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larakster
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posted July 10, 2016 07:55 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for larakster     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Does anyone have experience with this aspect?

can't seem to find much about it....

I have this with someone and it seems the relationship will never materialized.

even though you have strong feelings for eachother...

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posted July 11, 2016 09:21 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for princess1990     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
hi ! i have this with my new guy i meet one month ago , who is obsessed with me , and i m thinking everyday at him, my aquarius north node conjunct his aquarius south node , i don t know how is this, him is little shy , but write me everyday , speak miss me i like to be with him but i see him little strange maybe because of his scorpio moon, i have libra moon... how is your story ? ...

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larakster
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posted July 11, 2016 01:06 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for larakster     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I don't know if it is this placement but the attraction is really strong..
we also have a
pluto trine moon dw
venus pluto dw
mars conjunct sun

and the saturn square venus

But we have been twirling around eachother for 6 years. had a few dates back then and he dissapeared Then tried to come back but I refused.

now we tried but it feels like we can't materialize anything...
And due to my own circumstances I felt the need to walk away.


But I feel so much fo him.....

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posted July 11, 2016 03:24 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lucia23     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I've experienced heavy sexual attraction with this. In one case, it became a relationship. In the other, it didn't and it was just sort of frustrating.

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posted July 11, 2016 10:49 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Belage     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Have you notice there is not much information online or even in books regarding this aspect? All I have seen are conflicting information. Some astrologers say this aspect creates a bond that is unbreakable... Not sure of that.

It's a very rare and fascinating aspect to have in synastry. Definitely a strong mutual attraction. But from what i have seen, it is as though the universe conspires to break you apart. Kind of, star crossed lovers aspect. I have yet to see a long term relationship that has this aspect.

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posted July 11, 2016 10:55 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Belage     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by larakster:
I don't know if it is this placement but the attraction is really strong..
we also have a
pluto trine moon dw
venus pluto dw
mars conjunct sun

and the saturn square venus

But we have been twirling around eachother for 6 years. had a few dates back then and he dissapeared Then tried to come back but I refused.

now we tried but it feels like we can't materialize anything...
And due to my own circumstances I felt the need to walk away.


But I feel so much fo him.....


The Venus/Pluto DW, is that easy placement or hard placements? Easy placements could make up for the Saturn/Venus square.

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posted July 12, 2016 06:39 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for larakster     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hi lucia23,

This is so frustrating. Nothing happens yet the impact is core-cutting.
the only thing I know is that with him it feels as if we will meet again.


Hi Belage,

I have found so little, maybe I shouldn't be focussing on this aspect.

they are close aspected trine/sextile I don't have the chart in front of me so I do not know the degrees.

If anyone has some more exeriences I would love to hear more

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posted July 12, 2016 02:51 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Belage     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by larakster:

they are close aspected trine/sextile I don't have the chart in front of me so I do not know the degrees.


DW consisting of sextiles and trines are very powerful because they create mutual obsession and can help regenerate a relationships with both partners making the effort. They might balance the Venus/Saturn square.

But I am going to be honest with you. I have been on Lindaland way before 2009 and I have yet to see anyone saying: I have NN conjunct SN synastry aspect with my SO and we've been together/married for x number of years. I can't seem to find celebrity couples with this aspect. I don't know couple irl with this aspect. I am not saying it can't or doesn't happen I am saying I have not seen it. Maybe those who have it also have important planets conjunct the NN which might help glue them together.

Anyway, I would love to hear from those who have this aspect with their SO and are in a stable committed relationships.

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posted July 12, 2016 02:55 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for teasel     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I have this with my dad, so can't speak to romantic synastry.

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posted July 12, 2016 03:07 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Belage     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by teasel:
I have this with my dad, so can't speak to romantic synastry.

Good to hear.

Are you guys close? Do you have a good relationship?

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posted July 12, 2016 03:11 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for teasel     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Belage:

Good to hear.

Are you guys close? Do you have a good relationship?


Yep. He's the best man I know.

His North Node in Gemini is conjunct my Moon, Venus, and South Node. Also square my Mars in the 4th house.

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posted July 12, 2016 03:17 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Belage     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by teasel:
Yep. He's the best man I know.

