posted October 20, 2016 09:20 AM            

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Originally posted by bonsai:
Cause my Jupiter's in 7th house and it's pretty badly aspected. Probably one of the worst aspected planets in my chart. AND it's natally retrograde!

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Well, having a challenged planet only means that once we are conscious of it, we can optimize the positives and prevent the negatives.

This would mean that you will have to watch over the spending or how money goes out of the partnership.

And that when you do find "the one", you iron out differences in religion,values and customs.

It could be that they may have a "short cut" philosophy on life and not wanting to do the honest,long road work.

I have Mars in Libra and I have had to learn that even though it is "debilitated", I can't exchange it for one that is "strong".

posted October 20, 2016 10:05 AM            

Aries Jupiter sextile its dispositor Gemini Mars

Jupiter in a t-square with my sun
Mars in a t-square with my moon

Jupiter and Mars in a Mystic Rectangle with Sag Neptune and Libra Pluto.

Leo suns have held onto me longest; Leo is at the center of that Rectangle and squares my nodal axis. And most importantly it's a fixed sign, good for making things last. Plus, Leos are sexy, that helps.

posted October 20, 2016 08:37 PM            

My Jupiter is conjunct my Sun in Cancer, and opposite my Moon in Cap. My Mars is sextile Jupiter and Sun, and also trine my Moon.

posted October 22, 2016 12:45 PM            

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Originally posted by Lerena:
I have no idea, but I have Mars in Aries and I haven't found a description of this placement that sounds like my taste in men. On the other hand I'm also not sure how to separate bias from truth. I have Jupiter in Virgo and I am dating a Virgo.

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posted October 22, 2016 12:49 PM            

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Originally posted by SunAscendant:
I have a Pisces Mars and while I do like artistic men who can tap into their feminine and sensitive side from time to time, my Aries Venus still needs a man who is confident, straightforward, outgoing and passionate most of the time, so that's why I don't go for my Mars type.

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posted October 22, 2016 12:54 PM            

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Originally posted by Aries23Degrees:
I am not a woman. But I also read the same thing and theoretically, it made sense.

Jupiter is about expansion and growth. Jupiter is the teacher and imparts wisdom/growth etc.

So when one gets married(a 7th house activity),they expand (Jupiter) by having children and having their roles change from "girlfriend" to wife/mother or from boyfriend to husband/father etc.

Also,one would think that the woman would want a husband that is going to bring them joy,abundance, teaching and imparting wisdom to children(Jupiter again and to a certain extent Chiron too).

Mars I don't see as the "settling down" type.Not by a long short.Mars in Vedic is the soldier and fights,is aggressive, antagonistic and easily agitated.

Would one rather have a teacher(Jupiter) or a soldier(Mars) around their kids?

But in my opinion there is this psychological imprint in many women that there is somehow a lurking danger out there somewhere and if they are "weak" or "unprepared for it,it will come and wreak irreparable harm etc.

To a large extent, media,religion and society feed this perception with cheesy soapies ,church,crime statistics of rape and talking of women and children as "vulnerable groups" etc. And this can certainly dis-empower women into believing that they are just not "able" by themselves

Mars is the "muscle power",strength, brutishness and all that.Even going as far as to be extended to a males fertility( of which I think is erroneous as Venus rules that and muscle power has little to do with ones ability to have children)

This feeds to the skewed idea that gay men (more especially effeminate men)are "infertile" or that their "stuff" is handicapped in some way i.e "He can't be gay.He has two kids" etc.

This is because they contradict the typical externally accepted characteristics of Mars/ how a "real man is supposed to be .

I think the appeal of Mars is the classic "provider" who will go out and hunt to bring back the food/kill etc.

But we also have to admit that Mars does not an easy living partner make- impulsive, reckless and often argumentative(even violent).

Look at the 7th house in the chart of a woman and when Jupiter is there,the mate a woman has is often gregarious, positive ,moral, optimistic etc. (unless badly aspected then the not-so admirable traits of Jupiter can manifest).

Put Mars in the 7th house( and even if "well aspected") and you will find a mate that argues,can be antagonistic,makes decisions independently from them,very stubborn to get their own way etc. Not exactly "Prince charming".

I get it.

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Great explanation, Aries23Degrees! Maybe it depends on the woman as well? I'm way more attracted to the teacher that imparts wisdom/growth (Jupiter), both physically and emotionally. The soldier (Mars) just doesn't do anything for me. Though, actually, I may have a 7th house Mars (or 8th house), I have two birth times to choose from as for now, so the things about 7th house Mars wouldn't apply to me. I'm not sure why I feel so indifferent about Mars. It even aspects my Moon. Although it is an opposition.

posted October 22, 2016 12:57 PM            

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Originally posted by Empty Spaces:
I love to feel protected so yeah I like the physically strong part but most women want that!! lol MOST WOMEN WANTS TO BE PROTECTED!!
-Moodiness is not intriguing for me
-I dont like when they are sensitive.My moon doesnt know how to deal with that!! Perhaps they could teach me something about letting the emotions go hehe

Jupiter doesnt work for me!

