posted August 30, 2016 04:10 AM            

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Originally posted by Astra:
If he is accusing you of manipulating even after you told him the truth, then dump him. This guy is an emotional abuser. Cut ties with him. Tell him if that's what he thinks of you, then it's best for both of you to end the relationship. It's not healthy at all. You should've dumped him earlier when he accused you of manipulation after you told him a painful story about your past. He doesn't love you. Heck, he doesn't even like you as a friend.

I know it hurts to dump someone you love, but you have to do it for your own sanity. He will not get better with time. He isn't going to suddenly become loving and attentive. This man is not worth your time. He doesn't respect you even at the most basic level.

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posted August 30, 2016 05:55 AM            

As I Cap Moon myself, I'll say this: it takes me forever to trust (lotta Pluto squares) but when I do, I like to open up and talk about my personal self. If at this point person I'm talking to belittle my past/feelings/ego/IQ/judgement/whatever, I WILL never trust them again and I will also slowly withdraw. In my opinion Cap Moons are far deeper than some Scorpios but without the bloody games. We take our sweet time but when we decide, that's it.

posted August 30, 2016 06:38 AM            

Any other Scorpio is going to ALSO be sexy as hell, intuitive and maybe psychic, but if unevolved, that's about it for the positive sides. They use their powers for evil, many of them.

If you choose to fight with one, or play games, or whatever it is you are doing, be prepared to lose. That's really it. If you're at the point of feeling his disdain/disrespect/ lack of love for you, it's dead. The only way you can 'win' with this guy is to walk away, and it sounds like you really have no choice.

posted September 03, 2016 11:32 AM            

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Originally posted by Condoowit:
I'd be outta there at the first accusation of faking tears. Total lack of respect and trust in the beginning equals worse disaster later on. You will never be emotionally safe with this man.

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Yeah, how can you feel safe confiding in him if he does this? You deserve to be with someone who respects your feelings.

Being with people who try to minimize, trivialize or otherwise dismiss your feelings is an extremely unpleasant experience. I'm sure, as a Cappy moon - you already hold yourself to certain emotional standards. i.e. Keep your feelings under control, or censor their expression in some way. On top of that, if someone else comes in and says - no, your feelings aren't valid. That's twice the stifling.

I don't know him, or what his issues are - but if he can't deal with this now, it's a gamble to see if he will later.

posted September 03, 2016 09:54 PM            

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Originally posted by Cappi112:
Hmmmm yeah, okay, I'll put it this way: An evolved Scorpio can be great, wise, intuitive, psychic, loyal and sexy as hell.

Any other Scorpio is going to ALSO be sexy as hell, intuitive and maybe psychic, but if unevolved, that's about it for the positive sides. They use their powers for evil, many of them.

If you choose to fight with one, or play games, or whatever it is you are doing, be prepared to lose. That's really it. If you're at the point of feeling his disdain/disrespect/ lack of love for you, it's dead. The only way you can 'win' with this guy is to walk away, and it sounds like you really have no choice.

Even when I 'won' with scorpios in the past, they still won. I surrendered. My Cap ex (who was scorpio ascendant and venus) was the last scorpio-driven person I'll ever be involved with. It's ended in tears and depression every time.

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Are you talking about Scorpio Suns or people who have other planets in Scorpio? I'm a Gemini Sun/Capricorn moon with some Scorpio in my chart, but I've successfully defeated a number of Scorpios and reduced them to tears. Yes, they tried to retaliate of course, but I quickly shut them down and they backed off.

posted September 03, 2016 11:16 PM            

Overall I've found Scorpio unusually fragile, and more often delusional rather than intuitive...even here many say they're paranoid which is, by definition, delusional (even if the paranoia happens to be right doesn't mean that they were intuitive, just that the broken clock was right twice a day, and the worst of them actually push people into doing what they fear they will do anyway). And despite this (and despite all the "tests" they want to use) they can still trust the wrong people.

I have an astro-twin (at least by the standards of many people) born 3 days after me, which put her sun into Scorpio rather than Libra (and also her moon into Capricorn rather than Sag, other than that our charts are identical, save I don't know her ASC which I'm positive was different from mine), and she was so much more fragile and fearful than me, and she didn't survive. I tend to think her Scorpio sun had a lot to do with why she was so weak (at least from my perspective). Even when she "led" me I typically was the one to work out the plan and then be the fire to then make it happen. Left to her own devices she had a tendency to mope and whine. I feel bad for her and all, but that's an example of a Scorpio, and she makes me glad I was born a Libra instead.

Not that all Scorpios are that way (and have been very close to some, even found one in particular downright inspirational), but I'm not going to stand in awe just because someone is a Scorpio.