posted August 04, 2016 04:33 AM            

My first boyfriend was a Venus in Pisces as well. We were intensely in love (first love/ first everything), but that relationship became dramatic and volatile for a number of reasons.

So, what I'll say after several relationships and awareness of myself is the following (based on my own experiences with, well, ME):

1. We are often very scared to REALLY fall in love. We will swing back and forth between being excited and happy about it and being straight-up kind of emo about it until we're sure it's going to last.

2. We won't forget a time you hurt our feelings. We will forgive and keep going with you -sometimes to a fault if we are really in love - but we won't forget those words or actions, ever.

3. Fights are emotionally draining. If they can be avoided or dealt with in a different, more productive way, that's ideal. Even the smallest fight can make me withdraw for at least a day or two and beat myself up like crazy. And they tend to become cumulative ("we have had x number of fights in the past two months. That's not okay.") I hate this about myself, but it's true - even if the fights aren't that bad and the relationship is otherwise solid, I tend to think the worst if I'm noticing a high volume of tiffs with that person or a general snippiness. I start to think the relationship is fading.

4. We show our love physically. We will totally embrace you, pour affection on, and feed you. It's a very sensual love (similar to Taurus, in my opinion).

5. Even if we say otherwise, we're looking to find a soul mate, and don't feel comfortable in a longterm relationship with someone we don't feel we are bound to on a soul level.

6. We still think back emotionally on past exes and long for peace with them - this is magnified 1000000x if the relationship didn't end amicably with an ex. We will dwell on that for a long time. It doesn't mean we want them back, but it can take a long time to let go of that.

7. We love everyone on some level. Don't get too jealous. We long to connect with others and spread peace and well being.

8. Fights are always emotional (going back to previous point).

9. If we feel we have hurt anyone or wronged anyone, it is the worst kind of pain.

posted August 04, 2016 04:56 AM            

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Originally posted by Cappi112:
I am a Venus (and Mars) Pisces, 1st house.

My first boyfriend was a Venus in Pisces as well. We were intensely in love (first love/ first everything), but that relationship became dramatic and volatile for a number of reasons.

So, what I'll say after several relationships and awareness of myself is the following (based on my own experiences with, well, ME):

1. We are often very scared to REALLY fall in love. We will swing back and forth between being excited and happy about it and being straight-up kind of emo about it until we're sure it's going to last.

2. We won't forget a time you hurt our feelings. We will forgive and keep going with you -sometimes to a fault if we are really in love - but we won't forget those words or actions, ever.

3. Fights are emotionally draining. If they can be avoided or dealt with in a different, more productive way, that's ideal. Even the smallest fight can make me withdraw for at least a day or two and beat myself up like crazy. And they tend to become cumulative ("we have had x number of fights in the past two months. That's not okay.") I hate this about myself, but it's true - even if the fights aren't that bad and the relationship is otherwise solid, I tend to think the worst if I'm noticing a high volume of tiffs with that person or a general snippiness. I start to think the relationship is fading.

4. We show our love physically. We will totally embrace you, pour affection on, and feed you. It's a very sensual love (similar to Taurus, in my opinion).

5. Even if we say otherwise, we're looking to find a soul mate, and don't feel comfortable in a longterm relationship with someone we don't feel we are bound to on a soul level.

6. We still think back emotionally on past exes and long for peace with them - this is magnified 1000000x if the relationship didn't end amicably with an ex. We will dwell on that for a long time. It doesn't mean we want them back, but it can take a long time to let go of that.

7. We love everyone on some level. Don't get too jealous. We long to connect with others and spread peace and well being.

8. Fights are always emotional (going back to previous point).

9. If we feel we have hurt anyone or wronged anyone, it is the worst kind of pain.

10.If we don't trust you, it won't work out. If you break or test the trust, it won't work out. Case closed.

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posted August 04, 2016 05:34 AM            

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Originally posted by charlie:
My husband is a Pisces Venus 12H conj Asc and all of this is him. Some of it I REALLY (!) don't like..

