posted June 28, 2016 05:13 AM            

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Originally posted by vertiver:
I also have Venus in the 7th H and that does not describe my approach to relationships at all.

I do not need relationships - and lately I've felt completely okay with being alone - I have no desire to be in a relationship for a long time. Perhaps this is colored by Natal Venus opposite Saturn/Uranus in the 1st H, but Venus in the 7th translates more to being agreeable to others and keeping the peace.

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posted June 28, 2016 08:26 AM            

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Originally posted by Primarose220:
What how does Venus act in each houses when it comes to relationships?

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It shows what you LOVE and what you appreciate.

I have Venus in Gemini in the 9th. I fall in love with a man's mind, how he speaks, how his words fall off his lips and his humor.

I really don't care, within reason lol, what he looks like

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posted June 28, 2016 12:41 PM            

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Originally posted by lovelyleo:
Venus just the8th makes me extremely picky

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I can relate to that.

If the person even talks a certain way, and I don't like it, it'll turn me off. attraction drops.

if the person has certain physical flaw that i don't like it/can't get past it, attraction drops.

if the person is not educated as me/above me, turns me off.

if the person acts too childish / farts in front of me, turns me off.

if the person's eyebrow is even cut uneven and i notice it, it turns me off.

posted June 28, 2016 12:45 PM            

Pluto is on the angle and so its effect may dominate the chart.

Venus in 7th tends to afford one with the probability of initially being well received.

If the 1st is our instinctual action. The 7th should suggest the publics or others instinctual re-action to us.

When in Venus, it may suggest that it is usually favourable.

When in Libra, people want to come towards us. Whilst when in Scorpio, people have an interest but are at the same time weary of us.

If Venus is badly aspected in the 7th, it could mean that people may instinctively respond by giving you a hard time or not making things easy for you.

posted June 28, 2016 02:05 PM            

My boyfriend has Venus in 5th, before he met me he was a complete flirt and was very picky. He had many flings but only 1 girlfriend before me. His Libra Venus probably adds to his pickiness, but he now that he has me he is the best partner and brings me joy when I am down in the dumps. He's like a ray of sunshine

posted June 28, 2016 02:31 PM            

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Originally posted by lovelyleo:
Venus just the8th makes me extremely picky

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What is the sign? That does not sound like 8th house to me, but a Virgo or Leo Venus.

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posted June 28, 2016 03:58 PM            

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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
What is the sign? That does not sound like 8th house to me, but a Virgo or Leo Venus.

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posted June 28, 2016 05:24 PM            

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Originally posted by Aries23Degrees:
I have 3 planets in the 7th house ;Pluto, Venus and Saturn

Pluto is on the angle and so its effect may dominate the chart.

Venus in 7th tends to afford one with the probability of initially being well received.

If the 1st is our instinctual action. The 7th should suggest the publics or others instinctual re-action to us.

When in Venus, it may suggest that it is usually favourable.

When in Libra, people want to come towards us. Whilst when in Scorpio, people have an interest but are at the same time weary of us.

If Venus is badly aspected in the 7th, it could mean that people may instinctively respond by giving you a hard time or not making things easy for you.

And this may conversely affect ones perspective of the self as well as self esteem i.e " nobody likes me" etc.

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posted June 29, 2016 01:17 AM            

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Originally posted by mamawolf:
8th house

I attract people almost effortlessly, buuuut there is no such thing as a light attraction. Easy, normal and tamed relationships aren't enough either. I want that all-consuming kinda love.

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I have venus 8th house too.

posted June 29, 2016 01:44 AM            

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Originally posted by Mergoatsun:
I have Venus in the 4th. I tend to try to make relationships where I can build a home with that person...

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I'm the same, 4th house Venus in Taurus.

I haven't bought a home yet, but I have the money for a down payment for one.

I'm just waiting for a correction in the housing market in Canada, then I make my move....once the prices come down.

I impressed a Leo-Cancer sun female with the prospects of owning a home together . Not many people have there finances in order right now to do that.

