posted March 29, 2017 10:01 PM            

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Originally posted by Leo-Cancer98:
Tell me about it! Human touch and affection is like oxytocin to me. I LOOVEEE kissing (all kinds of kisses) and long teddy-bear hugs. Like, I'm 19 and I still practically wrap myself around my Mom when she's laying in her bed haha.

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for me (vpisces) its the meaningful closeness that is special. like having your face right up to theirs.

like finally being able to hold them close in room on floor

posted March 30, 2017 07:59 AM            

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Originally posted by soren:
for me (vpisces) its the meaningful closeness that is special. like having your face right up to theirs.

like finally being able to hold them close in room on floor

maybe you have earth cause when i touch someone its nothing about physicality as it just is meaningful

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Nope, Earth voice over here; unless you count habving my Leo Sun in the 2nd house of Taurus and Sag Moon in the 9th house of Virgo lol. I understand what you mean though, it's allll about the feelings

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Leo Sun/Mercury
Sagittarius Moon
Cancer Venus/Mars/Rising

posted March 31, 2017 02:25 AM            

I'd say I'm super romantic, I fell in love for the first time at 5 or 6 years old, with my best friend of course!

this pattern continues to today, I fall in love only after I become friends with someone

I let people in very slowly, only a few close ones

posted March 31, 2017 07:37 AM            

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Originally posted by areesquivel:
Don't give up on that, sounds actually beautiful the way you say it, if you feel that connexion, that's important, I feel my intuitiveness is really off specially because I fall super hard and so quickly...

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Aww thank you for the support! I didn't even see him for 2/4 of those years, and when I came back to the gym (he's a top personal trainer) it was as though those 2 years never happened. He started gazing at me, then flashed the biggest smile I've ever seen in my life and I went WEAK 😩 I remember telling myself that the feeling would pass, and maybe its just infatuation, but I know if that was case then our connection wouldn't have lasted this long. He is taken, but based on the way he looks at me, I can't help but think that if he was 110% lovey-dovey gaga over his gf, he would have easily let me go a long time ago; cause if you really want to let go of someone you can and you will. But he clearly hasn't, and I think there's a reason for that
God, the rarity of our planetary synastry, house overlay synastry & our composite chart are giving me hope. I doubt the Leo in me will give up until I know he made it to the altar with someone.

This is an outline of our natal synastry:
1. Aries Sun trine Leo Sun - 10" orb
2. Aries Sun trine Sagittarius Moon - 3" orb
3. His Libra Moon trining my Neptune at 0" is in my 4H, but on the cusp of my 5th house
4. My Sag Moon is in his 9H & conjuncts his MC/Uranus & Saturn
5. His Pisces ASC & Venus trine my Cancer Venus/ASC
6. His Pisces ASC & Venus are in exact conjunction with my MC
7. My Cancer ASC, Venus & Mars are in his 4H & on the cusp of his 5H
8. His Cancer Decan Pisces Venus In My 9th/10th
9. His Gemini Mars In My 12th
10. My Aquarius Neptune in his 12th

Symbolism Matches:
• My Cancer Venus & Mars In The Pisces Dwad - Correlation with His Piscean placements
His 7th House Cap Neptune - correlation with his Pisces ASC ruled by Neptune in Cap?
• His Pisces Venus In The Cancer Decan + 5th House Cancer Lillith
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Leo Sun/Mercury
Sagittarius Moon
Cancer Venus/Mars/Rising

posted March 31, 2017 08:50 AM            

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Originally posted by girlwiththerainysoul:
I have a cancer venus (in the 11th)

I'd say I'm super romantic, I fell in love for the first time at 5 or 6 years old, with my best friend of course!

this pattern continues to today, I fall in love only after I become friends with someone

I let people in very slowly, only a few close ones

also, I don't like other people too much in my personal bubble (I have a cancer mars too), I feel uncomfortable even when my family members go overboard with touching or kissing; with a person I'm attracted to it's different of course, I need to get a good daily dose of touching, cuddling and hand holding and all that ,long distance relationships don't work for me for that reason; also because cancer is a cardinal in the end, I can move on to next person quickly, I suppose a fixed venus would be more loyal

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I dated a Gemini guy who was like that, he didn't like to be romantic nor hold someone, etc. Being I have a Cancer sun, I am generally caring towards people, I love hugs n what not. He use to get really mad if another guy hugged me and say " I don't see you giving me hugs like that " etc. I would get irritated and tell him" well, if you liked hugs I would give you one but you seem so adamant about not being the huggy feely type so I don't. He'd stay mad anyway.
Oh yea, I later noticed him hug a girl that brought him something in front of everyone, even though I did stuff for him all the time.... errrrrrr!!!!