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posted August 04, 2016 06:06 AM            

As a Scorpio Venus, i thought that we'd be drawn to each other and obsessed. But alas l have had more heat from a Venus in Cancer really.

posted August 04, 2016 09:23 AM            

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Originally posted by Cappi112:
I am a Venus (and Mars) Pisces, 1st house.

My first boyfriend was a Venus in Pisces as well. We were intensely in love (first love/ first everything), but that relationship became dramatic and volatile for a number of reasons.

So, what I'll say after several relationships and awareness of myself is the following (based on my own experiences with, well, ME):

1. We are often very scared to REALLY fall in love. We will swing back and forth between being excited and happy about it and being straight-up kind of emo about it until we're sure it's going to last.

2. We won't forget a time you hurt our feelings. We will forgive and keep going with you -sometimes to a fault if we are really in love - but we won't forget those words or actions, ever.

3. Fights are emotionally draining. If they can be avoided or dealt with in a different, more productive way, that's ideal. Even the smallest fight can make me withdraw for at least a day or two and beat myself up like crazy. And they tend to become cumulative ("we have had x number of fights in the past two months. That's not okay.") I hate this about myself, but it's true - even if the fights aren't that bad and the relationship is otherwise solid, I tend to think the worst if I'm noticing a high volume of tiffs with that person or a general snippiness. I start to think the relationship is fading.

4. We show our love physically. We will totally embrace you, pour affection on, and feed you. It's a very sensual love (similar to Taurus, in my opinion).

5. Even if we say otherwise, we're looking to find a soul mate, and don't feel comfortable in a longterm relationship with someone we don't feel we are bound to on a soul level.

6. We still think back emotionally on past exes and long for peace with them - this is magnified 1000000x if the relationship didn't end amicably with an ex. We will dwell on that for a long time. It doesn't mean we want them back, but it can take a long time to let go of that.

7. We love everyone on some level. Don't get too jealous. We long to connect with others and spread peace and well being.

8. Fights are always emotional (going back to previous point).

9. If we feel we have hurt anyone or wronged anyone, it is the worst kind of pain.

10.If we don't trust you, it won't work out. If you break or test the trust, it won't work out. Case closed.

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posted August 04, 2016 11:00 AM            

I have Venus conjunct Neptune and so much of that applies to me, too. Thanks for laying it all out.

Ohhhh so you really need that soul mate thing I take it??

And I agree that so much of it has to do with what aspects venus is making to other planets.

posted August 04, 2016 01:08 PM            

I don't know if it was an immaturity thing or a Pisces thing, but he wasn't direct with his feelings. I didn't even know he had feelings for me. He never came out and said he did. But he kept inviting me out to group outings when the other people just all of a sudden couldn't come out so it was just the two of us. This happened multiple times. And he'd just go and grab my hand or try kissing me and it was like woah what are you doing? Lol. It was like he was wishy washy with his feelings, one minute acting like a friend and the other he was trying to get me as his girlfriend. I think the wishy washy is a Pisces thing though.

posted August 04, 2016 01:22 PM            

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Originally posted by Cappi112:
Ohhhh so you really need that soul mate thing I take it??

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posted August 05, 2016 03:28 AM            

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Originally posted by CapriciousCapricorn:
Can I ask you Pisces Venuses this. SCENARIO: because you are so idealistic, fall in love so fast - you get married asap because you're overfilled with feelings of love. What happens when you then realise the one is not actually the one, he/she is not who you thought they were?

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Hmm I don't fall in love super fast. I don't think that's necessarily a venus in pisces thing. and I know most venus in Pisces' who wait an epic long time to get married. In my descripton above, I said in my experience we will wait FOREVER to fully give in to being in love and to try to make sure it isn't going to end, because heartbreak sucks way too much for a ViP.

posted August 05, 2016 06:03 PM            

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Originally posted by Cappi112:
I am a Venus (and Mars) Pisces, 1st house.

My first boyfriend was a Venus in Pisces as well. We were intensely in love (first love/ first everything), but that relationship became dramatic and volatile for a number of reasons.

So, what I'll say after several relationships and awareness of myself is the following (based on my own experiences with, well, ME):

1. We are often very scared to REALLY fall in love. We will swing back and forth between being excited and happy about it and being straight-up kind of emo about it until we're sure it's going to last.

