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Elysia
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posted January 14, 2017 06:21 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Elysia     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by CapriciousCapricorn:
I think we feel first but we don't like to show our emotions. That's a no-no. I think in general Aqua Moons don't like to be seen as emotional people, they like to be cool. So that's where the thinking part comes in - 'how do I make sure people don't see I'm in pain'? Solution - be alone for some time with my thoughts, no people. That's just me at least.

^Yeah, that's pretty much it.
Mine's Aqua too, square Pluto.

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posted January 14, 2017 06:24 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Faith     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by CapriciousCapricorn:
I was talking about escapism. Nothing wrong with drinking to 'transcend emotions' at you say but when it leads to alcoholism for example, or some other addiction - that's escapism. Same thing about Cancer Moons maybe. Nothing wrong with crying but when crying leads to more crying and your emotions overwhelm you - your nervous system wears out, hence your physical health suffers. Capricorn Moons do seem to be very mature at how they handle stress or at least they look it on the outside but it does not help looking all right but going to pieces on the inside and getting into deep depression - who knows when and if one will come out of it, dangerous.

Well your ranking presumes there is a propensity towards these "lower" types of escapism. Is that true, is this such a sinking moon? As I see it, for all we know, it's just as likely for a Pisces moon to keep themselves together.

It's strange that one of the "weakest" moon signs is one of the most inclined to deal with difficult people, gravitating towards others who are distressed, in an attempt to soothe them. If you understand how easily a Pisces moon takes on the emotions of the person they are engaged with, it's quite remarkable that this moon willingly and deliberately walks into hard situations, in the hopes of providing comfort to others, even at the expense of their own comfort. It seems typical that this moon is equipped for handling trauma well enough to actually deliberately take on others' burdens in an effort to lighten their load, right? In a way, it's like there is a kind of in-built psychological resilience, to offset and recover from the issues one faces when they are inclined to spend time with other troubled folks.

And I think this is why higher-functioning Pisces moons strive to maintain their innocence and sense of charity as they mature. The greatest comfort one can have when it all goes down (as it will, for this moon) is, "I was trying to do the right thing." Sometimes life is confusing, and there is no right thing, it's just a crap shoot, and that's where it gets really painful.

Okay this is about ten times more than I usually say. I'm just working it out in my head as I type and will probably erase some or all of this later.

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posted January 14, 2017 06:27 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Faith     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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posted January 14, 2017 06:41 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for PixieMG     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by charlie:
I have a Cap Moon sq Pluto
I would say that I am extremely resilient and act 10000000% logical under stress/trauma! I become like a machine and emotions do not exist at that point..

I have the same aspect and my Moon is in the 8th house, I wish I could be like that but I'm not, at least not when my family is involved.

If I have to react to help others that are not as close to me, then I could get all pragmatical.


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posted January 14, 2017 06:50 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for headintheclouds91     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Faith:

It's strange that one of the "weakest" moon signs is one of the most inclined to deal with difficult people, gravitating towards others who are distressed, in an attempt to soothe them. If you understand how easily a Pisces moon takes on the emotions of the person they are engaged with, it's quite remarkable that this moon willingly and deliberately walks into hard situations, in the hopes of providing comfort to others, even at the expense of their own comfort. It seems typical that this moon is equipped for handling trauma well enough to actually deliberately take on others' burdens in an effort to lighten their load, right? In a way, it's like there is a kind of in-built psychological resilience, to offset and recover from the troubles one faces when they are inclined to spend time with other troubled folks.


Exactly 👍🏾 Same with cancer moons i can`t count how many times i have been some sort of a therapist for my friends, family and even strangers that are going through a difficult time. I also deal with my emotions on my own and very rarely tell people what i feel even when i have been caught crying because its such an effort to even try to explain what i feel so i just feel it and get over it on my own. I am tired of people not recognizing the strength that lies in both pisces and cancer moons and how we can take on s.h.i.t some other moon signs would have run from.