His North Node in Gemini is conjunct my Moon, Venus, and South Node. Also square my Mars in the 4th house.


Interesting!! So you have personal planets like Moon and Venus conjuncting the NN. I think that helps a lot.

Still would love to get my hands on a stable romantic relationship with this aspect. I also suspect there will be important planets conjuncting the nodes.

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posted July 12, 2016 03:42 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for larakster     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Belage.

I agree I have had friends and lovers with NN sun/venus conjunctions and those are long term connections.


But this connections it is like there is no ground to it. and I am also wondering if there are long term couples with this aspect.


also if one looks more to the vedic astro what the meaning is of this...

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Belage
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posted July 12, 2016 10:55 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Belage     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
^^^ I think i read a vedic astrologer calling this connection (NN conjunct SN synastry) "unbreakable".

I remember reading on a Mayan astrology site that this connection is a tantric connection.

I don't want to give too much importance to (one) 1 aspect in determing the fate of a romantic relationship, but to me, the nodes are, after the ascendant, the most decisive element of a natal chart, and I think they are also as important in a synastry.

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posted July 14, 2016 03:07 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for larakster     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
@Belage,

I agree with not giving one aspect such importance.

Thank you for all of the information!

whatever will happen it probably will

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posted July 14, 2016 06:19 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Voix_de_la_Mer     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Yes. We have been together almost 5 years now.

However, pretty wide conjunctions with planets are also involved, I think this is needed to give a reason to connect.
I don't think Node or angles will *create* a relationship, I think only planets can do that.
They must add to it somehow, but I am still exploring Nodes and angles in synastry, so do not have a definitive explanation for their action atm.

We have:

His Jupiter cj. My SN (3')
My Venus cj. His NN (7')
His Venus cj. My sN (8')

Our angles are there also though.
So there is a cluster of his Venus/Jupiter cj. my Venus/Mercury all cj. his DC and my IC.

So it's hard to tell what is doing what.

Like I said though, I think it's the planet action that has the most effect.

I've read of the feeling of instant familiarity with the Nodes in synastry, and a feeling of a common purpose.
We certainly have this, and have been lovingly tending a shared project for about 3 years now.
The role each of us has in this project both exploits the knowledge of our South Nodes, whilst helping us learn about our North Nodes, through experiencing the example of the other's South Node knowledge.
Hope that made sense!

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posted July 14, 2016 12:25 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Belage     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
^^^ Glad you chimed in, Voix_de_la_Mer. Pretty much confirmed my suspicions.

I am grateful for this thread, because before it, I found no couples with this NN conjunct SN aspect. Now it appears that (until we see evidence to the contrary) at least 1 personal planet like sun, moon, venus or maybe even glue planet like Saturn on the nodes is needed to cement the relationship.

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posted July 14, 2016 12:34 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Belage     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I just realized that I have the NN conjunct SN aspect with one of my dearest friends. There is an age gap between us, but we still hit it off and are very tight.

Her Neptune is conjunct My NN. Funny as she and I always talk about spiritual and metaphysical stuff.

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posted April 30, 2017 02:46 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for larakster     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Well we cut contact, I did.
It felt as we where playing games, dissapearing and coming back, push and pull dynamic. I shared something important and he dissapeared.
this however had nothing to do with the conjunction just human nature and what we can handle.

we have astroids(sappho, asmodeus) and chiron conjunction.

I believe johnny depp and vanessa paradise have this.but it was a wide conjunction.

It has made sad for a while, But I have found peace in the silence.


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posted April 30, 2017 06:51 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for TensionEmpire     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hey I can share my story!

I met a girl i guess on August last year!

I went down the street, had a cigarret on the corner, and went.

I rang on the house of my friend (female), I went in and there she was xD

ohhh, she told me she could see love in everythink, she could see love by looking at the moon, it was full moon, when we first kissed.

But yeah, it seems soem force drag us appart,
she posted hat song ``Let her go`` on fb

I guess we still kissed after this, put the play was alredy on since a while, probably since the beginning.

yeah i got sot of crazy, started to do **** on the street, drinking, skating, riding my bike to get her attention, we live in a small city, so much of what i do can get to her ears.

