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Topic: Do Scorpio/Plutonic people like being stalked?
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Gemini30
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posted September 05, 2016 10:48 PM
  
I have a female Scorpio Sun,Moon, and Mars friend. She admitted to me that her ex-boyfriend online stalks her (since he lives far away now). She states that he finds ways to log into a mutual friends facebook to see her (even though she has him blocked) and stalks her instagram. She knows she is being stalked cause "the mutual friend" has told her that he does this. She states that she gets worried but at the same time she "deep down" likes it. I"m guessing she still misses him? However, she has also stated that she was stalked by a creepy guy at her job but she liked that as well! I told here there can be dangers involved but it seems that gets her off. I ask this cause Plutonic/Scorpionic people tend to have stalker tendencies. Not all are like this but most are. However, what happens when the role is reversed? What if the stalker becomes the stalked? It's "taboo" alright. IP: Logged |
angel4845
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posted September 05, 2016 10:54 PM
i think they do...but i could be wrong. lol.------------------
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hypatia238
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posted September 05, 2016 11:25 PM
Yes I would show up at my ex house randomly for years after I broke up with him and we would always end up having sex, neither of us can say no to the other. I enjoyed stalking him in some level and I think he enjoyed it too me showing up out of the blue uninvited. He is a Scorpio sun conjunct Uranus and I have Scorpio rising..I stopped doing that in my 30s, when I moved back to Miami in 2013 I would at first drive around near were he lives but this time did not show up at his house bc my instincts strongly told me that it was not the right time and that it was time to outgrow that compulsion. I lived there for over two years and stayed away... He is the only guy I was like that with though...the only, we have a very plutonic composite and synastry with a lot of very heavy action involving love planets..
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Saturn8_Me
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posted September 06, 2016 12:04 AM
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scorpiogirl
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posted September 06, 2016 12:06 AM
Most people "stalk" online, you can't help it. If I found out someone did it to me I'd feel flattered if it were someone I liked or someone attractive cause I've done it too, so...But I could get annoyed, depending on the circumstances, and then I would make 100% sure that he couldn't do it anymore.
REAL stalking though, NO. That's scary stuff. Sorry but your friend sounds delusional.IP: Logged |
PixieJane
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posted September 06, 2016 12:21 AM
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teasel
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posted September 06, 2016 02:58 AM
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teasel
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posted September 06, 2016 03:42 AM
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meyray
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posted September 06, 2016 05:13 AM
It makes them feel powerful. They like the idea of a person being obsessed and affected by them.Usually it's Scorpio that gets in too deep and feels intense feelings (which is the more vulnerable position) so when it's the other person going it Scorpio feels important and in power. This seems like a trait of the lowlier side of Scorpio thought. The enjoyment can also easily turn to annoyance and disgust if Scorpio stops caring about the person. IP: Logged |
Ann7
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posted September 06, 2016 06:23 AM
NO. We prefer to do the stalking but, like all good hypocrites, despise our privacy being invaded. IP: Logged |
Saturn8_Me
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posted September 06, 2016 11:54 AM
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hypatia238
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posted September 06, 2016 12:00 PM
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Originally posted by scorpiogirl:
Most people "stalk" online, you can't help it. If I found out someone did it to me I'd feel flattered if it were someone I liked or someone attractive cause I've done it too, so...But I could get annoyed, depending on the circumstances, and then I would make 100% sure that he couldn't do it anymore.
REAL stalking though, NO. That's scary stuff. Sorry but your friend sounds delusional.
I wouldn't consider myself a real stalker, I used that term very lightly when referring to my behavior towards my ex ONLY. I would just show up at his house out of the blue and sometimes drive around his area were he lived bec it gave me some sort of comfort...so stalkerish in a way perhaps lol but definitely not in a scary way and he was always welcoming once I was there and sometimes we would go get a bite to eat. After my saturn return that behavior stopped but I still look him up online occasionally but he is not a social media kind of guy. IP: Logged |
angel4845
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posted September 06, 2016 12:24 PM
There's a guy at my school that I'm sooooo not into at all. His 7th ruler moon in leo in the 8th house is conjunct my name in his natal chart. Yeah he is or was stalking me and crazy obsessed with me. He couldn't stop calling me and texting me and commenting on my photos on Instagram telling me how pretty I am and I told him so many times look! I'm taken!Also his Nessus conjunct my dejanira. ------------------
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athenaia
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posted September 06, 2016 12:37 PM
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Originally posted by meyray:
It makes them feel powerful. They like the idea of a person being obsessed and affected by them.
Well I'm sure not every Scorpionic person is like this but... the Scorpionic people I've been involved with absolutely are. I've dated: 1.) a Scorpio Moon/Venus
2.) a Scorpio Venus/Uranus (relationship)
3.) a Scorpio Sun/Mercury
and 4.) a Scorpio ASC with Pluto tightly square Venus (relationship) Yes, they've all liked the idea of being obsessed over by various people/exes. They'd tell me about the stunts these people would pull and I, very Uranian, would be horrified and asked why they would never confront these people or at the very least call the police. All of them would response sheepishly and not give me a solid answer. Pretty interesting when you think about it.. IP: Logged |
florence
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posted September 06, 2016 12:54 PM
I think so yes to the extent that likes and fears are often linked. But it could tip more to dislike. Either way, all the underground, hidden systems are set up with a Scorpio so it's nice for them to go used. There's power and intimacy, drama. I don't think they'd like it if the stalker gained control thoIP: Logged |
hypatia238
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posted September 06, 2016 04:25 PM
I can honestly say that I can feel it when he starts thinking of me and feel that he wants to see me and that is why when I show up he is happy to see me. He has admitted to this at some point that he starts to think of me when he wants to see me and then BAM I show up! and that we have a psychic connection but after my Saturn return I started to ignore those psychic prompts! He is totally using his Scorpio energy to psychically lure me in! Ha. I had a triple Scorpio female confirm she uses that technique and she said to me "he wants you to just stay and keep coming to see him without him asking and you would win him back but you always leave don't you?..." I can't do that, I want him to fight for me. I get he has venus in libra but I want a guy to fight for me. IP: Logged |
Gemini30
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posted September 06, 2016 08:07 PM
So some scorpionic people are like this then. It makes sense though. Stalking is taboo and taboo is something scorpios love. IP: Logged |
hypatia238
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posted September 06, 2016 09:11 PM
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Originally posted by Gemini30:
So some scorpionic people are like this then. It makes sense though. Stalking is taboo and taboo is something scorpios love.
