posted December 17, 2016 07:08 PM            

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Originally posted by Hemilla:
[QUOTE]Originally posted by Belage:
[b]Even the most perfect among us are wrong once in a while. Let us explore how the different signs are able to admit they are wrong. My thoughts and observations can apply to the sun, the moon and the mercury placements:

ARIES: Surprisingly enough, many Aries can easily say I am wrong. But first they have to cause a lot of damage.

TAURUS: Cannot, will not admit to wrongdoing. Due to its fixed nature, admitting to being wrong would mean Taurus would have to change, which is very difficult,

GEMINI: Can admit to wrongdoing. Doesn't think it's that serious. And expect universal forgiveness.

CANCER: Because of its tender soft inner body, saying I am wrong is like exposing to the world its soft tender vulnerable body underneath the crab's hard shell. It's not gonna happen. Don't waste your time.

LEO: Leo is the king/queen, and royalty is never wrong. But in an act of magnanimity, Leo can admit to wrongdoing.

VIRGO: Virgo wants to be perfect so much that admitting to wrongdoing is painful. Eventually, humility might win and you might just hear a I was wrong from Virgo's pursed lips.

LIBRA: Sign most likely to say I am wrong. Because it can see both sides of an issue.

SCORPIO: Won't admit to wrongdoing because the end justifies the means. Period.

SAGG: Yes, Sagg can admit to wrongdoing. Then go back doing the same thing again!

CAPRICORN: Will admit to wrongdoing if his money is impacted. As in corporation admitting to wrongdoing if the bottom line suffers.

AQUA: Not sure about that one. Your thoughts?

PISCES: Will admit to wrongdoing. Maybe even too easily.

Allright, I know it sounds stereotypical but I wanted to keep it light and funny. Did you recognize yourself or your friends and frenemies?

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The moon sign is important, but it may be overshadowed by the sun or by mercury, depending on its position, its house, aspects made to it, its dignity etc... That's why I like to look at other personal planets too.

For instance, a Taurus sun with a Scorpio Moon may never say I am sorry, but a Taurus sun with a gemini moon will be less fixed in his opinion.

posted December 17, 2016 07:12 PM            

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Originally posted by nordicsoul:
[QUOTE]Originally posted by Belage:
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VIRGO: Virgo wants to be perfect so much that admitting to wrongdoing is painful. Eventually, humility might win and you might just hear a I was wrong from Virgo's pursed lips.

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my father and mother, both sun virgo along with venus. my mother had mercury in virgo as well. I never experience the admittance of mistakes from any of them

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Yeah, I can see that. Childhood under triple Virgo parents must be hellish. Too much strictness and restriction. And no, they were too perfect to be wrong.

I love being Virgo sun, but I dont' know what I would have done if I didn't have Pisces ascendant to temper things.

posted December 17, 2016 07:13 PM            

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Originally posted by nordicsoul:
[QUOTE]Originally posted by Belage:
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CANCER: Because of its tender soft inner body, saying I am wrong is like exposing to the world its soft tender vulnerable body underneath the crab's hard shell. It's not gonna happen. Don't waste your time.

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I disagree with this one. I have seen cancer people (my brother has moon-sun-mercury-venus in cancer and he is able to admit wrong doing when he feels in an emotional safe environment. I has cancer venus-mars-sun and I can do as well. in my case we could use the gemini argument, but my brother has only jupiter in gemini and no more air in his chart. his rising sign sagitarius.

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You're probably right. In a safe environment, Cancer will admit to wrongdoing, but never publicly to the world at large.

posted December 18, 2016 06:43 AM            

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Originally posted by StubbornVirgo:
Virgo is never wrong. If we ever admit to being wrong, we're likely delirious with a fever and should be transported to the closest ED.

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When Virgo is wrong it hits them the hardest because they end up looking as a hypocrite.

Plus they will have a hard time to admit it.

