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Topic: Planets in seventh house and partner choosing
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nordicsoul Knowflake Posts: 1552 From: Registered: Oct 2010
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posted January 27, 2017 02:46 PM
Sorry to hear that Lerena. I hope you find soon the way to nurture yourself. I asked you the question about your resonance with cancerians as I have attracted people with this placement who come close to me emotionally as i have a stellium in cancer.something I noticed is that they feel needier that others but also are caring and nurturing. as with all planets in seventh, we tend to project these qualities of that planet in others and that is why people with moon in 7th tend to need the nurturing more than other people as they are less aware of their own nurturing capabilities. normally, they wish their partner were more nurturing and instead they perceive as receiving unevenly emotional support. the secret rely in finding your own nurturing capabilities. one way to go around it is to start creating your own internal voice and start hugging yourself, caressing, but also using sweet language toward yourself in your mind. immagine that you are your own mother and that this is the most caring one. be a cancerian mother to yourself. that will be strange at the begining, but you will get used to rely more on your nurturing capabilities as this is a lesson for you. hope this help best wishes NS IP: Logged |
nordicsoul Knowflake Posts: 1552 From: Registered: Oct 2010
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posted January 27, 2017 02:54 PM
quote: Originally posted by Aries23Degrees: Mars in 7th, 7th house ruler conjunct Saturn, Venus(ruler of 7th) in 8th.I prefer being single. But if I were to choose a partner. He must not be a cling-on. I can't handle a needy person.
no wonder with the ruler of seven venus conjunct Saturn... I have a question, in any instance when you have met a person who you would like or have had as partner, have your mars aspected their personal planets. do you find that your mars have been touched consistently in your important relationships?. I am asking about mars and no venus (your 7 ruler) because I noticed that when we have planets in a house, they seem to have more weight than the ruler. IP: Logged |
Aries23Degrees Knowflake Posts: 3774 From: South Africa Registered: Dec 2012
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posted January 27, 2017 03:10 PM
quote: Originally posted by nordicsoul: no wonder with the ruler of seven venus conjunct Saturn... I have a question, in any instance when you have met a person who you would like or have had as partner, have your mars aspected their personal planets. do you find that your mars have been touched consistently in your important relationships?. I am asking about mars and no Venus (your 7 ruler) because I noticed that when we have planets in a house, they seem to have more weight than the ruler.
Ok Ex 1 Mars-Saturn conjunct in Libra. Ex 2 Mars-Sun in-conjunct. Mars-Moon in-conjunct. Mars Venus trine. Mars -Mars square Ex 3 Mars-Sun conjunct.Mars -Moon square. Mars-Jupiter conjunct.Mars-Saturn conjunct. Mars-Pluto conjunct. Current fling Mars-Moon in-conjunct. Mars-Venus opposition. Mars- Pluto conjunct Well...I'll be damned. There is a distinct pattern 
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Soulsjourney Newflake Posts: 17 From: Registered: Jan 2017
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posted January 27, 2017 07:24 PM
quote: Originally posted by Lerena: [QUOTE]Originally posted by nordicsoul: With all of this said, I have more confidence in my intellect and less confidence in the realm of emotions. My emotional side is extremely fragile due to not being experienced as often. Now that my emotions have the ability to be experienced, they're so intense I need a lot of support while I'm trying to adjust to what I'm experiencing. Granted, as I said, this could just be the result of suppressing emotions in the past. Of course, it's a bit hard to tell sometimes. On the other hand, I'm also starting to become less reliant on emotional nurturing from others as my emotions keep being constantly criticized and devalued. This is more of a feeling I get than actual experiences of these things, but as I mentioned before, my emotional side is currently fragile from not being properly experienced as often. It's unfortunate that it isn't getting nurtured though. It's hard to nurture my emotions without help from other people. No one realizes how intense my emotional difficulties are these days. It's especially hard to get a break from them when people unintentionally ignore how I feel. Obviously, with the lack of emotional nurturing from others, it's taking a lot longer to become more emotionally mature. Anyhow, I run into a lot of Cancers. I'm not quite sure why I keep meeting so many. Like, there are some Sun signs I haven't even encountered since I know so many Cancers. I'm guessing I must resonate with them on some level, because for every different Sun sign I meet, I know like 3 more Cancers. I still wonder what that's about.
