I never withdraw from even smallest fights. I even attract people who love to withdraw and it boils my fire moon so I will find a way to chase this people to settle the fights right away.
The worst kind of pain that I had experience was when my old dad got arrested by the crime that he didn't do so the local police could take advantage of his money. It was like a lighting bolt in my brain and an arc in my heart. I left my work, study some case within hours, took flight back to hometown, learned some more situation and finally they released him after I made a visit and a phone call. It was in one intense day.
Yes, the worst kind of pain would be if some people intentionally harass/hurt my family. I can be a hungry wolf because of the pain I can not take. lol.
It's HARD for me to fall in love, not scared by it, but I love EVERYONE the same. The only way to know that you are the special one is when I only open myself with you and it may take some time to see because of the fog of pisces the neptune. I may look like an open book, I may friendly with everyone, but only with special person I share my ALL. Yes, venus in pisces build a soul bound, your pain is our pain, your happiness is our happiness and on. We FEEL all of it.
My ex also a venus in pisces, he fits with "all" the description below especially the withdraw and how he will swing back and forth:
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Originally posted by Cappi112:
I am a Venus (and Mars) Pisces, 1st house.My first boyfriend was a Venus in Pisces as well. We were intensely in love (first love/ first everything), but that relationship became dramatic and volatile for a number of reasons.
So, what I'll say after several relationships and awareness of myself is the following (based on my own experiences with, well, ME):
1. We are often very scared to REALLY fall in love. We will swing back and forth between being excited and happy about it and being straight-up kind of emo about it until we're sure it's going to last.
2. We won't forget a time you hurt our feelings. We will forgive and keep going with you -sometimes to a fault if we are really in love - but we won't forget those words or actions, ever.
3. Fights are emotionally draining. If they can be avoided or dealt with in a different, more productive way, that's ideal. Even the smallest fight can make me withdraw for at least a day or two and beat myself up like crazy. And they tend to become cumulative ("we have had x number of fights in the past two months. That's not okay.") I hate this about myself, but it's true - even if the fights aren't that bad and the relationship is otherwise solid, I tend to think the worst if I'm noticing a high volume of tiffs with that person or a general snippiness. I start to think the relationship is fading.
4. We show our love physically. We will totally embrace you, pour affection on, and feed you. It's a very sensual love (similar to Taurus, in my opinion).
5. Even if we say otherwise, we're looking to find a soul mate, and don't feel comfortable in a longterm relationship with someone we don't feel we are bound to on a soul level.
6. We still think back emotionally on past exes and long for peace with them - this is magnified 1000000x if the relationship didn't end amicably with an ex. We will dwell on that for a long time. It doesn't mean we want them back, but it can take a long time to let go of that.
7. We love everyone on some level. Don't get too jealous. We long to connect with others and spread peace and well being.
8. Fights are always emotional (going back to previous point).
9. If we feel we have hurt anyone or wronged anyone, it is the worst kind of pain.
10.If we don't trust you, it won't work out. If you break or test the trust, it won't work out. Case closed.
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