There's also this you love me that intensely that you are willing to stalk me and that you can't stay away from me, there is something about that level of intensity and dedication that they like but I imagine they enjoy this in small doses.
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Nine
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posted September 07, 2016 12:07 AM
Yes. I noticed Scorpio moon stalk and respond well to light stalking during the courting phase. I think this is one of the reasons why scorpios hold back so much, they want you to go digging for the truth - it shows you care. Just be sexy about what u find out.For me this is the main difference between Scorpio secrecy and Pisces secrecy; Pisces will take their secrets to the grave, Scorpio dares you to find out what's hidden. Perfect illustration of this is *Clara's Heart* with Scorpio Whoppi and Gemini Dougie Howser😊 ...she was careless with her secrets' he snopped, she felt betrayed, then tells him everything IP: Logged |
BeholdAstarte
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posted September 07, 2016 12:55 PM
No, and I'm talking about ACTUAL stalking which is extremely disturbing and scary as far as experience goes. There are different levels to this, and I think the example given was fairly mild and more to do with obsession that isn't necessarily harmful and from people the person knows/likes... I've had ex's follow me home/watch me from outside my house, I mean in high school it was almost flattering that they loved me that much they went crazy over me? But honestly I wouldn't say I like it. That kind of mental state is more disturbing to me than anything positive and I suppose at times, weak mental states can kind of disgust me. When I broke up with my ex of 4 and a half years he would show up unannounced at my place, act super crazy and just unstable.. It was stressful and upsetting, it really made me lose my respect for him and I didn't like him showing up EVERYWHERE I was. I DO NOT like my privacy being invaded Growing up, I've also seen and experienced many creepy and scary looking guys who would follow me and my mom around, she is a beautiful lady and I remember being in stores and guys following us for so long.. It's scary and my mom would vary multiple kinds of weapons with her for protection. I remember being stalked when I was about 12, it was terrifying, he followed me all night, I was at this wedding party on a boat and I just felt so violated.. Like I couldn't hide and he was constantly watching me! He even followed me out to my car, it was so strange. its disturbing and I've had multiple experiences of sexual assault, stalking.. And even rape. Those experiences suck and your kidding yourself if you think you enjoy it. im obsessive over my lovers but I wouldn't say I express it in an unhealthy manner like stalking.. Ha I can control myself and I'm far too proud to ever follow anyone who wasn't interested in me. My Venus is in Scorpio conjunct pluto on the DC, Venus is my chart ruler. IP: Logged |
polkadotstars
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posted September 07, 2016 01:34 PM
No. Pluto is my dominant planet. If anyone stalked me I would be completely freaked out and paranoid. IP: Logged |
scorpiogirl
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posted September 07, 2016 02:23 PM
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Originally posted by hypatia238:
I wouldn't consider myself a real stalker, I used that term very lightly when referring to my behavior towards my ex ONLY. I would just show up at his house out of the blue and sometimes drive around his area were he lived bec it gave me some sort of comfort...so stalkerish in a way perhaps lol but definitely not in a scary way and he was always welcoming once I was there and sometimes we would go get a bite to eat. After my saturn return that behavior stopped but I still look him up online occasionally but he is not a social media kind of guy.
Yeah, I figured that when I read your post. I realise there are circumstances where it's not really stalking or where the other person doesn't feel threatened at all. It's just unfortunate though that some people think actual stalking is hot. These types of people usually think that being stared at by a sparkly dude while you sleep is appealing too. IP: Logged |
hypatia238
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posted September 07, 2016 03:22 PM
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Originally posted by scorpiogirl:
Yeah, I figured that when I read your post. I realise there are circumstances where it's not really stalking or where the other person doesn't feel threatened at all. It's just unfortunate though that some people think actual stalking is hot. These types of people usually think that being stared at by a sparkly dude while you sleep is appealing too.
I agree that actual stalking is not hot and is more like Scary.
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Gemini30
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posted September 07, 2016 09:30 PM
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Originally posted by polkadotstars:
No. Pluto is my dominant planet. If anyone stalked me I would be completely freaked out and paranoid.
Do you do any stalking tho? Or any light stalking? IP: Logged |
Elysia
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posted September 08, 2016 12:11 AM
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Originally posted by Ann7:
NO. We prefer to do the stalking but, like all good hypocrites, despise our privacy being invaded.
Yeah.
We like it in so far as it is "under control", and can we can indulgently smile about it as harmless fanboy/fangirl-ing. Pluto loves power, and that includes power over other people, of course. So Pluto is content to sit back & let them scurry around, hopelessly magnetized. *buffs nails*
But if it threatens to invade our privacy for real, yeah..not fun. The *threat* will immediately be squashed. @polkadotstars, I think that might be your Aries Venus/Mars speaking.  IP: Logged |
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