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posted January 14, 2017 07:02 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lerena     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by CapriciousCapricorn:
Actually, air sign needs to think but when stressed - maybe be alone with their thoughts, yes. I see what you mean. I don't know many people with this Moon sign, only one of my friends has it. When bad things happen in her life, she crumbles but in time what I noticed is that she doesn't just get better, she makes conclusions and thinks everything over to get better. Things need to make sense for her, everything should be explained and there's never one right answer to anything. All air signs have strong opinions (hmm..not exactly right words but ok..), they can often overthink. And their worst problems come from life deviating from what they think/believe in. Aquarius is very idealistic. Someone betrays them - it's a lot more stress than other signs I can imagine.
In my case, thinking it over doesn't fix everything as life tends to deviate from what I think is logical. Instead of focusing on what everyone else claims, I've had to form my own perspective of reality lately. In most cases, I can confirm that everyone else views reality as I view it, but there are a few differences here and there. This is not because I'm insane or illogical. I've just happened to personally experience things that appear impossible at first.

Because I know what makes sense, it was especially difficult to accept what I was experiencing in late 2015 to early 2016. Some of what I've been experiencing shows up as transits to my natal chart. However, while astrology has somewhat confirmed my suspicions, I'm not sure I can go into much further detail. What I went through, and what I am still experiencing, is my own personal experience and I don't think I can explain my situation well. Still, I tend to feel better about bad things that happen to me after I've had time to cool my emotions and adjust my perspective.

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posted January 14, 2017 07:05 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for yota13     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by CapriciousCapricorn:
I think we feel first but we don't like to show our emotions. That's a no-no. I think in general Aqua Moons don't like to be seen as emotional people, they like to be cool. So that's where the thinking part comes in - 'how do I make sure people don't see I'm in pain'? Solution - be alone for some time with my thoughts, no people. That's just me at least.

I think what we are getting at is the essentially the same. It's less stressful for me to deal with things on the mental plane. Then later I process my feelings when I'm alone. Usually In nature or with some tea.

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posted January 14, 2017 07:26 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for CapriciousCapricorn     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Faith:

Okay this is about ten times more than I usually say. I'm just working it out in my head as I type and will probably erase some or all of this later.


Oh no, don't erase. Everything you've said there is pretty accurate, yes. But it is a flip side of the coin. You just never know which way it's gonna go. What you described are the positives of this Moon sign and what I described are the negatives. The reason I ranked it as one of the weakest is because in times of acute stress the negatives of the Moon are very likely to come out than the negatives. Just far from always. Pisces Moons are the best at helping others but I'm not sure if they're as good at helping themselves.

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posted January 14, 2017 07:28 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for CapriciousCapricorn     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by headintheclouds91:
Exactly 👍🏾 Same with cancer moons i can`t count how many times i have been some sort of a therapist for my friends, family and even strangers that are going through a difficult time. I am tired of people not recognizing the strength that lies in both pisces and cancer moons and how we can take on s.h.i.t some other moon signs would have run from.

AGAIN, helping other people. Water Moons are the best, yes! But what about helping yourself?

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posted January 14, 2017 07:30 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for CapriciousCapricorn     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by yota13:
I think what we are getting at is the essentially the same. It's less stressful for me to deal with things on the mental plane. Then later I process my feelings when I'm alone. Usually In nature or with some tea.

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posted January 14, 2017 07:59 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Nine     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
re: Original question.

Moon in Sagittarius

I believe this moon sign is the best at weathering emotional turmoil because they tend to rationalize everything. When the seas are rough, they will start dreaming of tomorrow then the seas are calmer. Once Lunar Sags arrive on the other side of the storm, they'll manage to recapture their cheerfulness while remaining friendly and open to the world.

Moon in Capricorn

This sign will weather the storm with stoic determination. However, the experience will change them from the worst. They are likely to come out the other end bitter, frigid, and a little cruel.