Plus, both my parents are Cancers so I've learned how to keep a clean home from my Mom and do home repairs from my dad.

posted June 29, 2016 06:46 AM            

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Originally posted by mamawolf:
8th house

I attract people almost effortlessly, buuuut there is no such thing as a light attraction. Easy, normal and tamed relationships aren't enough either. I want that all-consuming kinda love.

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posted June 29, 2016 07:53 AM            

I feel like there is a very defined sense of give-and-take in my approach to love. If someone does something for me I feel the need to return the gesture otherwise I'm left with a lingering sense of debt even if they tell me it's alright.

Also I only ever truly feel love by acts of service. Romantic words, gestures or physical touch all fall flat and seem like a formality. The only thing that genuinely humbles my heart, knocks down my walls and makes it clear to me that I am loved is when someone helps me in some way.

posted June 29, 2016 03:00 PM            

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Originally posted by margym0o:
A little off topic but I would love to hear about your experiences with Pluto and Saturn in the 7th. I admire your analyses

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Aries is on the 1st house cusp. Here the call is to be the self.

Most Aries Asc people may grapple with issues of identify, being "fully" themselves,asserting themselves to the environment and self-actualization.

Aries desires absolute freedom and the full expression of the self.

I almost feel that the incarnation I have in this life,is to feel absolute freedom and do away with any areas that may bring on restrictions.

With Saturn and Pluto in Scorpio and in the 7th house, I feel I do want to be intimate and exclusive.

It may sound like an altogether contradiction to absolute freedom to be "exclusive" -as Saturn in 7th speaks of restriction in relationships.

But I feel that with Scorpio/Aries sharing a ruler, there is common ground. A need perhaps to do away with pretenses and accept oneself "as is".

Scorpio wants one to embrace the "shadow" side whilst Aries wants to be themselves absolutely. Is one intent not(on a divine level) synonymous with the other?

Because I feel like I hunger for absolute affection(Pluto in 7th).That all consuming kind etc.

The interesting thing is that when I had a psychic do a reading for me, one of the things she said was "I feel a need to be loved. This feeling is on a palpable level. Have you not found someone?"

I think what she meant was that the yearning I have,is too great to be filled by romantic love.

I think she meant it is the need for compete self-love, complete self-acceptance-which is like accepting my "shadow" side. All corresponding with Pluto in Scorpio in 7th.

posted June 29, 2016 04:38 PM            

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Originally posted by DualGem:
I'm the same, 4th house Venus in Taurus.

I haven't bought a home yet, but I have the money for a down payment for one.

I'm just waiting for a correction in the housing market in Canada, then I make my move....once the prices come down.

I impressed a Leo-Cancer sun female with the prospects of owning a home together . Not many people have there finances in order right now to do that.

Plus, both my parents are Cancers so I've learned how to keep a clean home from my Mom and do home repairs from my dad.

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Gemini Sun,
Capricorn Rising
Aries Moon
Gemini Mercury
Venus Taurus
Mars Cancer

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Another venus 4th houser here but I don't feel this way...? I don't wanna build a home with a person unless I'm completely happy and satisfied in the relationship. I like to have lots of freedom and be free to express myself when in relationships. I'm very direct when it comes to expressing my love also.

posted June 29, 2016 06:26 PM            

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Originally posted by YellowGerbera:
Another venus 4th houser here but I don't feel this way...? I don't wanna build a home with a person unless I'm completely happy and satisfied in the relationship. I like to have lots of freedom and be free to express myself when in relationships. I'm very direct when it comes to expressing my love also.

My venus is in Aries, trines my Sag asc. I think I relate to the sign more than the house.

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The want/need to build a home life with someone is still there just gets expressed differently. As you mentioned once you feel satisfied in the relationship.

posted May 10, 2020 08:37 PM            

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Originally posted by YellowGerbera:
Another venus 4th houser here but I don't feel this way...? I don't wanna build a home with a person unless I'm completely happy and satisfied in the relationship. I like to have lots of freedom and be free to express myself when in relationships. I'm very direct when it comes to expressing my love also.

My venus is in Aries, trines my Sag asc. I think I relate to the sign more than the house.

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