posted September 04, 2016 10:24 PM            

Besides the obvious - Gemini anything. I think Gemini moon, mercury, and venus especially would be good at dating multiple people. But Gemini Mars might be able to handle different hookups as well.

What about Gemini Ascendant?

Aquarius Moon & Aries Moon also might be good at this - Aqua might not really see the problem, and Aries wants what it wants RIGHT NOW! :-P And Sagg Moon might want the adventure and to try everything.

Pisces Venus could also be good at this because they kind of fall in love with everybody. So maybe Pisces Mars could too.

Water moons are BAD at this! We get too attached.

I would bet that Moon in Taurus + Venus in Capricorn and vice versa would make you *not* be able to date multiple people very well, but I could be wrong.

posted September 04, 2016 11:03 PM            

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Originally posted by alludeu:
Well before I really knew about the sign of Gemini & sagittarius, the first guy I fell so deeply for was a Sagittarius ascendant and Gemini moon (didn't end well lmao.. Couldn't give me the "Leo" attention I needed, wouldnt commit)
I have a friend who has a Taurus moon and cancer mars and she can easily have casual/detached sex but I suspect she also has a Gemini ascendant
As for me, I have an Aries ascendant (so I think everything is felt twice as hard with the signs in their natural houses..) Aquarius moon (conjunct Neptune), venus Leo and Scorpio mars. I think with the strong Leo energy I have (sun, mercury, Venus, north node - Leo, 5th house) I like to go around flirting with lots of people for admiration and attention lmao.. But my Scorpio Mars is strong (as its my chart ruler and also in the 8th house) so I've never been able to sleep with just anyone (at least not without feeling bad about it..). And I have Saturn square Venus and opposition Mars
-I also think Saturn aspects can make someone more serious about love matters (if it hard aspects Venus or Mars especially)

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You're right about saturn! Saturn - Venus aspects I can imagine make it hard to date around casually.

As well - I have friends with Venus conjunct Uranus, and even though her Venus is in Scorp like me, she cannot stay monogamous for the life of her!

I'm shocked about your friend with Cancer Mars & Taurus Moon! Normally those are 2 signs I would imagine being super uncomfortable hooking up.

posted September 04, 2016 11:15 PM            

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Originally posted by rorrr:
Do you think the Gemini Asc is that influential?

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posted September 04, 2016 11:42 PM            

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Originally posted by rorrr:

Aquarius Moon & Aries Moon also might be good at this - Aqua might not really see the problem, and Aries wants what it wants RIGHT NOW!

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These two answers were going to be my response! I'm an Aqua Moon and my buddy is an Aries Moon and we're both pretty good at doing this. I'm also an Aries Venus and he a Gemini Venus - I think both these signs lead to a "short attention span" in dating if we truly don't jive with someone exceptional.

posted September 05, 2016 12:04 AM            

I get bored easily though (thats the downside of gemini moon) and thats why I prefer to have a date after looong conversations.Kinda being friends first type of thing.Is better for me and for them!!!

posted September 05, 2016 02:00 AM            

I think this could've been me if I'd been focused on dating, especially dating people I didn't know well. By this I mean casually "getting to know you" dating as opposed to open relationships or sleeping around. The hard part would be that if I decided on a specific person (which would take awhile given all my Libra) then cutting the others loose would be hard as I know that would hurt.

While I wouldn't do open relationships (6H Cappie Juno + Libra Saturn-Pluto would raise too many concerns here), I could do a well-defined polyamorous arrangement (that is, includes multiple lovers, but also capable of cheating by breaking the rules set in place). I almost went this path and at times feel wistful that I didn't (but I know I'd feel the same way about the "path not taken" had I chosen that path instead).

posted September 05, 2016 07:20 AM            

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Originally posted by Aries23Degrees:
This is not a judgment. Just a question.

Are we speaking of polygamy/open relationship set up or plain old sleeping around?

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I think both instances work for my question.

posted September 05, 2016 11:04 AM            

Venus/Neptune hard aspect
Venus/moon hard aspect

posted September 05, 2016 02:34 PM            

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Originally posted by next to neptune:
I don't believe any aspect could explain that for real... it's more to do with peoples own beliefs, their upbringing, their culture, their surroundings, friends, parents, siblings etc.

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posted September 05, 2016 03:44 PM            

Gemini/Mercury, Sagittarius/Jupiter, or Aquarius/Uranus in the 5th are all usually very good at dating around and casual sex, even if there are more intense placements going on. Also Libra in the 5th.

I have Gemini on the 5th House cusp and I have realized that I can be a real "multitasker" when it comes to dating. I can juggle lovers very easily when I want to. Having so much Scorpio energy used to make me feel uneasy about that when I first started dating. But, now, I see it's mostly harmless, as long as I'm not manipulating people. I don't get emotionally invested in the casual dating phase.

