posted December 21, 2016 11:34 PM            

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Originally posted by Sulkyarcher:
What about a strong 4th house stellium? Would that make my friend Cancer like?

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Yes it would, especially if one of the planets are at least the sun or moon.

posted December 21, 2016 11:46 PM            

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Originally posted by Sulkyarcher:
Thank you, everyone! My friend has Sun, Mercury, Saturn, and Pluto, all packed tightly, in the 4th!

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Yep, that is a very Cancerian person.

Be sure to give them lots of hugs and cuddles and make them hot chocolate on cold winters

posted December 21, 2016 11:48 PM              

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Originally posted by Electro DGX:
Yep, that is a very Cancerian person.

Be sure to give them lots of hugs and cuddles and make them hot chocolate on cold winters

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posted December 21, 2016 11:52 PM            

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Originally posted by Sulkyarcher:
I have too much fire, Sadge and Aries, and all! Perhaps I should hire a mothering type.

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Oh no, don't melt the poor thing! :O :O :O

NOOOOOOOOOO

posted December 22, 2016 12:09 AM              

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Originally posted by Electro DGX:
Oh no, don't melt the poor thing! :O :O :O

NOOOOOOOOOO

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Heehee!

posted December 22, 2016 12:12 AM            

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Originally posted by alludeu:
I think people with strong cancer in there chart have the potential really gravitate to strong capricorn/saturn type people.

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posted December 22, 2016 12:13 AM            

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Originally posted by Aries23Degrees:
I have Moon in cancer in 4th. And that is "Cancer" enough . Thank you

With that energy, he will either choose to be very loving and gentle. Or completely macho and self-hating(suppressing it).

Given the stellium,it should be interesting to find his Asc position.

If all that Cancer is in the 1st, he should come across more 'Aries' in expression. If in the 2nd, more 'Taurus', if in 3rd house more 'Gemini' etc.

How does he come across to you?

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posted December 23, 2016 06:00 PM            

I am a Cancer Sun and Mars both critical degrs 1st and 13th. I am nothing but shy (even with my Virgo Asc). You always hear about their sensitivity and the cliche's (which I have, I am mega empathatic it's sick) but they also have quirky humour and can do impersonations, good in acting. The men will always have this boyish thing about them. There is something of an inner child inside. I know I am in touch with it always. Love children as well and not really have a passion for cooking but I am super good at it and am always doing something with food (even though it's not my passion I just have to do it). Very experimental in the kitchen and always trying something new. Always and always making sure my guests are fed and are feeling super comfy. I love making beds for them and make sure they feel at home. Also yeah, motherly I guess. But my Aqua Moon makes it all a little different. Great listeners and people usualy tell me all their deeper feelings. It's so sweet and I love it so much! At work too, the students who come to me with their problems, sweet hearts. Usually want to just hug them and make it alright, but not possible. Well huggin is sometimes.

There are different types of Cancers. My dear friend and teacher is Cancer Sun/Moon. She is such a wise woman, balanced, she is like an indigenous person, an elder. She is soft and sweet and motherly but she also has Sag Asc. so she has that feiry spirit as well. She is in touch with her divine femine.
But other Cancers are too clingy and too emotional and jealous. The lower energies of Cancer. It is also something that will develop more once you are getting older. Especially the Suns. You will live out your sun more when you are older, at least I was told and it's true in my case. Cancers can be really insecure and need to learn to love and accept themselves instead of adjusting to their inviroment which they need to express themselves.

posted April 24, 2020 02:44 AM            

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Originally posted by Sylven:
YES!! Fourth house Sun (or Moon) is extremely Cancer like. So sensitive!! They develop most at home, their nest and save haven.

And no family is not everything to me. My mother is holy, of course! But not in a sad way. She is just that, holy because she has done and sacrificed so much for me and sis. But i am not the typical family oriented girl. They are dear to me of course. But my own family, husband and daughter you better stay away of hurting them!! Rooar!! Haha ...

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I agree! If it were to come down to defending my husband and/or children, I would be surprised if I didn’t transform into a fuming raging BULL. I’m also protective with my immediate family members, but I feel like I would be 5x more with my hubby or babies. If that makes sense, haha.

posted April 24, 2020 11:22 PM            

I once tried being in a relationship with a Cancer Moon, Mercury, and Mars.
That didn't end well. Unmediated bipolor. Plus I was 19 yr old knuckle head. And he was a 24 year old knuckle head. Plus I didn't really trust him that well.

I have a friend with Sun, Mercury, Venus here.
I feel like this might not end well either. Ready to do "do not disturb" on my phone on weekdays

posted May 02, 2020 04:08 AM            

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Originally posted by alludeu:
I recently met someone who has sun, mercury, venus and mars in cancer. I have never really met anyone with strong cancer in their chart and would like to know more about those people. Can anyone give me any insight? My first thought was "woah, thats a lot of emotion" haha

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I have NN Conjunct Mercury and Mercury Conjunct Sun in Cancer 2nd/3rd House. People call me Emotional Fool.
Have emotions at check.
Be rational. Have better life.

posted May 02, 2020 10:07 AM            

Most of our problem after married is the involvement of his Scorpio sun mother. He is such a Mama boy that he can't even make a decision but his mother.

Whenever I disagree with his mother decision to how I raise my daughter (yes, MY daughter since I remember when he said it's not his then, viola!, my daughter came like a twin to his face a** and I will never say its his or ours, it's mine), to everything from where we should live, where I should giving birth and how to, geez, literally she wants to control everything and stupidly, he just submits to her and get a fight with me for the most part. (WTF, I won't follow her instructions where even health paramedics/ a doctor doesn't recommend her way to take care a new born baby, like, look at him, he can't even take care of himself)

For years I hold this resentment on how he and his family treat me, with no respect like I am not a human being but just a pet, this year, when his mother screams at me insulting me with accusations and he chooses to stand up for her instead me and my daughter, it's DONE, I am DONE.