I eaven went one day to her house, talked to her mother! haha

Her mother told me if her father discovers about it , i would ahve trouble, she is younger.

And once i waited her on her way back home from school, and asked her about us, she did not say much was cold as ice, told me she did not feel for me.

yeah, we have very different backgrounds, I was born on the other shore of the Atlantic, was raised in a big city, am older..

she was raised in a small city, have kind of concervative parents..

But yeah, last time I saw her, I went down to the citysquare, with my friends that where visiting me from rio.

I noticed her passing by with her friend, I was talking to my friend, I noticed that she throwed a look afterwards, but I turned my face.

OK, so me and my friend decided to go have a pinga, strong drink that you get out of sugarcane.

we cross the square, hold for q minute to decide, at wich bar we go, so i say lets go and when i am entering the bar, is the exact moment where she is leaving, i look at her, but she did not reply the look, her friend behind her, i say hi to her, she says hi.

Ok, so I have the pinga with my friend, and i talk about her with him, my plan was to take only one pinga, but my friend wanted another one so at the end each of us had two.

So we go out the bar, and start to talk on the street, we where like 7-8.

I got realy enthusiastic and stared to tell storys, about country life and stuff.
I was in a realy good mood.

And thatīs when you see how it works hahaah
because I had drinked pinga and was the center of one very noticeable group.

She passed and say hi, i said hi also, but not see her clearly, only her friend i saw, she was looking at me, with a face like like pitty, or with remorce i dunno.

My friends told me, I almost melted when the way i said hi to her.

yeah, I don`t know why it ended so abruptly.

It was after she met me, taht she put beautifull photos of her in fb.

It was after meeting me, that she don`t stop putting thinks on fb, like memes and stuff, talking about how sad she is sad and don`t know what to do wiht her life, how she cries a lot.

I will focus on myself now, I know she will never forget me.


So I think it is something that makes us difficult to get together.

But I know ther is also a force that wants us to get together, I know that because of moments like when i entered the bar, it was the exact moment when she was leaving, coincidence?

We have SN NN cnj, on spot.

We have Kaali and Shiva cnj. - for tantric

We have sun square saturn* - for unbreakle bond

I tried to get info about his a while ago here, but couldn`t get much, so I got exited with this thred, and I would love to know more about this!

Oh and yes, Pluto is going to transit our SN NN cnj. It just did not went over it, because it went retro some days ago.

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posted April 30, 2017 02:45 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for larakster     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hahaha hope it works out for you!!


I had the same respond, intens feelings but not being able to deal with it and going cold....
but not because I did not want to stay.. something (instinct) tells me to run..

the pluto retro goes over our sun mars cnj...

I was not planning on contacting him or changing anything about the situation just want to continue my life

and I know I will remember him

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posted April 30, 2017 06:44 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for TensionEmpire     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by larakster:
Hahaha hope it works out for you!!


I had the same respond, intens feelings but not being able to deal with it and going cold....
but not because I did not want to stay.. something (instinct) tells me to run..

the pluto retro goes over our sun mars cnj...

I was not planning on contacting him or changing anything about the situation just want to continue my life

and I know I will remember him


thank you, but reading your words now makes me think also if ever we would be able to work it out.

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larakster
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posted May 01, 2017 02:16 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for larakster     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I don't know every situation is different.


will write the story later today.
I just know that I have a lot of feelings for him.

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larakster
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posted May 06, 2017 09:28 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for larakster     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Forgot to write an reply,


I can recognize points in your story that are similair to mine.

I believe it is a repulsion dynamic. it has a lot of potential but it was also terrifiyng for me.

as if something told me to run! never had that before with anyone.

however we have a mars conjunct neptune which makes me totally evasive (as if he has to catch me)

I remember in the past I had moments where I would just leave him standing in the club (after a night out) because I wanted to go home.


but for feelings there is a lot of caring from a distance and we have been in and out of eachothers lives for a long time... so I know I will see him again

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posted May 06, 2017 12:27 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for hypatia238     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I have this with my uncle, my half brother and my boss but they are wide conjunctions.

If you feel a strong attraction I would think is due to other synastry aspects.

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