posted February 13, 2017 12:13 PM            

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Originally posted by Belage:
From my experience with both males and females, I don't think you can confront a person with significant Cancerian qualities in their chart, even privately.

I mean you can confront them, but it will be a waste of time, they will not admit to any wrong doing. Like, EVER. Cancer truly has a blind spot regarding itself.

Being water, Cancer may seem capable of deep communication and bonding, and you may get close as a friend or lover, but don't be fooled, there is only room for one underneath that shell.

True bonding happens with Scorpio and Pisces. Scorpio because bonding requires the kind of death to the self that Scorpio is capable of understanding. Pisces because it has no boundaries.

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posted February 16, 2017 10:25 AM            

if the man has many other placements that change that archetype, my advice would be moot

ok. my brother has moon-venus-sun-mercury in cancer. He is very subejctive and sometimes a little paranoid, but when he believe that the feedback comes without an "agenda" he can open up and be receptive. so what it is important here is to make sure the bond of trust is created. without trust, cancer will become defensive.

with trust I mean: the person think that the critic comes from a good heart and the best intention. any doubt in that respect will not do. I guess is similar for any sign, but cancer are very receptive and can show their vulnerability when they feel safely emotionally. without that bond, forget it!