posted September 16, 2016 08:07 PM            

Sometimes I have a hard time with the idea of marriage. Like what's the point of it? But I actually daydream of my wedding day and at times want to get married. If I were to get married, I thought long and hard about it.

posted September 16, 2016 08:40 PM            

I was with my Aquarius boyfriend for 9 years and we were long distance because he was in the military. I loved how we were committed to each other but we were like best friends where we could talk about anything and crack jokes without someone getting offended. I was COMPLETELY committed until he started acting clingy. I didn't just break up with him right on the spot but tried working things out. I still miss him to this day because sometimes I don't think I'll ever meet someone whom I was such great friends with and also have that deep bond. I wanted to marry the guy!

posted September 16, 2016 11:24 PM            

Mostly, I want humor and communication in a relationship, and strong attraction.

However, I have Pluto opposite Venus in natal, so I'm pretty all or nothing about relationships. There has been an exception with a long-standing relationship where the other person was completely dishonest and unfaithful, and we were off/on. So I just dated other people a lot during that time.

I never had any interest in marriage, and was actually quite against it for myself. I will never understand the appeal of huge weddings.

I did, however, decide to marry my husband, because it was just...well, right. But I haven't changed my last name, and I probably won't.

But generally, I'm faithful until a person just does so much that I get fed up and move on.
Adding that I'm certainly no saint to be in a relationship with.

That has changed now that I have a family and a stronger commitment to my husband because we share responsibilities. I can be as fed up as I can be in the moment, and vice versa, but we love each other, so we work it out.

I'll add that I didn't meet my husband until I was 33 years old, and got married when I was 35.

posted September 17, 2016 06:11 AM            

My ideal husdband is understanding,goofy but level headed, a true friend,not jelous,not cheater,a family man....smart,creative,lean,pretty...

posted September 17, 2016 08:53 AM            

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Originally posted by Aries23Degrees:
Are they stable? Largely depends on where the intimate planets are placed i.e if the ruler of the 4th house is in the 7th, then the Aquarius Dsc person may want to be in relationships that are intimate.

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posted September 17, 2016 08:40 PM            

That's the irony of the Leo Ascendant. The man or woman who wins their heart is the one who doesn't give them excessive attention. Being swept off their feet isn't very attractive to them which is why they really prefer love to begin as friendship.

posted September 18, 2016 03:00 AM            

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Originally posted by ChildofVenus:
Someone explained this position really well but I don't see the comment here in the thread anymore. They stated that Pisces was in the 8th house which would make the person have sexual fetishes. Who was that that commented with that description?

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Lol oh shoot, I did

I went in really deep with this position and explained the respective house cusps therein.

I came back to edit it and leave only the small portion you responded to. Just didnt want to bore people with a long essay about this placement i guess

posted September 18, 2016 03:34 AM            

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Originally posted by ChildofVenus:
I have Uranus in the 4th house and Aquarius in the 7th house. Would that be the same as the ruler of the 4th is in the 7th house?

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Oh yes and back to your question. Uranus in the 4th suggests that you may not be attached to home as much as others. Blood ties may not be enough to have you sacrifice all and stick your neck out.

Perhaps you moved around a lot when younger or have a more objective view about home that does not include emotional sentiment because of blood relations or ancestral belonging etc. Maybe because of the atmosphere during your upbringin?

Whatever the cause is, your view of family and where you belong (4th)is more tied into intellectual affinity and mutual understanding(Uranus) than blood relations. And could be viewed by others as "odd".Check aspects to Moon as well as the Cancer cusp

Now with the ruler of the 7th in the 4th, this means that the two houses are connected by the same attitude you have for both in your life.

You may treat relationships like family(4th). Or build your family (4th) around your relationships(7th).

So moving in (4th) with close friends or your partner(7th) is not unusual with this placement. But it is not nearly as sentimental as one may think.

Those relationships are not built on sentiment as one would expect with the 4th house connection.But perhaps on shared ideals and ideas(Uranus).

If you are close with family members, it could be because they share your ideals. If not, they are likely to be just "people you are related to". As when someone shares your own intellectual vision(Uranus), they feel more like home than any blood relation you have(4th).

posted September 18, 2016 05:54 AM            

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Originally posted by Aries23Degrees:
Lol oh shoot, I did

I went in really deep with this position and explained the respective house cusps therein.

I came back to edit it and leave only the small portion you responded to. Just didnt want to bore people with a long essay about this placement i guess

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posted September 18, 2016 10:06 AM            

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Originally posted by Aries23Degrees:
Lol oh shoot, I did

I went in really deep with this position and explained the respective house cusps therein.

I came back to edit it and leave only the small portion you responded to. Just didnt want to bore people with a long essay about this placement i guess

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I read it before you edited it. It was wonderful! It was on point but when I went back to reread it so I can respond... poof! Gone! Lol

I'm still trying to grasp what Aqua DSC with Retrograde Uranus in the 6th means. Any thoughts? I guess how it has manifested in my life is that I love a Uranian man in uniform. I did date someone in the military for a while.

posted September 18, 2016 10:58 AM            

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Originally posted by Readytochill:
I read it before you edited it. It was wonderful! It was on point but when I went back to reread it so I can respond... poof! Gone! Lol

I'm still trying to grasp what Aqua DSC with Retrograde Uranus in the 6th means. Any thoughts? I guess how it has manifested in my life is that I love a Uranian man in uniform. I did date someone in the military for a while.

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I have retrograde Mercury in Cap myself in the natal chart and I am not sure or have not reached any clarity to what it actually means to have this position in comparison to it being direct etc.

But if the ruler of the 7th house is in the 6th, it suggests that relationships(7th) can feel like an obstacle(6th).

Because the 6th house is the 12th house from the 7th,there is a sort of challenge with this position as the 6th is where the 7th house comes to "dissolve" or disappear.

So Uranus in 6th suggest a "what can go wrong can go wrong" effect to the 6th house i.e sudden illnesses,sporadic accidents(at work),last minute changes,unusual diseases or perhaps also when one works(6th)in an environment that is categorized by chaos (Uranus),constant improvising or things hardly ever being stable.

Uranus in 6th is the employee who is sort of like the maverick and may end up going their own way. So they need plenty of space, independence and lee way to do their own thing or they will get bored.

It may also suggest one who works(6th)with their partner(7th house ruler is Uranus). And the relations between them and the partner are quite unpredictable and unstable. Or their partnership produces an end-result that is revolutionary and profound

Uranus ruling the 7th is unusual in essence when it comes to what is important for them in relationships(7th). So the ruler of the 7th in 6th, means that the same approach is adopted to matters of the 6th.

The reason that I said it could be challenging,is because of the nature of planets in the 6th.

The 6th deals with what we try to control, try to get right and constantly have to monitor. And Uranus is not a planet that is easily "controlled" or delegated to.

Your work(6th) should represent your ideals(Uranus). And your partner(7th) should share your ideals(Aquarius).

You will love to work with someone and share your ideas with them. If they "get you", its heaven and you two can really make outstanding work.

posted September 18, 2016 11:19 AM            

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Originally posted by the89freespirit:
I can't speak from personal experience but I think that they want someone who doesn't flatter them to death and who isn't overly impressed with them. They still want to connect but be chill. Don't go over the top with it or act like they are your dream come true.

That's the irony of the Leo Ascendant. The man or woman who wins their heart is the one who doesn't give them excessive attention. Being swept off their feet isn't very attractive to them which is why they really prefer love to begin as friendship.

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posted September 18, 2016 12:17 PM            

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Originally posted by missblyss:
I despise being told what to do.

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