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Topic: Do Scorpio/Plutonic people like being stalked?
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colorful butterfly
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posted September 08, 2016 12:52 AM
  
I have moon conjunct pluto so it's supose to be like having a Scorpio moon. Seems like I just drawl men who are very interested or very possessive. I don't mind it as long as it's not creepy or totally going beyond boundaries. As for wanting tk stalk someone NO way, there are wayyyy too many people in this world just to go mad over someone but in my past I would totally cut another off. I would greieve I guess or saw things I guess being a victim to the things they did. I now see that real love is just loving someone outside yourself and your own wants, I still take a moment to get over someone depending on how I felt about them but I can maintain a good friendship with most. I care to see them well in life and just always one they can talk to of they need to or just care in general like a freind should. It has opened me up to love and relaesed me from being bitter towards love. I've become a happier person and learned love is a spitural journey with another, lessons for the soul and creates a better sense of meaning to life. It feels more pure that way. IP: Logged |
BeholdAstarte
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posted September 08, 2016 05:48 AM
Also, a good friend of mine, her sun is in Scorpio, with her moon, Mercury and Pluto all closely conjunct in Scorpio as well, would be so paranoid everytime we would go out to dance, or just adventure around that someone was going to stalk us it was almost crippling. Her Venus was also conjunct Saturn and Uranus in sag, but she would become so obsessed with the idea that people were gonna do something terrible to her she didn't trust anyone. She was insanely paranoidI would say she was more terrified and disturbed of the idea of people stalking her/actually stalking her, to the point were it made her socially awkward and entirely suspicious and paranoid to most men. IP: Logged |
polkadotstars
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posted September 08, 2016 02:45 PM
I'm not a fan of being stalked. Even when someone says they like me and if I don't have feelings back for them I get uncomfortable being around them. I remember in 5th grade I broke up with my "boyfriend". He waited outside my house and kept ringing the doorbell to come in. I wouldn't let him and it freaked me out. He didn't leave for hours until my parents came home. That's as close as a stalking story as I've ever had experience with. I don't stalk. But I am a good detective. I am amazing at finding anything online. I "stalk" people's facebook and Instagram. Does that count? Ha. I'm able to tell you almost all the names of people in my sorority currently even though I graduated years ago, and even though I have no contact with any of them, just by Facebook and Instagram. SUPER LAME (and majorly creepy) I know! I'll blame it on my Plutonian dominance and slyly walk away. Lol
Elysia- my Aries Venus/Mars- ha, that might be why!
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Gemini30
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posted September 08, 2016 04:53 PM
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Originally posted by polkadotstars:
I'm not a fan of being stalked. Even when someone says they like me and if I don't have feelings back for them I get uncomfortable being around them. I remember in 5th grade I broke up with my "boyfriend". He waited outside my house and kept ringing the doorbell to come in. I wouldn't let him and it freaked me out. He didn't leave for hours until my parents came home. That's as close as a stalking story as I've ever had experience with. I don't stalk. But I am a good detective. I am amazing at finding anything online. I "stalk" people's facebook and Instagram. Does that count? Ha. I'm able to tell you almost all the names of people in my sorority currently even though I graduated years ago, and even though I have no contact with any of them, just by Facebook and Instagram. SUPER LAME (and majorly creepy) I know! I'll blame it on my Plutonian dominance and slyly walk away. Lol
Elysia- my Aries Venus/Mars- ha, that might be why!
You know the thing about "online stalking" is I don't believe there is such a thing. Yes we have the freedom of speech but if you place your "private" information or details for the whole world to see, then you welcome people to online stalk you.
Conversations in person or in circles are not recorded like they are online. Thats just the way I see it. However, stalking like your 5th grade crush or having someone watch you while you sleep, now that ish is creepy and scary.
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hypatia238
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posted September 08, 2016 05:39 PM
Its not really stalking, its investigating right?! finding out information about the other person  great reframe.--->Joking.Honestly though...I think we need an operational definition for stalking and include it in the original post. I will add that my scorpio ex admitted that he sometimes too would drive around where I use to live when he wanted to see me but he would not actually have the balls to show up and knock on my door, not to mention my community was gated unlike his so that would be more challenging. I think that is the difference between him and I. I have scorpio rising and he is a scorpio but he has venus in libra and his strongest planet is venus, I on the other hand have Mars and Pluto ruling my chart and mars conjuncts venus in Leo and my pluto falls in the 12th conjunct Saturn. I am the go getter and he is passive. We even met that way, He noticed me first according to him but I started walking towards him from a distance feeling drawn to him like a magnet and started kissing him and then we made out for like two hours and then he asked for my number, we talked about gettting married but I broke up with him twice and then moved to another country; he reacted in a venusian passive way to all this and I fought like crazy for us once I moved back to Miami but he was involved with another scorpio female by then who would fake been sick and play the victim card to keep him around so he would feel sorry for her; he told me about the things she would do and he said he felt bad for her. Anyways he felt responsible for her and after they broke up years later which was around before I got married he reached out to me and said he regretted not marrying me and that was after all those years of "horrible light stalking I engaged in" . I couldn't leave my soon to be husband for someone I did not feel secure with 100% bc they have shown they don't truly fight for what they want. So there you have it.. IP: Logged |
problematique
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posted January 19, 2023 01:51 PM
if it’s someone i like - yes.
