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Leo-Cancer98
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posted July 09, 2016 01:12 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Leo-Cancer98     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
How do you act when you really like someone and/or when you're dating them? How do you express your love? Are you the initiator?

Do you get jealous easily, are you possessive? Do you want to keep your lover to yourself only?

What are the most important things and deal breakers to you in a relationship?

How important is space to you?

Do you think your love style conflicts with the qualities of your Sun or Moon sign?

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posted July 09, 2016 03:02 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for curiouspisces89     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I have a Pisces Venus. When I am in love I'm the happiest. I love to love and be loved. when I am with someone I tell them I love them every day, I am very affectionate, romantic and love to do little suprises for them. I am also overly idealistic and dreamy lol

My sun is in Pisces also so I don't have conflict with my sun sign but I do with my moon sign as its in Capricorn. But only at the beginning of relationship. My Capricorn moon likes to stay reserved and moves lovely. I don't like to be overly expressive with my emotions until I am sure this is someone I want to be with, but if I like someone my Pisces Venus likes to show it. So it's a little it of a battle hehe but after some time my Pisces Venus takes over Lol

Having said that I do think that my Capricorn moon is also emotional and very nurturing. It likes to take care of people so I guess they do work together well

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posted July 09, 2016 03:49 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Aries23Degrees     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote

Am neither Cancer or Pisces.

But I can vouch that Venus in Pisces is indeed very romantic in my experience too. As i was once upon a time with one. And he was the type who was passive and gentle.


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I have one friend with a cancer venus and another with a pisces venus. The cancer venus girl gets very insecure and shy when she likes a guy. She is also clingy and a little motherly when in love. The pisces venus girl starts acting all girly and innocent and gets this awful and funny fake overtly girly voice when around a guy she is into. It looks so fake and weird bc this isn`t really how she is, lol. She will also start mimicking the behavior of her interest. They both got aries moons and the CV girl has a leo sun and the PV girl has a aquarius sun. Their venus definitely conflicts with their suns and moons which is probably why i esp find the aqua girl to come off fake when into a guy bc i am so used to seeing her aries moon and her quirky aqua sun. The leo girl is a very tomboyish girl and she doesn't suddenly get super feminine like the aqua girl gets when around a guy she is into but she will get insecure and a little shy which is also a little weird to see bc she is actually an really arrogant person.

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posted July 09, 2016 07:57 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Aries23Degrees     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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posted July 09, 2016 09:45 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lucia23     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Cancer Venus here. I crave lots of reassurance in love relationships. But I also have Moon-Saturn-DC in Cancer, so the insecurity might be more emphasized for me than for Cancer Venuses with other Moons and Saturns.

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posted July 09, 2016 12:18 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Aries23Degrees     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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posted July 11, 2016 12:39 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Sagical     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I have Venus in Pisces and I'm in deep love with EVERYONE.... love is so pure, yet ungrounded. I call in love many times during the course of the year.

I just discovered that I'm polyamorous.

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posted July 11, 2016 05:03 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for visions     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Sagical:
I have Venus in Pisces and I'm in deep love with EVERYONE.... love is so pure, yet ungrounded. I call in love many times during the course of the year.

I just discovered that I'm polyamorous.


lol it's very true from pisces venus. As i have venus in pisces, i can understand what you feel as i felle the same.

- " oh, this girl so beautiful...i want her mine"
- " and this one, is even more beautifult.." i want both
-"and that one....oh my god can't believe that, she is so pretty...i am in love with her too..."


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posted July 11, 2016 03:12 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Leo-Cancer98     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by visions:
lol it's very true from pisces venus. As i have venus in pisces, i can understand what you feel as i felle the same.

- " oh, this girl so beautiful...i want her mine"
- " and this one, is even more beautifult.." i want both
-"and that one....oh my god can't believe that, she is so pretty...i am in love with her too..."


Hmmm, do you find that your ability to have so much love for everyone prevents you from staying faithful/committed in a relationship and having eyes for only one girl?

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posted July 11, 2016 03:18 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Empty Spaces     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I have venus in pisces but I dont fall in love with everyone else
To be honest is difficult to me to fall in love cuz I want a deep connection nothing superficial and we know that is hard to find.

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posted July 11, 2016 03:19 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Leo-Cancer98     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Aries23Degrees:

Am neither Cancer or Pisces.

But I can vouch that Venus in Pisces is indeed very romantic in my experience too. As i was once upon a time with one. And he was the type who was passive and gentle.


