posted August 30, 2016 04:37 PM            

My new baby has this in her chart and I'm worried as I myself was depressed a lot as a child and especially as a teenager. I have lots of squares from Saturn, including one to my Sun, though none to my moon.

posted August 30, 2016 07:10 PM            

Anyways I'm on anti depressants and caffeinated up. My life is great...
If a moon Square Saturner gets on anti depressants they will behave like a moon conjunct Saturner. No lie

posted August 30, 2016 07:17 PM            

Most moon square saturners are hard to fully open up emotionally as they can't take that let down rejected feeling. They don't jump into things

I am very much a Libra and very much 5th house. It's obvious house 5th house I am because of my ego. Point being that something I have noticed is that with me and love
I don't jump and I absolutely hate to rush into it. I like to fall in love slowly over time. That sounds more like a Venus aspect comparison but the truth is it's also how I'm expressing myself emotionally. A lot of times I have been very close to a single man and I would want to become something more, but he sees me only as a friend. And that's because it took so long for me to open up and feel those emotion and realize I actually did love him truly

These other non moon square saturners don't get it lol

Im also not physically affectionate with most people. At all. That's probably just me. Moon square saturners who have had bad experiences are maybe like this. It could also be my part schizo affective disorder ruining my judgement.

I just don't like to get too affectionate because I feel it's unnecessary. If someone is sad I might give them a hug or if I'm in love with someone and they are sad I will comfort them but to just hug someone at random that I am not partnered with is absurd

posted August 30, 2016 09:20 PM            

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Originally posted by Desiring Shadows:
I am a very successful person.
It was hard to get to where I am but I did it.

Most moon square saturners are hard to fully open up emotionally as they can't take that let down rejected feeling. They don't jump into things

I am very much a Libra and very much 5th house. It's obvious house 5th house I am because of my ego. Point being that something I have noticed is that with me and love
I don't jump and I absolutely hate to rush into it. I like to fall in love slowly over time. That sounds more like a Venus aspect comparison but the truth is it's also how I'm expressing myself emotionally. A lot of times I have been very close to a single man and I would want to become something more, but he sees me only as a friend. And that's because it took so long for me to open up and feel those emotion and realize I actually did love him truly

These other non moon square saturners don't get it lol

Im also not physically affectionate with most people. At all. That's probably just me. Moon square saturners who have had bad experiences are maybe like this. It could also be my part schizo affective disorder ruining my judgement.

I just don't like to get too affectionate because I feel it's unnecessary. If someone is sad I might give them a hug or if I'm in love with someone and they are sad I will comfort them but to just hug someone at random that I am not partnered with is absurd

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posted August 30, 2016 10:28 PM            

I get sad when bad things happen, get angsty sometimes, but so far I haven't been depressed.

Idk, I have a pretty afflicted moon, square a bunch of things, save for a trine to jupiter. And I don't have issues expressing emotions, probably because my moon is in the 3rd, so emotions expression is pretty important to me. What saturn bring is responsibility. I'm emotional, but have never been an emotional hot mess and make it other people's problem.

It also manifests as circumstances/situations where I have to "keep cool" or ice out my emotions. So expressing emotions can be a luxury sometimes. Needless to say, I don't really like having to do so, but at the same time, it more or less has been a necessary ability and has served me well in more than one occasion.

posted August 30, 2016 10:29 PM            

A few things to consider are, how close the aspect is, what are the houses where the squaring planets are located, the signs involved, etc...

People with this aspect tend to view their mother as cold and unloving. So as the mother of a child with this aspect, keep this in mind and see the ways in which you can mitigate that.

posted August 30, 2016 11:14 PM            

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Originally posted by Belage:
traditionally, it is a marker for depression. The person with this aspect tends to struggle with depression on and off.

A few things to consider are, how close the aspect is, what are the houses where the squaring planets are located, the signs involved, etc...

People with this aspect tend to view their mother as cold and unloving. So as the mother of a child with this aspect, keep this in mind and see the ways in which you can mitigate that.

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posted August 30, 2016 11:16 PM            

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Originally posted by 12muddy:
Relationship with my mother was bad. It's ok now.

I get sad when bad things happen, get angsty sometimes, but so far I haven't been depressed.

Idk, I have a pretty afflicted moon, square a bunch of things, save for a trine to jupiter. And I don't have issues expressing emotions, probably because my moon is in the 3rd, so emotions expression is pretty important to me. What saturn bring is responsibility. I'm emotional, but have never been an emotional hot mess and make it other people's problem.