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posted October 22, 2016 02:18 PM            

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Originally posted by Radium:
They fall for their sun

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I actually don't think so. Isn't it rather rare with same Sun couples? I'm Gemini. I don't particularly like Gemini men. Our energy is too similar. Though I DO like men with Gemini characteristics and perhaps some Gemini placements, such as Gemini Mercury and some of my exes have had a Gemini Venus. But I can't see myself fall for someone with a Gemini Sun or Gemini Moon. But I'm a Gemini lol, so I've learned to never say never. We're constantly changing our minds!

posted October 22, 2016 03:04 PM            

I don't much like cancer males. But I've liked cancer moon & asc

posted October 22, 2016 03:08 PM            

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Originally posted by thingsgoneby:
Great explanation, Aries23Degrees! Maybe it depends on the woman as well? I'm way more attracted to the teacher that imparts wisdom/growth (Jupiter), both physically and emotionally. The soldier (Mars) just doesn't do anything for me. Though, actually, I may have a 7th house Mars (or 8th house), I have two birth times to choose from as for now, so the things about 7th house Mars wouldn't apply to me. I'm not sure why I feel so indifferent about Mars. It even aspects my Moon. Although it is an opposition.

However, great theory!

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In the whole signs system, Mars would be in my 7th. And I am way uncomfortable with that.

Mars in 8th often suggests one who may get sexually stimulated by a Mars personality; competitive guys, sports guys,military guys, impulsive/spontaneous guy ,muscled guys, "animalistic" looking guys,"jocks",guys who have a tanned or darker skin tone or look like they are the outdoorsy types.

The opposition of Mars to your Moon may suggests a "see-saw" personal characteristic Or one that is prone to extremes of both the Moon and Mars

Mars is anger and when involved in the opposition to the Moon, there can be anger towards hurt feelings but also an extreme of getting very emotional and crying.

So a mate with Mars characteristics will both attract(because of familiarity) and repel(opposition), because they may add to the irritation already felt with the natal opposition of the two planets.

In short, they may make you cry on one hand and then become very engaging -the next.

It may also suggest that you associate extreme feelings with being cared for i.e you have to engage and possibly fight with your mate(Mars)to feel cared for(Moon).

In my case(square Mars),I am annoyed with people who are aggressive(the extreme Mars/ Aries types). They just f**** annoy me.

But I tend to attract Moon/Venus in Aries quite a bit. And the fights are quite spectacular

I remember that this is also because of the natal square that is already irritated. So the Aries/Mars person may just add to that.

posted October 22, 2016 03:32 PM            

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Originally posted by thingsgoneby:
I actually don't think so. Isn't it rather rare with same Sun couples?

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posted October 23, 2016 06:44 AM            

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If a woman’s Mars is in Sagittarius, she is most impressed with a man who is playful, fun, intelligent, and honest. An energetic, happy aura in a man is often most appealing. Joking around is a must, and a huge turn-on for these women! They want to have a good time, and to have long conversations with their men as well. They are not especially attracted to men who are overly groomed, generally don’t like too much “decoration” or men who put on airs. A tousled, casual appearance is just fine with these women–in fact, it’s preferred. A man’s status is not of huge interest to these women–they are looking for honest guys whose egos aren’t tied up in what they do for a living or how they look.

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Mars in Sagittarius 12th house, Moon conjunct Jupiter (tight) in Aries 4th house.

Well, I LOVE Fire sun men the most but my first love was a Pisces sun. hahahaha. He has sag mars but I bet he has sag rising too because he always jokes around and happy aura.

posted October 23, 2016 08:58 AM            

Mars conjunct Jupiter and Neptune in sagittarius, this description is right for me and I like when things sound different (cultures, travels...like Jupiter in Sag. )

posted October 23, 2016 06:08 PM            

I am attracted to libra qualities but the most attractive feature of Venus for me is artistic talent. When I read about Mars in Scorpio it fits me to the T. Maybe this could have to do with my Scorpio Venus conj Pluto on DC, or that my sun/Mars/merc are all exactly parallel Pluto, especially Mars which is by 6 seconds. I'm extremely passionate and so it seems that Plutonian themes are most satisfying since they can understand my intensity and fixated interests, I can be brooding and secretive and often feel misunderstood so it's the penetrating plutonians that resonate with me.

I'm not sure about my Jupiter cancer 3H acting as an attraction force, what I like about cancer/moon is the nurturing qualities and draw to cooking/taking care of the moon, but romantically I've found cancers to be a bit too clingy and homebodyish despite my strong Scorpio/Pluto influence, maybe libra is just too restless for the lunar influence though I seem to attract them. Actually when I think about it I attract water type planetary people, being neptuniuns, lunar folk and plutonians and variations of this like Pluto conj ASC with prominent moon placement or Neptune conj ASC with Pluto conjunction.. Etc.