Whats your moon sign in Lerena? I find I am very similar, I have sag moon in 7th (along with 7th saturn and 7th uranus). I find that I attract water moons in everyday life...doesn't matter what their sun sign is, its always a water moon. But then my saturn and uranus feels so trapped with water moons. IP: Logged |
nordicsoul Knowflake Posts: 1552 From: Registered: Oct 2010
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posted January 28, 2017 03:37 AM
quote: Originally posted by Soulsjourney: Whats your moon sign in Lerena?I find I am very similar, I have sag moon in 7th (along with 7th saturn and 7th uranus). I find that I attract water moons in everyday life...doesn't matter what their sun sign is, its always a water moon. But then my saturn and uranus feels so trapped with water moons.
i think it is gemini moon. IP: Logged |
nordicsoul Knowflake Posts: 1552 From: Registered: Oct 2010
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posted January 28, 2017 03:41 AM
quote: Originally posted by Aries23Degrees: OkEx 1 Mars-Saturn conjunct in Libra. Ex 2 Mars-Sun in-conjunct. Mars-Moon in-conjunct. Mars Venus trine. Mars -Mars square Ex 3 Mars-Sun conjunct.Mars -Moon square. Mars-Jupiter conjunct.Mars-Saturn conjunct. Mars-Pluto conjunct. Current fling Mars-Moon in-conjunct. Mars-Venus opposition. Mars- Pluto conjunct Well...I'll be damned. There is a distinct pattern 
interesting! wondering if the first one saturn is the ruler of something important in his chart. the reason is because I suspect that theplanet in 7th needs the personal characteristic of that person to touch that planet.. do you think if you go with the ruler of 7 you would get the same distinct pattern? being that venus, it would not be surprised, just wondering. IP: Logged |
foxxyxo Knowflake Posts: 408 From: Registered: May 2012
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posted January 30, 2017 09:49 AM
i have libra moon in 7th house. my relationships last awhile but i always feel like i end up having to mother my boyfriends in the end. at that point it just gets stressful and its hard to be attracted anymore. i hatttttte it theyre also so decieving! at first they always seem like the perfect catch, then slowly i find out their lies about how their life really is. most of the time not good surprises lol its like finding a beautiful flower and watching it deterierate in your hands....when i leave them they always seem worse off. maybe i bring out their struggles? i dont know but its sad and i always end up disappointed. theyre always seems to be a drastic change to them also by the time our relationship has run its course.....my venus is scorpio in 8th house so i think that adds to that. i think the moon signs ruler really affects your 7th house relationships as well IP: Logged |
nordicsoul Knowflake Posts: 1552 From: Registered: Oct 2010
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posted January 30, 2017 10:03 AM
which aspects makes your moon in your charts and in your ex partners chartIP: Logged |
foxxyxo Knowflake Posts: 408 From: Registered: May 2012
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posted January 30, 2017 10:07 AM
i have a libra moon 27 degree...trine mars in sag and loosely squaring saturn in aquarius. falls in my 7th house but really close to my 8th.my moon conjuncts his asc and trines his moon. my venus squares his moon in composite our moons make no aspect my venus is also conjunct pluto all in the 8th house IP: Logged |
Empty Spaces Knowflake Posts: 1378 From: Registered: Jun 2015
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posted January 30, 2017 10:16 AM
I have sun/mercury in 7H I need to check sun aspects but overall for some reason I always have saturn-venus with people I feel attraction and love. (Square/conjunction)IP: Logged |
Aries23Degrees Knowflake Posts: 3774 From: South Africa Registered: Dec 2012
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posted January 30, 2017 02:24 PM
quote: Originally posted by nordicsoul: interesting! wondering if the first one saturn is the ruler of something important in his chart. the reason is because I suspect that the planet in 7th needs the personal characteristic of that person to touch that planet.. do you think if you go with the ruler of 7 you would get the same distinct pattern? being that Venus, it would not be surprised, just wondering.
Well the ruler of the 7th is Venus and it conjuncts Saturn-True. But I can't say that there was something austere about any of them-except the last who has Saturn/Sun square and Saturn/Moon conjunct. But I do see myself attracted to someone with the mix of Libra/Cap energy(Venus-Saturn aspects). It will not be an easy relationship-what with my Mars/Aries Juno and Moon-Mars square aspect. But I think its inevitable  IP: Logged |