It also manifests as circumstances/situations where I have to "keep cool" or ice out my emotions. So expressing emotions can be a luxury sometimes. Needless to say, I don't really like having to do so, but at the same time, it more or less has been a necessary ability and has served me well in more than one occasion.

I'm saturn dominant, so a lot of these things might just come from my saturn influence, and not necessarily from moon/saturn alone.

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posted August 30, 2016 11:36 PM            

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Originally posted by bananaz:
These are both points I'm worried about, and will keep watch of while she's growing up. However, I'm super emotional and extremely loving especially with my family. Her moon is in Pisces (I'm a Pisces) in the 6th house squaring Saturn in Sag in the 3rd. My husband is a Sag...could it show tension between parents?

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Interesting...Saturn in the 3rd and in Sagg is in one of the least harmful positions, so that's a plus.

posted August 30, 2016 11:52 PM            

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Originally posted by Belage:
^^^ (Continued) It looks like she possibly has Jupiter in the 12th, acting like an angel over her shoulder, so she should be fine, as it also rules her Pisces moon.

I think all those things might lessen the depressive quality of saturn square moon for her.

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posted August 31, 2016 02:26 AM            

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Originally posted by bananaz:
Jupiter is in the 1st conjunct her Asc and Neptune is in the 6th conj her Desc, squaring saturn. Can she at least catch a break through Jupiter's optimism?

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Jupiter conjunct ascendant is nice. It will make her naturally optimistic and buyoant. Alsoo, being in Virgo, she might be spared the excess poundage that could come with that aspect.

posted August 31, 2016 03:57 AM            

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Originally posted by Desiring Shadows:
I have had a lot of depression in my past. It made me live in the past. Not wanting to do things or start over. I failed to see the miracle in each day.
I got diagnosed a few years ago for something I most definitely do not have. I must have been going through a phase. I truly believe it is because of the depression . When you are miserable with circumstances you don't see clearly. Your memory sucks because you didn't care enough to bother with fully being there. Just that getting by feeling

Anyways I'm on anti depressants and caffeinated up. My life is great...
If a moon Square Saturner gets on anti depressants they will behave like a moon conjunct Saturner. No lie

I'm really close with my mother. She also has this aspect

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What do you mean by:
"If a moon Square Saturner gets on anti depressants they will behave like a moon conjunct Saturner."

posted August 31, 2016 04:17 AM            

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Originally posted by bananaz:
Are you depressed a lot? How was your relationship with your mother?

My new baby has this in her chart and I'm worried as I myself was depressed a lot as a child and especially as a teenager. I have lots of squares from Saturn, including one to my Sun, though none to my moon.

Also does this placement usually indicate a coldness or inability to express emotion? Does it ever mean anything that doesn't sound heartbreaking?

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Another Moon Square Saturn Thread!!!
I have Moon Square Saturn and I am Plutonian and Saturnian (more Plutonian though).

I have depression (for about 6 years, possibly longer).

My relationship with my mother is interesting/ok. Unlike a lot of harsh Saturn placements; I was never abused. Both parents were protective, especially my mother. Growing up she never felt loved and was the black sheep of her family; so she made damn sure that I felt loved and protected. The only thing about my relationship with her is she is not emotional at all and I am.

I am realizing I am the emotional one out of my family and I don't like it. I have Scorpio Moon on top of having Moon square Saturn. I also have Venus in Pisces & Moon in my 3rd House. All my life I've been suppressing my emotions, trying to appear to be "strong".

I think Moon square Saturn is not necessarily an inability to express emotion (though there is coldness). But not having the proper tools/training to express your emotions in a healthy way. It isn't natural and it requires training/reflection.

Positive healthy emotions is a strength not a weakness.

In regards to your new baby. Just love her. Figure out her natal chart and give her what she needs. If you can't do that; just support her. Don't shame her and don't put her in an environment that is not good. Be responsible/don't neglect her.

posted September 01, 2016 07:40 AM            

I'm certainly not cold though, and I'm not afraid to love. I think that has more to do with ascendant and venus, possibly.

I did also have a very very strained relationship with my father. This is a real thing for Moon square Saturn. His saturn also sits on top of my sun. Karmic af. But my father definitely does not approve / hates when I am deeply emotional. It took him a long time to understand, nevermind be tolerant, of my emotional being.

posted September 02, 2016 03:25 AM            

Maybe he does deal with depression and self-loathing? I cant say. But he did have a step-mother and am not sure how his relationship with her was- as he rarely talked personal problems.