Perfection is a Virgo insecurity, especially when they fail to live up to there own expectation.

Not my professor, but the class before me.
Women and Gender studies taught by a Virgo.

Day one she stresses how import being on time is.

Then half way through the semester she ends up being late herself due to another motorist getting in a car accident and causing traffic.

I had to smile..because thats very Virgo

The same with Lyndon B. Johnson he made several mistakes in managing the Vietnam conflict.. history is not good to him for how he managed it. But I doubt he would admit it. Will never know RIP LBJ.

Its best to record a Virgo, then compare and contrast what they said...it ends up coming back on them.

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Gemini Sun,
Capricorn Rising
Aries Moon
Gemini Mercury
Venus Taurus
Mars Cancer

posted December 18, 2016 07:34 AM            

Also I used to feel this as some kind of power play - the ones who usually feel the need to be right and to prove you are wrong were the ones who have a very restricted view on life, and want to impose their view on you.

I have a lot of Libra in my chart and I can always see the validity of the other's perspective. When I can't see it is when I'm too attached to my version for some reason, usually fear.

I'm okay to say I was wrong when it's not about a power play, but an honest discussion where we are all equals.

posted December 18, 2016 07:49 AM            

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Originally posted by Belage:
You're probably right. In a safe environment, Cancer will admit to wrongdoing, but never publicly to the world at large.

I must add, should Cancer ever make a public apology, it would be a ploy to get sympathy.

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posted December 18, 2016 07:56 AM            

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Originally posted by Cinnamon sky:

I'm okay to say I was wrong when it's not about a power play, but an honest discussion where we are all equals.

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posted December 18, 2016 07:59 AM            

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Originally posted by Belage:
Yeah, I can see that. Childhood under triple Virgo parents must be hellish. Too much strictness and restriction. And no, they were too perfect to be wrong.

I love being Virgo sun, but I dont' know what I would have done if I didn't have Pisces ascendant to temper things.

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posted December 18, 2016 12:45 PM            

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Originally posted by StubbornVirgo:
Virgo is never wrong. If we ever admit to being wrong, we're likely delirious with a fever and should be transported to the closest ED.

In all seriousness, my apologies are quick and therefore sound fake because by the time I muster up the courage to admit I was wrong, I figure the other person has moved on or would like to move on as quickly as possible. I'm not insincere, though, just efficient.

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I don't understand though.. why is it such a big deal to admit it? Even if you say something like "sorry, I didn't mean to upset you," it's totally better than nothing!

Ack.. this was just always a thing for me and my mom.. she would start these huge fights and scream at me and call me names, over something like not taking the towels out of the dryer fast enough.. constantly! and of course it was always my fault she acted like that.. for not being up to her standards.

I mean I don't assume you are like my mom but it seems like you think apologies / admittance to wrongdoing are a waste of time. is it that important to you to not say anything, that you would let whatever emotional damage fester? i mean, the other person thinks you're wrong anyway, you're not like rewriting history by not acknowledging it. the most logical and efficient thing to do then, would be to let the other person know that you care more about your relationship with them than appearing 'right,' unless of course you don't.

OR maybe you truly don't think you're wrong, you can't even see the other side. i don't really understand this either. i think it's perfectly okay to see the other side and disagree, but to say you can't even see how you could be wrong is like admitting that you're dense.

posted December 18, 2016 12:49 PM            

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posted December 19, 2016 06:45 AM            

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Originally posted by nordicsoul:
do you mean a discussion when all show their cards?

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posted December 19, 2016 09:13 AM            

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Originally posted by Belage:

CANCER: Because of its tender soft inner body, saying I am wrong is like exposing to the world its soft tender vulnerable body underneath the crab's hard shell. It's not gonna happen. Don't waste your time.

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Hell yes!

I'd like to say we're not like that but that's so spot-on that I can't deny it. It's not pride (well, in my case it is but I think that has to do with other placements too), we hate to feel vulnerable.