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Topic: Most difficult square to have?
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saadsarah8 Knowflake Posts: 94 From: Ottawa, Canada Registered: Jan 2014
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posted July 16, 2016 06:35 PM
http://sasstrology.com/2008/10/mars-in-gemini-square-venus-in-virgo.html This article claims that having venus in virgo sqaure mars in gemini is the most difficult to handle and live with. I'm lucky enough to have this aspect exact. I'm only 21 (turning 22 on the 24th of this month :]) but I constantly worry about channeling this energy and dealing with it when I'm slightly older. Anybody else have this aspect in the natal? Experiences? What makes this one especially difficult to reconcile? IP: Logged |
Koniucha Knowflake Posts: 730 From: Registered: Jun 2014
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posted July 16, 2016 06:49 PM
I have moon square Pluto and I read somewhere that is one of the hardest. Very intense emotions IP: Logged |
Electro DGX Knowflake Posts: 1002 From: Another Galaxy Registered: Jul 2015
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posted July 16, 2016 06:51 PM
I wouldn't believe it. Honestly (don't take offense please) I deal with someone who has Virgo Venus square Mars in Gemini and sometimes he drives me up a wall. It is very frustrating. I've heard the hades moon phenomena was the hardest, since the moon is such a sensitive position being acted upon by one of the most powerful planets that aim to intensify something so sensitive...yeah, not good. I have one myself so :/ ------------------ Aquarius Sun, Merc, Venus, Uranus, Neptune Scorpio Mars conj. Asc in First 8th House Moon opposite Pluto, Trine Uranus Have you caught onto the predicament I'm in yet? IP: Logged |
charlie Knowflake Posts: 3777 From: Registered: Jun 2012
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posted July 16, 2016 10:23 PM
Cap Moon sq Pluto is no fun. Neither is Pluto sq Sun. Or Pluto sq Mercury. Or Saturn sq Uranus. Or Chiron sq Venus. Or Venus sq Uranus. Yeah, I'm pretty square :-/ IP: Logged |
Electro DGX Knowflake Posts: 1002 From: Another Galaxy Registered: Jul 2015
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posted July 16, 2016 10:26 PM
quote: Originally posted by charlie: Yeah, I'm pretty square :-/
Me too, got ten of them myself. We should be in the square group lol ------------------ Aquarius Sun, Merc, Venus, Uranus, Neptune Scorpio Mars conj. Asc in First 8th House Moon opposite Pluto, Trine Uranus Have you caught onto the predicament I'm in yet? IP: Logged |
DopGang Knowflake Posts: 2597 From: INTJ Registered: Jun 2015
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posted July 16, 2016 11:59 PM
Man, I don't know. You could ask me on different days and I'd give you different answers. So.... yeah. That said, Venus square Neptune certainly is no picnic. IP: Logged |
Electro DGX Knowflake Posts: 1002 From: Another Galaxy Registered: Jul 2015
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posted July 17, 2016 12:23 AM
quote: Originally posted by DopGang: Man, I don't know. You could ask me on different days and I'd give you different answers. So.... yeah. That said, Venus square Neptune certainly is no picnic.