Although my daughter has moon in Cancer, in the future, if I have a new relationship, I will take my experience as a lesson and avoid similar pattern in Cancer bad traits people. Too much hurt feelings, almost like a torture.

posted May 04, 2020 10:35 PM            

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Originally posted by hearttreasure:
I have moon in 4th house, husband has mercury/mars in Cancer and I kind of sure he is also a Cancer rising, so his mercury/mars conjunction is in the 1st house because he is such a bully and it doesn't matter if the words he is saying true or false, he doesn't hesitate to hurt you INTENTIONALLY like an insult to crush your self esteem. But mostly he likes to accuse me wrongly, just like his mother, to make me look like the villain and they are my victim. The question is, why they don't accept my divorce settlement then? I don't even ask anything, ANYTHING, only a divorce. Why would they still keep me if they're badmouthing me everywhere? Such a toxic relationship that I feel like I want to kill myself so I am free from their emotional torture.

Most of our problem after married is the involvement of his Scorpio sun mother. He is such a Mama boy that he can't even make a decision but his mother.

Whenever I disagree with his mother decision to how I raise my daughter (yes, MY daughter since I remember when he said it's not his then, viola!, my daughter came like a twin to his face a** and I will never say its his or ours, it's mine), to everything from where we should live, where I should giving birth and how to, geez, literally she wants to control everything and stupidly, he just submits to her and get a fight with me for the most part. (WTF, I won't follow her instructions where even health paramedics/ a doctor doesn't recommend her way to take care a new born baby, like, look at him, he can't even take care of himself)

For years I hold this resentment on how he and his family treat me, with no respect like I am not a human being but just a pet, this year, when his mother screams at me insulting me with accusations and he chooses to stand up for her instead me and my daughter, it's DONE, I am DONE.

Although my daughter has moon in Cancer, in the future, if I have a new relationship, I will take my experience as a lesson and avoid similar pattern in Cancer bad traits people. Too much hurt feelings, almost like a torture.

You must look into your natal chart if you can handle too much Cancer in a person. I am DONE. Not for me.

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Hmm, I once heard having a Mercury-Mars conjunction, is worst than having an Aries Moon, Mercury, or Mars. Does he have any planets in his 3rd House?

posted May 04, 2020 10:44 PM            

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Originally posted by Leo-Cancer98:
Hmm, I once heard having a Mercury-Mars conjunction, is worst than having an Aries Moon, Mercury, or Mars. Does he have any planets in his 3rd House?

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Thanks alot... I have Mars-Mercury conjunction and Aries moon.

I will admit I can have a mean streak with certain people thought. Once I dislike someone its really difficult for me to get off disdain for that person.

posted May 07, 2020 02:13 AM            

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Originally posted by Leo-Cancer98:
Hmm, I once heard having a Mercury-Mars conjunction, is worst than having an Aries Moon, Mercury, or Mars. Does he have any planets in his 3rd House?

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Yes, my ex also has Mercury/Mars conjunction in Taurus but my husband has almost exact Mercury/Mars conjunction in Cancer. Both are the same, bullies, aggressive in a discussion, they don't think twice about their words especially about some inappropriate things to say in certain timing, they want a last word and should win in every argument so attacking/crushing you is their last weapon. Never heard they apologize about anything wrong.

I never even miss my ex once after I left. I don't care if someone says Mercury/Mars conjunction is always honest or quick minded/clever, based on my experience, the conjunction aspect isn't recommended to build a connection to sensitive person, especially sensitive about how you treat other people. They have less self control with words once triggered. And also, they are still lying (none is a saint anyway).

posted May 07, 2020 02:23 AM            

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Originally posted by DualGemV2:
Thanks alot... I have Mars-Mercury conjunction and Aries moon.

I will admit I can have a mean streak with certain people thought. Once I dislike someone its really difficult for me to get off disdain for that person.

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You show that is Mercury/Mars conjunction. I have moon in Aries too, but even I dislike the person, I still use and pick my words carefully. I have Mercury/Saturn sextile.

posted July 02, 2020 09:35 AM            

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Originally posted by hearttreasure:
Yes, my ex also has Mercury/Mars conjunction in Taurus but my husband has almost exact Mercury/Mars conjunction in Cancer. Both are the same, bullies, aggressive in a discussion, they don't think twice about their words especially about some inappropriate things to say in certain timing, they want a last word and should win in every argument so attacking/crushing you is their last weapon. Never heard they apologize about anything wrong.

I never even miss my ex once after I left. I don't care if someone says Mercury/Mars conjunction is always honest or quick minded/clever, based on my experience, the conjunction aspect isn't recommended to build a connection to sensitive person, especially sensitive about how you treat other people. They have less self control with words once triggered. And also, they are still lying (none is a saint anyway).

My husband has no planets in 3rd house, but he is a Gemini sun and venus. So, basically, he talks too much and can be out of portion (doesn't mind lying) just to have an audience, with those mercury in cancer combination, geez, he can be super manipulative with emotions and doesn't like getting caught as it will turn into victimization scheme. Hello Neptune hard aspect and 12th house in his chart, why can you be this bad? He also frequently builds some changing addiction, while he is a heavy smoker since teenager, our recent biggest fight is when I caught he did some money gambling online behind my back in the middle of this whole uncertain situation with his sister and her husband join him for weeks now, lying to my face. Ugh, I hate it. What an irresponsible human being. Sorry, I really dislike people who have irresponsible attitude especially after you are married and have children. Like, yes, you can have fun, but can it be for a good one and don't put the family into potential risks? ::I still feel like a volcano::

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