posted January 26, 2017 09:39 AM            

CLARIFICATION my sample is small(only 4 people) because I am very picky and can stay years without dating until one day BUMP...

anyway, I noticed that these all 4 people has strong activation of my neptune from their personal planets (regardless of other aspects). I just wanted to check if this is just me, or I can generalize with people who has planets in 7th house. I guess that if a person has many planets, it is tricky. in my case, only have neptune.

something I noticed, probably because neptune is a generational planet, that only people whose personal planets touched my neptune were considered partner material. I noticed cased where my neptune was touched by uranus, or either by jupiter, and nothing. in all the cases, VENUS and MARS were touched by neptune

here my findings

CASE 1
my neptune trine his cancer sun
my neptune quincunx his gemini venus
my neptune square his leo mars

CASE 2
my neptune trine his piscis venus
my neptune square his leo mars
my neptune trine his saturn

CASE 3
my neptune trine his piscis venus
my neptune square his acuarios mars
my neptune square his acuarius saturn (chart dispositor)
my neptune sextile his mercury (ruler of AC)

CASE 4
my neptune square his gemini venus
my neptune square his leo mars
my neptune quincunx his aries moon (not sure about this one as i dont have the TOB)
my neptune square his uranus

If you have planets in 7th, could you check and post if this resonates with your own experience? Looking forward to your replies.

many thanks

posted January 26, 2017 09:58 AM            

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Originally posted by soren:
sounds like with those people you probably became a dreamy mess. like a floating bag and they had to carry you and lift you.

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LOL. in some way it has been the case for some unespected reasons. either I attract them because I am in the need for "rescuers" or they just made me become one when they enter my life

I am very independent, with some tendency to be carried out.. LOL.. well, i have a nice job when i met my husband and suddenly fired after two months i met him.

when i met my second partner, i was doing a master and not working... he wanted me to move with him and that meant me risking the possibility of not finding a job in his country (language barrier) and yes, depended on him

3rd. case, two years in a nice job, meet this guy and after 1 months of dating.. bump YOU ARE FIRED..

I have been fired two times in my entire life, what are the odds?

the fourth case was platonic. it is funny that I attract them and somehow unconsciously started playing the victim role.. like the neptune took over and i started sabotaging my career. I confronted senior management in an arrogant fashion and i got what i got... is interesting you pointed this out...

anyway, do you have planet in your seventh? I brought up neptune because it is in my seventh and that means that i become neptunian when i fall in love, or i fall in love only when people trigger the neptunian side. I hope next time it will trigger only the artistic side of neptune and not the irresponsible child wanting to be protected...

posted January 26, 2017 10:01 AM            

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Originally posted by soren:
hm could be a reason

perhaps you need that neptune opening to help you in life. it might be because it's your partnership area, but it might not.

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posted January 26, 2017 10:03 AM            

yes i have jup in 7th. something notable was it was at a sun moon MP of someone. it's also my main outlet. pretty special synastry.

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Originally posted by nordicsoul:
I realize that it is. probably I need the inconditional love that neptunians crave. and becoming a bag makes me sure that they are with me not because of my status.. LOL

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posted January 26, 2017 10:13 AM            

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Originally posted by soren:
it's interesting because when you become linked with someone, their energy effects you, which could explain why you behaved in a neptune way even without them. they were in your thoughts, and linked as well, not sure how strong that link is, but never know.

yes i have jup in 7th. something notable was it was at a sun moon MP of someone. it's also my main outlet. pretty special synastry.

interesting. that's a good way to test someones intention. to make sure it's good

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wow! sun-moon midpoint is very powerful. so your did you noticed you becoming jupiterean?

I have never thought much of how much neptunian i became until you pointed it out. I have always been very independent..

posted January 26, 2017 10:20 AM            

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Originally posted by soren:
it's interesting because when you become linked with someone, their energy effects you, which could explain why you behaved in a neptune way even without them.

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posted January 26, 2017 10:59 AM            

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Originally posted by Lerena:
I rarely talk about my Moon in 7th house qualities, because it really does seem to act like it's in 8th house instead most of the time. However, even though my Moon is at the very end of my 7th house, I believe that my Moon still has Moon in 7th house traits.