I find it strange that Venus is supposed to be exalted in Pisces and yet people seem to downplay Venus-Neptune aspects (even conjunctions) as being problematic. Venus-Neptune square is understandable, but why the conjunction? That's my question. ------------------ Aquarius Sun, Merc, Venus, Uranus, Neptune Scorpio Mars conj. Asc in First 8th House Moon opposite Pluto, Trine Uranus Have you caught onto the predicament I'm in yet? IP: Logged |
Yanmorg Knowflake Posts: 1462 From: Registered: Feb 2013
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posted July 17, 2016 12:51 AM
Sheesh. All squares are difficult in my opinion. At least Pluto squares gives you some type of personal power. Uranus squares are too wild so it's hard to get ahold of the energy and figure out what exactly is causing the chaos. Saturn squares make you feel so low about yourself that you don't even have any enthusiasm left to work on those. Neptune squares are similar to Uranus. Hard to grasp so hard to solve. The easiest squares to handle in my opinion would be squares involving only personal planets. They're more front and center and closer to your heart so maybe that makes them easier to sort out. I have Moon square Neptune/ Uranus natally as well as Saturn square Sun, Mars, ASC. I don't have any Pluto squares but I do have a Scorpio stellium conjunct Pluto. It's not all bad. Saturn squares get the job done at least. I can always count on Saturn. IP: Logged |
soren Knowflake Posts: 917 From: right by vancouver, bc, canada Registered: Sep 2012
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posted July 17, 2016 12:54 AM
squares, like understanding quantum physics and believing a false accusation that nothing is as it seems, making you freak out and feel like everythings an illusion (which is not so IMO), is just like defining squars in text books. before i knew i had squares, i felt fine. after reading textbook anologies of how they were like flaws in character, i felt very flawed and like a weirdo. IP: Logged |
teasel Knowflake Posts: 8606 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted July 17, 2016 12:58 AM
I think it depends on the person. So I'm of no help. Sorry. IP: Logged |
StubbornVirgo Knowflake Posts: 1137 From: Sittin' on Mercury Registered: Jul 2015
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posted July 17, 2016 01:33 AM
I have Venus in Virgo square Gemini Mars exact, too. I doubt that it's most difficult square to have. Especially when I think about those dealing with Sun or Moon squares to the outer planets. For the record, I have: Mercury square Moon Mercury square Mars Venus square Moon Venus square Mars Pluto square ASC Venus square MC IP: Logged |
Sulkyarcher Knowflake Posts: 534 From: Registered: Dec 2013
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posted July 17, 2016 02:17 AM
Sun square Moon is hard, I've heard.IP: Logged |
Empty Spaces Knowflake Posts: 979 From: Registered: Jun 2015
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posted July 17, 2016 02:22 AM
/\ /\ That smile was a mistake.I did not noticed! 😝Moon square pluto I guess.I know someone with that aspect.Its an exact square and the person hasdeep psychological problems,plus some addictions due to it. IP: Logged |
Sylven Knowflake Posts: 523 From: Netherlands Registered: Nov 2014
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posted July 17, 2016 03:39 AM
quote: Originally posted by Empty Spaces: /\ /\ That smile was a mistake.I did not noticed! 😝Moon square pluto I guess.I know someone with that aspect.Its an exact square and the person hasdeep psychological problems,plus some addictions due to it.
:'( Don't say! My 11 year old daughter has this aspect. She has very heavy emotions. I am pretty sure those are a big part of causing her rheumatoid artritis. I am sure she will be good though it's just hard to channel the emotions. IP: Logged |
Sylven Knowflake Posts: 523 From: Netherlands Registered: Nov 2014
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posted July 17, 2016 03:46 AM
quote: Originally posted by saadsarah8: http://sasstrology.com/2008/10/mars-in-gemini-square-venus-in-virgo.html This article claims that having venus in virgo sqaure mars in gemini is the most difficult to handle and live with. I'm lucky enough to have this aspect exact. I'm only 21 (turning 22 on the 24th of this month :]) but I constantly worry about channeling this energy and dealing with it when I'm slightly older. Anybody else have this aspect in the natal? Experiences? What makes this one especially difficult to reconcile?
I wouldn't read any chart like that. It so depends on the rest of the chart etc.. Relax! Plus what you give energy focus grows. What you believe in is real. You decide what it means to you. You can either judge it as 'bad' or 'hard' or see it as a major growth opportunity. People with squares get things done. I'd say, they know the *juice of life*
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Aunt Anomalia Knowflake Posts: 2468 From: Pandora's Box Tech Registered: Mar 2015
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posted July 17, 2016 07:05 AM
I only have one of these but still have a problem choosing: Moon square Neptune or Moon square Saturn.I think squares between personal planets are a piece of cake in comparison to those with personal planets (the Moon in particular) and Saturn+. ------------------ The first psychic femdroid on the market. IP: Logged |
next to neptune Knowflake Posts: 2825 From: The Moon Registered: Aug 2013
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posted July 17, 2016 07:55 AM
Or try Moon square Uranus - emotionally awkward and its really hard to stay close with one person. You always feel the need to break free from everything thats emotionally normal.... but thats just because I got it myself. I see people with squares to pluto or venus really have a hard time with others though IP: Logged |
Elysia Knowflake Posts: 1667 From: Gotham Registered: Aug 2015
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posted July 17, 2016 07:55 AM
quote: Originally posted by Sylven: :'( Don't say! My 11 year old daughter has this aspect. She has very heavy emotions. I am pretty sure those are a big part of causing her rheumatoid artritis. I am sure she will be good though it's just hard to channel the emotions.
