posted July 06, 2016 05:01 PM            

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Originally posted by DualGem:

But, if the Gem is not stressed and there always like that and consistently cruel then yes they don't like you.

They will gossip behind your back too...

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I get your point. Been there, but this Gem I've known acted like he likes people (very manipulative) but he actually doesn't like people, he just loves the attention that people gives them, play with them and see the reactions..

posted July 06, 2016 05:06 PM            

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Originally posted by Elysia:
@hearttreasure,
That sounds strange.. Well, it's upto you in the end, whether or not to be friends with someone.. But yeah, definitely observe her more closely from now on..

I don't think it's the moon/mars. Sun/Mars is more likely to cause competitiveness, but can also make you a great team if you work with rather than against each other. But that's a small fragment. We'll need to see your synastry as a whole to comment.

IMO, you can take a look at that, for educational purposes. But don't let it drive you decision. Trust what you see and feel in real life..

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I've been spending some time with my sister and we've been talking about this too. I think there's a clash energy between I and my friend, and I feel it too actually, like there's something "strange", I don't know what.. I'll check more on our synastry.

posted July 06, 2016 06:43 PM            

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Originally posted by hearttreasure:
I get your point. Been there, but this Gem I've known acted like he likes people (very manipulative) but he actually doesn't like people, he just loves the attention that people gives them, play with them and see the reactions..

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Lol, I actually do that sometimes. I did that with a Leo I didn't like. Nobody else would believe her since they only know the good side of me.

posted July 06, 2016 06:56 PM            

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Originally posted by PixieJane:
At least as a general rule, you can get a heads up on how you'll be treated by how they treat others. It's why I've seen "testing" as usually unnecessary, when one normally just has to observe.

If they have a list of people who screwed them over, then it's only a matter of time before you're added to that list. If they talk maliciously about others to you, then it's a good bet they're talking maliciously about you to others. If they treat people they don't need anything from (or who they can reasonably expect to get what they need as it's the other person's job) in bad ways, then when they don't need anything from you (or start taking what they get for granted), they'll treat you the same way. And so on.

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