Moon in Taurus (maybe)

This is a naturally timid sign, they are likely to go into their shells when things get too stressful, and hope for someone to come rescue them.

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Elysia
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posted January 14, 2017 08:07 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Elysia     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
OP,

The way Aries moons & Cancer moons deal with their feelings is something I admire. Even Scorp moons for that matter.
^I mean, they don't obstruct the flow of emotions - they let themselves feel what they're feeling. Ride it out.

That's a healthy way to cope IMO. As opposed to bottling up, stomping on or otherwise ignoring your feelings - which come back to bite you in the @$$ later anyway.

Sag moons are the most unstable ones I've encountered. BUT they are, for the most part, good at keeping their spirits up. They might have a big blowout and rage for a while. But they don't let anything get them down (even when it should lol). That approach has its pros and cons. But a certain amount of the "IDGAF" attitude is good insulation in this cruel world.

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posted January 14, 2017 08:35 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for StubbornVirgo     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Faith:
Oh I just read what was said about Gemini moon.

"They don't become much"? Ridiculous

http://www.astrotheme.com/celebrities/moon/gemini/1.htm


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posted January 14, 2017 08:38 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Faith     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by headintheclouds91:
Exactly 👍🏾 Same with cancer moons i can`t count how many times i have been some sort of a therapist for my friends, family and even strangers that are going through a difficult time. I also deal with my emotions on my own and very rarely tell people what i feel even when i have been caught crying because its such an effort to even try to explain what i feel so i just feel it and get over it on my own. I am tired of people not recognizing the strength that lies in both pisces and cancer moons and how we can take on s.h.i.t some other moon signs would have run from.

Yup, I can see that.

Again, I don't think there is really any such thing as "best" and "worst"...respectfully, I disagree with the premise of the OP.

It's not just the moon sign that determines one's stress response, anyway.

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posted January 14, 2017 09:02 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for headintheclouds91     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by CapriciousCapricorn:
AGAIN, helping other people. Water Moons are the best, yes! But what about helping yourself?

What Elysia said is how i help myself. I heal myself by letting myself feel it out and washing it out of my system. And just because i let myself feel it out doesn`t mean i am all weak and crumbled. i can even feel and deal with very intense difficult emotions without any tears and even seem happy.

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posted January 14, 2017 09:19 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for headintheclouds91     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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OP,

The way Aries moons & Cancer moons deal with their feelings is something I admire. Even Scorp moons for that matter.
^I mean, they don't obstruct the flow of emotions - they let themselves feel what they're feeling. Ride it out.

That's a healthy way to cope IMO. As opposed to bottling up, stomping on or otherwise ignoring your feelings - which come back to bite you in the @$$ later anyway.

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posted January 14, 2017 09:20 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for headintheclouds91     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Faith:
Yup, I can see that.

Again, I don't think there is really any such thing as "best" and "worst"...respectfully, I disagree with the premise of the OP.

It's not just the moon sign that determines one's stress response, anyway.


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posted January 14, 2017 10:39 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for teasel     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Elysia:
OP,

The way Aries moons & Cancer moons deal with their feelings is something I admire. Even Scorp moons for that matter.
^I mean, they don't obstruct the flow of emotions - they let themselves feel what they're feeling. Ride it out.

That's a healthy way to cope IMO. As opposed to bottling up, stomping on or otherwise ignoring your feelings - which come back to bite you in the @$$ later anyway.

Sag moons are the most unstable ones I've encountered. BUT they are, for the most part, good at keeping their spirits up. They might have a big blowout and rage for a while. But they don't let anything get them down (even when it should lol). That approach has its pros and cons. But a certain amount of the "IDGAF" attitude is good insulation in this cruel world.


Sometimes emotions are too strong to feel, and to let them keep coming. Someone told me to stop distracting myself, at the end of August/early September, but if I hadn't, I would have drowned in it all.