Regardless, I didn't think that anything in my boyfriend's natal chart had aspects to my Moon. Turns out Saturn aspects it. Based on my exes whose birthdays I could find, they all had aspects to my Moon. Strange. Maybe you're on to something.

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posted January 26, 2017 11:03 AM            

neptune is my most idealized planet, the one i want to experience more. feel it is the most interesting.

posted January 27, 2017 03:17 AM            

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Originally posted by 12muddy:
I have jupiter n chiron there. In general I like generous people. Big heart, warm welcoming embraces n all that good stuff.

My s.o has libra sun in the 9th house. 1st house jupiter. He's like a soft mashmalowy blanket meow. His uranus trine my moon (7th house ruler) and jupiter (12th house ruler), makes a fire grandtrine. I'm not sure if that is significant enough.

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the theme of the jupiter in 7 is seen in the people you search for patner, which are jupiterean. that i have observed with my neptune in 7. i only interested if they have neptunian, lack of neptunian qualities makes me feel uninterested.

posted January 27, 2017 03:19 AM            

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Originally posted by CapriciousCapricorn:
I like this theory! It's only logical that 7H planet will have to be most engaged in matters of the heart - with our love partners. So it's probably only for the best when it's well aspected in synastry. I mean when it's Not aspected - that's not good. Probably same thing for ruler of the 7H. It works for me. I don't have anything in my 7H but the ruler of that house is Mars and I gradually came to a conclusion that my other half must in some way satisfy my Moon Mars conjunction and this is very much because of Mars being 7H ruler.

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I believe that when there is no planet in the house, the ruler of that house takes bigger importance. the ruler of my 7 is mars & pluto and they are not as important as neptune is in my chart.

posted January 27, 2017 03:20 AM            

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Originally posted by soren:

from a male perspective it would not be about feeling protected, but maybe having a purpose. someone who needs you

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posted January 27, 2017 12:21 PM            

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Originally posted by nordicsoul:
the moon is a little tricky as being such an important planet itself (regardless of position in chart) it is challenging to say that it is because it is in 7th. but maybe in your case, looking at the ruler of seventh and see which personal planets are activated in your partner or exes. I tried that approach and somehow it reveals something, but it is not as consistent as the planet in the house. in my case, and i suspect most of the time, planet in a house is more important than the sign or the ruler of that house.

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Originally posted by nordicsoul:
Lerena, one more thing. my experience with people with moon in 7th, they feel lot of resonance with cancerian people and have a strong need to be nurtured emotionally. does it resonate with you? this has been the case regardless of the sign of the moon.

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With all of this said, I have more confidence in my intellect and less confidence in the realm of emotions. My emotional side is extremely fragile due to not being experienced as often. Now that my emotions have the ability to be experienced, they're so intense I need a lot of support while I'm trying to adjust to what I'm experiencing. Granted, as I said, this could just be the result of suppressing emotions in the past. Of course, it's a bit hard to tell sometimes.

On the other hand, I'm also starting to become less reliant on emotional nurturing from others as my emotions keep being constantly criticized and devalued. This is more of a feeling I get than actual experiences of these things, but as I mentioned before, my emotional side is currently fragile from not being properly experienced as often. It's unfortunate that it isn't getting nurtured though. It's hard to nurture my emotions without help from other people. No one realizes how intense my emotional difficulties are these days. It's especially hard to get a break from them when people unintentionally ignore how I feel. Obviously, with the lack of emotional nurturing from others, it's taking a lot longer to become more emotionally mature.

posted January 27, 2017 02:43 PM            

My Mars is in 7th, 7th house ruler conjunct Saturn, Venus(ruler of 7th) in 8th-all whole sign system.

I prefer being single. But if I were to choose a partner. He must not be a cling-on. I can't handle a needy person.

I attract a lot of Venus-Uranus or Uranus-Moon people though.

Ex 1- Venus/Pluto opposition . Moon-Uranus square.Sun/Uranus opposition

Ex 2-Mercury/Pluto opposition. Venus-Uranus opposition.

Ex3- Moon/Saturn conjunct. Venus-Uranus conjunct

Current fling. Moon-Uranus opposition. Venus-Pluto opposition.