posted November 14, 2016 09:09 AM            

I have that and I think is interesting cuz a fortune teller told me my husband will be from another city/state etc I didn't tell her but I thought "something on my chart must describe it!" Probably sagittarius,I mean someone from a different background.

However I think he is from my own country cuz I have 7H ruler in 4H and 4H ruler in 7H.
Maybe just from a distant place.
* Venus in 9H also represents our interest about different cultures.All languages are fascinating but I absolutely adore english and spanish ❤

Do you like different languages too?Do you travel a lot?

posted November 14, 2016 09:46 AM            

I'm not fluent either.I still have a long road to get there cuz there's many words that I don't know the meaning (and phrasal verbs makes my head spin lol) but I just can't give up cuz is something that I love.I don't do it to get a job or something like that ,is just for passion. Totally venus effect, I guess.

posted November 14, 2016 09:55 AM            

She doesn't want to date people from her own culture- finding them "closed minded". And she loves to read.

She usually dates from outside our culture and has trouble in her relationships because she thinks guys so "simple minded".

I think with Venus-Jupiter conjunct,there is a yearning for a lover that is well traveled, open-minded and well-read.

And that can be a tall order for the guys in this country. Okay, scratch that...any country

posted November 14, 2016 11:33 AM            

So the ruler of his 9H falls in the 5H and conjuncts his Juno!

posted November 14, 2016 12:39 PM            

Hypatia
Thanks for sharing Very interesting.Especially because involves JUNO!!

I heard 7H ruler in 12H or the contrary can also mean a foreigh husband or spiritual one.Also 7H planets can give you his traits.You just have to mix all the information.

Thanks for sharing Aries23Degrees!

posted November 14, 2016 11:14 PM            

He was very attracted to "different" types of women. No one was ever like the last. They get weirder as the years roll by.

I have a Scorpio stellium so our biggest issue was his lack of commitment.

posted November 14, 2016 11:28 PM            

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Originally posted by Yanmorg:
I dated someone on and off for about 7 years with Moon, Mercury, Venus in Sagittarius with Venus ruling his 7th house located in the 9th along with Moon.

He was very attracted to "different" types of women. No one was ever like the last. They get weirder as the years roll by.

I have a Scorpio stellium so our biggest issue was his lack of commitment.

Anyway, he dated women that were so far out of his social circle and even social class. From White (He's black) to handicap to Fat to Albino. He really doesn't have a type and just loves the newest and exploration of it all. He explores through his relationships.

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posted November 14, 2016 11:49 PM            

Dumped her primarily because of her venus retrograde qualities tho.

posted November 15, 2016 12:14 AM            

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Originally posted by Venusincap89:
Lol I dated a hatian girl for 2 years but recently broke up with her because she hated Trump. She was being ratchet like that woman who got arrested for kicking her 9 year old son out of the house for voting Trump on mock election lmao
Things Trump haters do.. sigh..

Dumped her primarily because of her venus retrograde qualities tho.

But seriously... how can you be a hatian and hate Trump...??? Like how dumb do you have to be?? I dumped her a$$ so fast man lol.
She did fit my 7th house and the whole harder worker character tho
She has full time job at a bank and is going to school full time as well
But her venus retrograde qualities were too much for me to handle

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I wanted to adopt that 9 year old. I told my husband you see that is why I want to adopt. Poor freaking child.

posted November 15, 2016 12:17 AM            

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Originally posted by LittleWing:
What are "Venus retrograde qualities"?

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hmmm the person with venus retrograde, unless jupiter is aspecting it, would be in a relationship while 'kind of not' actually be in the relationship
venus retrograde person would feel all awkward about being in a relationship and struggle to show intimacy, while caring wayyy too much about what other people think about that venus retrograde person.
For instance, thinking way too much about the exes and what friends would think of that venus retrograde person.
In short, venus retrograde person would love backwards in comparison to direct venus people, coming up with all kinds of excuses to pay most efforts and attention to everything not related to the relationship itself i guess.
Only once I leave her and get out of her life, then I can be in her mind