He is married now though and I am happy for him, somehow we managed to remain friends. I do love this guy, just not able to be in a relationship with him at ALL!!! I love our friendship though, wouldn't trade it for anything!!!

I dated a Leo with a Cancer venus, still very sensitive and moody. Good God!!! I try to understand the moods and I am a moody\sensitive person. Cancer venus doesn't do rationalization really well either? Although he can be someone to hold you, very romantic if he chooses to be etc. Very nurturing and caring sometimes when I am with him. Sometimes I get the feeling I just get on his nerves and he doesn't want to be bothered?

posted March 31, 2017 09:12 AM            

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Originally posted by colorful butterfly:
I try to understand Cancer venus myself, I have Cancer sun and I find them really moody and very sensitive. I would think my Cancer sun would know how to handle them but I have Gemini mars and venus. Although I am sensitive, I go about things in an intellectual way so I don't understand when they are upset why they are getting so upset or misunderstanding things. They take a lot of work for me and their mean when hurt!!! Like they want to get back at you vs just talking things out.

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posted March 31, 2017 04:31 PM            

How do you act when you really like someone and/or when you're dating them? How do you express your love? Are you the initiator?

when I like someone I am shy unless they are more shy, then I feel very comfortable. normally I am attracted to men who feel nervous around me when they meet me. once in the relationship, I am caring and devoted. I like touching, hugging, cuddling, and verbal expression of affection as well. in the pass I needed lot of reassurance, but this has changed a lot with maturity.

Do you get jealous easily, are you possessive? Do you want to keep your lover to yourself only? yes in a sense. I have integrated the part of my personality that crave for space, emotional independence and freedom (moon in gemini square uranus exact and sextile saturn exact), but i was not always like that. however, I demand total devotion from a man. a man that is "confused" or do not show that he is there for me, adored me just not my cup of tea. however, have learned to enjoy my space and feel happy when in a relationship that has passion with devotion and faithfulness and with lot of spaces to do my things (astrology, being alone with a book, etc) I like independent men, but I like caring and gentleness. rudeness turn me off.

What are the most important things and deal breakers to you in a relationship? unfaithfulness is a deal breaker and lies. also lack of trust from either side. i need to trust 100% and feel that my partner trust me the same. then I can enjoy my space and give as much space as possible.

How important is space to you? very important, but when younger i projected and tended to attract very independent men and i was more clingy. now, I own my desire for space and still attract independent men, but I like that, because i do not want a man who has no life other than me. a man who expect me to bring happiness. i want a man that is happy by himself and being with me add value and happiness to his life, but not someone who is unhappy until he met me..

Do you think your love style conflicts with the qualities of your Sun or Moon sign? yes, but with maturity i have learned to integrate the conflicting sides. my gemini moon-uranus crave for excitement and freedom and my cancer stellium crave for emotional security and nurturing.

posted April 03, 2017 05:09 PM            

I never got refused but truth be told I am too scared 80% of the times.

For make out with no feelings, there I don't care I will pursue.

posted April 05, 2017 11:58 PM            

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Originally posted by Soltze:
In love? I run...on the rare ocasions I see interest on the other side. I do initiate clumsely on a "now or never" basis. LOL

I never got refused but truth be told I am too scared 80% of the times.

For make out with no feelings, there I don't care I will pursue.

Anyway Venus and Mars in Cancer here.

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You run?! Hmmm, I guess I can slightly relate. What houses are your Cancer placements in and what aspects does your Venus make to other planets?

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Leo Sun/Mercury
Sagittarius Moon
Cancer Venus/Mars/Rising

posted April 06, 2017 08:01 AM            

How do you act when you really like someone and/or when you're dating them? How do you express your love? Are you the initiator?

~ I become awkward and shy, can't really make conversation with them. Stare at them from afar :P when I'm actually with the person I be very in love and enjoy making that person feel loved and admired. Not the initiatior.

Do you get jealous easily, are you possessive? Do you want to keep your lover to yourself only?

~ I am pretty open minded but can get jealous if I feel insecure with the person. Id say I can be secretly possessive, but not show it. I enjoy to have space from my lover and for us to both have our crafts/skills that we do individually.

What are the most important things and deal breakers to you in a relationship?

~ I have my space, they protect me and I heal them in exchange (has seemed to be the theme so far with most of them ) , them finding it important to look at the spiritual worlds.

How important is space to you?

~ very much important , hold each other for hours when together but. When apart have space is nice.

Do you think your love style conflicts with the qualities of your Sun or Moon sign?

My sun sign is cancer and my moon sign is scorpio, so I just deal with a lot of water element stuff in life