posted March 26, 2017 08:26 AM            

People project anything and everything on me! I´m too sexualised. No matter how modestly I dress, how polite I act or how distant/professional I behave, people (mostly men) constantly approach me with suggestions they wouldn´t dare to say out lout to anyone else.

They always want something from me (mostly sexual stuff) and I feel so unlovable. No one ever bothers to try to get to know me as a person. I´m just so... broken.

Last week, I found out that someone told my bosses that I had a side job as an escort and they actually believed it! For months! I work 12 hours a day, go to college and dress pretty much like a preschool teacher! How the hell did I give that impression out?

I´m just... Falling into depression due to this whole thing and I don´t know how to fight it.

posted March 26, 2017 10:16 AM            

What i mean is that you should consider "owning" the part that hurts you so much. So u wont hurt anymore

If people lap up things about us that are not true. That is on them. There is little we can do to control them. But we can control(at all times) what we think of ourselves.

2nd: Who cares?

When men approach you with dodgy intentions, that sounds more like harrassment. And at no point should we define ourselves by the value that others attach to us. No matter the number of people who tell u " you are ......". As long as we don't join the peanut gallery. We will be fine.

3rdly: Who the hell cares?

At work people speculate about my sexuality as i have not shown any interest to women i work with. Nor have i patronized any advances towards me.

People often whisper "maybe he is gay?" and then make jokes about gays to get a reaction. And i just look on with disinterest.

I owned myself a long time ago and am not going to let people do that for me. They can talk till they are blue in the face, it dont matter much.

If u ooze sexuality. Own it! It is a gift.
You cant blame yourself for having others behave inappropriately towards you. Those guys are idiots.

That would be like blaming a beautiful woman for arousing others and thereby justiying her sexual exploitation. 😕😕

There is a lovely lady at my work whom got unwanted sexual advances from a guy who was relentless. Eventually she said "this is all very flattering-considering that i was a man before. And my **ks was way bigger than yours!"

He was at a loss for words and never approached her again.

posted March 26, 2017 03:14 PM            

I am sorry that you are being treated in this disrespectful way.

Please consider that 'hate' is not only a strong word, but a strong thing to direct at yourself, even if by proxy of your astrological chart. By doing that you are giving in to exactly the kind of hateful, dismissive lies being circulated about you.

Aries23 is right. In spite of the fact more than one person is doing this, it is their problem, their character flaw. You have the right to speak to it and communicate that you expect to be respected just as anyone else is and not have rumors and lies passed around about you.

So let's talk about Libra rising and how the desire for harmony too easily can translate into not speaking up for yourself, because it might seem to make waves. I hope you don't see it that way. Waves of disruption have already been made by those around you in the most cowardly way.

I see in your chart that you have Sun parallel Mercury (21 south) as the tightest aspect in your chart. So I know you have the communication ability to speak up for yourself and keep doing so until you get respect in your workplace.

I also see in your chart (if this Asc in late Libra is correct) that you have Venus parallel your Asc (around 11° south), even if it is not quite conjunct the Asc. Think of yourself as beautful, gracious, and that this is a place of power -- that you can maintain this within yourself and use it to set a standard around you that you will deal with others with grace and expect to be treated this way in return.

Hating yourself (even by proxy of your 1st house) is not a solution.

Reaffirm within yourself exactly what seems to be the cause of jealousy and hatefulness from others. Then act and communicate in keeping with it -- when the emotion is diffused so that you can speak in a calm, even voice, but clearly stating to the appropriate person that you respect others and want to be respected, so please come to you if they want to know you or know about you. No rumors or lies needed.

Good luck.

Expect this may take some time to work out. Pluto has been transiting parallel your Sun and Mercury. This is not about your appearance or how you dress. It is a communication matter, and the universe is asking you to become more empowered in how you think about yourself and communicate.

You can do this!