A decade later and I still can't channel them. Well, but she has a lovely mom like you, so I'm sure she'll be okay. Umm, it's hard to say and also unfair to label just one as the hardest. They're hard in different ways, on different days. Sometimes they're a blessing in disguise. I've a bunch of them myself. Squares & semi-squares (those can really build up over time and catch you unaware). Can't say which causes the most pain. I could say Moon square Pluto is most emotionally draining, but then the Saturn squaring my Sun-Merc-Mars stellium is a huge pain in the @$$ too. Constantly self-censoring and holding yourself back is not a better or worse problem than outta-control emotions, it's just a different one. If and when you find they's being physically debilitating, is the time to take stock and "work on yourself". Doesn't sound too sanguine, I know.. But the solution to most squares lies within, not without. They're just trying to mould us a certain way, and we're resisting. I think of them as battles in an internal civil war. One doesn't have any energy left to tackle outside problems if one lets these run amuck. They're usually fighting over something that can be settled easily with negotiations. If we could get the warring factions to cease n desist and declare peace, wouldn't that be peachy? IP: Logged |
teasel Knowflake Posts: 8606 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted July 17, 2016 08:01 AM
I'm trying to remember mine.Moon square Mars Venus square Mars Nodes square Mars Saturn square Mercury Saturn square Jupiter Saturn square Pluto I think that's it. IP: Logged |
lalalinda Moderator Posts: 4860 From: nevada Registered: Apr 2009
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posted July 17, 2016 08:03 AM
Moon square Uranus, is no cake walk ------------------ A journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step...Lao Tzu IP: Logged |
Sulkyarcher Knowflake Posts: 534 From: Registered: Dec 2013
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posted July 17, 2016 08:28 AM
quote: Originally posted by Empty Spaces: /\ /\ That smile was a mistake.I did not noticed! 😝Moon square pluto I guess.I know someone with that aspect.Its an exact square and the person hasdeep psychological problems,plus some addictions due to it.
I have Moon in Leo square Pluto in Scorpio. I have depression and anxiety. IP: Logged |
Gemini Blues Knowflake Posts: 1171 From: The future... or the past. I get them confused... Registered: May 2014
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posted July 17, 2016 11:27 AM
Here's my top 5 list5) Moon square Neptune Depression much? 4) Saturn square Mars The Father Wound 3) Uranus square Mercury Whom the Gods would destroy... 2) Chiron square Venus The Wounded Lover 1) Pluto Square Moon My emotions go to eleven (11!)... and get stuck there. No volume control. I have three of these. Fortunately two of them are part of T-squares, which helps a lot, and the third has a wide enough orb that I generally don't consider it as a core aspect. IP: Logged |
Lucia23 Knowflake Posts: 235 From: Registered: Jun 2016
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posted July 17, 2016 01:43 PM
If I were making a list of the worst squares to have in a natal chart, i don't think any Mars-Venus squares would make the list. They can cause a sexy, intriguing kind of friction in the chart that isn't always bad. They would only make the list if you add a heavy-hitter planet into the dynamic and make it a T-square. I have Moon square Pluto natally at a slightly-wide orb. It's not so bad. Yes, my emotions go up to eleven and stay there, and I have no emotional self-regulation (at least not internally--Cap rising and Moon-Saturn conjunction give me outer dignity in public), but it's been great for my creative work. The worst square in my chart is a my Aries Chiron-Cancer Venus-Libra Uranus t-square, and it's much more awful when something is hitting the Chiron in synastry or transits. The worst, most painful aspect in my chart is a conjunction (Moon-Saturn in Cancer, 7th house)--my expressions of my moon are painfully restricted. Luckily, i don't have Saturn-Pluto square natally---it's out of orb. Here are the Astro squares I think are worst, based on people whose lives I know well whose charts I've seen: -Sun square Saturn -Pluto square Saturn -Chiron square Venus -Moon square Uranus -Mars square Saturn (fixed signs most gruesome with daddy issues) IP: Logged |
Elysia Knowflake Posts: 1667 From: Gotham Registered: Aug 2015
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posted July 17, 2016 02:22 PM
^ You have no idea how right you are, Lucia. IP: Logged |
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 67792 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted July 17, 2016 08:42 PM
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