2. We won't forget a time you hurt our feelings. We will forgive and keep going with you -sometimes to a fault if we are really in love - but we won't forget those words or actions, ever.

3. Fights are emotionally draining. If they can be avoided or dealt with in a different, more productive way, that's ideal. Even the smallest fight can make me withdraw for at least a day or two and beat myself up like crazy. And they tend to become cumulative ("we have had x number of fights in the past two months. That's not okay.") I hate this about myself, but it's true - even if the fights aren't that bad and the relationship is otherwise solid, I tend to think the worst if I'm noticing a high volume of tiffs with that person or a general snippiness. I start to think the relationship is fading.

4. We show our love physically. We will totally embrace you, pour affection on, and feed you. It's a very sensual love (similar to Taurus, in my opinion).

5. Even if we say otherwise, we're looking to find a soul mate, and don't feel comfortable in a longterm relationship with someone we don't feel we are bound to on a soul level.

6. We still think back emotionally on past exes and long for peace with them - this is magnified 1000000x if the relationship didn't end amicably with an ex. We will dwell on that for a long time. It doesn't mean we want them back, but it can take a long time to let go of that.

7. We love everyone on some level. Don't get too jealous. We long to connect with others and spread peace and well being.

8. Fights are always emotional (going back to previous point).

9. If we feel we have hurt anyone or wronged anyone, it is the worst kind of pain.

10.If we don't trust you, it won't work out. If you break or test the trust, it won't work out. Case closed.

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My current crush has Venus (and Mercury) in Pisces conjunct ASC, so this was veryyy helpful. Thank you so much! I wasn't really expecting someone with a Pisces Venus to answer my post, but since you are/did, would you mind answering some more questions please and thank you?

1. Would a Pisces Venus be the type to hold on to a crush for a very long time? Like 1-3 years-long
2. Have you ever loved/crushed on more than one person at the same time? How did you deal with it?
3. What usually makes you fall MADLY in love/head-over-wheels for someone?
4. Do you care about money/one's status/job?
5. On a scale of 1 to 10, how strongly do you believe in love at first sight? As in you see someone and think/feel "He/she is my soulmate without a doubt" (if you've ever been in such a situation)

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Leo Sun/Mercury
Sagittarius Moon
Cancer Venus/Mars/Rising

posted August 06, 2016 08:04 AM            

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Originally posted by erickaf:
I like reading this thread! My current crush has Venus in Pisces. But he's soooo hard to figure out. We are not a couple so I haven't seen this placement in action. I bet he is sweet in love!

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You're welcome

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Leo Sun/Mercury
Sagittarius Moon
Cancer Venus/Mars/Rising

posted August 07, 2016 02:18 PM            

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Originally posted by Cappi112:
Haha... I feel the same way! I hate myself in relationships sometimes. But, I should have noted, I believe an evolved, self-aware Pisces (Pisces ANYTHNG) can be one of the most amazing partners out there. We love unconditionally, once we really love.

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I completely agree. I am a Pisces Sun, Venus, Jupiter, MC. The hard part is, once a relationship is done all of that unconditional love you invested feels gone too. I'm currently going through this after 7 years.

So if the other person's love in the relationship was conditional, and you were the one loving unconditionally, this can be hard to come back from.

posted August 07, 2016 06:48 PM            

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Originally posted by erickaf:
^^^Oh, yeah there is a world of a difference between Sun and Venus signs. Lol I'm a Scorpion Sun with Venus in Sagittarius ... I could never be confused for a Sagittarius Sun lol.
But see the guy I was seeing over this early Summer is an Aquarius Sun with Venus in Pisces. He sort of stopped calling me for dates. I feel I scared him away lol. I have read that Venus Pisces men like sweet, fragile women. But I can come on strong, and aggressive...especially my fire Venus is bold and blunt. I wish he would call me again lol!

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posted August 08, 2016 05:57 AM            

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Originally posted by ChildofVenus:
I don't know if other women who have Venus in Pisces does this. But in the past I've written letters to my boyfriends that I like. And at the end of the letter I sealed them with a kiss and then I'd spray the letter with some of my perfume lol.

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