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posted January 14, 2017 10:54 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for StubbornVirgo     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Distraction is a coping mechanism...and a fine one at that. If I felt everything, all of the time, I wouldn't be here right now. That doesn't make me weak - it just means that I have a means of controlling the inflow of feelings and emotions. (Not always, but usually.)

There's so many other factors to this besides the Moon sign, anyway.

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posted January 14, 2017 11:26 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Elysia     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by teasel:
Sometimes emotions are too strong to feel, and to let them keep coming. Someone told me to stop distracting myself, at the end of August/early September, but if I hadn't, I would have drowned in it all.

True.. Not saying letting oneself feel it is the ultimate solution. I just said I admire it because I've always struggled between those two extremes. Feeling it all to a crippling extent, which is physically debilitating. Either being sucked into the blackhole or becoming a zombie. Neither of which is "healthy", so to speak. So I like the fact that those people have that in-built mechanism.

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posted January 15, 2017 01:44 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for CapriciousCapricorn     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I know two people with Sag Moon who cannot cry. They both say they wish they could. I am quite the opposite, I wish I was able to hold back the tears and look composed. Maybe that partly explains the order in my list (Cancer at the bottom)

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posted January 15, 2017 07:43 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Cinnamon sky     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
The Moon IS about feeling and emotions, is about the feminine principle, it is not about pushing the emotions away and standing with a sword in her hand or acting like an ice cold heartless creature. I wanted to write b*tch but then I changed my mind.

Anyway, I've said this countless times, that it really reflects the one-sided patriarchal inclinations of a society where the Moon in Capricorn is praised and even envied.

I am not saying that having the moon in any sign is good or bad, it is not. It is both, as for any placement. And as the Moon is, among other things, about dealing with emotions, every Moon has its own toolset of how to deal with them so a hierarchy like this, in my opinion only reflects the subjective value system of people/ society.

My 11th house Moon loves diversity and loves to see every Moon shine in their own natural way

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posted January 15, 2017 07:51 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for PixieJane     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by CapriciousCapricorn:
1 Scorpio Moon ----- Moon in fall, I know BUT anybody else thinks it's a strong one?

No. I'd put them at the bottom, or very close to it.

At least if I was going to approach it the "one size fits all" way that seems the preferred mode of LL.

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posted January 15, 2017 07:57 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for PixieJane     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by CapriciousCapricorn:
I know two people with Sag Moon who cannot cry. They both say they wish they could

Would they happen to be men? Because I've met a few men who told me the same thing, and there's even a song about a man who remembers wistfully back when he could cry.

As a Sag moon myself, I can and do cry, and don't feel bad about it, though I'm not all Oprah about it either. It happens. If it's an emergency I probably won't because I know I need to be clear headed, which ironically means I'm more likely to cry watching a cartoon than when something upsetting happens, but if there's no point in doing anything right then I can cry. I do get over it fast, though.

And maybe it's just my background in which stress and trauma deals with some hardcore things like violence so that I have a very different idea of stress and trauma, but I'd look more to Mars to how one deals with that. The emotional toll may be moon. It's hard for me to say because I've got both a Sag moon and Mars.

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posted January 16, 2017 07:13 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Elysia     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Cinnamon sky:
The Moon IS about feeling and emotions, is about the feminine principle, it is not about pushing the emotions away and standing with a sword in her hand or acting like an ice cold heartless creature. I wanted to write b*tch but then I changed my mind.

Anyway, I've said this countless times, that it really reflects the one-sided patriarchal inclinations of a society where the Moon in Capricorn is praised and even envied.

I am not saying that having the moon in any sign is good or bad, it is not. It is both, as for any placement. And as the Moon is, among other things, about dealing with emotions, every Moon has its own toolset of how to deal with them so a hierarchy like this, in my opinion only reflects the subjective value system of people/ society.

My 11th house Moon loves diversity and loves to see every Moon shine in their own natural way


I like the way you think, Cinnamon Sky.

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