What was his Sun/Moon sign? Did he chase you or was it the other way around? How did he act and express his love while you were dating?

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posted July 12, 2016 01:53 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for visions     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Leo-Cancer98:
Hmmm, do you find that your ability to have so much love for everyone prevents you from staying faithful/committed in a relationship and having eyes for only one girl?

no, i am really faithful taurus moon and venus-saturn guy...once i committed i am faithful.

if you are interested....

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posted July 13, 2016 06:07 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Leo-Cancer98     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Lucia23:
Cancer Venus here. I crave lots of reassurance in love relationships. But I also have Moon-Saturn-DC in Cancer, so the insecurity might be more emphasized for me than for Cancer Venuses with other Moons and Saturns.

Me too!

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posted July 13, 2016 07:03 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Gemini Blues     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Male with cancer Venus (my only cardnal) and Taurus Mars. I like to have the lady initiate, then I'll pursue. Lazy bull Mars

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posted March 29, 2017 11:26 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Leo-Cancer98     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by visions:
no, i am really faithful taurus moon and venus-saturn guy...once i committed i am faithful.

if you are interested....


What's your Sun Sign and what aspect does Saturn make to your Venus?

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posted March 29, 2017 01:06 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Aries23Degrees     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
@Leo-Cancer 98

Sun in Tau
Moon in Can

He saw me and I him. So there wasn't a "pursuit" as much as there was "mutual attraction".

He showed he cared by empathizing...a lot. But he was also generous with gifts(Taurus Sun). Very romantic

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posted March 29, 2017 01:38 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for hearttreasure     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
venus in pisces (3rd house)

aspects:
square mars 0
quintile saturn 1
quintile uranus 0
sextile neptune 2
trine pluto 1
conjunct asteroid angel, wisdom at 2 (I don't remember the rest)

How do you act when you really like someone and/or when you're dating them?

I like EVERYONE, but it's not like a falling in love kind of way. People think I flirt with every men I've met because I love them or want to get them but it's kind of the opposite. If I'm attracted to someone, I act shy and can not start a conversation. I will always nervous around him. If I ever flirt with the guys, there's a high chance I just like their presence not necessarily I want a relationship with them.

How do you express your love?

Caring, selfless, passionate, trustworthy, gentle, romantic, accepting (I don't judge people from their past), intuitive, communicative, SENSITIVE, devoted, go with the flow (agreeable but doesn't mean I always agree, I choose meeting in the middle ground method), able to forgive very quick. Will always try to make a lover feel loved and beautiful as a human being. Sensual, if I like you I like romantic touching.

Are you the initiator?

It depends. I have my moody moment, but not in an extreme way a.k.a I have my lazy moment. I will initiate things if the other can not initiate anything at the last minute or I want something really bad. But I rarely pursue or chase people.

Do you get jealous easily, are you possessive?

No. I don't possess people, I possess things. I have a hard time to define jealousy, but sure I will be mad if my lover treats me unfairly. It's not easy to make me jealous, but if I notice my lover try to test my jealousy, watch out, one of my leg has already in an exit door. LOL. I chill most of the time and crave stability.

Do you want to keep your lover to yourself only?

No. I don't like limit my lover. If he wants to spend his time with his friends, it doesn't matter, again, I want it to be fair, I also want that time.

What are the most important things and deal breakers to you in a relationship?

The most important thing: communication (can I add one more? It's commitment)
The deal breakers: any kind of unfaithfulness/betrayal (although lying annoys me)

How important is space to you?

It is important, but I don't mind if my lover want to spend a lot of time together. But once in awhile I will encourage my lover to have a hobby (if he doesn't have one) or spend some time with their friends, or at least having separate activities, so we have some space with our own.

Do you think your love style conflicts with the qualities of your Sun or Moon sign?

Yes, sometimes. I have sun in aqua (2nd house) and moon in aries (4th house). I was not in relationship until I graduated college because I had major conflict inside and I wanted to solve the puzzle first on how to handle it better because I take relationship seriously. I never want or imagine a break up in relationship, but if it involves abuse, break up is the only way to save myself.