if it’s someone i don’t like - also yes, but i don’t want them to do anything about it. IP: Logged |
DualGemV2
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posted January 19, 2023 01:57 PM
I privately said happy birthday to my Scorpio boss in the hallway in November.He looked at me annoyed and said, how do you know? I said "Facebook..I guess your going block your facebook now?" He said to me I feel old. I'm thinking to myself your not that much older then me, but I guess I look younger sometimes. Word to the wise, don't have kids..kids make you old. My Planets
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Stawr
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posted January 20, 2023 06:11 AM
Stalking can be defined as "unwanted contact" so if you like it, its not stalking? LOLI'm Plutonic and Scorpio heavy. I did not like it when my friend did it. Two years into the friendship she would blow up my phone constantly, even when I told her to stop. IP: Logged |
AlmaRegulus
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posted January 20, 2023 06:24 AM
I only have Sco Asc and yes, I like to stalk & to be stalked but only in a romantic context! To me this is kind of the idea of being loved. It also turns me on when my partner shows jealousy and possessiveness.In a social context I am quite the opposite and paranoid not to leave too many traces online. IP: Logged |
LovelyAries86
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posted January 20, 2023 06:41 AM
Do I like being stalked? In a dangerous or violating sense - HELL NO. 🙄 Don't make me shoot you, dude. In a "I yearn for you" sense - sure, it's kind of cute. Reminds me of this Sagittarius Man (Scorpio ASC) that I had insane chemistry with. He used to stalk my Social Group's page online to see where I'd be hosting my next event and then BAM - he'd "show up" out of nowhere unannounced! 😂 He'd either silently sit right next to me and *ignore* everyone else OR he'd roam off by himself, hiding in corners & watching me interact with others from afar. 😂 Sh-t was mad funny to me though! I was never actually afraid of him. We had Venus-Pluto double whammy.  I also enjoy when a man is moderately territorial over me as well. It's hot AF. 🔥🔥 Nothing extreme though! I don't do batsh-t crazy. IP: Logged |
Randall
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posted January 26, 2023 05:08 PM
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posted February 10, 2023 06:28 PM
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teasel
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posted February 11, 2023 04:15 AM
Someone just checking your instagram, can be a good sign, if they still care about you. I don't really consider that stalking. As long as they aren't like Joe in "You". That actor has really done a good job of putting me off my "type". My social media is private, though, so they couldn't do that if they weren't a friend. My type isn't a stalker, I'm talking about his looks, and the fact that he reads, not his serial murder side. I can't remember what I wrote and edited out, when this thread was started. I went through a time when I had virtually no privacy, and it was the worst. So, no, I'm not a fan. IP: Logged |
BlueRoamer
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posted February 13, 2023 04:37 PM
Yes people that are paranoid at baseline love being stalked.
Joe is such a creep, am i supposed to feel sympathetic with this character? I do not. I guess thats the goal of the show, to confuse you.
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Stawr
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posted February 15, 2023 12:55 PM
^Thank you for reminding me of the new season!I've been in touch with my friend who has stalker tendencies with me. She has apologized the last two times I hung out with her. I usually am not comfortable being the brutally honest friend. But I told her to try to rotate her friends and try not to put it all on one person. That's what I do. I told some folks a few weeks ago I do that because no one wants to hear me ***** about the same stuff all the time. LOL She sent me a burst of 5 texts yesterday and haven't got around to responding. It's okay to do this to people sometimes...but she would do this to me everyday if I enabled her. I have not got back to her yet. LOL and I just started another new job with a heavy workload. Lately I have friends apologize to me for not getting back to me for a few hours. Like dude being an adult is busy. I get it. If someone got upset that I did not reply to them for a few hours I would freak out. IP: Logged |
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posted February 16, 2023 07:29 PM
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Randall
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posted February 25, 2023 06:48 PM
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implosions
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posted February 25, 2023 08:14 PM
Absolutely not.But. I do divinely adore the idea of being a catalyst for the soul of another person, waking them up to realize how agonizingly beautiful the living world can be. I demand a person sees the darkness before they're allowed to wield their light ignorantly. What's weird is that can technically translate into inspiring someone to be obsessively fascinated. But I think that's more of a projection. I love obsessing over {insert person place or thing} because it creates depth of thought. I deeply desire others to do the same. and when it's directed at me, it feels a little bit like love. Scorpio often gets their natural state of depth rejected and vilified- which to a kid, is the world screaming: We do not give a flying **** about who you are or what you're about. This desire is typically where it comes from. -R IP: Logged |
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