So for a guy like me who has North Node in 7th house, would get super pi$$ed when feeling that the efforts put in the relationship and love is not returned. The fantasy of her that I built in my head was shattered!!!
I also have leo asc, so when she paid more attention to her friends and axes, I also felt very much betrayed. For instance, if her friends and I get in a disagreement, she would always side with her friends. It would have taken tremendous patience and maturity for me to work this thing out but 2 years is where I drew the line xD

posted November 15, 2016 01:34 AM            

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Originally posted by Venusincap89:
hmmm the person with venus retrograde, unless jupiter is aspecting it, would be in a relationship while 'kind of not' actually be in the relationship
venus retrograde person would feel all awkward about being in a relationship and struggle to show intimacy, while caring wayyy too much about what other people think about that venus retrograde person.
For instance, thinking way too much about the exes and what friends would think of that venus retrograde person.
In short, venus retrograde person would love backwards in comparison to direct venus people, coming up with all kinds of excuses to pay most efforts and attention to everything not related to the relationship itself i guess.
Only once I leave her and get out of her life, then I can be in her mind

So for a guy like me who has North Node in 7th house, would get super pi$$ed when feeling that the efforts put in the relationship and love is not returned. The fantasy of her that I built in my head was shattered!!!
I also have leo asc, so when she paid more attention to her friends and exes, I also felt very much betrayed. For instance, if her friends and I get in a disagreement, she would always side with her friends. It would have taken tremendous patience and maturity for me to work this thing out but 2 years is where I drew the line xD

I felt more than betrayed, I straight up felt disrespected, being in a relationship with her felt more like being friendzoned, like one of those nasty ones

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You deserve better.

It seems like she is just young and lacks maturity but with time will out grow this. How old is she?

posted November 15, 2016 01:36 AM            

I have never ever had a relationship with a foreigner and although I have always been interested in all 9th house matters including foreign cultures I could not imagine dating a foreigner.

I fell in love two times when there were progressions to my venus but none of the guys was a foreigner.

posted November 15, 2016 01:42 AM            

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Originally posted by bumblebee:
Hi, 9th house venus conjunct south node here.

I have never ever had a relationship with a foreigner and although I have always been interested in all 9th house matters including foreign cultures I could not imagine dating a foreigner.

I fell in love two times when there were progressions to my venus but none of the guys was a foreigner.

I love learning other languages though and I've studied 4 of which I am almost fluent in English only. Stupid French grammar!

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posted November 15, 2016 02:43 PM            

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Originally posted by hypatia238:
You deserve better.

It seems like she is just young and lacks maturity but with time will out grow this. How old is she?

Full moon in Taurus today is making you realize what you deserve.

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posted November 16, 2016 01:50 AM            

Ruler of 5th house is Jupiter in 10th house.

posted November 18, 2016 07:54 PM            

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Originally posted by bumblebee:
@hypatia

Ruler of 5th house is Jupiter in 10th house.

Rulers of 7th house (in aquarius) are Uranus in 4th and Saturn in 12th.

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posted November 19, 2016 05:13 PM            

All my relationships have been long distance and my closest friends are from different countries).

The one guy I did date that only lived an hour away from me I ended up moving at the beginning of our relationship and I moved 3 hours away. lol (which was funny b/c when our relationship ended I moved back home...lol).

I have started getting close to this guy this summer through a group activity and I thought he was from my city (I was getting excite thinking I broke my pattern) but NOPE! He move here for grad school and got a job here after grad school, which his home was like 18 hours away. lol

My ex fiancé has Venus in the 9th and our relationship only happened if we were at a distance from each other. It would be crazy. I would end up moving closer to him b/c of school or work and we would end up breaking up, BUT when I would move, at least, an hour away from him our relationship would start back up. It was completely subconscious. He's married now (to a girl from a different city) but him and I only talk a lot to each other (on phone/facebook and he'll come to visit me) when we are in different cities. If we live in the same city we have no contact. lol.

posted November 20, 2016 11:06 PM            

Both Saturn and Uranus are in my 5th house, ruled by Pluto (4H) and Mars (5H). I've never dated a foreigner but all of my serious relationships have been with people who moved from home to where I was. I've never dated a guy who grew up in the same town. Never even really been interested.

The first time I had someone travel a long distance to be with me was when I was 15. He drove from Pennsylvania to Washington state, 3/4 of the way across the US.

Then I was in a long distance relationship with a guy who paid to fly me out to Denver, CO to see him regularly. That was nice because I could still live my life and be me, but knew I had someone who loved me and would do anything for me at the drop of a hat. I didn't ever cheat on him, but we eventually broke things off because we realized neither one of us was ever going to move.

My ex-husband was from Indiana and moved out here to Washington, not for me, but we met soon after and spent the better part of 5 years together.

And my current boyfriend moved almost 300 miles from home to be here for work, which is where we met. (My 10H ruler is Mars in my 5H)

I've literally never been interested in any guy who didnt travel hundreds of miles to be where I was