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posted March 29, 2017 01:53 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for soren     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
my frond has a venu le cancer

i have venus pisces. with me, i'm constantly trying to connect.

with him, he constantly admires

the first pic<- is an example of how a venus in pisces would stare. kind of dreamy, weak, they just want you to like them and they already feel connected to you deeply.

the second is perhaps how a venus in cancer would stare while in love. i notice he doesnt try to get closer, he sits from a few feet away and just pretends she is a goddess. admires her in his own mind. but doesnt really act.
the third is potentially how a venus in scorp would stare at you. they are well known to easily show you that you are the object of their admiration. they show you you are amazing with their large interest.


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actually those are the actual venus signs for each pic.

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posted March 29, 2017 03:07 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for madelineleo23     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Someone I used to know has Venus in Cancer. One of my favorite Venus signs. They were so caring and gentle. But they were sensitive. When they felt hurt they would withdraw and cut communication with me. Nonetheless, I miss them. :'(

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posted March 29, 2017 03:29 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for soren     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
my venus in cancer friend, had to be directly shown, about 10 times, to not come

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posted March 29, 2017 09:07 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for JeSuisV     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Venus in Cancer here, conjunct Chiron
Moon in Aqua
Sun in Gem

I woo them with my smarts, but mostly unaware that they like me. Then when things settle down and the 'in love' mood sets in, I become this icky gooey version of myself, super tender loving and caring with many self-sacrificial tendencies that I can't stop and ultimately makes me give too much and what the person didn't ask for. Super easy to get illusory about a person, romanticise them up and down and our relationship.

Currently I'm having the first rs when I can actually clme to my whiths from time to time, so that's great. I don't like bein in love, makes me feel vulnerable and with a tendency to hurt myself.

But overall I'd say yes, there's a huge clash between my Sun sign, my Asc in Aries, my stellium in Cappy and the love part..

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posted March 29, 2017 09:20 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for areesquivel     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Venus in Cancer trine ASC and Pluto, Opposite Neptune.

I fall HARD, that's all I can say, I suffer like no other and I hate that about myself, I used to think I wasn't the type of girl who would show affection in public and I come to the realization I am, I love holding hands and kissing and all that crap lol.

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posted March 29, 2017 09:34 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Leo-Cancer98     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by areesquivel:
Venus in Cancer trine ASC and Pluto, Opposite Neptune.

I fall HARD, that's all I can say, I suffer like no other and I hate that about myself, I used to think I wasn't the type of girl who would show affection in public and I come to the realization I am, I love holding hands and kissing and all that crap lol.


Tell me about it! Human touch and affection is like oxytocin to me. I LOOVEEE kissing (all kinds of kisses) and long teddy-bear hugs. Like, I'm 19 and I still practically wrap myself around my Mom when she's laying in her bed haha.

And yup, I can relate. 4 years ago, I fell HARD for (still crushing on) a Pisces-dominant Lunar Libran Aries who's a decade my senior, and I can't get over him; despite having a Sagittarius Moon. It doesn't seem like he can get over me either. I'm not sure if all-in-my-head or if it's our Cancer Pisces ASC/Venuses at work, but every time I catch him gazing at me, looking into my eyes, my soul, my heart, it's like I can feel his strong feelings passing through his body, into mine. I'm not sure if that made sense, but my intuition is telling me that I shouldn't give up on our story/telepathic-like connection.


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posted March 29, 2017 09:47 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for areesquivel     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Leo-Cancer98:
Tell me about it! Human touch and affection is like oxytocin to me. I LOOVEEE kissing (all kinds of kisses) and long teddy-bear hugs. Like, I'm 19 and I still practically wrap myself around my Mom when she's laying in her bed haha.

And yup, I can relate. 4 years ago, I fell HARD for (still crushing on) a Pisces-dominant Lunar Libran Aries who's a decade my senior, and I can't get over him; despite having a Sagittarius Moon. It doesn't seem like he can get over me either. I'm not sure if all-in-my-head or if it's our Cancer Pisces ASC/Venuses at work, but every time I catch him gazing at me, looking into my eyes, my soul, my heart, it's like I can feel his strong feelings passing through his body, into mine. I'm not sure if that made sense, but my intuition is telling me that I shouldn't give up on our story/telepathic-like connection.


That actually sounds beautiful.
I haven't had any luck in love lately, I'm falling for this Aries Sun/Jupiter Gemini ASC, though our Pisces Moons are in tuned or so I thought, and I've known him for 4 weeks lol. So yeah I fall HARD.

Don't give up on that, sounds actually beautiful the way you say it, if you feel that connexion, that's important, I feel my intuitiveness is really off specially because I fall super hard and so quickly...

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