I think that's the thing about Gemini being your 5th House sign. It's very mental. When you're interested in someone romantically, you are probably going to be interested in someone else too. It makes you a restless dater. And when one romantic situation doesn't work out, you always have a Plan B to fall back on. Gemini is crafty after all.

But, in the end, with my Sun in the 7th, once I reach that stage of real commitment, I want to fully commit. That's the kind of person I am. And I could never do open relationships! No judgment. Just not for me

But you can't stereotype either. I know one Scorpio-heavy guy who actually is in an open relationship. But I fear it will lead to a crime scene at some point.

posted September 05, 2016 04:42 PM            

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Originally posted by DopGang:
It might make them feel better having multiple honeymoon phases. Just as some are addicted to shopping. I knew a woman who seemed addicted to both, definitely shopping.

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posted September 05, 2016 05:20 PM            

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Originally posted by next to neptune:
I don't believe any aspect could explain that for real... it's more to do with peoples own beliefs, their upbringing, their culture, their surroundings, friends, parents, siblings etc.

I know people who are all earth who also cheats. I know air and fire people who are the most loyal and faithful people I've ever met. I cannot find any patterns...

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posted September 05, 2016 05:28 PM            

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Originally posted by the89freespirit:
More than Venus or the 7th House or anything, I would look at the 5th House by planet or sign. The 5th House is the house of hooking up, the getting to know you phase, the dates before the real commitment (which is the 7th House).

Gemini/Mercury, Sagittarius/Jupiter, or Aquarius/Uranus in the 5th are all usually very good at dating around and casual sex, even if there are more intense placements going on. Also Libra in the 5th.

I have Gemini on the 5th House cusp and I have realized that I can be a real "multitasker" when it comes to dating. I can juggle lovers very easily when I want to. Having so much Scorpio energy used to make me feel uneasy about that when I first started dating. But, now, I see it's mostly harmless, as long as I'm not manipulating people. I don't get emotionally invested in the casual dating phase.

I think that's the thing about Gemini being your 5th House sign. It's very mental. When you're interested in someone romantically, you are probably going to be interested in someone else too. It makes you a restless dater. And when one romantic situation doesn't work out, you always have a Plan B to fall back on. Gemini is crafty after all.

But, in the end, with my Sun in the 7th, once I reach that stage of real commitment, I want to fully commit. That's the kind of person I am. And I could never do open relationships! No judgment. Just not for me

But you can't stereotype either. I know one Scorpio-heavy guy who actually is in an open relationship. But I fear it will lead to a crime scene at some point.

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I havr Aquarius on my 5th house cusp. I don't do casual dating, sex, or any open relationship. Ive seen plenty of promiscuious people with water or earth as their 5th house cusp.

I believe it has more to do with having planets there.

posted September 05, 2016 05:41 PM            

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Originally posted by Gemini30:
I know a few who grew up in strict religious families yet they still became "promiscuious." Some people are wired for it, hence astrology can solve it!

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Bad example. Anti-sex messages can create the opposite reaction by creating an obsession. Other factors come in, like when many of those "thou shall not lie" religious folk tell one too many lies to their kids about sex and the kids (or even students at college) respond by not only disbelieving the liars about the genuine dangers in addition to the fake dangers, but can become promiscuous out of anger or general contempt for those who tried to control them with lies and fear as well.

Other factors exist as well, like those religions that treat a woman a certain way so she thinks her worth is her so-called "purity" (which ironically also teaches a woman's greatest asset is her crotch rather than her mind and heart, and many females can be made to believe this as well as males, and that affects how females see themselves and how males see females) and if a female gets a "bad reputation" (rightly or wrongly) then she can get treated a certain way that will shape her behavior, which can make her promiscuous because it's the only way she can connect to anyone anymore and it's expected (plus self-esteem issues, etc). And there are horror stories of girls who were raped but then had to listen to how no man would want a woman not a virgin anymore than he'd want to chew gum that someone else chewed (charming, isn't it?), which left her feeling worthless and why bother? Especially when mixed in with the other harmful messages that the religious can put out.

All this can lead to promiscuity, and it comes from the upbringing rather than the stars.

While I'm at it I can also point out that the highest STD and teenage pregnancy rates tend to be in the states that are the ones that preach sexual abstinence before marriage the most. There's a lot more I could say on this.

posted September 05, 2016 09:11 PM            

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Originally posted by Gemini30:
I havr Aquarius on my 5th house cusp. I don't do casual dating, sex, or any open relationship. Ive seen plenty of promiscuious people with water or earth as their 5th house cusp.

I believe it has more to do with having planets there.

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Yeah that's cool and that's your choice. A person's free will defines how they express any chart placement, of course.

But let's not be a buzzkill. The OP asked what placements could cause this attitude to dating. And there certainly are obvious patterns and correlations in terms of people with certain placements. That's why astrology is so accurate.

But just saying "it all depends on the person" does nothing but shut down the discussion and could be said about virtually any topic on here. And maybe because we're talking about sexuality and the like, people seem to be getting a bit moralistic, which there's no need for.