems than Placidus it would be 12th house. Venus is also conjunct Mercury and Neptune. I used to be so romantic with extremely high expectations on feelings that I never found anyone IP: Logged |